ubunja:
the key is the single mother. If single mothers gain enough traction in any society a matriarchy forms. Keep Women from raising kids on their own and you'll be fine. But as history as showed, the more developed a society gets, the more it empowers women and empowered women have the biggest chances of being single mothers. Just keep single motherhood in check.

Right now in many countries laws are being discussed that will force companies to have a minimum number of women on their boards. Those laws will beget more laws like them and women will eventually have an equal footing economically with men. And we all know when women gain economic freedom they're less likely to want traditional relationships. Yet they'll continue having babies.

Don't just look at the situation around you, be able to project into the future and work out from cause to effect how things will change. Because you can bet your last naira, things will change. Whether we like it or not. A change is coming.
SA men are productive to an extent but women are far more driven than men. Because women have something to prove and freedom to gain. They are not playing. The only saving grace for men is that SA women are very understanding and logical since they're mostly masculine and they'll get with a nobody of a guy. Which is something most guys here apparently can't pull off since they can't abide women who provide.

Oh and the true survivors are women. Not men. Many times whole tribes and cultures have been wiped out by invading forces but the women have always survived as the spoils of war. You know this.

ubunja:
if you all find dealing with women to be such a doomed enterprise why even enter this thread? Are you not better off in other sections eg politics or business? The game is not rigged men are just too dumb to follow instructions to win. Man if you're all tired of women just go somewhere else.

dajobi:
Today I messed up. And I can agree that since my 2018 when i left the woman that's gave me another man's baby (even when i paid her dowry and all), ive been meeting women that are all about what they will get from me.

Now, There was this girl that I've been on her case for a long time before she left my town go Lagos. This morning around 10, she called me she's in town. That time one of my guys was with me in shop ( I sell computers, phones and all)and we were discussing how to pull money together for one business we've been on. So long story short, this girl called. Left my guy and lied that I was coming back soon and went to pick the girl where she was. We went to my crib. I thought sex was in it for me, not until this girl told me she needed some funds for something urgent. I asked how much, and I didn't even know when I took my phone, ask for her account and transfer the 60k to her (with the hope that she'll lose guard). Omoh na so this girl manipulate me out of sex and I shave even get a hug till she left. Now she's not even called that she don land

ubunja:
that's true. Even myself I sometimes forget we're all from different backgrounds and cultures.

Anyways the world is changing and sooner or later men will have to reckon with female mass-independence. Look at any college campus and you'll see more girls than guys. This means years down the line the balance of resources will change with women having largely zero need for men's money. Now SA is closer to that reality than countries like Nigeria. The black American community however is already dealing with that shift as shown by the snapshot below...

TheUndercover:
@Lordcassy,

One thing I noticed is that the men who make women their sole purposes, their goal, their frame ends up being disappointed at the end. At the beginning it will look like they are winning, but later in life, they realised they've wasted themselves away trying to prove to themselves what is not worth the whole struggle. It's easier for a man to get distracted. Women are afforded the luxury to be careless, but not men. It's either you make it or you don't.

If men realise that their urge won't die with that one time sex they are dying to have, they will focus on more important things. The discussions on these thread is mainly on women because it's what most people are contributing to and of course, along with the topic of the thread. If we decide to change the focus or topic of this thread, then the discussion will change. First 20-30 pages of this thread is enough for anyone to grasp what all these is all about.

Men will forever be driven to sex but the ball is in your court to decide where you'll be driven to. Some men drove to their death, some men drove to depression and some others, in a never ending loop, all for what? - Sex.

Lordcassy:


Seconded bro, Even though sex is one of the vital Things in nature for reproduction, although we are not using it as it was designed to be used...Most guys and girls see it as entertainment and that's fine.. we men are not designed for abundance of it.

Rozcol:
What is a hoe that some low value men keep talking about here,well I think I need some explanation because the word has been carelessly used by Martinez(Anderson) and his cohorts.If putting ubunja in his rightful place made anyone upset then look for a nearby transformer to hug,truth is indeed bitter. Whenever I see most of you write about women manipulation and trying so hard to alert yourselves or create awareness I simply laugh in Paris,you lack true wisdom if you think any man on earth can ever escape what nature naturally blessed women with,as long as Adam fell for the manipulative prowess of Eve so shall his descendants follow accordingly, so you all should quit trying too hard(you have your heart to protect). Also as long as Adam saw Eve and became sexually attracted to her so shall his descendants follow, it is nature and you can't fight it,monk people take note.You think you guys are the first to realize all these things you put up here?na na na there exist redpillers before you guys but women were still able to exercise their gift on these men,you just haven't met your match.Do you think Gen Babangida,Obasanjo,Gen Abdulsalam, Gen TY Danjuma,Gen Shagaya,Otunba Ojora,Alhaji Folawiyo(late),Jerry Rawlings of Ghana and some few notable men were SIMPs? No they were hardcore redpillers but when they met their match they were all properly fixed.Maryam(late), Stella(late), Justice Fati, Daisy, Hajiya Bola, Erelu Ojuolape, Hajiya Zainab were spouses of those men(redpillers) respectively but they exercised their gift(you may choose to call it manipulation) on these men and made them responsible and also at their beck and call,you just haven't met your match hence the reason you are flexing muscles. Its unfortunate that women no longer know why they are women,there's no man on this earth that can escape a woman's manipulation, you just haven't met your match.It happened to those men I mentioned,some were previously married to women who didn't know the secret of been a woman but when they met their match,they were properly fixed,late Stella, Hajiya Zainab folawiyo,Daisy Danjuma were women who met their husband's married to some weak women but they immediately fixed them when they came into the picture(powerful women of substance), Maryam Babangida properly fixed her own man right from day one,the strongest of them all.So whenever I see you all wailing I just laugh over your naiveness about women. There's no man born of a woman that I can't simp to my satisfaction because I know what it truly means to be called a woman but I won't do that to a man I love except I'm been taken to beyond limits and back.So take some chill pills along with your redpill and accept the fact that there are certain things you can not change.

emmaodet:


You are right bro but most of these things are caused by regularly changing the law. I don't know why men can't just stick with a law for atleast 20 years before changing it.
Every month or year, they keep fingering and sticking their dirty hands on law.
Law, Finance and Force and 3 key areas of the society that influence or cause drastic changes. The man who controls these 3 things controls humans.
It seems this is not the best of time to be a man, a lot are just against them.
I am in a business group recognised and approved by goverment and most goverment loans, schemes, programmes and private sectors come through them but have been noticing a trend for some time in the group, 75% of programs for empowerment, loans etc are made for women. It has gotten to an extent that a member had to cry out last month that it seems men are now second class citizens in nigeria because the opportunities are not just there. The remaining 25% chance is even thrown to the general and not strictly men.
Also, the nigeria culture raised men to take care, watch the back of women but the women are not.
Men go to school, become somebody and come back home, go down/below their statures to pick and dust a woman up.
Men travel out to canada, UK, US and no matter how they hustle, they are regularly reminded and are also eager to come back home to pick and dust up a woman BUT immediately a woman travels out, that is all. She drops her bf ass just because she feels she has stepped up and can't settle for less. A woman becomes more educated than her spouse or gets more juicy job and drops her spouse ass.
I was very suprised the day my MIL told me if she is in this era, she won't have married. That she will prefer staying alone, afterall, she is working and not earning bad and this is not just an ordinary woman, she is an assistant pastor in the church.
Imagine such a person who is kinda religious saying that, how much more average lady.

dajobi:

This is a joke. What gives you the assurance that the girl will lose guards even if I follow this your advise? See ehn, the girl is a witch seriously.. nothing you do for people like them is enough. I've served her a lot of time even took my car for days unreturned when she was around in my town. It seems to me like she will only remember me whenever she needs something, and she'll always come up with a story while giving me impression that she's already agreed. Laslas, she'll collect my thing and park up again.

aomine:
AOMINE IN DAAA HOUSE,I GOT SOME BACKLASH WHEN I TRIED TO DEVIATE INTO FINANCE WHAT OTHER PART OF REDPILL DO YOU WANT

ubunja:
yes man. Things are changing. And you say it's government legislation and I agree the gvt has a big hand in all this as I pointed it out to another fella somewhere.

Women are the biggest voting block in any country largely because they take voting seriously while men take it for granted telling themselves "it's a man's World". So with women being the most voters, gvts take women's issues more seriously than men's issues.
Plus women are easy to control by any gvt compared to men. Men are hard to control, but not for women. Women control men easy. So the gvt controls women and women control men. It's a chain of control. Hence women are any gvt's darling and everything will be done to pander to them.

aomine:
Y'ALL SHOULD JUST ADMIT THIS THREAD IS ALL ABOUT WOMEN

√Women don’t respect a man who pretends to not have a dick, and lacks the balls to go after what he wants.

[b]Pretending to be a friend is a huge waste of your time. Create a flirtatious frame from the start, which will set the foundations for further escalation down the line [/b]Yeh!A bell in my head


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√Women don’t respect a man who pretends to not have a dick, and lacks the balls to go after what he wants.

[b]Pretending to be a friend is a huge waste of your time. Create a flirtatious frame from the start, which will set the foundations for further escalation down the line [/b]Morning devotion noted


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ubunja:
yes man. Things are changing. And you say it's government legislation and I agree the gvt has a big hand in all this as I pointed it out to another fella somewhere.

Women are the biggest voting block in any country largely because they take voting seriously while men take it for granted telling themselves "it's a man's World". So with women being the most voters, gvts take women's issues more seriously than men's issues.
Plus women are easy to control by any gvt compared to men. Men are hard to control, but not for women. Women control men easy. So the gvt controls women and women control men. It's a chain of control. Hence women are any gvt's darling and everything will be done to pander to them.

dajobi:


Hmm. I think it's better to block this girl. Because thing is if she contact me again today for help I'll still do it. You can't believe she has not called me since yesterday to thank me

ubunja:
Any red pill that is not about women and pussy is a red pill I don't want. You can all count me out.

Abba114:
redpill has caused me my 5year old friends with benefits relationship.since i came across redpill on nairaland my girl has been complaining that im no longer the person she knew before, she said im being selfish and arrogant she started drawing away from me i noticed it. today we were chatting on whatsapp i complained to her that she is taking time to reply my messages and threatened to block her if she continue like this GBAM she blocked me after seeing the message. I THOUGHT I WASNT BEING A SIMP. guys i need advice can i just call her and apologise or leave her alone for few days. dont come here nd tell me to leave her because im a redpiller im still in need of the free pussy i get from her

Notateflonguy:


Seconded

Peaceyw:

Don't mind those guys, they will be talking as if the reason the redpill gained widespread attention is not because of the knowledge of women been discussed. Pretenders

Peaceyw:
The redpill is about women, Rollo tomassi said that redpill is about the intersexual dynamics between men and women, I cane to the romance section because of women, I saw a redpill thread there about women, I joined that thread because of it had what I was looking for. If I need knowledge about finance, I will go to the business section. I have gone to the business section to read about stocks and I leart something, but here they don't drop any knowledge on how to trade stocks, they just drop memes and be shouting invest, 9-5 is enslavement and other bullshit. If you want to learn about investment, go to business section. Don't come and be forcing donkey dung into our mouths in a romance thread.

SOZINN:

Next thing Na to come dey form street.

is the category you fall in bro....from just observing your post

aomine:
INVESTING IN STOCKS AND TRADING STOCKS IS differenT YOU DONT NEED ANY SPECIAL KNOWLEDGE TO INVEST ,YOU JUST NEED A STOCK BROKER LIKE PASSFOLIO,E TORO,TD ARMERITRADE , DIVIDEND STOCKS ARE MORE ADVISABLE AS YOU CAN EARN INCOME FROM THEM EG COCO COLA ,APPLE,VISA,MASTERCARD ,AT and T AND SO MANY OTHERS BUT IF YOU WANT TO TRADE YOU HAVE TO UNDERSTAND TECHNICAL ANALYSIS PEACEYW I HAVE KNOWLEDGE ABOUT A LOT BUT I WONT DROP IT HERE LIKE YOU SAID THIS IS A ROMANCE SECTION