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Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by mranova(m): 2:47pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
First of all, all of you that are shouting it's a lie up and down, you are cyber bullies. You are the problem Nigeria is facing now in terms of sexual molestation. Your child would come back one day and tell you what an aunt or uncle did, and before the child finishes you open your mouths and say it's a lie and shut the child up. May God forgive you all and help you. My brother you seem like a good person and emotional that's why you feel the need to open up to your wife about it. Being jobless is never easy, coupled with the fact you a have a beautiful wife who men Keep admiring... It almost feels like your feet are on burning coal and your head in an oven. I would advise, if talking about it would make you feel better, then feel free to do so to your wife or any other person that can listen to you and understand you... Not minding these cyber bullies here. However, I am wary about your wife's reaction to it. You're a man. Sometimes we face battles and challenges no one knows about but we wake with a smiling face. The trauma about what happened I know can last a Lifetime but you're a man try to get over it. Secondly, I would advise you do little menial jobs. Take away any shame or pride. No matter how small the money u bring home is, it means something. You can apply even to a school to teach at half salary or part-time. 1 Like |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by ceeceeuwa: 2:48pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
Reggaemich:You know one thing about telling lies, you will keep telling more lies to cover your tracks. |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by Agugbadin: 2:49pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
So sad, every time God sees the wickedness of men and women he regrets creating them. |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by emyfelix(m): 2:52pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
dominique: You are smart!! Observed same thing.. 1 Like |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by BarrElChapo(m): 2:52pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
I think you should open up to your wife. All I see is a man who was tempted but you didn't fall for it(thank God). Show her the evidence as you've should us. She's meant to be your best friend and not us. I pray you find closure. All the best Neverwill: |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by labisibrass(m): 2:53pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
La fake la story ![]() Mr Op,the. Screenshot gave you out. Why is your own message white and the sender's message green, with blue tick sef ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by AfroKnight: 2:54pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
This FAKE story was either written by a closet gay man or a woman with twisted imagination. If you ever post such fake nonsense again, thunder will faya you mercilessly. Nonsense. |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by Tochj(m): 2:55pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
You need to forgive yourself God our father is a merciful God If it will hurt her Let it go Move on You are the one holding urself not God Work on it subconscious mind and free yourself God doesn't have issues with you |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by churro: 2:55pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
Neverwill: Please do not tell your wife. Trust me I'm a woman I know. Since you've prayed, God has forgiven you. Co-operate with him to heal you with time. Do not worry. All will be well. Trust God! 2 Likes |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by labisibrass(m): 2:56pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
mranova: It's your child that will face sexual molestation. You saw everything pointing to the fact that the Op made this story up,yet you chose to ignore. Na people like una dey vote for who would obviously suffer you. 7 Likes |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by SmartyPants(m): 2:56pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
edoairways: Hehehe. You get it. I strongly suspect nairaland is behind it. |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by socialmediaman: 2:57pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
Neverwill: “Daddy” is really sick. I think you’re depressed. Get some help. You need a sound mental attitude to be able to get back on your feet. You’re feeling shame, a feeling from wanting to be the perfect husband who provides for his wife and children. Accept where you are at this moment, help your wife, appreciate what she does, motivate yourself and be thankful you both can cope in a time of this financial situation. Make the best use of this time and learn some skill that will improve your chances of getting a job. But most importantly, get psychological help, maybe see a therapist. If you want a recommendation for Books, try motivational books by Brene Brown. These books make you understand you’re not alone, many others have gone through your situation and are forging ahead in life, it’s one of the complexities of life. Notice I did not tell you what or how to tell your wife, I’m not a marriage expert, but what I will advise is, seek help. |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by Nobody: 2:57pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
I’m happy you resisted I could smell endless blackmail if you agreed there’s nothing fun about the effects later on in life |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by McCoy662(m): 2:59pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
My problem in this whole story lies in this pix. I thought WhatsApp received messages usually have white background and send messages in green background. Or did u take this screenshot from the gay man's phone?? OP Explain this pls before I will know what to say 2 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by Hamature(m): 3:00pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
That Whatsapp chat gave you away bros. This is soooooo false 5 Likes |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by Akpuobi1: 3:03pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
THIS WRITE-UP IS A LIE, BUT CONTINUE... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by chival(f): 3:03pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
The attached WhatsApp message shows you were the one sending the text in green. If that is the case, then your tale should be taken with a pinch of salt. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by Neverwill: 3:03pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
Please no one should message me again offering a job. I don't need it. Thanks for the job offers in ibadan and one in Benin. Thanks guy's. I won't dignify those that think I'm lying with a response. I don't have to lie for sympathy, I don't know seun osewa to lie in nairaland. I purposely asked him to give me the screenshot after I deleted our chats. No one has to believe me. I owe no one an explanation. It's fine. If you think I'm lying it's ok. I know what happened and I'm finding peace and tonight I would find peace when I tell babe. It's fine. 1 Like |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by McCoy662(m): 3:03pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
labisibrass:I noticed that too ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by chival(f): 3:04pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
Hamature: Exactly. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by Richieniit: 3:05pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
Anyone noticed the screenshot of the WhatsApp chat? So you screenshot the chat from the man phone abi ![]() Only God knows your true intentions are abi na nairaland they use emotional post catch cruise.. na only una know. Sorry for those that feel for this LOL 3 Likes |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by nsiba: 3:10pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
Neverwill:. You should know by now that in this forum exist all manners of Nigerians, stick to posts that will make meaning to you |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by Marpol2021(m): 3:10pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
OP,HOW VERACITY IS YOUR WRITE UP |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by MarketDispatch: 3:11pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
Wow |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by chival(f): 3:12pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
Ishilove: Looks like most people noticed that instantly. Days ago, I came across a thread here on Nairaland warning folks to beware of emotional scam threads. This is probably one of them. 1 Like |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by Eketem: 3:12pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
Neverwill: Ignore the cyber bullies, your post is clearly seeking closure and peace. Nobody will make up a story and keep apologising , it comes from a place of deep pain and guilt. Please tell your wife, if you do not tell her one day you may be fall into temptation. The devil thrives when we cover things and choose silence, the ones trying to shut you up are probably abusers themselves |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by Nobody: 3:12pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
WoundedLamb:You're truly a wounded lamb. I hope you find healing some day |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by Vikalinda(m): 3:13pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
6reasons why most of us believe that the story is fake. 1 Screenshot from wasap. op said the man screenshot there conversation and sent to him, this is practically impossible, as no one will do this. 2 op replying comments shows that he is looking for points to prove himself right. Is a tactics commonly used by liers. 3, His detail description of himself show that he want people to believe that he became attracted to a gay by his look, I wonder how the man knew that he look good on nairaland before invitation . 4 the accuracy of spelling and sentences shows that op has repeatedly gone through the story before posting even when he said he was in the toilet typing so that the wife will not see him. 5 op said his family is young, how old are the girls that he is worried of confessing to them. 6 the story is too long for a depressed person who is guilty of sexual imorality 6 Likes |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by sugarfrank(m): 3:14pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
This is what a lot of girls/women pass through every day. It's a pity!! |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by Nobody: 3:15pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
Neverwill:The chat screenshot gave you away. You obviously didn't take it from the right phone. Or did the man take a screenshot and sent it to you? Explain |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by sugarfrank(m): 3:18pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
You just had a taste of what a lot of girls/women pass through every day. God bless all the girls/ women who are faced with this kind of situation but, still have the ability to say No amidst the whole discrimination they face in the society. It's not easy to be a woman in this country. It's a pity!! |
Re: Should I confess to My Wife And Kids because I feel dirty by Twelfthman: 3:19pm On Jun 11, 2021 |
Lol In another episode of we don catch am ![]() dominique: 1 Like |
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