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Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by muller101(m): 9:24pm On Jun 27, 2021 |
Saintmary:What else can she offer apart from sex. |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by Tomblaize: 9:29pm On Jun 27, 2021 |
No Contact is your best option. He will never forget u, trust me. Oliviajones: 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by iamL(f): 9:43pm On Jun 27, 2021 |
Some of u girls are just too cheap. Go hustle! |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by Yuneehk(f): 10:01pm On Jun 27, 2021 |
SportsHD: Anyone can claim to be a hard person online. Offline, a girl is using his heart to play ball. Not saying that's his case, but it's not impossible. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by SportsHD: 10:24pm On Jun 27, 2021 |
Yuneehk:Damn, mami. You fine asf! |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by Biodex58(m): 10:35pm On Jun 27, 2021 |
This girl ona dey advice no get fit deletes that guy contact ooh, she still dey beg for love omo.. �� |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by Yuneehk(f): 10:36pm On Jun 27, 2021 |
SportsHD:Thanks, papi. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by Nobody: 10:48pm On Jun 27, 2021 |
Move on: cease the communication (begging, crying, convincing), delete his number and change yours if you need to); then work on bettering yourself. Before you know it, the right guy will make his way into your life, but you gotta let this one go for that to take effect. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by Xmen149(m): 11:17pm On Jun 27, 2021 |
Oliviajones: You sound more like in remorse than heartbreak. Are you the course of the breakup ? What did you do wrong 1 Like |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by Nobody: 11:31pm On Jun 27, 2021 |
ntooooorh!!... cry me a river, only the gods the the weight of crime you committed against him one day your condition go reach all these NL ladies |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by frozen70(f): 11:36pm On Jun 27, 2021 |
Oliviajones: The earlier you brace yourself up the best for you He has already moved in and you are here brooding over some one who is now in another planet It's time you understand that you don't love with all your heart so that situations like this you will have a spare heart to carry you on You have to move on but most importantly change your attitude if not you are likely to repeat whatever lead to the break up with another person You must be prepared to face a breakup if you can't maintain yourself and uphold a relationship He still likes you but your attitude may have made him take a strong decision |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by Vision101(m): 2:03am On Jun 28, 2021 |
@Saintmary Modified: And next time, be stingy with sex, very stingy. E get why. @me Will it change anything? Not in this era where ladies are stranded and there is fierce competition among them for eligible men. |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by Gloriagee(f): 4:02am On Jun 28, 2021 |
You know. Emphasis on he said ![]() crackhaus: 1 Like |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by Gloriagee(f): 4:08am On Jun 28, 2021 |
He's just NOT that into you! He just wasn't that into you! N the probability that He will never be into you is soooo high. Trust me in the grand scheme of things, he can be irrelevant if u want him to be irrelevant. Never beg for love. Maka why? He should see you as worthy of his love, affection and time. Do u wanna sign up for a relationship where love or fidelity is forced? Take a break girl and next time sign up for a relationship where his energy matches yours. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by phemmyfour: 4:52am On Jun 28, 2021 |
Oliviajones:You have to move on, it's time to rebuild your life |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by Oliviajones(f): 5:17am On Jun 28, 2021 |
Xmen149: I am. |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by Oliviajones(f): 6:17am On Jun 28, 2021 |
dingbang:Are you sure? |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by Dailyparrot: 6:21am On Jun 28, 2021 |
SportsHD: For the first time I've seen a beautiful nairaland female even though I don't take camera beauty very serious. But, do you go about checking the profile of any female moniker that drops comment here? Just curious how you got to see her picture ![]() |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by Dailyparrot: 6:23am On Jun 28, 2021 |
Oliviajones: Confess ma'am. Tell us the full gist what transpired. You might be helping some young girls reading this. |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by Octopusssy(f): 6:24am On Jun 28, 2021 |
Oliviajones:Don't hold your breath, sis. He is not into you anymore and that is just a bitter pill you need to swallow. You'll be fine, eventually. Right now you'll feel like you're going to die with the pain, but eventually, you will be fine. It might take time but you'll be fine. Right now stop begging and give the nigga some space. Find something to distract you |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by Styluss: 6:37am On Jun 28, 2021 |
Oliviajones:try to move on. It's easier if you find solace in a friend. Just maintain convo with that person and you will gradually forget about him. Acting this way wont make him bulge but grow more wings |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by Oliviajones(f): 6:40am On Jun 28, 2021 |
Styluss: Yeah he said he wants space and time. I think I should give him that now because my pleadings aren't doing much. If anything, it's pushing him away. Will he come back after thinking things over? We had a beautiful thing going. |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by Obakashdee(m): 6:46am On Jun 28, 2021 |
Oliviajones:Sorry my dear, this is a lost cause, the earlier you know the better, he’ll rather remain a friend, if you insist you’ll turn fvck buddy, pick up the pieces and run abeg. Delete his number, breath afresh and start again, nothing like you build your life around him, when ronaldinho comot Barca, they found Messi so stop disturbing us here. |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by dingbang(m): 7:04am On Jun 28, 2021 |
Oliviajones:very sure. Just go about your normal duties. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by dingbang(m): 7:05am On Jun 28, 2021 |
Oliviajones:he will come back. Thats for sure. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by dingbang(m): 7:18am On Jun 28, 2021 |
Oliviajones:check your email. |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by Styluss: 7:21am On Jun 28, 2021 |
Oliviajones:that decision is for him to make.... If you guys are meant to be, he'll surely come back... Just move on and be happy. I lost a year relationship last week, this one even blocked me everywhere ![]() Your happiness is important, seeing you sad will make him more happy and justified. Be open to new people. Live and love life |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by Oliviajones(f): 7:25am On Jun 28, 2021 |
Styluss: Thank you 1 Like |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by descarado: 7:34am On Jun 28, 2021 |
When you saw the sign he is gonna japa, you would have saved your dignity and left him. The worst form of relationship is relationship formed out of pity. He don't want you again, if he eventually agree, you will be third wheel and abused emotionally. So many people out there, we think we can love only once? For any dead relationship, there is a good one waiting out there. All in the mind. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by Klass99(f): 7:38am On Jun 28, 2021 |
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Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by jimmychang: 7:47am On Jun 28, 2021 |
Saintmary: Stingy as if the pussy dey bring good luck and blessings ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by Oliviajones(f): 8:09am On Jun 28, 2021 |
Klass99: It is not my first relationship. I want him back. Ignoring his calls and messages won't help me with that. 1 Like |
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