Juicypamela:
Hi everyone I just want to wish my mum a happy Father's day for taking the bravest responsibility of taking care of us single handedly an enforcing the dual parenting in us
I Love you Mum
Happy Father's day to you an to all Amazing DAD(mum)

Juicypamela:
Hi everyone I just want to wish my mum a happy Father's day for taking the bravest responsibility of taking care of us single handedly an enforcing the dual parenting in us
I Love you Mum
Happy Father's day to you an to all Amazing DAD(mum)

KimberlyWest:
Op, Happy Father's Day to your mother.

I strongly believe that a man who wants to be celebrated will act accordingly.

Arsenate:

Yeah, we celebrate mother's day every month without men making it about themselves because mothers are flawless and are always acting accordingly. Keep encouraging damage girls to continue in their bitter path.

crackhaus:

Arsenate:

Yeah, we celebrate mother's day every month without men making it about themselves because mothers are flawless and are always acting accordingly. Keep encouraging damage girls to continue in their bitter path.

KimberlyWest:


I was once like you, screaming, "Leave Father's Day for Fathers," up and down. Now I know better.

Some of these kids grew up seeing their mother shoulder ALL responsibilities. Not because the man is not capable of doing it or the economy is not favourable, but because he just chose not to.

After seeing all of these, you expect them to get up on Father's Day and write epistle about how their father is an exemplary figure, okwaya?

If any child choose to celebrate his/her mother on Father's Day, then they have EVERY right to do that. They're not bitter, it's simply a reaction to someone's action. Some of them have more love to give than you can imagine.

KimberlyWest:


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iyke649:
The best is for people in ur category to set aside a day and call it super mom day.

Juicypamela:
Hi everyone I just want to wish my mum a happy Father's day for taking the bravest responsibility of taking care of us single handedly an enforcing the dual parenting in us
I Love you Mum
Happy Father's day to you an to all Amazing DAD(mum)

bukatyne:


Tragic.

God bless your mum.

A super mom does not equal a dad.

The best your mom can be is a super mom.

KimberlyWest:


I was once like you, screaming, "Leave Father's Day for Fathers," up and down. Now I know better.

Some of these kids grew up seeing their mother shoulder ALL responsibilities. Not because the man is not capable of doing it or the economy is not favourable, but because he just chose not to.

After seeing all of these, you expect them to get up on Father's Day and write epistle about how their father is an exemplary figure, okwaya?

If any child choose to celebrate his/her mother on Father's Day, then they have EVERY right to do that. They're not bitter, it's simply a reaction to someone's action. Some of them have more love to give than you can imagine.

Regex:


Being a mom is enough.

bukatyne:


Well womanhood is never enough for them.

It must be super mom, independent woman, strong woman, boss lady.....

There must be some sort of adjective.

KimberlyWest:


I was once like you, screaming, "Leave Father's Day for Fathers," up and down. Now I know better.

Some of these kids grew up seeing their mother shoulder ALL responsibilities. Not because the man is not capable of doing it or the economy is not favourable, but because he just chose not to.

After seeing all of these, you expect them to get up on Father's Day and write epistle about how their father is an exemplary figure, okwaya?

If any child choose to celebrate his/her mother on Father's Day, then they have EVERY right to do that. They're not bitter, it's simply a reaction to someone's action. Some of them have more love to give than you can imagine.

bukatyne:


Are all mothers perfect?

If no, do you see people calling their dads super moms on any of the numerous mother's days?

Regex:


That their father didn't shoulder nothing and left everything for their mum does not mean every father in the world is same.

If they celebrate their mum on fathers day, should they celebrate her on mother's day?

Regex:


I'm beginning to think it's jealousy. They celebrate theirs at least 4x a year. Just this one day, they want to also take it.


They should also celebrate their mum on world AIDS day, in short every celebration should be about mum.


My mum was and is the best to ever happen to me, that I am not celebrating my dad doesn't mean I should celebrate her. It's like an insult to her.

KimberlyWest:


I totally understand your point, which is why I'm responding to this. Otherwise, I'd have read and ignored the mention.

All fathers are not the same, and it's why the Op used, "my mum."

And if kids in this situation choose to celebrate their mother on both days for playing both roles, then I have no issues with that. I wonder why some people do.

Everyone is entitled to their opinion, but I still wish people would reason things from Op's angle. I doubt if it's easy celebrating a mother while everyone else is celebrating their father. She probably spent hours watching others post and wishing she could do the same thing as them.

Why people are acting like she committed a crime is what I'm still trying to understand.

Regex:


It is not a crime to celebrate one's mum on father's day, but it's unethical and unbalanced. It's either celebrate your dad, or you don't.

Juicypamela:
my dear the truth is that our mothers who are amazing has been doing exactly what dad ought to be

Yxwqq:
Some of the comments above are senseless and it's one of the reasons this site sucks. Why don't y'all let her celebrate her mom?


What is unethical and unbalanced about it? People will be using words they don't even understand.

Give me a philosophical argument on what makes her celebrating her mom on Father's Day unethical and unbalanced? You're talking to a Philosophy guru, so wassup?