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Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by ford101: 6:27am On Jun 11, 2021 |
Neverwill:as a Young Nigerian tell me what situation have I not seen.am 33 an still single do u think am a fool.even if I marry next yr.it ll be just on child.till I see need that I can take care of more people.so ur story is scripted. 1 Like |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by Neverwill: 6:28am On Jun 11, 2021 |
ford101:ok |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by mmadu5(m): 6:33am On Jun 11, 2021 |
Neverwill: we done catch u fake ass nigga. this is 2021 not 2009 we can detect a fake story before even reading it . try again and be more creative .. the whatsapp chat screenshot furthermore proved how fake the story is. 32 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by Sterope(f): 6:37am On Jun 11, 2021 |
Neverwill I don't think you have done anything wrong. A very cruel man tried to take advantage of you and he almost succeeded. You considered cheating on your wife because you were desperate and hopeless. That animal knew that and he tried to use it against you. That is what cruel people do, they take advantage of other's frustrations, hopelessness and misery. You don't need to share the whole detail with your wife. You need to forgive yourself, you were never at a fault. You are the victim and move on. I don't know if there are free mental health NGO you can seek help from in Nigeria, you should look for one. 4 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by Neverwill: 6:43am On Jun 11, 2021 |
mmadu5:hey I won't dignify you all with a respond. For the screenshot I deleted my chat with him immediately because I didn't wanted babe to have my phone and see our chats because she knows my pin code to unlock my phone as we don't hide anything from one another , so I asked him yesterday night to send me some screenshots of all our chat and he did innocently . But it's fine if you all think I'm lying. Did I asked anyone for a job, did I beg anyone for money, but I understand. We can't be trusted so we see everyone as scammers and liars. It's ok bro. Take care |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by Neverwill: 6:44am On Jun 11, 2021 |
Sterope:thanks babe always told me everything and I would tell her to clear my conscience. I know my self, I Wish I have a stronger mind to let things go. But thanks I would be fine 1 Like |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by Ritzybeauty(f): 6:49am On Jun 11, 2021 |
This your story isn't straightforward.. The screenshot story is also not real because this said man will never send any screenshot because he would detect you wanna blackmail or report him... Again you replying every comments on doubt by others means you are lying... I really don't know what would make you do this but its clearly not worth it.. 80 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by Neverwill: 6:54am On Jun 11, 2021 |
Ritzybeauty:the reason I got this screenshot was for something like this. But I would maybe delete the thread and do what's on my mind. Take care and thanks 2 Likes |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by Bankowner: 7:36am On Jun 11, 2021 |
What bone-faced trickery is this? so I asked him yesterday night to send me some screenshots of all our chat and he did innocently . Neverwill:You’ve mentioned deleting this thread twice now but it’s still here. You’re busted pal, delete it already! 37 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by Michelle55: 7:39am On Jun 11, 2021 |
I'm more interested in the said nairalander that committed such an abominable act ![]() Why can't he just help you and seek for pleasure elsewhere after all gaymen plenty for island there ![]() Wait fess! Shey you wear ya wife skirt and blouse go there ni because I don't understand why a man would address his clothes as DRESS. I sincerely hope this is not another sensational write-up, If it's true, may the genuine help you seek find you! 9 Likes |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by Powerfly(f): 7:44am On Jun 11, 2021 |
Am I the only one who is reading that the screenshot is as if he's the employer.... I mean .if you are the one rejecting the offer...your chats should be in green not white ni..... I tire abeg 32 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by kponkedenge(m): 7:45am On Jun 11, 2021 |
Ritzybeauty: Nothing wey we no go see for this nairaland. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by Lorayne(m): 7:47am On Jun 11, 2021 |
So, the man took the screenshot and sent to you? 39 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by JubrinElSudan: 8:06am On Jun 11, 2021 |
Neverwill:from the WhatsApp chat you posted, it's a fake conversation because your conversation should be the one with the blue tick but here it's showing the screenshot was done from the man's WhatsApp phone ![]() ![]() 23 Likes |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by Neverwill: 8:14am On Jun 11, 2021 |
I didn't have to post this but I would. Thanks for your abuses when I needed advice..I guess you can't get that from strangers. When wifey gets back from the shop I would tell her. Thanks and let's never take advantage of anyone needing help 3 Likes
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Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by akwemose: 8:24am On Jun 11, 2021 |
It is really sad how people will want to take advantage of you at your down time because they are in a position to help.God has forgiven you,you were obviously frustrated,you have a good woman by your side.withe the kind of relationship you both have,you won'thave peace toll you confess to her.She 'll be hurt but she will forgive you.you guys can sort this out..Just trust God,and do the needful.this is really sad,God will see you through and keep your home intact and give you a good job ,amen 1 Like |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by VlamesIffect(f): 8:27am On Jun 11, 2021 |
Na wa. So what will we believe. Say O.P a grown man almost sucked dick to get a job ![]() Or he posted this to reveal his gay tendencies.... 4 Likes |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by abdulazeez1002(m): 8:27am On Jun 11, 2021 |
Neverwill:You are very dumb 69 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by mmadu5(m): 8:27am On Jun 11, 2021 |
Neverwill: anybody can use double whatsapp to write and reply themselves to justify their false claims . this is fake just accept it and move on. don't know what he rubbed in my ass , maybe a cream he said for easy penetration MUMU MAN 71 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by VlamesIffect(f): 8:29am On Jun 11, 2021 |
Also these men taking this personally.... I hope say no be say dem dey defend their gay culture... Because we never know 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by PrinceJoeWan(m): 8:31am On Jun 11, 2021 |
How did u convince him to send u screenshots? Is the chat not in your phone as well? I smell fishes oh not fish but fishes! 30 Likes |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by Philipmighty(m): 8:31am On Jun 11, 2021 |
Nawa ohh no qualms this is so unsophisticated!!!! Any gay man wey go try rubbish for my side i swear i will shoot him without thinking twice!!!! Those beings are bastards, when we have free kpekus, another man somewhere is looking for another man to devour. 3 Likes |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by Philipmighty(m): 8:35am On Jun 11, 2021 |
mmadu5:nwanne zukwanu ike, you are acting like a fool, stop the fuvk trolling and go get Link to the thread let's see you slowpoke 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by SenecaTheYonger: 8:39am On Jun 11, 2021 |
My guy I’m so sorry man. I never understood what women go through to get a job until I read this post. And to think it happens everyday for them. Omo I got to stop being so judgmental. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by SenecaTheYonger: 8:41am On Jun 11, 2021 |
mmadu5: OP, this is that fagg0ts second moniker. I just went through his phone browser history and it’s him. 4 Likes |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by Reggaemich(m): 8:42am On Jun 11, 2021 |
OP, your story is fake Your chat as a sender should be in green not white and as the recipient should be in white You are replying all post that seems to prove u false unnecessarily so as to justify yourself, if u are truely genuine u wouldn't care to prove anyone right or wrong. Your last chat showing the recipient is willing to send u money to make amends for harm he might have caused Using sympathy tactics on your readers to send u money In Conclusion Your story is Fake 35 Likes |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by NoToPile: 10:57am On Jun 11, 2021 |
Not really interested if this particular story is fake or not, its worrying to me because I have heard of this scenerio, its getting more common than we know. Older well connected men who want to violate younger men before they can give them a job or contract. Its worrisome 2 Likes |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by Kondomatic(m): 11:05am On Jun 11, 2021 |
I knew what I was going to see even before I opened the post. I only read it for details. The world is mad and things are really changing, this used to "a woman's problem" now it has changed. Wives that fight side chicks are in for a huge shock when they discover that the side chick is a handsome man ![]() Even though my wife does everything she has never been rude to me or shown me the normal "Nigerian" women attitude There's nothing like normal Nigerian woman attitude. Though I get what you're getting at but it is a bad women thing not a Nigerian woman thing. Nigerian women are family oriented, resourceful and..... In fact Nigeria women are the best. 19 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by Depressed101: 11:31am On Jun 11, 2021 |
ford101:You made zero sense 1 Like |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by pocohantas(f): 12:14pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
Kondomatic: Scam, no woman should fall for this o. ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by flokii: 12:17pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
@OP I don't know how real your story is but I've heard and read similar stories like this.. that Lekki-Ajah axis no be am atal. It's very risky to disclose something like this to your wife and kids o.. it's your own terrible experience and should remain so. Learn from it and don't let such ever happen again. Please don't torment your young family with such gory info. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by emerged01(m): 12:22pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
mmadu5:I have read something like this before. 1 Like |
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