KingDash:
30yrs and my wife go be like 80yrs... and na billionaire.

Divoc19:
23

Rossy12:
Nobody is perfect, God fearing, humble, great sense of humor, luv nd attention above all he should hv sense, nd hv mind of his own.

Nickymezor:
Once I meet the right person

Onyi22:
Once I see my rich wealthy guy, am good to go

SuperSuave:
wow. No time wasting

Divoc19:
Of course, life of a woman.
Whether she slay or not, las las na husband house she go end. Her body go reduce

DEMZEE:


Men don't care about a woman's money, status and career. Especially men that know their worth and value, the only men who care about a woman's status, money and career are low valued average men.

Men want young,feminine, fit, friendly and cooperative women not pseudo masculine hybrid beast women

BLOODYSPERM:




Most mordern women have nothing to offer asides from sex, they waste their youthful prime whoringg around and/or pursuing career ( masculine ambitions) that makes them not desirable for long term commitment

They end up aggressive, combative, argumentative, non-compliant and they are head aches since they pursue their life's mission they take upon all these masculine traits that no right thinking man would be comfortable with

ukaface:
who are they whorring around with, modern men or traditional men?
Why wasn't whorring a big deal during the times of our grandmothers and mother's?

pansophist:


Story

Me I care about a woman's money. I won't need her to spend it on me, but at least, it shows she is not lazy and has something to contribute, not that if she want buy Maggi, she will be disturbing me.

Don't marry a broke woman bro, it's a mistake you'll regret if you try, especially in this present day Nigeria. Marry a woman that works, that is industrious, and can wear the helmet if requires. Being macho will lead you no where, be calming down really. Also, one of the test to determine if a woman is with you for person is if money is not her motivation. Even me sef, if Dangote toast me today, I might just discover that I am gay

Broke women are the most expensive to keep, they do not know the value of hardwork and will want you to afford the whole world for them, they are most likely to be dumb, entitled, lazy with stupid pride. I don't know any self-respecting person (woman) that will feel comfortable depending on someone's else solely for their livelihood, and if a woman is like that, RUN.

I don warn you, if you go and fork up, I will laugh at you.

ukaface:
cooperative, like obeying her husband as a slave would obey a master?

DEMZEE:


Thats why u will die a poor average man while I die as a wealthy man.

Women are not built to handle masculine problems period!

U reck of poverty my gee

ukaface:
A very myopic way of reasoning though.

I do have something though to offer asides sex.some of us have our brain wired differently.

pansophist:


Story

Me I care about a woman's money. I won't need her to spend it on me, but at least, it shows she is not lazy and has something to contribute, not that if she want buy Maggi, she will be disturbing me.

Don't marry a broke woman bro, it's a mistake you'll regret if you try, especially in this present day Nigeria. Marry a woman that works, that is industrious, and can wear the helmet if requires. Being macho will lead you no where, be calming down really. Also, one of the test to determine if a woman is with you for person is if money is not her motivation. Even me sef, if Dangote toast me today, I might just discover that I am gay

Broke women are the most expensive to keep, they do not know the value of hardwork and will want you to afford the whole world for them, they are most likely to be dumb, entitled, lazy with stupid pride. I don't know any self-respecting person (woman) that will feel comfortable depending on someone's else solely for their livelihood, and if a woman is like that, RUN.

I don warn you, if you go and fork up, I will laugh at you.

pansophist:


See am, he no get point, he come de yab. Mad people everywhere. About me being poor, you won't say that if you know me. I'll leave it at that.

Yes, women are not built to handle masculine duty, but being financially responsible for herself to a reasonable degree is a feminine duty, not masculine. Maybe you'll have to carry her everywhere, wash her pant, spoon feed her, even carry the pregnancy, because it's your masculine duty. You go just die for nothing

TheUndercover:
@pansophist

I understand your point above, but you know how difficult it is to see a wealthy woman that still retains feminine values. A woman shouldn't be lazy, of course, she should be able to work but financial dependency is also a form of power. If a woman sees no reason to ask you for anything, submissiveness or following your principles might be a problem because you both have the same power. Surely you can't really know if a woman is in for the money if you're rich, but there are some ways to get her invested.

She should not be lazy, be appreciative, and also not have a sense of entitlement but she should also depend on you for some certain things. You grab? If a woman is made equal to a man, very soon she will become his superior.

pansophist:


But this has been my point since, thanks for elaboration

DEMZEE:


Someone has to make the final decision in the home and it should be the man.

Women are not built to handle masculine problems period!

If a lady can't depend on u financially to a large degree then u are useless to her because women enter their feminine mode wen there's a masculine man to take care of them financially. I'm also planning to b polygamous and I hate wen men broke shame women all because they want their wives to b their financial backup plan tuehhhhhhh

DEMZEE:


Thats why u will die a poor average man while I die as a wealthy man.


U reck of poverty my gee

pansophist:


Learn to read and understand, you're just going round the dot, or are you a Biafran?

If you've been reading my post on nairaland, you'll know that I'm a proponent for the man being the bread winner, no contest. But that doesn't mean a man should provide for a leechy, entitled woman. A way to reduce the risk is to know she is industrious.

See eh, I started appreciating how hard it was to raise a family when i started living on my own and being financially responsible for myself. A woman that has being in the file doing 30k minimum wage job, who knows how hard it is to make money will not compare you to other yahoo boys, or become angry because you couldn't buy her the latest iPhone worth close to a million naira.

It's about the fact that a hardworking woman would be refined and fortified that her vanity would be at bare minimum. Of course she doesn't have to work, but she should know the value of your hardwork, something she can only appreciate if she is industrious. Please read to understand, and stop going around circles, unless if you're biafran. Thank you

DEMZEE:


I'm very comfortable taking care of my wives financially tho.

The question is why wud men marry wen they are not fully financially independent and stable on their own

pansophist:


Maybe because one of the wholesome, awesome, organic joy in life is to have a happy family. Maybe because its better and easier to paddle through life with someone you share deep intimate, emotional and sexual connection with, that transcends the artificial. Lots of maybe.

Good that you can afford to be a source of sustenance to your wives, but don't be too sure about the future, billionaires do become broke you know ? So make sure you marry the wives that if shit hit the fan, they can wear the helmet and support you on your way back to top.

I pray you do not learn the hard way, but I use God name beg you, do not marry a trophy wife who is lazy just because you can afford the height of her materialism and vanity. It's the true definition of hell on earth, and it's even more hellish when deep in your heart, you know you created your own hell. Life is not long, do not choose suffering the short time you're here.

pansophist:


Bros, don't marry a lazy woman okay ? All this thing you wrote are understandable, but don't marry a broke woman. I don't know how you'll do it, but don't marry a broke woman. See as I am repeating myself, just don't try it. You go suffer if you do. It also mean you should not marry the opera Winfrey type either. It's not just black and white, they are lots of variations.

There are lots of women that works, that still have their femininity intact and sweet. They are usually not lifelong career women, they may plait hair at a salon, fry Akara with their mum on the roadside, hawk bread and butter. Some work as sales girls, sell mama-put, do side hustle in the university, and other jobs to keep them going. Those are what you should be looking for, that they are industrious, not just beautiful and young.

pansophist:


Bros, don't marry a lazy woman okay ? All this thing you wrote are understandable, but don't marry a broke woman. I don't know how you'll do it, but don't marry a broke woman. See as I am repeating myself, just don't try it. You go suffer if you do. It also mean you should not marry the opera Winfrey type either. It's not just black and white, they are lots of variations.

There are lots of women that works, that still have their femininity intact and sweet. They are usually not lifelong career women, they may plait hair at a salon, fry Akara with their mum on the roadside, hawk bread and butter. Some work as sales girls, sell mama-put, do side hustle in the university, and other jobs to keep them going. Those are what you should be looking for, that they are industrious, not just beautiful and young.

DEMZEE:


Thats why u will die a poor average man while I die as a wealthy man.

Women are not built to handle masculine problems period!

U reck of poverty my gee

I understand women's nature and I know how to keep them busy. I'm planning to marry a lady who is between 18-23yrs so I will enjoy her youth and fertility. She will b busy because she will have children to take care of. I love having a full-time housewife especially wen she's still in her 20s.

Once she is done taking care of all the children then she can work and the work she will be doing is going to be under me and she won't work out of necessity but for fun and passion.

Young women are meant for fun, leisure and sex