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Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by Styluss: 8:27am On Jun 28, 2021 |
Oliviajones:please be safe...stressing yourself is not worth it. I believe he'll come to his senses. Btw... I hope uve not acted far off ![]() ![]() |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by Oliviajones(f): 8:33am On Jun 28, 2021 |
Styluss:I acted unnecessary drama thrice. He doesn't like that. |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by Styluss: 8:43am On Jun 28, 2021 |
Oliviajones: ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by Oliviajones(f): 8:46am On Jun 28, 2021 |
Styluss: yeah |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by Klass99(f): 8:50am On Jun 28, 2021 |
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Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by Dailyparrot: 10:38am On Jun 28, 2021 |
Klass99: You drew my attention to check her out. I wouldn't have done that. The not so beautiful ones I've seen are those that I've had business with. I don't go about checking profiles with the F tag as majority are males. |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by SportsHD: 11:24am On Jun 28, 2021 |
Dailyparrot:I just stumbled on the profile |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by CHoccolaTE: 11:52am On Jun 28, 2021 |
KimberlyWest: He probably hates females because one girl refused to sleep with him or date him. He will not see his fellow males that are killing innocent people left and right and raping children and kidnapping and scamming hardworking Nigerians. The idiot will not direct hatred to his fellow males in spite of all the destruction and mayhem they cause on a daily basis. No. He wil rather hate girls because they refused to acknowledge and submit to his erection. |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by Nobody: 12:03pm On Jun 28, 2021 |
Oliviajones:why did he breakup with you ? |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by Kriss216: 12:13pm On Jun 28, 2021 |
CHoccolaTE:If not foolishness, why will they refuse to submit to my erection since that's the only thing they can offer? 3 Likes |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by Xmen149(m): 12:23pm On Jun 28, 2021 |
Oliviajones: Thought as much,know this: everyone deals with anger differently. If you brought the problem.. allow him handle his anger.. chip in a message after 3weeks and if no good reply on the relationship delete him from your memories learn from your mistakes then move on. But if what you did is cheat(as you have refused to say) then move on and let him be please.Good people don't deserve torment |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by Oliviajones(f): 12:35pm On Jun 28, 2021 |
Xmen149: I didn't cheat. It was just a behavior issue he couldn't deal with. |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by Xmen149(m): 12:59pm On Jun 28, 2021 |
Oliviajones: Cool,.then you have to let him go,delet his contacts and Ghost off. Little lecture: in a serious relationship there is : DEAL BREAKER and DEAL MAKERS and MANAGEABLE TRAITS for each of the parties involved. This is why communication is important so you Dont end up spending years were you will eventually not be needed else you plan on hidding your traits and deceiving your opponent. From beginning: you will look out for deal breaker first(yes be that selfish).if you possses your opponents deal breaker just quit..If he posses yours just move on. Manageable traits are the ones two of you can work together and work your ways around. While deal maker can be endless and includes those things that attracted you to the person in first place. You posses his deal breaker (which he mistakes as manageable trait). Profile your next relationship b4 giving it your all and communicate with your partner to be sure of what's in their head(use questions like: what do you like,what do you hate,favourite colour etc). Sorry to say: you possess your partners deal breaker. It will never work (you will always appear to be at fault,worst case you will hide it,but it will always show once in a while). MOVE ON!! **Important: Don't creat avenue for further communication with him ,you will simply turn besty..and yea besties are fvck buddies and will stunt your growth in next relationship |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by HRSweetness(f): 1:19pm On Jun 28, 2021 |
NoApology: Are these memes from a movie? This guy (funny I don't know his name) is one of my my favorite actors. |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by HRSweetness(f): 1:25pm On Jun 28, 2021 |
Oliviajones: If this post of yours hits FP, what are the odds that he'd read it and know it's you? If he does, you'd have succeeded in making him more resolute in his decision to walk out of your life for good. I don't know what the issues were that made him reach that decision but I can guess, from what you have communicated that obssessiveness and possessiveness definitely played a huge role. You need to let yourself heal. I know you don't want to hear this, but see this letting go process as the necessary step you need to make to help yourself become better for you and for building healthy, non toxic relationships. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by HRSweetness(f): 1:34pm On Jun 28, 2021 |
Kriss216: LOL. She sure did you in, it's the sarcasm for me... Continue your female bashing cruise, I think it helps you heal. LOL. |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by Lostchild(m): 1:59pm On Jun 28, 2021 |
Oliviajones You are still too foolish to understand that you can't force someone to accept you. Your over begging him will only strengthen his ego. He may also have a good reason for him letting you off. Just move on and work on yourself Dont forget; be proud of yourself |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by NoApology(m): 2:58pm On Jun 28, 2021 |
HRSweetness: Yes. That's peaky binders. You should watch it ![]() |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by waywardpikin: 3:24pm On Jun 28, 2021 |
Oliviajones: I knew it would be something like this. What do you guys gain from formenting trouble unnecessarily? It's not every guy that has time to be saying "sorry, sorry" and petting you like a baby over frivolous things. You don't have to start drama to add a little spice to your relationship, not every guy is cut out for childish stuff like that. I had to break up with someone back in February because of this issue of creating unnecessary drama. I be lover boy agreed, but there is only so much nonsense I can take. When we broke up e be am like film, and it was even more shocking to her that I refused to take her back. Let's even thank God that you were able to admit the rubbish you did that led to the breakup, because most of y'all won't admit to anything. My point? Y'all should dial it down! 3 Likes |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by HRSweetness(f): 3:25pm On Jun 28, 2021 |
NoApology: Many thanks. 2 Likes |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by HRSweetness(f): 3:33pm On Jun 28, 2021 |
Charlex23: Oga, you don't know what the guy saw that made him run ![]() |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by HRSweetness(f): 3:43pm On Jun 28, 2021 |
Oliviajones: He will ONLY come back when he can trust that you have dealt with your anger issues and immaturity. Tough advise sis. Truth is, you had a fine young man, which is an exception to what we have these days. I mean, you're on NL, take a look around you. He won't listen to you cos this is not the first time you've messed up and apologized, so now he don't trust you no more. You have to earn his trust again and to do this, genuinely work on your insecurities and give him the MUCH NEEDED space he's asked for. |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by Oliviajones(f): 3:53pm On Jun 28, 2021 |
HRSweetness: I've heard you. I understand. Thank you |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by HRSweetness(f): 3:59pm On Jun 28, 2021 |
Oliviajones: See... I didn't even see this response before I knew exactly what happened. Search for my comments on this topic and take it if you really want results. |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by HRSweetness(f): 4:04pm On Jun 28, 2021 |
Oliviajones: Awww you're more than welcome. Now you have to deliberately take on activities that'd replace whatever reminds you of him. Where's your location? |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by Oliviajones(f): 4:07pm On Jun 28, 2021 |
HRSweetness:----- |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by HRSweetness(f): 4:25pm On Jun 28, 2021 |
Oliviajones: Bummer... If we were in the same location, I would have gone out of my way to do the unusual by connecting with you cos I can tell that you're actually a sweet girl. Sis, you're going to have lots of private messages as a result of this post, especially since you've revealed you're financially well off! Trust me, don't take the messages from the guys seriously, cos it's those boys that pretend to be alpha males on here that'd be all over your PM clowning themselves LOL. (I know they'll come for me for exposing them, but like Buhari, I no send) Infact, if you find any interesting message, take your time and research the person's history on NL before engaging in any form of convo. You need to create emotional distractions so you can slowly get your mind off le boo but be careful to avoid entanglements cos you're really vulnerable right now. Are you sociable? MODIFIED just saw you edited your location, will do same. |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by Oliviajones(f): 4:34pm On Jun 28, 2021 |
HRSweetness: You're very kind. Thanks a lot ![]() I'll just talk to some people in real life and throw myself into work to keep busy. Yes, I create time for fun. Hopefully, I get over this phase quickly and God willing, he doesn't meet someone else. Because it's a possibility. 1 Like |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by HRSweetness(f): 4:51pm On Jun 28, 2021 |
Oliviajones: Emotions aside, can you really tell if he was into you? |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by Oliviajones(f): 4:57pm On Jun 28, 2021 |
HRSweetness:Definitely 1 Like |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by Saintmary(f): 5:05pm On Jun 28, 2021 |
Vision101: Your information is wrong, eligible men and women full ground. Maybe you're in a village sha. |
Re: I'm Going Through A Terrible Breakup. Please Advise. by Saintmary(f): 5:06pm On Jun 28, 2021 |
muller101: I don't know |
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