Lostchild:
The only thing I like more about Nigeria women is that, they are more mellow because hardship has broken their soul from tender age.

This will enable them to appreciate their hubby

dammypat:
Mr op, did you put all of these up to confuse/convince yourself the more on your desire of marrying a western women or you have dated/marry all the Nigeria women to reach this your shallow conclusion? Are you trying to say every women in your linage are what you described above?
No one is telling not to you to marry a western women as that has been your childhood fantasy even up till now but stylishly bashing Nigeria women is very immature of you,even despite having your mother,sisters,aunties and grannies as Nigerians
Grow up and know that every human being whether male or female are not psychologically and mentally designed in the same way,just as you have described all Nigeria women.
We are not all prostitutes, many of us are financially independent,toiling day and night to have a life, many of us have Husbands abroad we are 100% faithful to, many of us are the provider while our husbands are still looking for jobs for years and no noise is being heard
Get yourself a wife with the fear and knowledge of God no matter the color or origin and you shall have peace.

MMotimo:




How can you like women that have broken souls due to hardship? That says a lot about your mental well-being and a need to dominate. That’s like saying you derive pressure from seeing broken women and to be brutally frank, that’s a very sick mindset. Brokenness will allow them appreciate their hubby? Men like you are part of the problem.

Lostchild:


I sure say you nor understand my vocals

Yes, you do not understand what I mean by "broken" soul from tender age which is true

I used the word brokeness (humility) I was talking about Nigeria women are more mellow (humble) than western women. I speak truth and will always be truthful.

Broken soul = humble soul
Mellow = humble (lowly) ( calm)

Nigeria women are more humble, therefore will appreciate their hubby

I am not a problem, Nigeria women are the problem. They are so much a problem that they were a huge problem to me until I stop dating them

iod69779:
OP other than the typos, you nailed this post with a good degree of precision. I have to admit I am one of those thinking about coming back to marry a Nigerian woman because of food, culture and language. Some people tell me its not worth it but a stubborn part me still hopes to find her. Apart from the food, culture and language i stated above which are important to me, I think oyibo beat Nigerian women hands down

greenie77:


In as much as you have stopped dating them, I also hope you been living as a celibate.

Lostchild:


Greenie77
I have been celibate for almost 10 years because of the tremendous amount of troubles I saw when dating Nigeria women.

I have not mastubate for 9 years because it will defile my spirit and I also can control myself.

celebacy is good for me

Lostchild:


Miss
I love to share my views in many aspect of life and I am very honest in my opinion. I never said all Nigeria woman are prostitute, I only spoke about the current extremeness of immorality in the Nigeria society.

Our future wives are now prostituting, they are known as runs or call girls.

Our future wives has now become sex workers and sex workers, whatever you call them, they are all into prostitution.

Yahoo boys are fraudsters, scammers are know as yahoo boys, whatever name you call them, they are all fraudsters.

If you are a supportive wife to your husband, that does not make every woman a supportive wife to their hubby.

If many Nigeria women are unfaitful, that does not mean every Nigerian wives are unfaitful.

I have sister and they are all in their 40s and during their time, it was not like this.

If you noticed my write up I never said Nigeria wives are unfaithful. I speak of the high levels of immorality in our Nigeria society of today

If you have a different word for prostitution, then I will gladly edit

You asked me to go and get a wife. How can I marry from a traditional society? How can I marry a woman with a traditional mindset?

(Genesis 2:18 ) God said, I will make him a suitable helper fit for him, but how can one find a suitable help mate in the midst of millions of heavily sexed women in an immoral devilish society?

I stop dating Nigeria women since 10 years ago because Nigeria woman are more of a problem to my life.




I was never against you stating your opinion nor against you marrying a westerner,what I’m against is you generalising every Nigerians girls/women, immorality abounds everywhere on earth now and not just Nigerians, your sisters that are in their 40s,if they have daughters, would you say their daughters have turned to the street and nothing good can come out of them? Would you speak negatively about them if one of your friends want to get married to any of them?

Yes! Things have gone really bad but it will be unfair to say every Nigerian girl are not marriageable
Discussing all Nigerian women in a light that you have done to justify your desire for a western woman is bad, there are still well trained Nigerian girls with morals, leave your environment where all the girls are bad and check other places before coming to this conclusion

I didn’t ask you to go get married, I told you to look for a God fearing woman no matter the colour or origin when you are to get married and not just a western woman, that is what will give you peace

I also don’t think your western women will still be these angels you described when you subject them under the condition Nigerian women are and what they go through, I don’t think a western woman still care for you,support you and stay with you after spending all your money and attention on side chics before loosing your job!

Many men and women everywhere are immoral now but not everybody

Lostchild:
Miss dammypat

Accept my apology as you keep reminding me that my words on the promiscuity part are a bit too hash of which I did edit them a little.

Even if you previously asked me to go get married, it is a good thing. If you ask me to marry a Godly woman, it is a good thing. I have made up my mind that when I pick a woman and settle down, I will expect the worst from her.

I have convince myself that, there is no Godly woman out there, women are women with different shade of characters.

I repeat; women are perfect and wonderful mothers, but they are terrible wives.

ImaIma1:
It good when a Nigerian man marries a westerner. It humbles them and cut those wings that they like to puff up for their fellow Nigerian women.

The man is always mellow, does house chores joyfully and doesn't allow his family intrude or come and live with him. All that rubbish he can dish out to a Nigerian woman by allowing his family torment her, acting like doing chores is an abomination to a man, he cannot try it with his foreign wife.

Many of them even hide to send their families at home money to avoid problems. So yeah, it's good to see the Nigerian man broken and humble, especially those proud ones

N.B

Most guys will ignore and turn two blind eyes to this post even the op. You guys can't stand this kind of truth.

Lostchild:
Miss dammypat

Accept my apology as you keep reminding me that my words on the promiscuity part are a bit too hash of which I did edit them a little.

Even if you previously asked me to go get married, it is a good thing. If you ask me to marry a Godly woman, it is a good thing. I have made up my mind that when I pick a woman and settle down, I will expect the worst from her.

I have convince myself that, there is no Godly woman out there, women are women with different shade of characters.

I repeat; women are perfect and wonderful mothers, but they are terrible wives.

Lostchild:
Miss dammypat

Accept my apology as you keep reminding me that my words on the promiscuity part are a bit too hash of which I did edit them a little.

Even if you previously asked me to go get married, it is a good thing. If you ask me to marry a Godly woman, it is a good thing. I have made up my mind that when I pick a woman and settle down, I will expect the worst from her.

I have convince myself that, there is no Godly woman out there, women are women with different shade of characters.

I repeat; women are perfect and wonderful mothers, but they are terrible wives.

Lostchild:
Miss dammypat

Accept my apology as you keep reminding me that my words on the promiscuity part are a bit too hash of which I did edit them a little.

Even if you previously asked me to go get married, it is a good thing. If you ask me to marry a Godly woman, it is a good thing. I have made up my mind that when I pick a woman and settle down, I will expect the worst from her.

I have convince myself that, there is no Godly woman out there, women are women with different shade of characters.

I repeat; women are perfect and wonderful mothers, but they are terrible wives.

Lostchild:
Miss dammypat

Accept my apology as you keep reminding me that my words on the promiscuity part are a bit too hash of which I did edit them a little.

Even if you previously asked me to go get married, it is a good thing. If you ask me to marry a Godly woman, it is a good thing. I have made up my mind that when I pick a woman and settle down, I will expect the worst from her.

I have convince myself that, there is no Godly woman out there, women are women with different shade of characters.

I repeat; women are perfect and wonderful mothers, but they are terrible wives.

Lostchild:
Miss dammypat

Accept my apology as you keep reminding me that my words on the promiscuity part are a bit too hash of which I did edit them a little.

Even if you previously asked me to go get married, it is a good thing. If you ask me to marry a Godly woman, it is a good thing. I have made up my mind that when I pick a woman and settle down, I will expect the worst from her.

I have convince myself that, there is no Godly woman out there, women are women with different shade of characters.

I repeat; women are perfect and wonderful mothers, but they are terrible wives.

Jman06:
At least the oyibo woman will have some values attached to her. Unlike our Nigerian women that have only their vagina to offer yet want to lord over their men and cut them off from their families.

Having said the above, I personally still prefer our black sisters because I'm more sexually attracted to blacks, but when I marry them, I expect them to be humble, submissive and committed to their duties in my kitchen, and never try to interfere with my relationship with my family. I'll provide for her which is what many of you crave for.

Vision101:
My own contribution with my small head is that if you want to get the best and most loyal wives, go for evening newspapers.

They must have searched, bound and cast. They might have lost hope. Eventually if they get you, they will be as loyal as ever.

They only problem will be that they will be very possessive. But they will truly appreciate you as their husbands. You know that anything gotten so easily is not appreciated.

iod69779:
OP other than the typos, you nailed this post with a good degree of precision. I have to admit I am one of those thinking about coming back to marry a Nigerian woman because of food, culture and language. Some people tell me its not worth it but a stubborn part me still hopes to find her. Apart from the food, culture and language i stated above which are important to me, I think oyibo beat Nigerian women hands down

ImaIma1:


Just say that all the women you have ever attracted only have their vaginas to offer. That says a lot about you and not all the Nigerian women all over the world. Instead of trying to run down your fellow women to make yourself feel superior, work on yourself so that you can attract better women with value. Do you even think you have any value?

For you to think it's only white women who have value is really pitiable and shows you have complex issues. If all the Nigerian women in your lineage are valueless, you don't have to generalize it.

But if you refuse to work on yourself, it won't be hard for you to find that woman without value who will be humble and committed to her duties in the kitchen, because that's what you attract

Jman06:
Egbe! All of you are the same, so stop pretending as though there are some other kinds of you! That line of "you attract your kind" is what you all come up with in arguments like this, but some of us have studied you like books and drawn our conclusions that you all are the same! Educated o, wealthy o, beautiful o, ugly o, y'all share same attributes when it comes to relationships with the male gender!

ImaIma1:


You actually sound like someone without any value to add to another human being, but just there to criticize and find fault.

I just feel for the girls you will father, who will grow up believing they have no value because their father says Nigerian women cannot have value.

Obviously, you have chosen the option not to work on yourself, so feel free to attract your kind.

Or better still, run along and go wash plates and do "boy boy" for your "colonial masters" with value. I can just picture one proud egoistic Nigerian man whistling while he's doing the dishes.

Jman06:
Don't worry, I'll marry from amongst you but when I do, she should better be humble and know her place while I provide for her.

Vision101:
My own contribution with my small head is that if you want to get the best and most loyal wives, go for evening newspapers.

They must have searched, bound and cast. They might have lost hope. Eventually if they get you, they will be as loyal as ever.

They only problem will be that they will be very possessive. But they will truly appreciate you as their husbands. You know that anything gotten so easily is not appreciated.

ImaIma1:


Na wa o. So you just prefer to marry a Nigerian woman that has no value over a westerner with plenty value to go round?

You see yasef! You don't have value my guy.

Jman06:
At least I have more values than you can ever attain all your life.

dammypat:
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Are men good husbands?

Hmmmmmmm! I understand your fears my dear,we all have this fear before and even after getting married, I had serious one myself before I got married, the thought of marriage made my heart skipped whenever it popped up, thought of wrong partner made it worse

I’ll advice you don’t go into marriage with the expectation of getting worse from your wife
I know you’ve been hurt terribly by some women who didn’t value you, it was so because they were not yours
God has destined one single woman to make you a happy man, I don’t know her colour though but what I know is she will change the narrative and she will give you the best
We are all human with flaws but right ones in our lives make it beautiful even in the midst of challenges and flaws

Your Bible quotation makes me believe you are a Christian, remember the Word of God says, “as a man thinketh in his heart, so he is” not just so he is but so he will become.

Marital journey is too long to end up with a bad partner, tell yourself you will get married to one of the best women on earth and you shall enjoy your marriage, it’s not impossible.
There are still good Men and good Women out there available for marriage

Be a good Man yourself ,watch and pray