Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New
Stats: 3,207,453 members, 7,999,076 topics. Date: Sunday, 10 November 2024 at 04:21 PM

Why Do Ladies Dislike Giving Tips - Romance - Nairaland

Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / Why Do Ladies Dislike Giving Tips (2402 Views)

Ladies Dislike To Mary A Clergy .why Is That So..? / Why Do Nigeria Ladies Dislike Fair Guys? / 5 Things Ladies Dislike In Men (2) (3) (4)

(1) (Reply) (Go Down)

Why Do Ladies Dislike Giving Tips by Hideki(m): 10:08pm On Jun 04, 2021
Whenever my wife and I decide to eat out, I often notice that she does not give the waiter the tip I had added when giving her money to pay for the bills (although I have never informed her that the additional money was a tip for the waiter. I just wanted her to willingly tip the waiter since she has excess). However she is quite generous and often assist others when they are indeed.

At the office, I observe others during lunch and I have never seen a female colleague tip the waiter. It is not about the grade or earning capacity because I have seen my subordinates (male) tip the waiters.

Let's say perhaps they don't like the waiter what about the cleaners that assist them to wipe their cars? The cleaners charge 1k to wipe your car and a lot of times the ladies do not add a dime to the 1k.

My sisters have never tipped anyone neither my mum. I know ladies do have a large heart and the are often filled with emotions hence they always love to help but what about a tip?

A tip lightens the day of the receiver. Ladies learn to give tips

tongue

1 Like

Re: Why Do Ladies Dislike Giving Tips by Goldbw122(m): 10:10pm On Jun 04, 2021
Is nature, and the way the person handle money, way of financial life..

1 Like

Re: Why Do Ladies Dislike Giving Tips by Mixedfruit: 10:10pm On Jun 04, 2021
tip tip tip

1 Like

Re: Why Do Ladies Dislike Giving Tips by kinzation(m): 10:15pm On Jun 04, 2021
Hello
Tired of searching and thinking of ways to make a side hustle from your regular work or
Are you a student or graduate looking for ways to make income for yourself without full dependency on anyone ?

Great news !!!


Look no further as I will show you gradual steps in Sports affiliate marketing

I’ll show your step by step videos on how to create an account successfully in sport affiliate marketing with some giants sport betting industry.

No betting involved
You don’t need to know anything about betting. All you need do is promote their website and you’ll be paid monthly.

WHATSAPP ME 0-8-1-3-9-7-8-9-5-6-9
Hideki:
Whenever my wife and I decide to eat out, I often notice that she does not give the waiter the tip I had added when giving her money to pay for the bills (although I have never informed her that the additional money was a tip for the waiter. I just wanted her to willingly tip the waiter since she has excess). However she is quite generous and often assist others when they are indeed.

At the office, I observe others during lunch and I have never seen a female colleague tip the waiter. It is not about the grade or earning capacity because I have seen my subordinates (male) tip the waiters.

Let's say perhaps they don't like the waiter what about the cleaners that assist them to wipe their cars? The cleaners charge 1k to wipe your car and a lot of times the ladies do not add a dime to the 1k.

My sisters have never tipped anyone neither my mum. I know ladies do have a large heart and the are often filled with emotions hence they always love to help but what about a tip?

A tip lightens the day of the receiver. Ladies learn to give tips

tongue
Re: Why Do Ladies Dislike Giving Tips by Hideki(m): 10:17pm On Jun 04, 2021
Goldbw122:
Is nature, and the way the person handle money, way of financial life..
I am quite prudent but sometimes I like practicing the act of random kindness like just give a Lil cash to the security guy or the potter at the mall. It makes life beautiful

1 Like

Re: Why Do Ladies Dislike Giving Tips by pocohantas(f): 10:19pm On Jun 04, 2021
I can’t relate, I am a heavy tipper. However, if you show entitlement mentality as is common with many of those cleaners and security men, I will stop giving you.

15 Likes 2 Shares

Re: Why Do Ladies Dislike Giving Tips by Hideki(m): 10:25pm On Jun 04, 2021
pocohantas:
I can’t relate, I am a heavy tipper. However, if you show entitlement mentality as is common with many of those cleaners and security men, I will stop giving you.
That's nice. Well for the "entitled" ones, I always remember a prayer "look not on our sins but on the faith of your church ". I will just look the other way and still do it.
Re: Why Do Ladies Dislike Giving Tips by Oluromantic: 10:42pm On Jun 04, 2021
pocohantas:
I can’t relate, I am a heavy tipper. However, if you show entitlement mentality as is common with many of those cleaners and security men, I will stop giving you.
Heavy. On top how much. Lol. Abi na sharp sand tipper you dey talk
Re: Why Do Ladies Dislike Giving Tips by Hideki(m): 10:48pm On Jun 04, 2021
Oluromantic:

Heavy. On top how much. Lol. Abi na sharp sans tipper you dey talk
Bros focus na just talk your own in respect of the topic.

2 Likes

Re: Why Do Ladies Dislike Giving Tips by pocohantas(f): 10:53pm On Jun 04, 2021
Hideki:
That's nice. Well for the "entitled" ones, I always remember a prayer "look not on our sins but on the faith of your church ". I will just look the other way and still do it.

I don’t have such grace. I simply cut them off.

That said, many Nigerian women are not generous with their money and even when they tip, I find the amount embarrassing sometimes. I know it shouldn’t matter, but I won’t give a grown man N100, I won’t even give N200.

I was looking for a place today and the network was crappy (couldn’t use my Google Map). So I pulled over and asked one woman, she thought I wanted to buy her market, but when I said I only wanted to ask her a question, she said she doesn’t know. She didn’t even allow me to talk. Anyway, I saw a newspaper vendor by her shade and asked him, I knew they must know it because it is quite popular and I was sure I was on the road, just didn’t know the exact diversion. Before asking, I told him I don’t want to buy a newspaper o, he smiled and said, “NO PROBLEM, ASK ME”. I asked and he gave a very accurate description with landmarks. I hurried into my car and went there. On my way back, I went back to him and thanked him. Gave him 2k in appreciation. The nonsense woman was there looking. Some people are just so ***no words***

27 Likes 5 Shares

Re: Why Do Ladies Dislike Giving Tips by Hideki(m): 11:03pm On Jun 04, 2021
pocohantas:




I don’t have such grace. I simply cut them off.

That said, many Nigerian women are not generous with their money and even when they tip, I find the amount embarrassing sometimes. I know it shouldn’t matter, but I won’t give a grown man N100, I won’t even give N200.

I was looking for a place today and the network was crappy. I pulled over and asked one woman, she thought I wanted to buy her market, but when I said I wanted to ask her a question, she said doesn’t know. She didn’t even allow me to talk. I saw a newspaper vendor by her shade and asked him, I knew they must know it because it is quite popular and I was sure I was on the road, just didn’t know the exact diversion. Before asking, I told him I don’t want to buy a newspaper o, he smiled and said, “NO PROBLEM, ASK ME”. I asked and he gave a very accurate description with landmarks. I hurried into my car and went there. On my way back, I went back to him and thanked him. Gave him 2k in appreciation. The nonsense woman was there looking. Some people are just so ***no words***
That's lovely. The vendor will never forget that day in a hurry. For the woman, it is simply depression. You did well.

4 Likes

Re: Why Do Ladies Dislike Giving Tips by Hideki(m): 11:05pm On Jun 04, 2021
Mixedfruit:
tip tip tip
grin mor tip
Re: Why Do Ladies Dislike Giving Tips by Nobody: 11:06pm On Jun 04, 2021
Most Women prefer you give them the money instead.

5 Likes

Re: Why Do Ladies Dislike Giving Tips by Vision101(m): 7:51am On Jun 05, 2021
Truth be told: most women are stingy.

6 Likes

Re: Why Do Ladies Dislike Giving Tips by descarado: 11:15am On Jun 05, 2021
The 28th law of power.
Be a smart tip asss.

And tip generously. You will never understand the benefits until you start.

In occultism and spirituality, its a prerequisite.
Unless you don't want the balance of nature.

3 Likes

Re: Why Do Ladies Dislike Giving Tips by butterfly777(m): 12:34pm On Jun 05, 2021
The average woman is naturally kind to her children, but also naturally mean to everyone else. The less related you are to her, the meaner they will be to you. I have noticed this.

10 Likes 1 Share

Re: Why Do Ladies Dislike Giving Tips by Hideki(m): 5:23pm On Jun 05, 2021
Carchoice:
Most Women prefer you give them the money instead.
cheesy
Re: Why Do Ladies Dislike Giving Tips by Hideki(m): 5:26pm On Jun 05, 2021
butterfly777:
The average woman is naturally kind to her children, but also naturally mean to everyone else. The less related you are to her, the meaner they will be to you. I have noticed this.
hmmm but there are exceptions. Pocohantas said she is different perhaps there are other ladies like her too. My observations were based on tips and not giving in general.
Re: Why Do Ladies Dislike Giving Tips by Hideki(m): 5:27pm On Jun 05, 2021
descarado:
The 28th law of power.
Be a smart tip asss.

And tip generously. You will never understand the benefits until you start.

In occultism and spirituality, its a prerequisite.
Unless you don't want the balance of nature.
OK o
Re: Why Do Ladies Dislike Giving Tips by Deicide: 5:41pm On Jun 05, 2021
Topic should be "Why my wife don't give tip?"

1 Like

Re: Why Do Ladies Dislike Giving Tips by butterfly777(m): 6:32pm On Jun 05, 2021
Hideki:
hmmm but there are exceptions. Pocohantas said she is different perhaps there are other ladies like her too. My observations were based on tips and not giving in general.

That is why I used the expression an average, which means most women. Not all. There are definitely exceptions.

2 Likes

Re: Why Do Ladies Dislike Giving Tips by Kebbiprince: 8:39pm On Jun 05, 2021
Hideki:
Bros focus na just talk your own in respect of the topic.
I tire oo,
Re: Why Do Ladies Dislike Giving Tips by Hideki(m): 3:18am On Jun 06, 2021
Deicide:
Topic should be "Why my wife don't give tip?"
you can change the topic. undecided
Re: Why Do Ladies Dislike Giving Tips by Quality20(m): 4:10am On Jun 06, 2021
women are majorly misers. Many of them who are wives would never assist with home finances even if they earn more than d husband, even if they as much as buy fuel for d gen or food for d kids in d husbands absence, they are gonna nag on him when he comes back

1 Like

Re: Why Do Ladies Dislike Giving Tips by Hideki(m): 9:40am On Jun 06, 2021
Quality20:
women are majorly misers. Many of them who are wives would never assist with home finances even if they earn more than d husband, even if they as much as buy fuel for d gen or food for d kids in d husbands absence, they are gonna nag on him when he comes back
That's not true. My mum was the rock behind my Dad. My wife doesn't mind giving you her entire pay if she sees that you are in need. She is incredibly supportive. The topic focuses on tipping. Which is just an extra money paid for a service or just a random act. The receiver didn't ask for it, you gave willingly. I trust you get the point. Women are beautiful creatures!
Re: Why Do Ladies Dislike Giving Tips by Georgejeez: 12:20pm On Jun 06, 2021
The OP is quite right ,all my years as an MC ,I have noticed women hardly spray MCs no matter how good you may have anchored the event ..
As a master of ceremony ,once you go to MC an event and discover 90% are women ,just know that you have run at a loss that day .
It's better for me to anchor an event where there are 60 men and 40 women than the one where they are 600 women and 40 men

1 Like

Re: Why Do Ladies Dislike Giving Tips by stupidmod3: 12:30pm On Jun 06, 2021
with their pointing tip dey still won't tip grin
Re: Why Do Ladies Dislike Giving Tips by Offpoint1: 12:39pm On Jun 06, 2021
Women are by nature RECEIVERS and not GIVERS...
Re: Why Do Ladies Dislike Giving Tips by Hideki(m): 1:21pm On Aug 30, 2021
Georgejeez:
The OP is quite right ,all my years as an MC ,I have noticed women hardly spray MCs no matter how good you may have anchored the event ..
As a master of ceremony ,once you go to MC an event and discover 90% are women ,just know that you have run at a loss that day .
It's better for me to anchor an event where there are 60 men and 40 women than the one where they are 600 women and 40 men
Nice observation! You know what I am talking about
Re: Why Do Ladies Dislike Giving Tips by Hideki(m): 1:21pm On Aug 30, 2021
stupidmod3:
with their pointing tip dey still won't tip grin
Language
Re: Why Do Ladies Dislike Giving Tips by Hideki(m): 1:22pm On Aug 30, 2021
Offpoint1:
Women are by nature RECEIVERS and not GIVERS...
grin

(1) (Reply)

What Else Makes You Happy In A Relationship / Advice Me :- Two Dead Bodies Will Meet God Today / How Best Do I Communicate This To Her

(Go Up)

Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket

Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10)

Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 40
Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.