FalseProphet1:

How?

Guys tell each other even scornfully, and no one feels insulted, even girls tell guys "better go and marry" yet they don't feel insulted, but once you tell it to a girl, all hell will be let loose.

Why?

Different strokes for different folks!

Na insult to tell girl to go marry. Na she go marry herself?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DStD_II9XuE

It's a plea, advise no be curse...
Though, the tone of the advise tells it all..

If its not an insult,then why is go and die an insult? at least all men must die!.

Rozcol:
It's not an insult as I would reply you with a perfect answer if I'm the one.It's a choice after all there are people who chose to remain single

Exactly... Is not by force to marry nau, abi

AchalugoNwa:
please my sexual orientation is not your business.

leave me alone
Stop harassing me
na by force?
stop sending me pms

See confusion of the highest order, today you are a lady with bleast, tomorrow you are a guy with dikko..

Abi you are an Aphrodite

Monogamy:


See confusion of the highest order, today you are a lady with bleast, tomorrow you are a guy with dikko..

Abi you are an Aphrodite

stay away from me

I don't love you
I have a boyfriend

This one deep o

KristaPretty:
If anyone tells me to go and marry like other ladies, I will tell them to go and die as their mates too.

Una goodnight

AchalugoNwa:
stay away from me

I don't love you
I have a boyfriend

You haven't filled ordinary a bucket yet you are shouting like this when I have storage tanks waiting to be filled..

Which one are you A guy, A girl or Aphrodite?

Let NL's know today and stop confusing yourself.. You may not even be aware which one you are self

FahBuLous:
That insult too much abeg

You no serious how he be insult, how about GO AND WORK?

Not an insult

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How?

Guys tell each other even scornfully, and no one feels insulted, even girls tell guys "better go and marry" yet they don't feel insulted, but once you tell it to a girl, all hell will be let loose.

Why?[/quote]

It's wrong to say that to her, infact, you sound very rude.

I have observed that Nigerians Like to tell you what they think about you in two ways.


First ,the joke; When some people don't want to ruffle your feather,they jokingly tell you how they feel with the hope that you won't see past the facade and when you do, they play the "0ver reacting" card. So when they jokingly tell you to go and marry and you take offense,they play the "I was just joking "card.


Second, the quarrel; There is always the "I said it out of anger " card to be played. So when they tell you go and marry during an altercation, they always fall back to the " I didn't mean it,I was angry" card.


So either way, the insult stays , politely or rudely.

pocohantas:


I am more interested in this. What lifestyle is she FORCING herself to live?

She's actually my neighbor, and she brings guys to her own flat to sleep over. That's not actually my problem, my problem is that she's always broke. She borrows money from me unnecessarily, always having one financial emergency or the other.

That's why I told her that, so that at least the marriage will make her responsible.

JovialJune:



You see, there is a special breed of toxin that makes nl boys display low IQ, they believe all females dissing them right back is single, continue

but you are single

It's simple psychology

HEAVEN4444:
and whats your dream man ? tall dark and handsome with range rover and 10 billion naira in akant and a 15 inch gbola

Yeye man.... islaik beta tin dey purge you. If you get those billions, you no go like am?
My answer is YES.

Sparkle777:


Yeye man.... islaik beta tin dey purge you. If you get those billions, you no go like am?
My answer is YES.

carry go. na you be MVP

Neptunium:
You don't know her story, you were wrong to make the remark. Was once insensitive like you. I know better after seeing what my younger sis faced at the hands of my fellow men, had to arrange my soldier friend in Nigeria to deal with the last one she dated. She met a great guy finally, got married a year ago at 34.

Your sis doesn't know how to pick men

FalseProphet1:

How?

Guys tell each other even scornfully, and no one feels insulted, even girls tell guys "better go and marry" yet they don't feel insulted, but once you tell it to a girl, all hell will be let loose.

Why?

in Nigerian of today, marriage is one of the hallmark in the life of a female, before child-bearing. This is why the appendage "married with kids" is a society success symbol for women.
They are under unbearable pressure from family, friends and society to marry, once they reach reproductive age and probably done with school.

Many single ladies become super-sensitive and find it derogatory to be told to go marry.

It's a different situation for males who are often under less pressure.

She probably has to deal with ignorant family or friends pressuring her to marry and pop out babies. Maybe she just had enough that day.

JeffreyJunior:
No it's not, just as "Falseprophet1, go and make money like your mates" by a lady isn't also an insult.

WowSweetGuy:
but you are single

It's simple psychology

But I'm not single

How you can't deduce the simple logic from my previous comment shows you have -0 IQ, Pele.

You meant it to be an insult. So shut up please

FalseProphet1:
As the topic implies, I recently told it to a girl whom I felt was way older than the lifestyle she was forcing herself to live, I noticed that her mood changed and she went into a rage and said I insulted her... please house look into it, is it an insult?

And why do many girls see that statement as an insult?

You did, you don't joke with a lady with the issue of marriage.

Wat's d big deal about marriage self??

FalseProphet1:
As the topic implies, I recently told it to a girl whom I felt was way older than the lifestyle she was forcing herself to live, I noticed that her mood changed and she went into a rage and said I insulted her... please house look into it, is it an insult?

And why do many girls see that statement as an insult?

GO AND MIND YOUR BUSINESS.
GO AND BUILD YOUR COUNTRY.
GO AND GET CIVILISED.
GO AND STOP INSULTING PEOPLE.
GO AND CHANGE YOUR USELESS CULTURE THAT VICTIMISE WOMEN FOR EVERY THING.
GO AND REMOVE Buhari.

FalseProphet1:

She's actually my neighbor, and she brings guys to her own flat to sleep over. That's not actually my problem, my problem is that she's always broke. She borrows money from me unnecessarily, always having one financial emergency or the other.

That's why I told her that, so that at least the marriage will make her responsible.

What has marriage got to do with borrowing money?
Are there not married people that borrow money from single people?

If you don't want to lend her money then tell her plainly that you won't give her...which one is go and marry.

Besides, does she not pay back?

FalseProphet1:
As the topic implies, I recently told it to a girl whom I felt was way older than the lifestyle she was forcing herself to live, I noticed that her mood changed and she went into a rage and said I insulted her... please house look into it, is it an insult?

And why do many girls see that statement as an insult?

Say you've written JAMB a couple of times but you are
not yet successful. You are still studying and attending lectures and praying to God for a miracle. So one day, after studying you decide to cool off a bit. While watching football inside your own house o, your mother's friend walks in and stares at you while you yell at the TV in excitement. Then she asks some questions about what you are currently doing and after you respond, she tells you quietly, "do and go to university. Your mates are in school while you are watching football!"

Now, how would you feel? Would you feel any better because she didn't yell but spoke quietly?

Any sort of wait, we must handle with sensitivity. Be it marriage, waiting for a job, NYSC or waiting for a baby. Be very careful how you speak of such things to such people "waiting". Don't let them use you and do testimony when their miracle comes. Besides you yourself mocking does not know what lies ahead your path in this journey called life