Cindy222:
I hear people say stuff like it's not good to be too available in a relationship,infact I even know some that keep to that rule.

There's this mentality that if one is too available e dey cause see finish,to an extent I know it's true o but at the same time not in every case.

Some people might miss their partners to the point of wanting to see them or maybe just feel like hanging out with them but NO O....They have to form unavailable so they won't be taken for granted.

Personally I feel its punishment sha,for someone like me,when I am in a relationship,I love deeply to the deepest of depths,I get to like people easily but you see this LOVE thing ehn...I can count how many times I have fallen in love like REAL LOVE,e no pass wetin you wan read?? You wan know how many times I don fall in love hehehe .....People who are close to me know my stand on this LOVE matter.


Ehen ....as I was saying I find it difficult to LOVE but when I do its DEEP and INTENSE, I pour out everything,sometimes such feelings are too much for some kinda people to handle.

Let's talk generally now,pouring out all your love and being intense scares some people away,they prefer you take it slowly and gradually,at the same time it endears some other people to you,they want you to pour out everything,if you do it gradually or slowly,it puts them off...

Me I sabi pour and shower love when I am in love o, as in I am intense,once I notice your love depth abi love outpour or love intensity no match my own I jakpa ......

I cannot come and be forming unavailable when I miss you or maybe when I wanna see you, just to hug you or something , i will just be holding everything inside chai or maybe switch off my phone so you won't reach me so e go make you miss me more or whatever, I no fit o...

I just let it flow, no hoarding of love or feelings. If it's too much then we are not meant to be biko,I need to be myself....If you take me for granted because I love you intensely.....I go jakpa too ....Our intensity has to match abeg or I stay alone sef, its better than hoarding my love and feelings.....Becoming scarce or unavailable cannot make me value you more o,infact it pushes me far far away.

Only a few people will understand the kind of intensity I am talking about sha,I know it's weird ��......I don be weirdo tey tey so no wahala.

Or maybe na because I be HUMAN CHIMERA ni as in 2 in 1,I never figure am out sha o,but that's just me.

Am I alone on this table ??

ednut1:
You are suffering from some kind of mental illness, a void was probably there growing up. See a therapist

Cindy222:
I hear people say stuff like it's not good to be too available in a relationship,infact I even know some that keep to that rule.

There's this mentality that if one is too available e dey cause see finish,to an extent I know it's true o but at the same time not in every case.

Some people might miss their partners to the point of wanting to see them or maybe just feel like hanging out with them but NO O....They have to form unavailable so they won't be taken for granted.

Personally I feel its punishment sha,for someone like me,when I am in a relationship,I love deeply to the deepest of depths,I get to like people easily but you see this LOVE thing ehn...I can count how many times I have fallen in love like REAL LOVE,e no pass wetin you wan read?? You wan know how many times I don fall in love hehehe .....People who are close to me know my stand on this LOVE matter.


Ehen ....as I was saying I find it difficult to LOVE but when I do its DEEP and INTENSE, I pour out everything,sometimes such feelings are too much for some kinda people to handle.

Let's talk generally now,pouring out all your love and being intense scares some people away,they prefer you take it slowly and gradually,at the same time it endears some other people to you,they want you to pour out everything,if you do it gradually or slowly,it puts them off...

Me I sabi pour and shower love when I am in love o, as in I am intense,once I notice your love depth abi love outpour or love intensity no match my own I jakpa ......

I cannot come and be forming unavailable when I miss you or maybe when I wanna see you, just to hug you or something , i will just be holding everything inside chai or maybe switch off my phone so you won't reach me so e go make you miss me more or whatever, I no fit o...

I just let it flow, no hoarding of love or feelings. If it's too much then we are not meant to be biko,I need to be myself....If you take me for granted because I love you intensely.....I go jakpa too ....Our intensity has to match abeg or I stay alone sef, its better than hoarding my love and feelings.....Becoming scarce or unavailable cannot make me value you more o,infact it pushes me far far away.

Only a few people will understand the kind of intensity I am talking about sha,I know it's weird ��......I don be weirdo tey tey so no wahala.

Or maybe na because I be HUMAN CHIMERA ni as in 2 in 1,I never figure am out sha o,but that's just me.

Am I alone on this table ??