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Re: Do You Know That, 90% Of Nigerian Ladies Date For Survival And Not For Love? by Ritzybeauty(f): 12:03pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
GeneralPula: Cut all these and get my point, if as a man you can't take care of a lady, then you don't expect her to remain loyal or shut down doors to better opportunities more like hindering her.. You are making claim of olden day norms and you fail to understand as humans we are advancing, back then you don't see women occupying top positions or want to be ambitious but rather stay subjected at home as a house wife more like a liability, now tell me are you willing to marry such wife if given the chance, let us not be hypocrites here and put the blame on women, when I meant comfort and happiness doesn't mean money but financial and mental freedom, remember a lady comes from a family that needs to be taken of and needs to be successful to tend to their needs, you don't expect the man to do all things and expect him not to get tired, or would you? I am a lady who supports working for her own success and won't let any guy take me for granted but doesn't mean love and respect wouldn't be there, you are talking about love and you think love is a one time thing?.. Love continue to grow and when you consider that you aren't happy especially when your guy is broke and remains that way for a long period, you would certainly fall out of love no doubt.. Everyone deserves comfort and have a choice to either being in this hell called poverty or move out. 1 Like |
Re: Do You Know That, 90% Of Nigerian Ladies Date For Survival And Not For Love? by DEMZEE(m): 3:07pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
Ritzybeauty: Women love opportunistically period! Men haven't changed over the centuries, women have Men don't give a Bleep about women's money, status and career period! Attraction between both genders to the opposite gender is asymmetrical not symmetrical. Men want peace and cooperation from their women while women want financial security and protection from their man |
Re: Do You Know That, 90% Of Nigerian Ladies Date For Survival And Not For Love? by mosdii(m): 3:24pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them 5 Likes |
Re: Do You Know That, 90% Of Nigerian Ladies Date For Survival And Not For Love? by pryme(m): 3:40pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
Ritzybeauty: Am not blaming anybody, and am not saying all men are in it for so-called love. It's just a fact that most women settle for men that can take care of them. It's like this as a matter of fact doesn't sit well with you. |
Re: Do You Know That, 90% Of Nigerian Ladies Date For Survival And Not For Love? by PUSSYHOE(m): 3:51pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
Ritzybeauty: But your gender force the mentality of us providing and sacrificing for you for millions of years. Just common hustle for yourself Na problem. |
Re: Do You Know That, 90% Of Nigerian Ladies Date For Survival And Not For Love? by Tunde835(m): 3:59pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
GeneralPula:So much logic and rationality in one post 1 Like |
Re: Do You Know That, 90% Of Nigerian Ladies Date For Survival And Not For Love? by Ritzybeauty(f): 4:34pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
PUSSYHOE: It your choice to or not, but don't come out crying or saying she never loved you when someone else takes that responsibility and does it better than you. |
Re: Do You Know That, 90% Of Nigerian Ladies Date For Survival And Not For Love? by Ritzybeauty(f): 4:35pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
pryme: Same goes to males.. No two ways about it |
Re: Do You Know That, 90% Of Nigerian Ladies Date For Survival And Not For Love? by PUSSYHOE(m): 4:53pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
Ritzybeauty: Make them carry her abeg na liability. |
Re: Do You Know That, 90% Of Nigerian Ladies Date For Survival And Not For Love? by GeneralPula: 8:49pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
Ritzybeauty: If as a man you can't take care of a lady, then you don't expect her to remain loyal or shut down doors to better opportunities more like hindering her. Money can't buy loyalty. So even if you have enough stacks, the one that won't be loyal won't be loyal. You are making claim of olden day norms and you fail to understand as humans we are advancing, back then you don't see women occupying top positions or want to be ambitious but rather stay subjected at home as a house wife more like a liability Ambitious women occupied top positions in the olden days. I don't think there's anything like full time house wife in the olden days, except maybe kings wife. Olden days women were business women. Most of them were always into one business or the other. Their business place can even be at home (E.g Hair dressing). Men were majorly into farming, while women would go to market to sell farm harvest. Men do, women do. Whatever they both make is what they both feed on. Women of the olden days were entrepreneurs, they started handy works like tailoring, hair dress, beads making etc. High level of contentment and low level of entitlement mentality. When I meant comfort and happiness doesn't mean money but financial and mental freedom What is finance, what is money? Love continue to grow and when you consider that you aren't happy especially when your guy is broke and remains that way for a long period, you would certainly fall out of love no doubt.. Everyone deserves comfort and have a choice to either being in this hell called poverty or move out Women of these days don't need love, just like the I said earlier and you've justified it here. Just a man that can fvck, carter and protect them. That's all In summary, you're justifying why women would have to date for money. You don't need to justify it. Men already understand everything and will be playing accordingly. Men should just remove love from anything women, and watch as peace reign in men's world always. 1 Like |
Re: Do You Know That, 90% Of Nigerian Ladies Date For Survival And Not For Love? by pryme(m): 8:55pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
Ritzybeauty: Really? So women now take care of men and provide for their needs? It's like you are trying shift from the point that the OP made. It's a well know fact that MOST women are only after men that can take care of them. Pls don't try to argue. |
Re: Do You Know That, 90% Of Nigerian Ladies Date For Survival And Not For Love? by Ritzybeauty(f): 9:35am On Jun 13, 2021 |
pryme: Sorry sir |
Re: Do You Know That, 90% Of Nigerian Ladies Date For Survival And Not For Love? by Ritzybeauty(f): 9:45am On Jun 13, 2021 |
GeneralPula: It's clear nothing can change all these twisted thoughts in your head but don't mistake it with facts, especially what you said about the olden days women and trying to evade the question I asked you, would you want to end up with the olden days type of women? Don't try to act smart because men too don't date for love because when you see a girl that's not your spec but willing to give you love, you would prefer a lady that suit your taste, so don't even try to blame ladies, there are still instances where a man would stiill look outside and he has a wife waiting for him at home, so if you say women don't deserve to be loved, same goes to men too |
Re: Do You Know That, 90% Of Nigerian Ladies Date For Survival And Not For Love? by BigBellyBurst(m): 9:54am On Jun 13, 2021 |
Ritzybeauty:Sadly, he's right. Take a look around you and see what's going on. |
Re: Do You Know That, 90% Of Nigerian Ladies Date For Survival And Not For Love? by Ritzybeauty(f): 10:01am On Jun 13, 2021 |
BigBellyBurst: What we see around is the consequences of our actions both male and female, so no one should have that right to put it only on females.. Some females even act this way based on what they have gone through in the hands of men. |
Re: Do You Know That, 90% Of Nigerian Ladies Date For Survival And Not For Love? by BigBellyBurst(m): 10:08am On Jun 13, 2021 |
Ritzybeauty: Playing the feminine reverse psychology game. First, ladies have this attitude of ignoring good guys and running after the bad guys. You even see them adoring them on social media, and when something happens y'all blame all men, forgetting the ones u ignore everyday. Secondly, every human being is responsible for his or her actions and it's consequences. At a certain age, one is meant to know what's good for him or her. So it's childish and foolish to blame all ur misfortunes on someone or a particular gender. Besides, no one put a gun to thier head to date that guy that turned them into something the dictionary has no word to describe. |
Re: Do You Know That, 90% Of Nigerian Ladies Date For Survival And Not For Love? by Ritzybeauty(f): 10:26am On Jun 13, 2021 |
BigBellyBurst: You just keep blaming females but fail to see fault in yourselves.. You guys are renowned for your big ego so you all can continue with all these crazy thoughts but nothing would change except it starts with you as a person.. I rest my case. bye |
Re: Do You Know That, 90% Of Nigerian Ladies Date For Survival And Not For Love? by BigBellyBurst(m): 10:36am On Jun 13, 2021 |
Ritzybeauty:Who as been casting the stone since? Well, arguing here won't change anything the op said, (which is damn true) and won't stop girls from getting hurt by play boys due to thier shallow way of reasoning. Ciao. |
Re: Do You Know That, 90% Of Nigerian Ladies Date For Survival And Not For Love? by richeeyo(m): 3:20pm On Jun 13, 2021 |
fati2001:M T barrels are coming for me oo Meno pulse chicks |
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