Amakaoyekachi1:
There was no conflict whatsoever, if there was anything sort of which is normal between couples, was sorted out amicably way before been ghosted happened. I wish so too, if he can communicate and let me know what the problem is I would be very happy rather than keeping mute. I have exhausted all methods to reach out but all to no avail, but he is not the type that keep friends, I am tempted to call his supervisor at work cause I have her number, I just know if that’s is a right move.

ednut1:
a box cannot weigh 23kg na. Na stone box The box plus the contents inside it will be put on the scale at the airport.

Zodiacwarrior:



Good day @ednut1

So how do I tell them at the supermarket the kg of box I want to buy so when I put the contents I can meet the 23kg requirements.

Thank you

Zodiacwarrior:



Good day @ednut1

So how do I tell them at the supermarket the kg of box I want to buy so when I put the contents I can meet the 23kg requirements.

Thank you

ednut1:
Omo jesus wept .

Zodiacwarrior:


I don't understand this are you here to mock my questions or answer it......cause if am wrong you could point it out,correct me and answer me the best possible way you can, and if not you tell me.

buchito1:
Bro, Why don't you just buy a Ghana must go bag It shouldn't be up to 0.0005 KG

Zodiacwarrior:


See another one you know it's this thing's you do on platforms that restricts people from answering questions and feel inferior.
I asked a question and am confused there is nothing wrong if I made an error and you stand to correct me I would gracefully appreciate it because it's something that is new to me and have never bought a box before I just saw the 23kg box requirements and decided to ask when I know I would be provided answers and this is what I get.
Am sure you must know it all if not you won't tell me to do this.

I very much appreciate you thanks.

Zodiacwarrior:


See another one you know it's this thing's you do on platforms that restricts people from answering questions and feel inferior.
I asked a question and am confused there is nothing wrong if I made an error and you stand to correct me I would gracefully appreciate it because it's something that is new to me and have never bought a box before I just saw the 23kg box requirements and decided to ask when I know I would be provided answers and this is what I get.
Am sure you must know it all if not you won't tell me to do this.

I very much appreciate you thanks.

buchito1:
I'm sorry about that bro.

But you should know you have no choice than to get yourself a normal box and stuff what you can till it doesn't exceed 23KG.

The larger the box, the larger weight and you can't stack above 23KG. So Just get yourself something medium bro.

AZeD1:

Nobody can really answer the question for you.
At the airport, your box will be checked and it should be about 23kg +/-. The box you buy is dependent on you. If you want a box that weights 8k, that's fine. You can also get a bag that weighs 1kg and that's also fine.

At the end of the day, the box/bags and it's content should be 23kg +/-.

Anndav:



My dear, the earliest you act the better...if you know his supervisor reach out to him/ her, it's just in a decent and calm tone to request about him as if u are worried if he is fine ....my husband boss In the office reach out to me times without no , if they cannot reach him expecially weekend there is nothing wrong with that ....as far as you don't that to discuss family issues with her.
Myself and my husband where apart for over 5 years but we were closer using all social media platforms...even with the time difference we have morning devotion together Nigeria time ...we also have serious quarrell as well including extramarital issue and we settle..
One thing I know about men is that they get easily distracted but a quick rejection or acceptance can save the day ....USE All CHANELLE to reach him....let him no you have reach your breaking limit ...if not you will lose everything las las he would have gone too far to come back from wherever he has wondered to

Zodiacwarrior:


Thanks man I really appreciate sorry for my comments I'll do that asap.

impeccablerose:
To everyone saying she shouldn't report to authorities, not call his supervisor or be patient, I am sure you can't tolerate 1 month of being ghosted by your partner if you were in her shoes let alone months. So when will the patience end??

@Amakaoyekachi1, its your home and your marriage. There have been lots of advice in earlier posts, put them together and outline your next steps.

If you still have that patient and want to give him some benefit of doubt,  set a time LIMIT for your patience and keep trying to reach him within that timeline (through his supervisor, his school, peeps on nairaland attending same school willing to help and directly contacting him).

If your patience has gotten to its limit, like someone said earlier,gather your evidence and reach out to him to let him know you're getting authorities involved. If no response from him, let your family and his know your next line of action. Then get a lawyer and ACT.

As regards being blocked from all communication channels with him. You can create a different a different or multiple emails addresses (do same on other communication channels with him). The aim is to make sure he gets all the messages and warnings you'll send to him before you escalate the situation.

Just know that any action you take or don't take will have consequences. Think about the consequences carefully before you decide on what to do. Whatever you do, don't lose yourself or your sanity for anything.

Zodiacwarrior:


I don't understand this are you here to mock my questions or answer it......cause if am wrong you could point it out,correct me and answer me the best possible way you can, and if not you tell me.

Amakaoyekachi1:
I will give a time frame and see how things unfolds in a month, so I don’t get blamed if I decide to act irrational everyone will know I have tried and exhausted all patience in me. Whatever the case is he should be man enough to let me know what the problem is, if it’s a relationship it’s much better but marriage( it takes two tango) because when things like this happens everyone blame the woman without understanding the in-depth of things. That’s why I came here to seek for advice.
But I know God will guide and see me through

ankaravillageng:


I have been following your write up and somehow I feel compelled to talk.
In whatever you decide to do please try to make sure it would not have a negative effects on him, let karma take it's course especially if you don't have concrete proof against him. Even if you do just let him go peaceful, I don't know how long you guys have been together before getting married but if you can, just overlook it and move on.

JORDAN55:
Hi guys,
please what’s the best site to buy electronics in canada apart from best buy and Amazon.

Please help

JORDAN55:
Hi guys,
please what’s the best site to buy electronics in canada apart from best buy and Amazon.

Please help

Amakaoyekachi1:
It’s easier said than done, I’m pretty sure if you were in my shoes you won’t say this, it’s very painful cause I don’t deserve this happening. Imagine if it was the other way around, will you tell me to wait for karma? Or if I was your blood relation, won’t you want to get to the root of the matter? I just feel whatever is going on he should be man enough and feel me in, I wont kill him if he does.

ankaravillageng:


I can't say I totally understand you but I do sympathise with you. Even when you find the truth and it hurts, you'll might feel like taking a pound of flesh but try to just resist, it would be hard I know, infact it might be impossible, but try you best to leave him to his cross. Trust me when I say life would deal with him if your hands are clean and he did do you wrong, he would definitely meet his Waterloo.
In the main time find your happiness again and see if you can move on.

Godisincontrol:


Hello,
It depends on what you are in need of and maybe your location. You can ideally check (in no particular order) - Walmart,Superstore, Costco, Visions Electronic, Staples, Home Depot, the Source, Samsung Experience Stores to mention but a few and also local stores around you.

Knelsoon:
Can anyone recommend a good business I can invest $70kcad into few months after landing in canada.

I am already looking into some businesses but since I am not on ground yet, it's been a little difficult getting the real time infos. I don't know if $70k will be enough.

Hopefully I will be landing in Calgary in few months, waiting for IRCC.

Recommendations are welcomed. Thank you.