Oliran:

Team surprise should be you and your partner's decision and not the doctor's. But it's fine if you are okay with it.

I hear Iya Ibeji everywhere I go now and I am loving the attention , I even got an extra boiled corn from a seller yesterday.

Yeah....I know it's supposed to be our decision but my hubby sha doesn't care. He said anyone God gives him is fine. Although if I insist the doctor has no choice. I sha know know I'll check gender b4 I'm due though.
Yess oooo the attention is really sweet

Debbieeeeeee:

If you don’t mind a government hospital then you can use Gbagada general hospital and if you mind going far I’m a fan of Lagos island maternity, I know a few good hands that work in GBGH.
I know hospitals will say 12 weeks and even my present hospital says 10-12 weeks before they book me for antenatal but I should keep coming to see the OB every 2 weeks because we have pending matters.

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Thanks for stopping by
Gbagada gen hospital is close to me but I worry about climbing bike to and fro
Hubby is not in Lagos

tyhgfrdeswscbhf:


F[[b]b]or now I think u should find comfort in ur parents house for now because that man can give u high BP for and ur unborn child..... Talk to ur people..[/[/b]b]
Left for me this is end of the marriage but who are my to give u this advise


Pls make sure to protect that unborn child because that's ur only hope now

I agree @ bolded, to avoid unnecessary headache, move to your parents house, don't tell your peope what happened, just say you want to visit and rest a little, let him come and find you, if possible let him report himself, when he sees you not willing to follow him. Imagine putting you through the pressure for IVF and hes going do this to you now?
@victoriouswoman

sugarcoatted:


You can use KAAF at UNILAG

Good day
Happy Sunday
Please what’s the full name KAAF

MumIbeji:

Welcome ma'am, ask questions and mamas here will help in the ways they can.
Which ifako precisely? Gbagada or ijaiye?

Gbagada ma

Senorita222:




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Thanks for stopping by
Gbagada gen hospital is close to me but I worry about climbing bike to and fro
Hubby is not in Lagos

Please don’t climb bike this period they’re rough, pregnancy is very delicate. Although some people left with no option have to climb bike but I’ll say avoid it as much as you can, since antenatal is like once a month and the hospital is close to you, then you can use ride hailing services like Bolt / Uber( a sacrifice just for that day). Personally pregnancy period is always very very delicate and stressful for me so my input may be a bit sentimental, I can even say don’t go out

Senorita222:



Good day
Happy Sunday
Please what’s the full name KAAF

Kensington Adebukunola Adebutu Foundation (KAAF maternity). Its opposite Unilag Medical centre.

Bs bs bs

My pregnancy was a pregnancy i had wished and prayed for which God granted my request after almost 1 and half years after loosing my first
Baby 2 days after birth in October 2019.

We were so happy with hubby and the pregnancy was stress free till 8 months when my bp started rising. At 38 weeks it was 150/100 and doctor asked me to bring my husband and start preparing for cs hopefully the next day.

I was so scared because my first was vaginal delivery and even then i had high bp. My husband was also scared. When i called my mom to tell her, she gave me courage and asked us to go to the other arm of the teaching hospital we were using since there were more professionals there. In all this my dad was very disturbed because am very close to him.

Hubby gave me courage and i decided to leave everything to God. At the hospital we moved to the doctor gave us 10 days to come back. We went back but bp was still high despite the medications. They kept adding days till i was 42 wks.
And there was no option but to go in for cs due to post date, bad obstetrics history and high bp.

I had my baby 25th may 2021. My edd was 2nd 13th and 17th may.

God bless my hubby, Mom, dad, my sister and inlaws for me.

Safe delivery to all waddling mamas and good wishes to all ttc mamas.

Cc May Cappo
Momoadura

Victoriouswoman:
I am Four months gone, got pregnant through ivf. I completed 29 this march. Been married since 2019 December. I just didnt want to wait as my husband was putting pressure on me. One thing i noticed from my husband was that even during ttc time he only makes love to me on my ovulation days, and we always quarrel because while we were dating he wasn't this way. He keeps on saying that he is saving the sperm all that. Then i notice he flirts with women on whatsapp and mostly ladies around us after quarrel he will delete their numbers. Yesterday friday he asked me to go visit his sister that had a failed iui transfer. Initially i accepted but i noticed i was sleeping all through the day, so i couldnt make it he kept on calling ask me if i have left for his sister's place? I lied to him that i am on my way there, this was past 7pm already, knowing fully well that the road is bad and the husband i know would had said it was too late to leave the house as at that time. I called him past 8pm that i am there. He told me that he was on his way home from work, and i told him that i was bored that we should be on the phone till he gets home, because his work place isnt far to our home. He kept on insisting that he wants to talk to his sister, and that he called her to confirm if i have gotten there already? I lied that his sister went to get fuel, just to distract him. Then i realised he was close to the house after i noticed his car headlight. Then i told him that i should help him open the gate, next thing i saw a girl ran out of his car, i told her not to bother because i have seen her. All to my surprise she is my husband's worker's younger sister. I just went inside and told them they can both come finish what they started in my matrimonial bed. The most painful part is that my husband makes love to me 3 times in a month and it was during my ovu period. Since i got pregnant we have only made love 3 times now after the first 3 months of my pregnancy! He doesn't touch me and to even think that friday morning i literally knelt down to beg him of sex but he refused all for him to send me to his sister and then brought a girl home. I have born so devastated. This pregnant is still early . Just need advice on what to do cause i am so confused

I'm really sorry that you're going through all this at this early stage of your marriage. It seems your husband has always been like this. It's painful when the one you love so much hurts you. But be strong because of the baby in your womb. Confront him, speak to him and tell him about all your worries. I believe he'll change his ways. Cheers dear

WetSmoke:
BA! BA!! BA!!!

To God be all the glory, my child of destiny, miracle princess arrived this afternoon. She weighed 3.1kg.

Mother and daughter are doing fine.

If I no serve God, wetin I gain oooo.

BS soon.

Cappo, take note.

Congratulations ma'am

senoraaquila:
Dear mama. You inspire me. Despite your sad news the other day, you're still very active.
I'm sure and pray that you will share good news with us soon.

Amen ma, thank you so much. I can't sit and allow negative thoughts ooo, infact I went to work the next day though I didn't do much. Instead of sitting and brooding over what is not, I'd rather arise and give glory to God.

Good afternoon mummies, pls is it safe to use any lightning cream and soap during pregnancy? Cos I was told I shouldn’t use any cream at all and that it’s dangerous.

Omakraid:

Amen ma, thank you so much. I can't sit and allow negative thoughts ooo, infact I went to work the next day though I didn't do much. Instead of sitting and brooding over what is not, I'd rather arise and give glory to God.

I like the positive vibes. You shall testify very soon

Omakraid:

Amen ma, thank you so much. I can't sit and allow negative thoughts ooo, infact I went to work the next day though I didn't do much. Instead of sitting and brooding over what is not, I'd rather arise and give glory to God.

Sorry message not for you

WetSmoke:
BA! BA!! BA!!!

To God be all the glory, my child of destiny, miracle princess arrived this afternoon. She weighed 3.1kg.

Mother and daughter are doing fine.

If I no serve God, wetin I gain oooo.

BS soon.

Cappo, take note.

I'M happy for you my EDD mate, alhamdulillah.
Insha ALLAH I'm next to be congratulated here. God bless you and your princess.

Thanks alot everyone. My sis inlaw came this morning quarreling with me, that all men cheat and that the only mistake he made was bringing her home and also dating women around us. They said i should bear and forgive him. I don't have no parents or family members. He was begging me since on Friday,but when his sisters came he started talking with confidence saying my friends are asking me to leave the marriage. And he was bragging to them. I just went inside and cried. If my mum was around, i don't think all these would be happening. I miss my parents so much. But i have decided to gather some money and do something tangible with my life. Thanks alot for your concerns
May God bless your homes

Debbieeeeeee:

Thank you, My doctor thinks I should even dump the prenatals for now and face the 5mg folic acid and one white medication he gave me for a 7 days course last week.
I wish I was craving all the good things you craved at least e for better . I can’t even stand eggs right now or anything that doesn’t contain serious pepper, although I never vomit throughout my pregnancies but I always feel very sick (headache, food aversions for some weeks, metallic mouth taste , feeling bloated & very tired, can’t stand to even shower etc) looking forward to 14 weeks when I usually get better. They always say no two pregnancies are the same but it seems I get the exact same symptoms all the time and I wonder why.
I can’t stand perfumes & body sprays either So I use lime as my deodorant and it seems this pregnancy is going to be a long one because it didn’t take me by surprise meaning I started counting from day 001.

My dear you just described me at the moment
If the food am eating is not peppery I can't stand it, metallic tasting mouth is killing me and making me spit a lot.
I can't drink ordinary water unless it is very cold or flavoured with lime.
The Lord is our strength

Victoriouswoman:
Thanks alot everyone. My sis inlaw came this morning quarreling with me, that all men cheat and that the only mistake he made was bringing her home and also dating women around us. They said i should bear and forgive him. I don't have no parents or family members. He was begging me since on Friday,but when his sisters came he started talking with confidence saying my friends are asking me to leave the marriage. And he was bragging to them. I just went inside and cried. If my mum was around, i don't think all these would be happening. I miss my parents so much. But i have decided to gather some money and do something tangible with my life. Thanks alot for your concerns
May God bless your homes

My God. Please put yourself first from now on and take solace in the fact that you have a baby on the way.
Please be fine

Hey mama. You're strong and you will get through this...with or without your hubby. It's you and your baby first.
It's sad you're going through this especially at this delicate stage. I really hate it when people give the excuse that "all men cheat". Oya be cheating and one day karma will hit you.
Build yourself. Think for yourself and your baby and you will get through it. May God see you through.

Victoriouswoman:
Thanks alot everyone. My sis inlaw came this morning quarreling with me, that all men cheat and that the only mistake he made was bringing her home and also dating women around us. They said i should bear and forgive him. I don't have no parents or family members. He was begging me since on Friday,but when his sisters came he started talking with confidence saying my friends are asking me to leave the marriage. And he was bragging to them. I just went inside and cried. If my mum was around, i don't think all these would be happening. I miss my parents so much. But i have decided to gather some money and do something tangible with my life. Thanks alot for your concerns
May God bless your homes

Oliran:
Mimicle101, you tried sending an email sir.

Yes i did

kennyjoy:
Happy Sunday mummies in the House, Can anyone please recommend the best OBS/Gynecologist in Lagos state(Ikorodu axis to be precise)

Swiftly response will be appreciated �

Dr Oluwa. He works at ijede general hospital and has his private clinic at idiroko.
Lifefull hospital

MzCorleone:

My dear you just described me at the moment
If the food am eating is not peppery I can't stand it, metallic tasting mouth is killing me and making me spit a lot.
I can't drink ordinary water unless it is very cold or flavoured with lime.
The Lord is our strength

God is our strength o! my water is with Lemon or lime, my smoothies have to be with a dash of lime because I can’t stand anything too sweet either, my mouth is producing extra saliva these days. I really look forward to week 14/15 the week when everything gets normal . Sometimes I’m wondering who sent me message sef because pregnancy is not a walk in the park at least for me it has never been a walk in the park until the day I deliver.
I have a friend who says she enjoys her pregnancy period and like being pregnant and I find it super weird because no be me.

Victoriouswoman:
Thanks alot everyone. My sis inlaw came this morning quarreling with me, that all men cheat and that the only mistake he made was bringing her home and also dating women around us. They said i should bear and forgive him. I don't have no parents or family members. He was begging me since on Friday,but when his sisters came he started talking with confidence saying my friends are asking me to leave the marriage. And he was bragging to them. I just went inside and cried. If my mum was around, i don't think all these would be happening. I miss my parents so much. But i have decided to gather some money and do something tangible with my life. Thanks alot for your concerns
May God bless your homes

I’m sorry to say, your sister inlaw is a silly, evil, narcissistic. I’m guessing she’s married, would age appreciate someone telling her the same if it was her husband who did the same to her? I’m tired of women you side by their brothers regardless of what bad attitude they come up with. You won’t die if you call your sibling out on their bad behavior.

I can’t tell you what to do, but if I were in your shoes, I will give that man space. I went through the agony of IVF only for you to disrespect me by not only cheating but having the effing gall to bring your trip home. While I’m pregnant? Okay o. I will chose to protect my sanity, even if it means excusing myself from that house. Flashing back to the moment when I saw the girl in the car can trigger depression and anger , especially given the pregnancy. Only you can make a decision my dear. My heart breaks for you and I pray you find peace in your heart and enough love to give to your unborn❤️

Victoriouswoman:
Thanks alot everyone. My sis inlaw came this morning quarreling with me, that all men cheat and that the only mistake he made was bringing her home and also dating women around us. They said i should bear and forgive him. I don't have no parents or family members. He was begging me since on Friday,but when his sisters came he started talking with confidence saying my friends are asking me to leave the marriage. And he was bragging to them. I just went inside and cried. If my mum was around, i don't think all these would be happening. I miss my parents so much. But i have decided to gather some money and do something tangible with my life. Thanks alot for your concerns
May God bless your homes

I’m sending you e-hugs. Please work towards doing better for yourself in terms of finances and being self sufficient after your pregnancy as you can’t afford any stress right now. When you’re self sufficient things will take a drastic turn I can assure you. Not all men cheat and your husband can do better, it’s obvious your husbands sisters are shallow minded, your husband is probably the bread winner and they don’t want to get on his bad side(Happens in most families).
You don’t need this type of vibes not right now or even after the pregnancy. Focus on yourself and your child and don’t get carried away. It is well with you. Cheers!

Victoriouswoman:
I am Four months gone, got pregnant through ivf. I completed 29 this march. Been married since 2019 December. I just didnt want to wait as my husband was putting pressure on me. One thing i noticed from my husband was that even during ttc time he only makes love to me on my ovulation days, and we always quarrel because while we were dating he wasn't this way. He keeps on saying that he is saving the sperm all that. Then i notice he flirts with women on whatsapp and mostly ladies around us after quarrel he will delete their numbers. Yesterday friday he asked me to go visit his sister that had a failed iui transfer. Initially i accepted but i noticed i was sleeping all through the day, so i couldnt make it he kept on calling ask me if i have left for his sister's place? I lied to him that i am on my way there, this was past 7pm already, knowing fully well that the road is bad and the husband i know would had said it was too late to leave the house as at that time. I called him past 8pm that i am there. He told me that he was on his way home from work, and i told him that i was bored that we should be on the phone till he gets home, because his work place isnt far to our home. He kept on insisting that he wants to talk to his sister, and that he called her to confirm if i have gotten there already? I lied that his sister went to get fuel, just to distract him. Then i realised he was close to the house after i noticed his car headlight. Then i told him that i should help him open the gate, next thing i saw a girl ran out of his car, i told her not to bother because i have seen her. All to my surprise she is my husband's worker's younger sister. I just went inside and told them they can both come finish what they started in my matrimonial bed. The most painful part is that my husband makes love to me 3 times in a month and it was during my ovu period. Since i got pregnant we have only made love 3 times now after the first 3 months of my pregnancy! He doesn't touch me and to even think that friday morning i literally knelt down to beg him of sex but he refused all for him to send me to his sister and then brought a girl home. I have born so devastated. This pregnant is still early . Just need advice on what to do cause i am so confused

So sorry for this sis, pls for the sake of that bundle of joy growing in you and yourself, kindly find happiness within yourself for now and if you think you can't handle been in the house with your hubby kindly move to your parents house. I can't imagine what you're going through right now . What's his reaction if it's unremorseful please leave the house soonest.

AbbynHummy:


I like the positive vibes. You shall testify very soon

Amen ooo, thanks a lot

Twinmommy:

Hi Cappo, after my long response to this post, I was banned and my response was even deleted. Not sure the cause so I'll keep this short. Yes am around Igando axis. Subol is my HMO Hospital but am not using there for Antenatal. I'm continuing with my IVF Hospital at Dopemu (Bolasad Specialist Hospital), am paying out of pocket there though. I was considering switching to Subol to birth just for HMO sake (free) but thinking and rethinking it. I'm leaning more towards birthing at my Bolasad since that's where God gave me my Miracle, make person no look money spoil things. Hope you and your LO are doing great. May God help us make the right decisions and perfect all that concerns us, Amen.

Good evening ma"am.
Trust our ejimas are doing well?
OKAY to ur response.Thanks ma!....
All will be well IJN!
Mama!
I just got to see u waited for 13gud years!
Wow!
Glory to God in the Highest...
May we carry to term and deliver safely IJMN!
Kisses to our soldier men!

@ Victoriouswoman
It is well mama.
Pls be strong for yourself and your unborn child.
That man is a chronic cheat, & he doesn't deserve your tears.

Pls be strong for ur dear self.
May the Lord guide you aright.

Howyeh:

Good evening ma"am.
Trust our ejimas are doing well?
OKAY to ur response.Thanks ma!....
All will be well IJN!
Mama!
I just got to see u waited for 13gud years!
Wow!
Glory to God in the Highest...
May we carry to term and deliver safely IJMN!
Kisses to our soldier men!

Dear Cappo Howyeh , we are waiting for roll call

I’m so sorry you have to go through all these I know how it feels I’ve been there too. Remove your focus from your husband focus on yourself or else you will be excessively depressed. It helps if you want to talk you can reach out to anyone of us here . Love and light �

Victoriouswoman:
I am Four months gone, got pregnant through ivf. I completed 29 this march. Been married since 2019 December. I just didnt want to wait as my husband was putting pressure on me. One thing i noticed from my husband was that even during ttc time he only makes love to me on my ovulation days, and we always quarrel because while we were dating he wasn't this way. He keeps on saying that he is saving the sperm all that. Then i notice he flirts with women on whatsapp and mostly ladies around us after quarrel he will delete their numbers. Yesterday friday he asked me to go visit his sister that had a failed iui transfer. Initially i accepted but i noticed i was sleeping all through the day, so i couldnt make it he kept on calling ask me if i have left for his sister's place? I lied to him that i am on my way there, this was past 7pm already, knowing fully well that the road is bad and the husband i know would had said it was too late to leave the house as at that time. I called him past 8pm that i am there. He told me that he was on his way home from work, and i told him that i was bored that we should be on the phone till he gets home, because his work place isnt far to our home. He kept on insisting that he wants to talk to his sister, and that he called her to confirm if i have gotten there already? I lied that his sister went to get fuel, just to distract him. Then i realised he was close to the house after i noticed his car headlight. Then i told him that i should help him open the gate, next thing i saw a girl ran out of his car, i told her not to bother because i have seen her. All to my surprise she is my husband's worker's younger sister. I just went inside and told them they can both come finish what they started in my matrimonial bed. The most painful part is that my husband makes love to me 3 times in a month and it was during my ovu period. Since i got pregnant we have only made love 3 times now after the first 3 months of my pregnancy! He doesn't touch me and to even think that friday morning i literally knelt down to beg him of sex but he refused all for him to send me to his sister and then brought a girl home. I have born so devastated. This pregnant is still early . Just need advice on what to do cause i am so confused

Debbieeeeeee:

Me & Tabs inconsistency are like 5&6 I hate taking tablets, I don’t know who sent me to buy this pregnacare max and I have one week to go before the pack is exhausted, I definitely feel so sick taking these tablets but I want to know if it makes other people sick so I can have a perfect excuse to dump it. I’m rolling my eyes at the price sef!

Lol... Hey mama, there's nothing wrong with Pregnacare max. I think your system isn't just accepting it. You can change to another drug if it'll help you feel better.

I've been taking mine since I found out I was pregnant, and I have never reacted to it. Luckily for me, I don't have issues with taking drugs right now. It doesn't make me feel nauseous or strange. Same thing, even in my last pregnancy.

Like I mentioned, you should take drugs that your system permits. You'll be fine

MumDiamond:



Lol... Hey mama, there's nothing wrong with Pregnacare max. I think your system isn't just accepting it. You can change to another drug if it'll help you feel better.

I've been taking mine since I found out I was pregnant, and I have never reacted to it. Luckily for me, I don't have issues with taking drugs right now. It doesn't make me feel nauseous or strange. Same thing, even in my last pregnancy.

Like I mentioned, you should take drugs that your system permits. You'll be fine

Thank you! Please how do you manage to swallow three of them at a go because it’s daunting. I’m definitely switching pills(got an alternative already), I have 6 days to go on this pack before I pack it up. I’ll take a break when I’m done with this and before I begin the new brand to ascertain it was really the pregnacare max making me sick.
Also did it change the colour of your poop?