Yesterday, I read a Q &A post on Quora from a black girl asking why white men do not find her attractive.
I will set the race card aside and talk from my experience.

For ladies: It is not easy to find a spouse here, it no longer depends on your preference, its whose preference are you.
The dating pool is larger and contains many varieties of fishes. My friends do mention that Canadian guys often stare, flirt with their eyes, ask for their name but never engage in a meaningful conversation or even request their phone number. My longest relationship with a white guy was 2 weeks, he just wanted sex. I am currently with a Nigerian guy I met in church and we understand each other. Personally I think Canadian guys just prefer to date their kind.

For men: Easy! You guys just need a pulse lol. Although, I have found that some Nigerian men often make an effort to marry Nigerian women either from their church abroad or coming home to find a wife.

In one sentence, if you have a committed and healthy relationship from home, I would advise you hold on to that. [color=#000000][/color]

The 2 bad sha.
A spouse (wife) abroad go soon chase you comot from the house, or shoot you sef and posses everything. The local champion you take go abroad go soon turn lion... And still chase you comot for house.

Depending on your lucky but it’s better to find here because the person knows the rule and he/she is already familiar with the country.
I salute those that bring from Nigeria because I can’t do it

seunny4lif:

Depending on your lucky but it’s better to find here because the person knows the rule and he/she is already familiar with the country.
I salute those that bring from Nigeria because I can’t do it

i can bring someone over if I have known them before in any capacity, but say we meet online or them link us omo i cannot bring you o. As i cant know the person or their real motives. Many of the Nigerian babes abroad don turn something else, toxic feminism, frown at splitting bills, high taste( poor or zero long term investment plans), na latest bag, latest car, holiday and vacation 4 times a year, i cant cook bla bla . Na high blood pressure loading, they can still divorce and kick you out of una house.

Even tho it's wrong I now see reason why some people marry keep the woman for 9ja

I always tell people marry the one you see here who is familiar with the culture.
Even if you know the person before, once they land here na wahala oooh.
Imagine babe you dey give €200 when she dey Naija and boom she get money to flex and you come carry her come from Nigeria.
Problems Naija men dey face here na even if she is working, she go still dey demand for money to fix her hair, cloths and if you complain, she go tell you say, she no come abroad to come suffer
Most of Nigeria babes think say na same thing like in Nigeria the man will be working, the woman will be working but wouldn’t be doing anything to support the man.
Here family shares the bills, but in Nigeria hubby dey do everything
Na the reason some marry Oyinbo women especially the Europeans is that, they help their hubby with bills but not with Nigeria women unless you get lucky.

ednut1:
i can bring someone over if I have known them before in any capacity, but say we meet online or them link us omo i cannot bring you o. As i cant know the person or their real motives. Many of the Nigerian babes abroad don turn something else, toxic feminism, frown at splitting bills, high taste( poor or zero long term investment plans), na latest bag, latest car, holiday and vacation 4 times a year, i cant cook bla bla . Na high blood pressure loading, they can still divorce and kick you out of una house.

Even tho it's wrong I now see reason why some people marry keep the woman for 9ja

Childofthelord:
Yesterday, I read a Q&A post on Quora from a black girl asking why white men do not find her attractive.
I will set the race card aside and talk from my experience.

For ladies: It is not easy to find a spouse here, it no longer depends on your preference, its whose preference are you.
The dating pool is larger and contains many varieties of fishes. My friends do mention that Canadian guys often stare, flirt with their eyes, ask for their name but never engage in a meaningful conversation or even request their phone number. My longest relationship with a white guy was 2 weeks, he just wanted sex. I am currently with a Nigerian guy I met in church and we understand each other. Personally I think Canadian guys just prefer to date their kind.

For men: Easy! You guys just need a pulse lol. Although, I have found that some Nigerian men often make an effort to marry Nigerian women either from their church abroad or coming home to find a wife.

In one sentence, if you have a committed and healthy relationship from home, I would advise you hold on to that. [color=#000000][/color]

Yeah... It is what it is. The
white folks would always
gravitate towards their women than women of color because of cultural differences except in some instances where the guy has a global/multicultural perspective to issues.

Stories abound of a few shady
guys and ladies in the church
space who just wanna hit-and-run so you've got to be a step ahead of these types.

Tbh Sleeping with whites is just fundamentally revolting and wrong. There is literally nothing normal or attractive about them. And for a black woman to allow a white to actually do anything sexual with them is so wrong, it's criminal or sick. It's one thing for a guy, but even then, why would you even want to be in bed and kiss a white? That's so vile. There's nothing even s3xy about white women. I can't even imagine wanting to sleep with them for any reason but pure, absolute desperation. They would have to be the last women on earth. Even then, how can you do it without being nauseous? I almost feel bad for the kind of black people that look at whites with anything but disgust. Whites are sick, unattractive people.

Sorry if I offend anyone.

ednut1:
i can bring someone over if I have known them before in any capacity, but say we meet online or them link us omo i cannot bring you o. As i cant know the person or their real motives. Many of the Nigerian babes abroad don turn something else, toxic feminism, frown at splitting bills, high taste( poor or zero long term investment plans), na latest bag, latest car, holiday and vacation 4 times a year, i cant cook bla bla . Na high blood pressure loading, they can still divorce and kick you out of una house.

Even tho it's wrong I now see reason why some people marry keep the woman for 9ja

Good thing sha, as a man, one can marry anytime. I just dey imagine myself with such a woman.

Abasi a kan!

A lot of white guys prefer dating their kind, it's just natural. If as a black person you find yourself in a place where you are part of the minority it's just natural for the competition to be much more difficult.

Cousin9999:
Tbh Sleeping with whites is just fundamentally revolting and wrong. There is literally nothing normal or attractive about them. And for a black woman to allow a white to actually do anything sexual with them is so wrong, it's criminal or sick. It's one thing for a guy, but even then, why would you even want to be in bed and kiss a white? That's so vile. There's nothing even s3xy about white women. I can't even imagine wanting to sleep with them for any reason but pure, absolute desperation. They would have to be the last women on earth. Even then, how can you do it without being nauseous? I almost feel bad for the kind of black people that look at whites with anything but disgust. Whites are sick, unattractive people.

Sorry if I offend anyone.

This is pure undiluted racism. You need to check urself man

layzie:



This is pure undiluted racism. You need to check urself man

It's "racism" to be repulsed by the idea of intimacy with actual hate-filled, deranged, and physically unattractive racists? lol

Cousin9999:


It's "racism" to be repulsed by the idea of intimacy with actual hate-filled, deranged, and physically unattractive racists? lol

This guy has definitely gone through some things.

Cousin9999:


It's "racism" to be repulsed by the idea of intimacy with actual hate-filled, deranged, and physically unattractive racists? lol

shut up! You're just being racist

Can't imagine bringing a lady here from naija to marry...just not gonna work....

I'm a kind of guy that fancy other race...
I'm sticking to that ..

hammed71:
shut up! You're just being racist

lol In what universe?

Only fools come back to Nigeria to marry and take the oloshos with overused pussies that we have here. I always advise them to marry whoever they meet there. Some bigger fools among them go as far as marrying Nigerian daughters of Jezebel they meet online and take them abroad. Those are the simps they take everything from and render useless. I am not against them coming back to marry, my issue with them is that they take these oloshos with them to the abroad. If you are a man in this forum that lives abroad and you plan to come back to marry a Nigerian girl, I advise you to abort mission now or regret later. You will regret it, we can bet it if you like.

Cousin9999:
Tbh Sleeping with whites is just fundamentally revolting and wrong. There is literally nothing normal or attractive about them. And for a black woman to allow a white to actually do anything sexual with them is so wrong, it's criminal or sick. It's one thing for a guy, but even then, why would you even want to be in bed and kiss a white? That's so vile. There's nothing even s3xy about white women. I can't even imagine wanting to sleep with them for any reason but pure, absolute desperation. They would have to be the last women on earth. Even then, how can you do it without being nauseous? I almost feel bad for the kind of black people that look at whites with anything but disgust. Whites are sick, unattractive people.

Sorry if I offend anyone.

You're a fool!! The best relationships I have ever had were with white women.. Black Women(Nigerian) are very toxic with their stupid entitlement mentality. I have 2 kids with a white North Carolina lady and 2 with a Nigerian.... You can't imagine what I face with the Nigerian woman!!

Cousin9999:
Tbh Sleeping with whites is just fundamentally revolting and wrong. There is literally nothing normal or attractive about them. And for a black woman to allow a white to actually do anything sexual with them is so wrong, it's criminal or sick. It's one thing for a guy, but even then, why would you even want to be in bed and kiss a white? That's so vile. There's nothing even s3xy about white women. I can't even imagine wanting to sleep with them for any reason but pure, absolute desperation. They would have to be the last women on earth. Even then, how can you do it without being nauseous? I almost feel bad for the kind of black people that look at whites with anything but disgust. Whites are sick, unattractive people.

Sorry if I offend anyone.

After all this you will still go back and watch porn with white ladies yeye

Abeg marry pesin wey una know eachother wella. No be by bringing over homebased.

Yet you will run to the people you are trying to racist right?
You are mad

Cousin9999:
Tbh Sleeping with whites is just fundamentally revolting and wrong. There is literally nothing normal or attractive about them. And for a black woman to allow a white to actually do anything sexual with them is so wrong, it's criminal or sick. It's one thing for a guy, but even then, why would you even want to be in bed and kiss a white? That's so vile. There's nothing even s3xy about white women. I can't even imagine wanting to sleep with them for any reason but pure, absolute desperation. They would have to be the last women on earth. Even then, how can you do it without being nauseous? I almost feel bad for the kind of black people that look at whites with anything but disgust. Whites are sick, unattractive people.

Sorry if I offend anyone.

Cousin9999:
Tbh Sleeping with whites is just fundamentally revolting and wrong. There is literally nothing normal or attractive about them. And for a black woman to allow a white to actually do anything sexual with them is so wrong, it's criminal or sick. It's one thing for a guy, but even then, why would you even want to be in bed and kiss a white? That's so vile. There's nothing even s3xy about white women. I can't even imagine wanting to sleep with them for any reason but pure, absolute desperation. They would have to be the last women on earth. Even then, how can you do it without being nauseous? I almost feel bad for the kind of black people that look at whites with anything but disgust. Whites are sick, unattractive people.

Sorry if I offend anyone.

always known this guy to be low key demented. Probably in a face me i slap u soaking garri

Nonexistent1:
Only fools come back to Nigeria to marry and take the oloshos with overused pussies that we have here. I always advise them to marry whoever they meet there. Some bigger fools among them go as far as marrying Nigerian daughters of Jezebel they meet online and take them abroad. Those are the simps they take everything from and render useless. I am not against them coming back to marry, my issue with them is that they take these oloshos with them to the abroad. If you are a man in this forum that lives abroad and you plan to come back to marry a Nigerian girl, I advise you to abort mission now or regret later. You will regret it, we can bet it if you like.

sadly man guys still fall for this scam. Person go see that kind chidinma with baby face bring am over thinking say na good girl

ednut1:
always known this guy to be low key demented. Probably in a face me i slap u soaking garri

justwise

Mikael0407:


After all this you will still go back and watch porn with white ladies yeye

1. I don't watch p0rnography. I'm grown, and I don't support human tr*fficking.
2. I don't think I've actually watched p0rnography with actual whites since I was a teenager. And even then I thought whites were ugly. lol

While I don't think it's wise to fly in a village girl, women abroad aren't really a good choice. The exception would be African and Caribbean women born abroad, or recent immigrants. Another good option is black women in Central and South America. They're hot as... really. And they're more traditional if that's what you like.

seunny4lif:
Yet you will run to the people you are trying to racist right?
You are mad

I didn't "run" anywhere. And migration means going to a different economy. No one goes abroad for crack3rs, you clown. And if crack3rs loot our resources, destabilize our countries, and make their countries progressive; are people supposed to sit in poverty admiring the surroundings? Like, what are you talking about?

FiverrTutor:


You're a fool!! The best relationships I have ever had were with white women.. Black Women(Nigerian) are very toxic with their stupid entitlement mentality. I have 2 kids with a white North Carolina lady and 2 with a Nigerian.... You can't imagine what I face with the Nigerian woman!!

Sounds like you're the problem. You chose a bad partner.

And I bet all the oyinbos you dated were obese and desperate to have a man. If you like climbing on those dúmb whales, that's your business, but there's no need to defend your choices by insulting Nigerian girls.

Abeg which woman based abroad go need good man like me for marriage?

I am not 100% perfect but am not a bad man. I am someone you will not regret marrying

sureukraine111:
Abeg which woman based abroad go need good man like me for marriage?

Am not 100% perfect but am not a bad man. Am someone you will not regret marrying

If I were a woman, I wouldn’t date someone who uses “Am” in the place of “I’m”.

Cousin9999:
Tbh Sleeping with whites is just fundamentally revolting and wrong. There is literally nothing normal or attractive about them. And for a black woman to allow a white to actually do anything sexual with them is so wrong, it's criminal or sick. It's one thing for a guy, but even then, why would you even want to be in bed and kiss a white? That's so vile. There's nothing even s3xy about white women. I can't even imagine wanting to sleep with them for any reason but pure, absolute desperation. They would have to be the last women on earth. Even then, how can you do it without being nauseous? I almost feel bad for the kind of black people that look at whites with anything but disgust. Whites are sick, unattractive people.

Sorry if I offend anyone.

You're an undercover black supremacist and racist. GTFO dude.

Olalekank:

If I were a woman, I wouldn’t date someone who uses “Am” in the place of “I’m”.

lol. Abeg make una rest this am/I'm thing. English no be our mother tongue o.