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Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by WrksOnMyMachine: 12:22pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
lkillbrokehoes: Talk about self-aggrandizement! |
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by Realhommie(m): 12:24pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
WibusJaga:This is more like it which in it's own is a foolish move. Though it must be said that it has worked out well for a few, same can't be said for the majority. |
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by Divoc19(f): 12:27pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
Foolishness sounds too hard to use for me. simplesearch: |
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by debbydams(f): 12:28pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
Calitoscassius:why are so unfortunate,are u blind cant u see where I wrote most men, even if I said all men are scum why the Headache,why do u want to kill yourself over the post I made did I tag u? Mind your business pls |
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by debbydams(f): 12:31pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
LordOfTheGame:abi oo they ar all scum,can u face front now..matured guy will actually read nd waka pass my post but the unfortunate ones will want to die over it.. |
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by Realhommie(m): 12:35pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
pocohantas:It's suppose to be paid for, as in the form of marriage. But now they're doing marriage duties and performing the responsibilities when the men haven't done the needful, that's what i think that statement means. Because sex outside the confines of marriage is morally wrong as we know it. My opinion though |
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by Calitoscassius(m): 12:36pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
debbydams:You couldn't even read or understood your own comment. Your father, brothers, uncles are scum, how many men have you met? You have met all the more than 3 billion men on earth to come to your dumb conclusions i guess. Go stab yourself in the eyes you sad and bitter ugelee baald headed woman. |
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by thatsleepboy1: 12:38pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
debbydams: Are you sure? Awon shina no dey miss road. |
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by WrksOnMyMachine: 12:40pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
MondayOsunbor: tchidi066: Hear this all the time. Never seen any "Abuja marriage". It's exaggerated. Lagos .. no go worse pass Abuja for this kain thing? |
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by culcat(m): 12:41pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
This topic hmm, I’m presently trying to stop this lady but she said no. We met in a bus going to mainland from lekki, we started talking and exchange numbers. Days later we had sex and then on sex sex n more sex, she said she don’t want to marry again after she lose her husband. Now she ve a sugar daddy taking care of her but he always travel and she needs me to feel the space. My problem now is , I’m getting married this December doe my girl is not in Lagos, I told her all this but she not even angry even when making video calls I just don’t know what to do again |
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by milann: 12:42pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
tunapawizzy:money for hand, back for ground. There's nothing like free sex. I go fùck you after you chop my dough |
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by princewarri1985: 12:42pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
I want to let you women in to the mind of me so that you will know how we men think. When you are dating a well to do guy, and he told you that you are the only woman in his life, thats a lie coz he has numerous girlfriend beside you, if eventually he decide to cohabit with you, that automatically makes you the main chick, and through cohabitation he will become so used to you and you will become his best friend, lets say you both had a fight or querrel and you pack your things and leave he will call any of numerous side chick to come over, but he is going to miss you and even cry because he has gotten so use to you, right there and then he will decide to do the needful and spend the rest of his life with you. This is how real men thinks and thats why we avoid cohabitation when we dont like the woman. But dont get me wrong oh because some useless men still cahabitate because of the free sex but las las he go still hook them leading to unplanned marriage and later divorce 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by lastchild: 12:42pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
debbydams:that he asked you out doesn't mean he no longer love your friend, he just want sex from you |
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by lastchild: 12:44pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
PeaceJoyLove:lies what about well to do girls that brings a broke guy to live with them? |
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by milann: 12:48pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
abobote:why didn't you marry her? Abi she no sweet for bed |
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by Nobody: 12:50pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
lastchild:What you have brought up is true, but it doesnt mean what I said was a lie. It is a fact. 1 Like |
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by princewarri1985: 1:00pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
You are very wrong by categorizing all men as scums, common, i thought we have only intelligent minds here because there are still decent and real men out there but the bad eggs are more, infact it swing both ways because the same way you women are always yelling all men are scums, thats the same way we men are also yelling all women are scums too, have you suffered from real heart break before? Heart break fit make person use hammer take kill fly, all said and done trust me there are still decent and real women and men out there, they are rare to find and we keep attracting the opposite everytime 1 Like |
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by milann: 1:02pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
SmartPolician:more like transactional sex. Buy me things, i give u banana |
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by lastchild: 1:03pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
PeaceJoyLove:you are right but you could've make it under probability by saying some girls do that because of poverty |
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by milann: 1:12pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
pocohantas:free sex is conditional |
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by Cannicus: 1:14pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
pocohantas: Doesn't have to be monetary all the time. Could be time, money or effort. The greater the battle, the sweeter the victory. For some at least. This is in no way has any bearing on the act itself. You might spend a lot (of time, money or effort), and still find the sex unfulfilling at the end of the day. But the fact that it took scaling several hurdles to clinch it can rank the trophy (the girl, not her vjay) higher up in your list of conquests. Remember, males are hunters by nature. |
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by debbydams(f): 1:16pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
Calitoscassius:your signature says it all |
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by RodeDindu: 1:19pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
At the end, most end in tears. We are just battling with a case of a Security boy, co-habiting with a Delta state girl. Third child birth, the girl gave up the ghost. No drink , no dowry paid on top the girl's head. She is in the morgue as we talk now. The frustrated boy has been told to come and marry the corpse with a date ultimatum. They will not hear, they will not listen to advice. They will keep falling victims of circumstances. Life is all about planning 1 Like |
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by tightpussy156: 1:20pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
@OP point of correction it not free SEX.you talking as if the girl no they enjoy the fucking.women.enjoy sex the most.ur kind of statement will look as if men should buy sex as if the woman dont enjoy sex.As for cohabit with a man.see it depend on.how you look at it.characters mater alot.even if a girl does not cohabitate with a guy if he.no go marry you he no go marry you na your charcter matters.My woman today Cohabit with me right from university today she is the best wife.so that doesnt matter.na behaviour, good character na matter.Who quote me hug transformer. |
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by Nobody: 1:21pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
Sysdatek:Only tryna let you know that cohabiting with your spouse before marriage isn't something to boast about. You did it? Yea, but that doesn't make it right. Let's stop celebrating immorality. |
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by Oyerinde16(m): 1:24pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
Most ladies in this category end in it due to condition, not all tho but most... A babe lost her job, out of rent and decide to continue this hustle, when the going gets tough, the tough gets going... Move in. Sometime ago, a babe came to me saying she needs to find job, she can't stay at home and go to farm, her back is aching this and that, okay so what's up... Considering she had stayed in my place some days before, no babe just me, she felt its time to move in to help her hustle, few days down she says no money to go job hunting, no money to start a biz, Babe where u wan see money, me no get shingba o... She relax de chop free food de watch zee world, 1 week turn 2 come turn 3 finally 1 month... I was now spending more than 3 times my normal expenses in a month... This is where I came to realise this is what gradually turns to abuja marriage, over two months of cohabiting, I pity the babe cos from home, call comes mummy is sick, no food, nepa cut light, bla bla bla... Babe wea nor de work, hustling to feed under a guy helping... After 2 month plus she said she was going to Lagos to learn catering, gave her some cash she packed out... Its really not the girls fault all the time... Life no balance as wear... |
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by Nobody: 1:24pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
Quinex2: Okay Hope our morality has turned naija to london |
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by pocohantas(f): 1:24pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
Cannicus: Lol. This makes sense. I hope my fellow sisters are reading. They like when you suffer them. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by Nobody: 1:30pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
Sysdatek:There's no basis for such comparison. Nigeria is as immoral as London, we're just more hypocritical. 2 Likes |
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by tivhador: 1:46pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
ogeodi:Good luck with that
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Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by Nobody: 1:53pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
Free sex you say? Are they supposed to pay for it before? donogaga: |
Re: When Single Ladies Choose To Cohabit With Men, What Goes Through Their Mind? by tunapawizzy: 1:55pm On Jun 09, 2021 |
milann:we dun normalize olosho be dat |
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