MasterShifu010:
If u date the wrong girl all u get is sex, but if u date the right girl ,u get the following
* companionship
* friendship
* teammate
* an extra set of brain to pick when urs get clogged
* connections
* good food (my favorite)
And maybe sex, which to me is overrated .
But the thing is the right girls no plenty. Mind u guys just because a girl is Godfearing or a church goer does not mean she’s right for u.
U might find her in the jungle where weed and narcotics are peddled

Infolenka:


Good submission. But if you noticed I added "in 2021." to my question.

First of all, how many girls can provide you all those things you mentioned. Girls like that may exist in Nigeria, but how many exactly? They are very very rare. How much trial and error will a guy have to make to find such a girl? How many failed relationships would a guy have to endure to find such a girl?

Let's say a guy finally finds a girl that can give him all that, can you really trust her to remain loyal in a relationship? I've seen, heard and experienced too much in this Nigeria to trust any Nigerian girl. Maybe 10 years ago I'd agree with your submission, but this is the era of social media, smart phones, yahoo boys and oloshoism of the highest form. Only an incredibly naive guy would enter a relationship in 2021 with a Nigerian girl and expecting loyalty from her.

Then the most annoying of all is the sustainability of the relationship. Do you know the amount of work you'd have to do to sustain a relationship with a Nigerian girl in 2021? Your sex game has to be on point all the time. Your financial game has to be on point. Your social game has to be on point at all times. This is why I likened it to a full time job.

Believe it or not, the kind of rare gem of a girl you described is very high value and as a result there are many guys who also want to take her from you. So you literally have to be on your toes 24/7 to maintain attraction and to provide, and take care of her so she doesn't look outside. You invariably subject yourself to emotional, financial and mental stress's just because you are dating someone. Is it really worth it?

Besides, most of the things you mentioned can be gotten from platonic friends and you could do the rest of the other stuff like cooking for yourself.

Again, I think the cost of maintaining a relationship with a Nigerian girl in 2021 far outweighs the so called benefits. It's really not worth it in my opinion.

Jhustmie1:
Pls Wat d benefit of dating Nigeria guy aside money bcus I see d way d girls hype Dem like there is something special. ...since u pple AR mad . .tch

chatinent:
So all you date for is sex?

SenecaTheYonger:
It’s really just sex.

Shows you the caliber of men that fathers are bringing up today. Lol

If you’re a dad, make sure you raise your male child right.

Infolenka:


You guys keep avoiding my question. Tell me the benefits in dating a Nigerian girl in 2021 besides sex. Stop making snide remarks and address the question.

Infolenka:


You are asking a very stupid question. Are you comparing money with sex? People work endless hours night and day just to make money and you are equating it with sex. You dey mad ni?

You can get sex anywhere. Money is hard to come by.

Dating is a form of financial security for Nigerian girls. That's a very big benefit.

And to answer your question. Girls derive alot of benefits from dating a Nigerian guy apart from money.

Male company and male attention( Something women deeply yearn for on a primal level)

Emotional security

Infolenka:


Just answer my question. Tell me the benefit in datinf a Nigerian girl in 2021.

MasterShifu010:
If u date the wrong girl all u get is sex, but if u date the right girl ,u get the following
* companionship
* friendship
* teammate
* an extra set of brain to pick when urs get clogged
* connections
* good food (my favorite)
And maybe sex, which to me is overrated .
But the thing is the right girls no plenty. Mind u guys just because a girl is Godfearing or a church goer does not mean she’s right for u.
U might find her in the jungle where weed and narcotics are peddled

Jhustmie1:
Pls Wat d benefit of dating Nigeria guy aside money bcus I see d way d girls hype Dem like there is something special. ...since u pple AR mad . .tch

MasterShifu010:
If u date the wrong girl all u get is sex, but if u date the right girl ,u get the following
* companionship
* friendship
* teammate
* an extra set of brain to pick when urs get clogged
* connections
* good food (my favorite)
And maybe sex, which to me is overrated .
But the thing is the right girls no plenty. Mind u guys just because a girl is Godfearing or a church goer does not mean she’s right for u.
U might find her in the jungle where weed and narcotics are peddled

MasterShifu010:
If u date the wrong girl all u get is sex, but if u date the right girl ,u get the following
* companionship
* friendship
* teammate
* an extra set of brain to pick when urs get clogged
* connections
* good food (my favorite)
And maybe sex, which to me is overrated .
But the thing is the right girls no plenty. Mind u guys just because a girl is Godfearing or a church goer does not mean she’s right for u.
U might find her in the jungle where weed and narcotics are peddled

Infolenka:
This is a serious question. Please what's the benefit a guy can get from dating a Nigerian girl in 2021 apart from sex? I'm asking because the way I see guys begging girls to date them, spending on them, buying expensive gifts and taking them on expensive outings, maybe there is something they are gaining besides sex that I don't know.

Last time I checked, dating a Nigerian girl is like a full time job. Girls today are very entitled and expect you to provide for them and fund their lifestyle like you are their father. You end up spending a much money, attending to their needs and giving them the attention, emotional support and security they yearn for.

But whats in the cards for you as a guy? She opens leg and you fuçk. What else?

So please help me answer my question.

MasterShifu010:
If u date the wrong girl all u get is sex, but if u date the right girl ,u get the following
* companionship
* friendship
* teammate
* an extra set of brain to pick when urs get clogged
* connections
* good food (my favorite)
And maybe sex, which to me is overrated .
But the thing is the right girls no plenty. Mind u guys just because a girl is Godfearing or a church goer does not mean she’s right for u.
U might find her in the jungle where weed and narcotics are peddled

Jhustmie1:

Funny enough financial assistance is part of it . . A gal u care for ND all dat .....will help u wen ur urgently broke. ..thanks for replying the kid anyways

remove sex and all these can be gotten from your male friends and family

MasterShifu010:
If u date the wrong girl all u get is sex, but if u date the right girl ,u get the following
* companionship
* friendship
* teammate
* an extra set of brain to pick when urs get clogged
* connections
* good food (my favorite)
And maybe sex, which to me is overrated .
But the thing is the right girls no plenty. Mind u guys just because a girl is Godfearing or a church goer does not mean she’s right for u.
U might find her in the jungle where weed and narcotics are peddled

you are obviously dumb,money makes the world go round
With money you can
Pay rent/buy a house
Pay your taxes/bills
Put food in your stomach
Buy clothes
Go to school
Travel the world
Pay your medical bills
Money can even get you extra security if you want it.

People survive without sex,how many people can survive without money??

Jhustmie1:
Pls Wat d benefit of dating Nigeria guy aside money bcus I see d way d girls hype Dem like there is something special. ...since u pple AR mad . .tch