Women are experts at employing this tactics but many men who are supposed to understand the import of this tactics to their relationship usually fail to discipline their woman when necessary.
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If a woman is offended or in a situation where she wants to manipulate you to do her bidding, she withdraws her attention, give u silence treatment, she refuses to smile or look at you, she fails to cook and denies u sex....All of this is her attempt to discipline you and make you fall in place
.
The response of most men to this is to increase their effort to please this woman just to get back her attention. That's your woman disciplining you.
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Many men who don't understand this will eventually start apologizing, buying gifts, doing extra work at home, acting like a gentleman, and in the event she finally allows sex, the man will go extra mile to give her good sex just to please her and get back her goodwill..
......
In same way, if ur woman fuckz up, you must discipline her to the extent that she's ready to please u and obtain ur favor. If u can't pull this off, then u are a weak man. Worse is if after her bad behavior she still manipulates you to apologise..lol.
Here are the benefit of disciplining your woman when she goes wrong.

1. A woman respects a man who disciplines her. You can not change this fact...It's same reason a pretty gal fears and respect her boyfriend who is a bad boy cos he doesn't take nonsense.
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2. A woman will deliberately test ur gut by misbehaving just to see ur reaction...If u fail at putting her in her place, she will dare to do worse next time, and cause more trouble
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3. Women easily open their legs to men they respect, or men who will easily put them in their place. This is so cos women want men who are assertive who exudes authority. It's a primal response their pvssy can't control. Ever wondered why a woman easily fantasize fvcking an army or soldiers? U get...it's the stamp of authority...
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4 Lastly: When u discipline a woman, it registers in her psyche that u are the head, she will be ready to do things to please u. But when u don't, it registers in her psyche that u guys are equal or partners..over time she will never listen to what you say, and will easily fall for men out there who show strong manly qualities because the man at home has lost that masculine aura women get wet for.

Sometimes when ur woman is not giving u sex, it's because, ur aura dont exude that masculine sexiness. You lost it from being too agreeable to her whims and bad behavior over time.
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So it's true u get better sex from your woman when you discipline her bad behavior than when u leave her to dictate and get away with bad behavior, over time she will start taking your needs for granted, including ur sexual needs. Before u know it, another man is sleeping with her.

Not to lock her outside all night.

Lol

donbachi:
Not to lock her outside all night.

Well, It depends on the context of her bad behavior, if locking her outside fits the context of her bad behavior then it may be necessary to prevent a worse future misbehavior..

NiRfreak:

Well, It depends on the context of her bad behavior, if locking her outside fits the context of her bad behavior then it may be necessary to prevent a worse future misbehavior..

Lock your own wife out? Op, no offense but you're a beast!

Na still one short woman go manipulate the hell out of you last last, all these epistles because of nature.

mariahAngel:


Lock your own wife out? Op, no offense but you're a beast!

Out of her own matrimonial home oo. Or cause he's the one paying for or owns the house?

A lot of people don't realise once you join with a woman in matrimony, she has a right to the house like you do for as long as the bond of matrimony exists.

because she left her house or parents house to come stay with you just for the desired purpose (marriage) to be practised or achieved and she can fulfil her duties as a wife to you and mother to children.

She's now your responsibility; her welfare, nourishment and shelter is now MAJORLY in your care.

So she has a right to the house for as long as she's your wife.

Men need more orientation on how to deal with matrimonial matters around here

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NiRfreak:
Women are experts at employing this tactics but many men who are supposed to understand the import of this tactics to their relationship usually fail to discipline their woman when necessary.
....
If a woman is offended or in a situation where she wants to manipulate you to do her bidding, she withdraws her attention, give u silence treatment, she refuses to smile or look at you, she fails to cook and denies u sex....All of this is her attempt to discipline you and make you fall in place
.
The response of most men to this is to increase their effort to please this woman just to get back her attention. That's your woman disciplining you.
.
Many men who don't understand this will eventually start apologizing, buying gifts, doing extra work at home, acting like a gentleman, and in the event she finally allows sex, the man will go extra mile to give her good sex just to please her get back her goodwill..
In same way, if ur woman bleeps up, you must discipline her to the extent that she's ready to please u and obtain ur favor. If u can't pull this off, then u are a weak man. Worse is if after her bad behavior she still manipulates you to apologise..lol.
Here are the benefit of disciplining your woman when she goes wrong.

1. A woman respects a man who disciplines her. You can not change this fact...It's same reason a pretty gal fears and respect her boyfriend who is a bad boy cos he doesn't take nonsense.
.....
2. A woman will deliberately test ur gut by misbehaving just to see ur reaction...If u fail at putting her in her place, she will dare to do worse next time, and cause more trouble
....
3. Women easily open their legs to men they respect, or men who will easily put them in their place. This is so cos women want men who are assertive who exudes authority. It's a primal response their pvssy can't control. Ever wondered why a woman easily fantasize fvcking an army or soldiers? U get...it's the stamp of authority...
....
4 Lastly: When u discipline a woman, it registers in her psyche that u are the head, she will be ready to do things to please u. But when u don't, it registers in her psyche that u guys are equal or partners..over time she will never listen to what you say, and will easily fall for men out there who show strong manly qualities because the man at home has lost that masculine aura women get wet for.

Sometimes when ur woman is not giving u sex, it's because, ur aura dont exude that masculine sexiness. You lost it from being too agreeable to her whims and bad behavior over time.
.
So it's true u get better sex from your woman when you discipline her bad behavior.

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If you don't have respect and discipline,no individual will respect you..

That's why they always quote this statement "RESPECT YOURSELF"

This is why a mother should not stay in an abusive marriage even because of the children.

Children see this abuse and think it's okay nd normal.

May God give us the grace to raise children who will become decent humans in Jesus name.

NiRfreak:

Well, It depends on the context of her bad behavior, if locking her outside fits the context of her bad behavior then it may be necessary to prevent a worse future misbehavior..

if a man should give ur sister such ill treatment.will u take It from him?
If ur wife is raped or killed cos u locked her outside.wat will u tell ur kids?

donbachi:
if a man should give ur sister such ill treatment.will u take It from him?
If ur wife is raped or killed cos u locked her outside.wat will u tell ur kids?

My sister's marriage is her cup of tea....It will be in her best interest if she respects her husband..cos she stays with him and he's responsible for her.

....I won't encourage her to be disrespectful to her husband to the point the man may be angry enough to lock her out...
.. There are instances where a woman can be so violent or daring that the man might have to lock her out just to defend himself or to have peace for that moment.

That's one of the contexts I'm talking abt..
.If my wife is raped for being locked out? That's an hypothetical fantastical situation...how many people got raped for being locked out...
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.I'm not saying men Should go out locking their wife out as a norm....at certain point even a gentle man would have to take drastic measures against certain behavior..or else... he will lose the marriage...A man shd act when necessary and the success of the marriage is in the man's hand not the woman's

NiRfreak:

My sister's marriage is her cup of tea....It will be in her best interest if she respects her husband....I won't encourage her to be disrespectful to her husband to the point the man may be angry enough to lock her out...
.. There are instances where a woman can be so violent or daring that the man might have to lock her out just to defend himself...
That's one of the contexts I'm talking abt..
.If my wife is raped for being locked out? That's an hypothetical fantastical situation...how many people got raped for being locked out...
.
.I'm not saying men Should go out locking their wife out as a norm....at certain point even a gentle man would have to take drastic measures against certain behavior..or else... he will lose the marriage...A man shd act when necessary and the success of the marriage is in the man's hand

Divorce is the only option.Cos if She dies in the man's hand.the man will end up in jail.ifShe kills the man,she too will go to jail.then,one will begin to think of wat will become of their kids..any man dat is married to a contentious woman,should Let het go.

OP what you said is absolutely true but most guys who don't understand women will disagree with you.

donbachi:
Divorce is the only option.Cos if She dies in the man's hand.the man will end up in jail.ifShe kills the man,she too will go to jail.then,one will begin to think of wat will become of their kids..any man dat is married to a contentious woman,should Let het go.

If your father divorced your mother for every err she makes, how will you or your birth home be today?

Drop vain arguments and understand what is before you. A man who cannot dominate his home is repugnant to women generally and as such her respect for him automatically depletes making her to eventually turn her head towards other men.

Men are to lead women and children and not suck up to them. That is your birth duty and doing the opposite will only make you weak and disdained.

Look at how your forefathers and celebrities in the Bible took charge of their homes and learn from them, then you may have a better insight.

I concur.

9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

In mosdii voice: They are all useless..... All of them!

NiRfreak:
Women are experts at employing this tactics but many men who are supposed to understand the import of this tactics to their relationship usually fail to discipline their woman when necessary.
....
If a woman is offended or in a situation where she wants to manipulate you to do her bidding, she withdraws her attention, give u silence treatment, she refuses to smile or look at you, she fails to cook and denies u sex....All of this is her attempt to discipline you and make you fall in place
.
The response of most men to this is to increase their effort to please this woman just to get back her attention. That's your woman disciplining you, and getting better sex from you for disciplining u
.
Many men who don't understand this will eventually start apologizing, buying gifts, doing extra work at home, acting like a gentleman, and in the event she finally allows sex, the man will go extra mile to give her good sex just to please her and get back her goodwill..
In same way, if ur woman bleeps up, you must discipline her to the extent that she's ready to please u and obtain ur favor. If u can't pull this off, then u are a weak man. Worse is if after her bad behavior she still manipulates you to apologise..lol.
Here are the benefit of disciplining your woman when she goes wrong.

1. A woman respects a man who disciplines her. You can not change this fact...It's same reason a pretty gal fears and respect her boyfriend who is a bad boy cos he doesn't take nonsense.
.....
2. A woman will deliberately test ur gut by misbehaving just to see ur reaction...If u fail at putting her in her place, she will dare to do worse next time, and cause more trouble
....
3. Women easily open their legs to men they respect, or men who will easily put them in their place. This is so cos women want men who are assertive who exudes authority. It's a primal response their pvssy can't control. Ever wondered why a woman easily fantasize fvcking an army or soldiers? U get...it's the stamp of authority...
....
4 Lastly: When u discipline a woman, it registers in her psyche that u are the head, she will be ready to do things to please u. But when u don't, it registers in her psyche that u guys are equal or partners..over time she will never listen to what you say, and will easily fall for men out there who show strong manly qualities because the man at home has lost that masculine aura women get wet for.

Sometimes when ur woman is not giving u sex, it's because, ur aura dont exude that masculine sexiness. You lost it from being too agreeable to her whims and bad behavior over time.
.
So it's true u get better sex from your woman when you discipline her bad behavior.

Please, take this your childish mentality out of here. Why marry a woman who doesn't know how to behave well in the first place?

Who are you to discipline her? Her dad?

A marriage should be a union of 2 grown adults who know their roles. Respect should be earned. If you need to "discipline" her to get respect from her, you don't deserve it in a first place.

A man should earn his wife's respect through his character and qualities

So many damaged kids on rampage here lately.

Mmeeennnn ggeeeeee you just said some real sh!t right there. Hell yea!!

I mean for crying out loud, imma HVM I got my shit going for me business booming, money coming in and I’m taking good care of the chick so it’s my way or the highway. I don’t take shit from no 304....

Chicks play silly mind games to test your weakness and when you respond like a b!tch best believe she’s going to take big big big advantage of you.

JovialJune:
So many damaged kids on rampage here lately.

How does this relate to the topic

BarrSly:
Mmeeennnn ggeeeeee you just said some real sh!t right there. Hell yea!!

I mean for crying out loud, imma HVM I got my shit going for me business booming, money coming in and I’m taking good care of the chick so it’s my way or the highway. I don’t take shit from no 304....

Chicks play silly mind games to test your weakness and when you respond like a b!tch best believe she’s going to take big big big advantage of you.

Honestly

Op, you try but lower your tone so that you don't pass the good message in a wrong way. I am a woman and I understand. But these benefits does not apply to feminist.

NiRfreak:

[b]Here are the benefit of disciplining your woman when she goes wrong.
So it's true u get better sex from your woman when you discipline her bad behavior.

This can only happen to women who don't truly come from strong willed families. Try that with some wives and have her people beat you up blue black and yellow before stuffing the 500 naira bride price you paid for her in your bloodied mouth

This is where Africa got it all wrong. Who are you to torment people in the name of discipline.

bepositive11:


Please, take this your childish mentality out of here. Why marry a woman who doesn't know how to behave well in the first place?

Who are you to discipline her? Her dad?

A marriage should be a union of 2 grown adults who know their roles. Respect should be earned. If you need to "discipline" her to get respect from her, you don't deserve it in a first place.

A man should earn his wife's respect through his character and qualities

It's only in a failed society that people like him exist. Africa and power

NiRfreak:

Well, It depends on the context of her bad behavior, if locking her outside fits the context of her bad behavior then it may be necessary to prevent a worse future misbehavior..

You don't lock people outside. That's not discipline, that's stupidity. A loose woman will see that as an opportunity to _4ck around. A scorned woman will see it as an opportunity to brew fatal hatred. I think she is soft wife because someone like me, my husband won't try that shiit! I NEVER see Wetin go make me sleep outside, I will pull the door down! I go go mechanic shop carry iron, break every chains and barricade.

He married a soft wife. He is lucky

LadyRosa:
This can only happen to women who don't truly come from strong willed families. Try that with some wives and have her people beat you up blue black and yellow before stuffing the 500 naira bride price you paid for her in your bloodied mouth

You must think the discipline I refer to here is "beating" her. No that's not why I implied. The discipline is putting her in her place making her know she fuuccks and apologise for it....Unless u feel a man don't have to set boundaries and discipline his woman when she errs

NiRfreak:

You must think the discipline I refer to here is "beating" her. No that's not why I implied. The discipline is putting her in her place making her know she fuuccks and apologise for it....Unless u feel a man don't have to set boundaries and discipline his woman when she errs

Locking your wife out the whole of the night is bullshiit guy! It's even better not to come home for days than to lock your wife out!
I read that thread, and was jut shaking my head. Some women dey marry rubbish say na husband. How dare he? Person pikin, your wife is like your possession, it belongs to you and you don't leave it outside at the mercy of outsiders, especially this period of bad security ehn?!?

He is lucky nothing happened to that woman. Even if there's an issue on ground, he is not supposed to go that far... O boy, I will call him to apologize first, call my people and his people to talk to him. I will control myself for just one hour after apologizing before I start breaking all the doors in the house.
I never sleep outside for my life before, so na for my own husband house I go come dey sleep outside because of marriage.

For what?!

Women hustle oooo, hustle so that Una no go dey sleep outside. Get educated, hustle without shame so when time reach you self go rent hotel sleep, eat hotel food and allow hotel AC blow you enter yansh.

You're right, provided that you, as a man, came into equity with clean hands - if not, you are a hypocrite - and provided that her offense is an avoidable and or wittingly done one - else you are an oppressor or suffering low self-esteem. All in all, a person, be it a man or woman, who chooses to be unconscientious in a relationship doesn't deserve humane treatment.

The most repulsive people I have seen are those who covertly or overtly are in the habit of giving support to instigators of problems while castigating the retaliator, regardless of the severeness of the action of the retaliator - no one should kill, though.

To expect fairness while being unfair is both hypocrisy and insaneness. If you can't stay decorous, always expect cruelty.