jaycerichh:
makes so much sense, even the music too this days are so blue pilled

ubunja:
taking time out to wish myself a lovely extra sweet happy birthday on this day, 12 june.

same old headstrong gemini. the Winter Babies of Africa.

what a day!!! Trump and Kim also making history alongside me by bringing America and North korea for the first time to talk peace.

shout out to all the geminis:

kanye west, donald trump,angelina jolie, zoe saldana, colin farell, naomi campbell, johnny depp, nicole kidman, natalie portman, etc
we rock!!!

wwwtortoise:



Best wishes to you brotherman !

As a way to spice up your day I designed an online poll to celebrate you overtly and covertly (believe me you made secret admirers who for reasons best known to them may not want to make it open).

It is an anonymous live poll.

Gentlemen and ladies,
Kindly click on below link

https://menti.com

. . . and use the code 7710 7726

I shall publish the results by the end of today.

It’s not too much to ask for someone who shared uncommon knowledge to all w/o monetizing it.

Ene,you want me to be honest with you ?
I will advice you to leave these thread.
You can't stand your innate disposition in the mirror.
It's not hate,but the harsh reality don't give a rat arse about our emotions.
But then ,I know you will keep coming back for more,which I appreciate if you're going to do something for me with these knowledge.
Spread it to your love ones !
Your brother,your son [ when you got one ] and those you genuinely care for.
They will come to ever appreciate you for having the courage to point them to the harsh reality of men --women dynamic of relationship .
No,not by one on one conversation,I will direct you on how to go about that.
First and foremost ,I have a collections of books I will want you to send to them for now,they should start from there.
You actually know how to introduce them to those books without actually coming across as strange.
Here are the books ;

--The Rational male by Rollo Tomassi

-- The Rational male [ preventive medicine] by Rollo Tomassi
-- The rational male [ positive masculinity ]
By Rollo Tomassi

-- The manipulated man by Esther Vilar

They should study them in that order.
You can download them for free at www.pdfdrive.com .
I know you may definitely not grant me my request,but that won't dissuade me from making one.


So,take care and have a wonderful day,Ene.

Born2winnx:

I won't advise you to go that way Gee.... that's the dark side ...in here is the real deal.

ubunja:
12 June, today, is my birthday. Red Pillers Be kind and say something nice on my birthday thread: https://www.nairaland.com/4556249/12-june-happy-birthday-ubunja

Dabronze:
If you hav compliment her the other tym she wouldn"t be pregnant by now that but u refused tha why i hold u responsible for it.

Jessepaid:

ikillbrokegirls:
Bro YOU Can't save everyone that boy don't want to move on he thinks he can't see someone better than her that why he keep saying that bin he wrote up there.

Born2winnx:

Yeah mahn..am a celebrity over there man.

RikudoSennin:
Hi guys, let me share a bit of what went down last weekend with you people. So my friends and I planned an all day BBQ last Saturday and with the champions league final also going down that day, we decided to make it an all nighter.

Booked the hotel because I am 45 minutes away from the venue and I knew I was gonna drink even though I have been shying away from alcohol due to work-outs. 10am on Saturday, all set and ready to go with my wife. Then, she comes over to me and hands over my ring. Now, my skin for some reason itches when I have jewelry on. I don't wear jewelry no matter how expensive it is. My watches are all leather.

So, she hands me the ring and says I "must" wear it and I haven't worn this ring in a year or so due to this itching and more over, I have a very visible tan on my fourth finger o. I told her I am not gonna wear it and I will like to be on my way.

She does the unthinkable, she starts throwing mugs and dishes and throwing tantrums, banged my carry on bag so hard it tore Told her I aint wearing any ring because she knows what happens when I do and why is she insisting today when I am about to go party with my friends?

Well, I had to jaale at home and went to go have fun with my pals, I got home next day and she apologized for her behavior . Told her, when next something like that happens, I am gonna book an airbnb and go to a far away state for 2 weeks.

Chiagozieking:
The key to getting a woman's heart locked up is by making her feel like she is the only one in your life - you ain't no player(even though you are), I don't know about the other part where you make her see you have options so she can be chasing you,but ofcourse you have to make her know you can replace her but not verbally, but by main looking at you and what you do she herself will understand that girls will be tripping for you, and if she doesn't brush up , you can slip through her fingers, that's my humble opinion

ubunja:
that's the Beta method and it works on women when they wanna settle down. It doesn't make the pussy wet but flatters the heart and gives comfort that the woman will be taken care of and won't be abandoned.

A woman in her prime (17-25) with everything going for her and a truckload of men chasing her won't respond to that for the simple reason that ALL the men approaching her are making her feel like she's the only one in their life. So that approach can't work with her.


Women respond to difference. If 100 men flatter her and 1man is harsh, that one harsh man will get her attention. If 100 men are harsh and 1 man sweet, that one sweet man will get her attention. That's just how Women are set up. To chose the man who is unique. That's why with Social media and epic simping happening, women are responding to rougher and rougher men. If you have noticed. Because these are unique.

emmaodet:


Don't sweat on it bro. A lot of guys are passing through that phase now.
I remember when i was still that quiet, humble good guy. Telling my gf sweet words, how i want her to be the mother of my kids, how i regularly sing for her, write poems and not to forget the mind blowing sex and stupid words coming out from both of us like - yes, baby you are the best, ohhh my Goddddd, i love you baby, you are the best, i promise never to leave you, you are badddddd, sometimes whispering and speaking in tongues or gibberish etc all na sankamajeeeeeee
When she left, she left COLDHEARTEDLY, she didn't even think about the love we shared, the promises we made, the assurance she regularly gave me about not leaving me or sharing me with no other person. She just poured everything out and acted as if nothing ever happens between us.
Within a month, i saw her pictures on whatsapp status and fb with the new guy hugging and expressing sweet love to each other as if nothing ever happened between us.
SO cold-hearted while i was still crying, wailing, thinking how my love just left so soon, thinking what i did wrong and how to rectify the issue so that we can go back to our sweet love life.
Took stupid foolish risk by traveling from calabar to Lagos on a night bus just to go see her in school and confirm what is happening, why the cold shoulder, why the sudden change. A lot could have happened - i could probably have died from car accident at night, armed robbers, kidnappers etc whie my girl was just enjoying her life at the other side, expressing sweet fake love to her new simp/lover.
When i saw everything, i shed tears like a bay. I cried but ever since made a vow never to put a woman above my goals and ambitions.
I became a changed man, a new man was born that day. Soomeone i never knew existed in me. A cold-hearted emotionaless man and to be honest, i LOVE the new man.

ubunja:
dude this is not the space for people who support buying sex. We all hear your explanation but at this point you're becoming that guy demanding for bread in a butchery. Here we're not about buying sex. You can justify yourself but this is not the place. is it so hard to understand or you're now just embarrassed to shut it?

dajobi:
Contrary the the advise given to me by a guy on this thread @Caveadullam or something that I should give the girl more money or something like that, well i have not follow that advise. This morning this stupid girl did something very stupid and I had to block her. I told her to send me her picture and she sent me picture of her and a guy with the guy's hand on her breast (inside the guy's room because the place looks like a room). And when I told her what she's doing is bad, and that she should start treating me well, she started raining insults. I just observe she only needs me for resources and she see me as a friend she can talk to when she's down emotionally.

LOL.....

She send me a photo of her kissing her new
Boyfriend, to make me feel jealous.
I forward it to her dad.

I HATE NONSENSE

nwaezeemmanuel:
Media Detox To Help With Masculinity and Redpill

I want to share what I've been doing for some time. When you take the redpill, you realise the world is filled with a lot more lies and controlling mechanisms tailored to the naive man.

One thing I have done to unplug myself effectively is a media detox - purposefully choosing the content I consume. They fall within the following:

1. Movies/TV Shows

I started watching masculinity-themed movies and series. Sometimes movies say a lot more than words. If you're here and you watch too much RomCom, Disney, Happily Ever After or Stranger Finds Love movies, you'd slowly lose frame - there's a reason girls love those things a lot.

Instead, watch shows that portray men in their most traditional state. Fight Club, Shawshank Redemption, Mad Men, The Godfather are some good recommendations.


2. Social Media

This is in my opinion the most influential because it works very fast. A lady posts a picture, you can sight her boobs and start rationalising simping or worse you assume she's a quality lady - we've all been there but you don't have to remain there.

Uninstall Instagram, Snapchat and TikTok, if you know deep down you only use them to pleasure yourself/self-service to thirst traps - this is just as good as a woman holding you to her vagina except it's on your phone.


3. Books

Everyone of us here should have a physical or digital library of books in the manosphere, in addition to other books.

These books are unique because they'd tell you truths the people that claim to love you will never tell you. Any book that talks about harsh/observable reality like David Goggins Can't Hurt Me or Robert Greene's 48 Laws of Power works.

Remember to read with understanding and context before you start applying.


4. Music

If you check the verses of a lot of trendy songs these days, you'd find a line or more that goes against men becoming men.

A lot are too weak, extremely emotional and encourage victim mentality. Try using music as inspiration, you can even download trap beats and continue with your day.


That's a wrap. I'd share more as I progress. If we can all master these four pillars, we'd see better improvements in our mindset and overall character.