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Re: How I Ruined My Life By Borrowing From Loan Sharks by baby124: 1:01am On Jun 14, 2021 |
Some of you go everywhere borrowing. How about you save and delay paying that expense till you have the money? Live according to or lower than your means! 3 Likes |
Re: How I Ruined My Life By Borrowing From Loan Sharks by legacystore: 7:10am On Jun 14, 2021 |
U may be owing but not 700k With your default history u can't get such loans. Except u paid consistently for several years before the default started 1 Like |
Re: How I Ruined My Life By Borrowing From Loan Sharks by Nozino: 11:56am On Jun 14, 2021 |
legacystore: Some of you encourage this scammers. Isn’t it obvious the guy is a scammer? What’s with all this many stories? 1 Like |
Re: How I Ruined My Life By Borrowing From Loan Sharks by Ivebeenafool: 12:49pm On Jun 14, 2021 |
Nozino:You've been around here shouting scam, I only wanted to share my story so that people will learn from me even though I owe you no explanation whatsoever, everything I stated on my original post is a fact. Secondly, I did not ask anyone for assistance in any form and I don't wish to, someone mailed me offering assistant and I have refused to reply because that is not the purpose of this thread, another person here offered me 200k loan which I'm not even going to reply the person because I don't intend to touch anything loan in my life again. So what is scam? Abi you don't know the definition of scam. If I needed assistance of any form I would have stated it in my original post and I'm still not asking for anyone's assistance on nairaland at least. I have enough on my head already to come and add scam and fraud to it. Someone said he doesn't need nor want your assistance, yet you still call him a scammer. 7 Likes |
Re: How I Ruined My Life By Borrowing From Loan Sharks by Ivebeenafool: 12:58pm On Jun 14, 2021 |
I want to thank everyone who in one way or the other advised me, the good advice I have taken. I reached out to my childhood friend and told him everything and he has offered to help out. I didn't take the valium. To everyone who asked how I got to that level, I started borrowing small amounts, because I was paying when due, the amount kept increasing and because most of them are of one week duration and salary comes at the end of the month, so I kept collecting to cover the previous ones and because I didn't want them to send damaging texts, I continued to pay and collect, that was how it all accumulated. At a point the salary became too small to offset the loans. Please I beg everyone here, no matter how much you need, don't borrow at all, ask your friends for assistance instead. God bless everyone that prayed for me. Finally someone is busy saying scam here, I am not a scammer, some people reached out to me on this forum and I turned them down because I don't want more drama, I have enough trouble already to last me a lifetime, I don't want to add more to it. God bless you all 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How I Ruined My Life By Borrowing From Loan Sharks by signature2012(m): 1:21pm On Jun 14, 2021 |
Ivebeenafool: Stop involving yourself in Betja or any other betting stuff. You are single earning 100k a month.Live within your earning.Dont be an impulse spender or every weekend "dorimeee". Unfriend those friends that add no value to your life. As an average salary earner,get a small side hustle to boost your income. Dont date a lady that will totally depend on your finances.Make sure she's working or doing biz. Dont be a baff up dude with no investment. Rent an affordable accommodation.Dont be like my friend that went to rent house in Lekki while he's mate are building houses in Mainland.He had to buy a canoe after. 3 Likes |
Re: How I Ruined My Life By Borrowing From Loan Sharks by Nozino: 1:23pm On Jun 14, 2021 |
Ivebeenafool: Irrespective of what you say, your story just doesn’t add up. For the record, you can’t emotionally blackmail me. If you initially borrowed 5k and repaid, then kept borrowing from the same app, it will take months to get a bigger loan amount. How did yours become 700k? Even if you were taking from Peter to pay Paul, you still won’t get such amount. I still maintain my stance, this story is made up and you’re a scammer. 3 Likes |
Re: How I Ruined My Life By Borrowing From Loan Sharks by Nobody: 1:30pm On Jun 14, 2021 |
This is not the end bro....life is precious than giving up, as little as I am, I've experienced a lot that can last a lifetime but I never give up, I kept moving and hoping for better days ahead. Learn from your past mistakes, try talking to a trusted counselor, and above all...live within your means, don't live to please everyone... you're even still single...as a nursing mum with a 7year old boy, we're living in an apartment not up to 50k, my colleagues at work will mock, people will talk and guess what? I don't give a damn, since I'm not lazy ,I believe my tomorrow shall be greater than today. Nothing is new under the Earth....aye dun |
Re: How I Ruined My Life By Borrowing From Loan Sharks by Nobody: 1:38pm On Jun 14, 2021 |
Ivebeenafool: Thank God for your life, as you ain't gonna kill yourself anymore....we all vote for this change, nobody is leaving. We shall all live to see the end IJN. Furthermore, you talked about begging, being better than borrowing, I'm saying this to you that none is better, the best is to live within ones means.... people may desert you for living a low life today, but your consistency will make them respect you later when you make it in life.... begging brings shame and disgrace, it will make you loose your self esteem too. |
Re: How I Ruined My Life By Borrowing From Loan Sharks by StreetPreacher: 1:42pm On Jun 14, 2021 |
Ivebeenafool: Waking up in eternity in hell looks like a great thing to you. You know how long that'd last? Do you prefer that to fixing up things gradually here instead? |
Re: How I Ruined My Life By Borrowing From Loan Sharks by Dozis: 1:53pm On Jun 14, 2021 |
Nozino: I have been following this thread because I've been in this kind of situation before and I thank God for delivering me. When you borrow to pay a particular loan, you continue to borrow and because, the interests are usually high, at a point it becomes difficult to even pay with the money you are borrowing, in my own case what saved me was my family, they contributed money for me to pay off and become clear Few questions for you. Have you taken a loan from a loan app or loan shark before? How does the op intend to scam you when he has repeatedly told you that he doesn't want anyone's help? Bro, people are passing through a lot in the hands of these borrowers, the only remedy is not to get involved in the first place. 14 Likes |
Re: How I Ruined My Life By Borrowing From Loan Sharks by Nozino: 2:02pm On Jun 14, 2021 |
Dozis: Honestly, I haven’t had any reason to borrow money from loan apps. I hardly ever borrow from friends. When I’m down financially, I will sooner drink garri or stay hungry than beg or borrow. The OP can scam people who are very emotional. Scams such as this are common on nairaland. Finally, I understand how loan apps work. There’s no way in hell he would have gotten that amount plus interest from a loan app. I’d advise you read his initial post. It just doesn’t add up. For cases like this with what scammers have turned nairaland into, the rule of thumb, is to provide proof or REST. 2 Likes |
Re: How I Ruined My Life By Borrowing From Loan Sharks by Stephenmoka4(m): 3:34pm On Jun 14, 2021 |
Don't end your life [s] sell your body part or do suicide bombing at aso rock [/s]. Loan sharks are crazy, default if you can't. If only you edited your contact before using the app or telling everyone on your contact you lost your phone or the message is scam stuff. |
Re: How I Ruined My Life By Borrowing From Loan Sharks by Topleague(m): 4:42pm On Jun 14, 2021 |
thank God that you have see the reason to live again, please not everyone is a scammer. I can relate to OP because i was in that situation 7 years ago i thought the next thing is to end my life after business gone wrong but i thank God that show up at my hour of need, though i have not finish paying the money i borrow but i am doing better now and God has been so good. Please suicide is never an option, if i had killed myself i wouldn't have know what God has in stock for me. Those that died may God forgive their soul, it is never easy when so many things are going against you. |
Re: How I Ruined My Life By Borrowing From Loan Sharks by Dozis: 6:18pm On Jun 14, 2021 |
Nozino:I get your point that scammers are on the prowl on nairaland. I do not hold brief for the op but there was a time I was owing fairmoney 150k, carbon 195k and palmcredit 35k at the same time, what happened was that I started small and was paying promptly as at when due and they kept increasing the loan until it started choking me, so imagine if this is the case with the op and from his screenshot I saw up to ten loan apps there, so don't just assume it's a scam because you have never been in this kind of situation before and you may never know. What the op posted may or may not be a scam but having been in this kind of mess before I tend to believe him. It happens bro and he's not begging for help from nairalanders. I will post my own story here one day. 6 Likes |
Re: How I Ruined My Life By Borrowing From Loan Sharks by mysticgal(f): 6:41pm On Jun 14, 2021 |
iamadonis2: I thought I was the only person seeing that |
Re: How I Ruined My Life By Borrowing From Loan Sharks by Nozino: 7:27pm On Jun 14, 2021 |
Dozis: Instead of posting screenshots of those apps, he should have posted proof of debts. He doesn’t have to ask for help. He is stylishly begging and emotional people will fall for it. 1 Like |
Re: How I Ruined My Life By Borrowing From Loan Sharks by Nobody: 1:07pm On Jun 15, 2021 |
Ivebeenafool:You be mumu. Is it because of ordinary loan apps that you want to kill yourself? See me I dey owe close to 20 apps and I have no intention of paying those sharks. Over my dead body. Let's go to court, I'm ready to splash the cash . Only carbon, branch and a few others are legit. Pls pay them coz they deserve it , good interest plus good tenor which a reasonable person should at least meet up. But you see those sharks like sokoloan etc that offer ridiculous interest to be paid in 7 days, they don't deserve mercy. They themselves know you can never meet up . They don't even have licence.. CBN can never such. See the worse they can do is message ur contacts so next time you're borrowing, use fake contacts. I encourage everybody to borrow from those useless Chinese sharks and send them packing to their country. Weytin dem no fit try for their country they'll come here and be exploiting the citizens. 6 Likes |
Re: How I Ruined My Life By Borrowing From Loan Sharks by Nobody: 1:10pm On Jun 15, 2021 |
Ishilove:Madam shut up. What do you know about life that you're talking. 2 Likes |
Re: How I Ruined My Life By Borrowing From Loan Sharks by Ishilove: 1:13pm On Jun 15, 2021 |
MrOlokonla:Oga you too shut up. What do you know about me that makes you ask such a silly question? |
Re: How I Ruined My Life By Borrowing From Loan Sharks by Nobody: 1:14pm On Jun 15, 2021 |
Ishilove:Hope you know say na chairman you dey follow talk sha? |
Re: How I Ruined My Life By Borrowing From Loan Sharks by Nobody: 7:17pm On Jun 15, 2021 |
Mikester:But on the real that's a dumbass name for a loan company. |
Re: How I Ruined My Life By Borrowing From Loan Sharks by sweerychick(f): 6:14pm On Jun 16, 2021 |
The op is not a liar, I have a friend who found himself in such a mess, truth is that he was borrowing from another app to pay, and through that his loan kept increasing with multiple loan apps I can count over 10 loan apps and op might be owing at least a minimum of about 50k in each app. Multiply it with the accumulated interest and that's his debt. The truth is I advise people do not borrow at all the bible even said it the borrower is sorrowful and a servant to the lender. Those people are notorious with their text messages and the can tarnish your image forever. This is why you should make reasonable friends that can help you in times of distress at least have a circle of friends that can raise even if it's 10k for you, if you have 3 or 4 friends at least that can raise such amount of money for you why then do you need to borrow. Another thing with the op is the type of lifestyle you are living, probably you live a fake life in other to impress people and at the end it backfires at you, instead of asking for help you choose to borrow that's why you where borrowing to pay which is disastrous. I will advise the OP sit down and weigh yourself and problem, is the loan worth taking your life? Even if you die what exactly did you die for Nothing I guess? Is 700k worth taking your life?? If you answer is no then follow these steps, go to church or reach out to a religious organization, tell them your problems don't hide at all be open and real. God hears the Humble and real, you will find out that people will rally round for you and help you. Then once you get the money pay them off completely don't waste time or start paying them in bits even if it is the original amount of loan you collected pay so that you reduce your debts and Finally never ever I repeat never ever borrow money from loan apps especially these untrusted ones call Soko or 9ja cash or Lcredit etc. They can ruin your life at least enough said... 5 Likes |
Re: How I Ruined My Life By Borrowing From Loan Sharks by H2ho(m): 11:05am On Jun 17, 2021 |
Ivebeenafool:So you ain’t dying no more Babies everywhere |
Re: How I Ruined My Life By Borrowing From Loan Sharks by Ilekokonit: 1:49am On Jun 18, 2021 |
Ivebeenafool: What if the tablets do not kill you but make you brain damaged and turns you into a vegetable that needs 24/7 health care to do the basic daily activities like bathing and using the loo ?? Then you will be a bigger burden financially, emotionally and physically on your Mum. Think deeply about this 'cos not every one who attempts suicide succeeds and some of them do not die but become seriously brain damaged . Ponder on this. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How I Ruined My Life By Borrowing From Loan Sharks by mrblessed(m): 6:00am On Jun 18, 2021 |
At the point of taking money from them, you never realised they are "loan sharks." This is when the terms and conditions of the loan are clealy stated, and one could back out if not comfortable with these terms and conditions. It's only at the period of repayment of the loans that they suddenly becomes "loan sharks." |
Re: How I Ruined My Life By Borrowing From Loan Sharks by mekuso89(m): 2:03pm On Jun 18, 2021 |
Ishilove:Why not sue these people? |
Re: How I Ruined My Life By Borrowing From Loan Sharks by Ameboperoo(m): 2:11pm On Jun 18, 2021 |
sisisioge:I don't doubt him a bit. I was once in his situation when I got my job newly. I had to borrow from one fintech to pay another. In so doing, you will be given a little higher. I had all the loan apps on Google play even the scam ones that will ask you to pay certain amount with your atm card and latter refuse you the loan. The only thing that God used to bring me out is one contribution I have been doing and the first 28days I was paid. The money I should have used for a tangible thing went into loan repayment. But thank God, I'm free. I deleted all the apps ASAP. Even though, they still call me. I made sure I blocked all their numbers as soon as I politely tell them I don't need loan. |
Re: How I Ruined My Life By Borrowing From Loan Sharks by NoToPile: 2:27pm On Jun 18, 2021 |
Wonder why some are thinking is a scam after all OP has not begged for money. A friend took some loans not from the apps but still a professional loan company for her Hubby's surgery,last last the man died how the amount quadrupled she still doesn't understand till today. There is something about those loans I think they are designed to make you unable to pay back, crazy interest rate.Those loans are a trap if you ask me best is not to borrow. 1 Like |
Re: How I Ruined My Life By Borrowing From Loan Sharks by Mostcharming(m): 9:08pm On Jun 18, 2021 |
Branch is so legit.. I was a month behind repayment, they called me and we both agreed on the easiest paying terms which was convenient for me.. after a month of not paying Oo. They’re good |
Re: How I Ruined My Life By Borrowing From Loan Sharks by ProudlyNGN: 5:32pm On Jul 04, 2021 |
Bro I wish we have many people like you. this people are nothing but scammers, they are enslaving Nigerians and killing them emotionally, this is modern colonialization that this Chinese fuuls are doing to us. imagine they give 7k and expect you to pay 10k plus in a week, that's 7 days. I just wish guys to troop in and get many loans from then and not to pay pack. they can do nothing and even CBN won't allow such interest. I know many people that are showing their anger now by making dake contact and borrowing as much as they can with no intention of paying back. that's what they deserve and I highly recommend such. something that they cannever do it to their people they are here killing us and making us to go depressed and make suicide. Get more from them and don't pay back. Nothing will happen. 1 Like |
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