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Re: 9 Surprising Benefits Of Being Single That No One Has Told You Before by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 2:34pm On Jun 16, 2021

Mbbscentric:
Sanity of the mind!

For me, this is the greatest advantage of singlehood. No one to drive you nuts.

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Re: 9 Surprising Benefits Of Being Single That No One Has Told You Before by Kirkman: 2:36pm On Jun 16, 2021

FLYFIRE:
@OP, this is my humble contribution to your `enjoyment of the single` topic.

1. Go & marry if you have the means & of age. I want to assume that you are up to 28 years of age & above & with whatever God has blessed you with as daily or monthly income. Do not fall into the mistake many have fallen into thinking that they are having the best life ever because they do not have any responsibility at the moment & squander whatever they make `enjoying themselves`. If you are not married now, use that `enjoyment money` to build or buy a house where you stay or intend to stay. When you eventually decide to get married it will come very helpful. Remember that you will have at least two beautiful children & will stay or rent, if you do not build your own, in a house of at least two bedrooms. When your two kids eventually starts school, I know that you will not pay anything less than N800K to N1.5M per school year for both (Nursery & primary level oo). If you do not build a house now, add that fees to the rent of about N1.5M to N2M for the two or three bedroom house you will stay.

2. Secondly, if those very expensive phones are not for SERIOUS SERIOUS business, buy instead a `small cheap` phone for calls & social media things because MANY buy these BIG phones only for social status & are only used for calls & social media.

3. Do not forget that even if you are not married now, you will some day. Do not squander your money `enjoying the beautiful freedom of the single`.

4. Hehe...read it again until it makes sense to you. EXPERIENCE COME BY PERSONAL INVOLVMENT OR BY LEARNING FROM OTHER PEOPLE. Luckily God is there to teach us wisdom

You are a very wise man. May God continue to shower you with abundant wisdom

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Re: 9 Surprising Benefits Of Being Single That No One Has Told You Before by Tolani045(m): 2:36pm On Jun 16, 2021

Haha which one is save sperm? When I can bang as much as I l want cheesy

Legendrysailor:
You can save sperm

Re: 9 Surprising Benefits Of Being Single That No One Has Told You Before by Tofax: 2:36pm On Jun 16, 2021

MajorOvakporaye:
I cooked with 20 pieces of meat yesterday. I ate 3 pieces last night. If I get home, I still have 17 pieces intact. No hungry idiots to leech on me. Na single things!

Kai Poverty is a disease.

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Re: 9 Surprising Benefits Of Being Single That No One Has Told You Before by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 2:39pm On Jun 16, 2021

The same. People celebrating singlehood are the same people that will start asking other people why they are single.

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Re: 9 Surprising Benefits Of Being Single That No One Has Told You Before by Stupidquestions: 2:40pm On Jun 16, 2021

You can decide not to chat any gal for a month

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Re: 9 Surprising Benefits Of Being Single That No One Has Told You Before by kiddkash(m): 2:41pm On Jun 16, 2021

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Lot of good things

You can smoke your weed in peace...drink your bottles
You can bang and bang enough pussy ...there is no limit to the number of pussy you will be banging

You can bang Jennifer today, tomorrow sandra...next tomorrow Ngonzi.....Nobody is going to delay your banging because they are on their menstrual period.
Anybody comes up with that shit ....you move on to the one not on her period

Nobody will be manipulating you to give them transport fare, subscriptions money....

oil dey you head. abeg hold this one

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Re: 9 Surprising Benefits Of Being Single That No One Has Told You Before by Skepticus: 2:43pm On Jun 16, 2021

GIANTPLUSHUB:
So many benefits of being single but don't get carried away with the benefits and stay beyond the single Life after allowing good and great girls slip off your fingers due to your carelessness. Remember, you can't stay single for Life.

There are still good girls out there. Just have the belief you Will meet One and don't mistake the quality of a good girl to a bad girl when you meet the good girl so that you don't miss or loss the good girl.

There are "good" girls out there (whatever good means). Only few guys will be extremely lucky to have them. It's tears for the rest of men who will be married to these useless leftovers.

Being single has its own downsides but most men who don't get married are not missing a thing, not getting married, except tons of problems.

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Re: 9 Surprising Benefits Of Being Single That No One Has Told You Before by Jayrow08: 2:44pm On Jun 16, 2021

mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

Wetin she do u? Walahi some girls go enter one chance for my hand too.

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Re: 9 Surprising Benefits Of Being Single That No One Has Told You Before by Benitoh: 2:45pm On Jun 16, 2021

My brother to be married no beans

Being single makes you free from
Stress
Frustrations
Restlessness
Cash dryness
Anger
Lack of freedom
Endless problems
Always trying to pacify people
Pretending
Fake joy
But never the less we can't run away from marriage. It's unavoidable obligations.

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Re: 9 Surprising Benefits Of Being Single That No One Has Told You Before by chatinent: 2:46pm On Jun 16, 2021

One benefit: stinginess go get good aroma.

Re: 9 Surprising Benefits Of Being Single That No One Has Told You Before by brownemmanuel43(m): 2:47pm On Jun 16, 2021

funkeyemi:
Join our campaign against DRUG ABUSE

How can I get a copy, then does it come in different colors?
Back to he topic, menhhhhh his marriage of all thing I don't see myself in it.
Life as a single g is so damn sweet abeg, nobody to worry me, im only after my family and people around me

Re: 9 Surprising Benefits Of Being Single That No One Has Told You Before by aysuprano(m): 2:49pm On Jun 16, 2021

Let me tell u my story

Around last year my girl broke up with me

We had a very serious relationship but she say she dey go

While dating I had no reasonable job and no apartment for my self

We meet at friends place to knack

After she left , I had to sit down and restructure my life

Now I have a manageable job

I have a standard apartment with all necessary gadgets

I have a running business and I'm living a very good life

Makes me really think this relationship thing can change ur thinking and the direction ur life goes

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Re: 9 Surprising Benefits Of Being Single That No One Has Told You Before by timberprides: 2:50pm On Jun 16, 2021

spiceadole:
You can have piece of mind.
You can have control over not contracting STDs.
You don't have in-laws that stress you.

not piece,is peace

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Re: 9 Surprising Benefits Of Being Single That No One Has Told You Before by SweetDipBenny(m): 2:50pm On Jun 16, 2021

marshalldgreat:
You can save money

You can save AKAMU for future use

Who wan save akamu grin

d longer u keep it in u d crazier u get

Re: 9 Surprising Benefits Of Being Single That No One Has Told You Before by Johntobez: 2:51pm On Jun 16, 2021

this one shock me grin

tydi:
Single life is bae.

You can be a single dot and still smash the circle.

Re: 9 Surprising Benefits Of Being Single That No One Has Told You Before by marshalldgreat(m): 2:53pm On Jun 16, 2021

SweetDipBenny:
Who wan save akamu d longer u keep it in u d crazier u get

Oga saving the kunu is even better so that when i start playing in the official league I'll not shoot and miss cheesy

Re: 9 Surprising Benefits Of Being Single That No One Has Told You Before by marshalldgreat(m): 2:54pm On Jun 16, 2021

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Re: 9 Surprising Benefits Of Being Single That No One Has Told You Before by Skepticus: 2:55pm On Jun 16, 2021

aysuprano:
Let me tell u my story

Around last year my girl broke up with me

We had a very serious relationship but she say she dey go

While dating I had no reasonable job and no apartment for my self

We meet at friends place to knack

After she left , I had to sit down and restructure my life

Now I have a manageable job

I have a standard apartment with all necessary gadgets

I have a running business and I'm living a very good life

Makes me really think this relationship thing can change ur thinking and the direction ur life goes

She has no blame here. As a matter of fact, she did you a great favour by leaving you, which in the end, made you step up and not be a broke "nackson".

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Re: 9 Surprising Benefits Of Being Single That No One Has Told You Before by marshalldgreat(m): 2:55pm On Jun 16, 2021

obembet:

Stingy guy

Oh i am not stingy... I can share with you if you want some very fresh and hot cheesy

Re: 9 Surprising Benefits Of Being Single That No One Has Told You Before by marshalldgreat(m): 2:56pm On Jun 16, 2021

Jahwinaboy:
Conji go kill u ooo

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Re: 9 Surprising Benefits Of Being Single That No One Has Told You Before by marshalldgreat(m): 2:57pm On Jun 16, 2021

Babzrockman:

If I had not married, by now I would have done more.

But each time I looked at my 2 kids, i know I have invested and still investing.

May God bless our hustles.. amen

Re: 9 Surprising Benefits Of Being Single That No One Has Told You Before by Dearlord(m): 2:58pm On Jun 16, 2021

MajorOvakporaye:
I cooked with 20 pieces of meat yesterday. I ate 3 pieces last night. If I get home, I still have 17 pieces intact. No hungry idiots to leech on me. Na single things!

I will report you to EFCC, at this Buhari's erra?

Re: 9 Surprising Benefits Of Being Single That No One Has Told You Before by HajiaNotu: 2:58pm On Jun 16, 2021

You can save your womb from series of abortion lipsrsealed

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Re: 9 Surprising Benefits Of Being Single That No One Has Told You Before by puregrace(m): 2:58pm On Jun 16, 2021

And you can die for days and people might not know. God forbids

Re: 9 Surprising Benefits Of Being Single That No One Has Told You Before by Lemmy123(m): 3:00pm On Jun 16, 2021

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Re: 9 Surprising Benefits Of Being Single That No One Has Told You Before by JBArokonkwo1(m): 3:00pm On Jun 16, 2021

mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

Very true....

Someone just informed me that your sister is an ashawo at Oshodi,she took over from your mom who now does prostitution at a slow pace now cos of ageing......

U are very correct, Nigerian ladies are useless....especially your sister and mom.

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Re: 9 Surprising Benefits Of Being Single That No One Has Told You Before by majorbravo: 3:02pm On Jun 16, 2021

OP I get your points but I think this is relative to the age, status and maturity of the individual in question. I used to think like this but time and the experiences of others have thought me otherwise.

Now I see several people here saying they like being single so they can avoid several responsibilities. So who takes care of your own responsibilities? You or someone else? If you are young, remember your guardians/parents would not live forever. If you are independent, remember you could die and leave everything you have worked for behind with nothing left to show you were even born. If you like build a 12 bedroom mansion and buy several rolls royce. Without a spouse or kids, your siblings would be the ones to inherit your property when you die and leave them to their own spouses and their children to inherit what you worked for.

When you get old who would take care of you? Your siblings would be old too and need taking care of. What's more? their spouse and children would likely be there for them, supporting them financially, emotionally and physically. You would have nobody to fend for you then, you would be full of regret.

There's no joy in the carefree nature of single life that equates to the joy of companionship, knowing you have people who love only you including those you brought to the world and who would carry your name beyond the grave.

Be wise.

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Re: 9 Surprising Benefits Of Being Single That No One Has Told You Before by Mecka: 3:04pm On Jun 16, 2021

Raychee:
Ok

what do you think? are you for or against

Re: 9 Surprising Benefits Of Being Single That No One Has Told You Before by fapcrook(m): 3:06pm On Jun 16, 2021

mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

your siblings, sister's, cousins, nieces, your mum when she was young. Stop saying people are useless, not good at all

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Re: 9 Surprising Benefits Of Being Single That No One Has Told You Before by Lordswat(m): 3:07pm On Jun 16, 2021

I sense Naira Marley there

MejiLoyon:

Your left hand will be muscular...or your right. One hand go muscular pass the other. If you know you know

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Re: 9 Surprising Benefits Of Being Single That No One Has Told You Before by jeff1607(m): 3:14pm On Jun 16, 2021

mmadu5:
You can travel on a whim. ...
You can flirt without fear. ...
You can work on yourself. ...
You can save tons of time. ...
You can sleep in peace and quiet. ...
You can become more self-reliant. ...
You can stay in touch with friends. ...
You can avoid settling for a bad match.

ADD YOURS

You can do all of these with a partner still, even make more money than when single.

It all depends on who you meet

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