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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Oyin2212(m): 5:20am On Jul 06, 2021
Calibrator:
Don't mind these daughters of Eve jare.

Most of the girls in my life have ready given up on anything good coming from my Nazareth grin

Na understanding them dey understand now, yeye people.
grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by DeusMagnus: 6:29am On Jul 06, 2021
SweetVibe:

What if choses you for her selfish reason
then only the redpill can save you

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 6:29am On Jul 06, 2021
DAY 187, REDPILL 2021

The matrix: "forget the fact that she had a rough past, let bygone be bygone. Inasmuch that she has a good character and loves you, you can marry her and let her be the mother of your kids. For me, even if she cheats I will still forgive her because she has the best character ever. Phil, commit to this woman, she's all you'll ever get and there's no guarantee that any other woman will be better than her".


Redpill: a damaged woman will destroy your life. No special one. Be selective. Have an abundant mindset. Don't settle for less.

Authority: Go for the best.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by tobe1985: 6:32am On Jul 06, 2021
This is the absolute truth, my wife even cooks cleans and bleeps me better when I tell her off any time she misbehaves sometimes she tries to manipulate me by saying stuff like
"you don't know how to talk softly to a woman joor" or "u r not romantic enough"
Men,

Your greatest power when dealing with women is not your money, not your bedmatic skills and certainly not your looks.
It's your power and ability to keep her on her toe and make her know, though covertly, you can always walk away !
You're not going to put up with her bullshits, her whines and her negative energy.
As counterintuitive as it sounds, it's your greatest weapon when dealing with women.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ubunja(m): 6:58am On Jul 06, 2021
fattprince:

I know the movie. The man did surrogacy and left the woman. He went with the child to start a new life abroad.
lol what? Damn. That was unexpected. I enjoyed that clip. What's the name of the movie if you can remember. Nigerian movies have that raw acting that I like.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ubunja(m): 7:10am On Jul 06, 2021
CaveAdullam:
Just one reasonable redpill material video though. But the anonymous whatsapp posts are bombs. On instagram, check on naijahoestoriez and not naijahoestoriez back up(Anyway, I got the video from there).
bless you man. Instagram is a gold mine for anyone willing to learn the game. I'll spend the day on that page and seek out those anonymous whatsapp posts.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by beyondPen(m): 7:37am On Jul 06, 2021
Tonnyray:
So much said.
Fortunately some of us are a mould apart. If I ever had issues with them on Ashewo thread it was the fact that paying for sex was and still is despicable in my world. They tried to bully me with unsavory words both directly and indirectly but I put them in their place. And I made it clear the thread was open to everyone whether or not you patronize women of easy virtue. I’m all about catching cruise. Where there is anything to learn trust me I’m your quintessential sponge soaking up useful knowledge everywhere I go.

To accord any status to yourself because you are opposed to spending on the opposite sex is simply stupid in my opinion. The key element is CONTROL. Does pussy control you? You know how to tell you are a real man? (I have said it severally that I hate all this “alpha male” appellations). A real man lives life on his own terms. Call it orange pill if you like, that’s your cup of tea. Live life on your terms. Period. If I take a chick shopping it’s because I feel like. If I take a chick to an upscale restaurant it’s my prerogative. It won’t be because I’m trying to impress a girl or score pussy… I mean.. lol. I cited an example of a chick I spent 17k on a few pages back and some monikers went rabid, like wtf. If they bothered to read well we’ve been fvcking for over a month. I took her shopping just 2 weeks ago. It was my idea not hers. She didn’t even have an idea. She just discovered there were no male wears in the shop we entered and I asked her to pick 2 gowns. Guess what she was even smart enough to seek my opinion on what she picked. She didn’t just pick what she liked, she picked what she liked and I was also comfortable with. Those are the subtle signs to look for. Fast-forward to a few days later and she hinted she wanted to make her hair and I cut her short immediately. I repeat THIS IS ALL ABOUT CONTROL. The boutique move no be say I don turn maga. No be mouth there are at least 4 other equally sexy shawtys in the harem. Abundance mentality here.

A laughable mindset here is that you have to be mean to a woman to be “red pilled”. Whatever works for you. That’s lame in my opinion. As a real man all you need is to be firm and pretty much unpredictable. Never allow “see finish”. A woman respects a guy that she cannot manipulate or control. A guy she knows can change it for her at any given time. They will try to test you. When they do, bare your fangs immediately and register it you got no issues sinking your teeth in if they don’t align. Every woman I’ve been with describes me as caring but difficult. I take it as a compliment. I got zero tolerance for bullshit and I don’t hesitate to point their BS out because many times they actually can’t see it. Every female is manipulative by nature. What makes you a man is how well you can beat them at their game, show them up for what they are; show them you’re 4 or 5 steps ahead of them in their game. Two options become evident: she either capitulates and hands over authority and leadership totally to you or she immediately jumps ship to go find the guy she can manipulate and dominate. Note however that the fact that she ceded total authority to you today does not mean she won’t keep testing that authority subtly in an attempt to recoup it. So asserting your dominance is never a once and for all thing. She will always need reminder who wears the pants.

Broke guys fvck better is such a laughable a concept it’s debasing debating it. I’ve been dead broke. I’m a little comfortable now. I suppose I no longer sabi fvck. grin What actually made me spill my coffee was when the issue of paternity fraud was cited in favor of broke guys. Like for real? So my naija babe is likely to get pregnant for the gateman than she is for her MD. I repeat many people have zero knowledge when it comes to naija women. Note I place emphasis on naija. Apart from 2 Camerounian and a Ghanaian chick all my experience is with naija girls so I assert myself only when it comes to my field of expertise. Naija women love sex. Naija women enjoy sex. To however think sex is a major factor in a naija girl’s choices.. guy I’m sorry but you’re just dumb. Somehow I think porn has done a number on a lot of guys’ orientation about women. Sex is the least of the naija babe’s problems. If she wants to fvck 10 different dicks in a day, the only problem she’ll have is deciding which of the innumerable options she should shortlist. By babe here I hope we’re clear I am referring to hot girls in their prime. That stunning 20-25 year old 200-400 level Babcock, Madonna or Unilag Pharmacy, Accountancy or Law student. Anybody can be scoring Risikat the bread and akara seller and claim she chose him.. so he’s redpilled lol.

Our society is so messed up now that many ladies presently idolize materialism... agreed. It’s fallout of vicious social conditioning. Social and mainstream media actually consistently attempt to bludgeon most of our girls into subscribing to the ass for cash mantra. Same way guys are conditioned to seeing their worth only as reflected in the number of digits in their bank account statement, the type of cars they drive, they kind of locale they live in and all what not. Unfortunately the average guy just begins slut-shaming. Lol. Guess what I discovered, your disposition to them dictates what you get out of them. In this so-called “hoeing” phase, there is one word that better defines what these girls are after: THRILLS. The thrill of entering the most luxurious settings, the sleekest rides, the dopest parties, clubbing with the biggest society ballers and yes sex definitely comes in the mix. When it comes to girls, the vibes you give out determines what you get back. If you flaunt money, rest assured leeches will invade your space. My game is to flaunt fun. If it was about spending money I should have one of the lowest body counts in Nigeria. No chick I’ve been with in the last 7 years or so even know my real names. That’s how well I demarcate my fun life from my serious/professional life. I never do transfers. The 5 or 6 times I’ve had to in the last few years has been through one of my staff. I can confidently state I have never spent on a bitch I haven’t dicked for at least a month. That’s my modus operandi. Call it burgundy pill for all I care. The minute you present a bill before we start rolling in the sheets you’re history. On to the next one.

When I said this some miscreants went rabid. It takes simple logic to grasp all that is meant is that comfort attracts some females that may not have looked your way otherwise. It’s not even worth debating over. The Abuja babes working in the banking, telecom and insurance companies that populate my phone contact list and my Whatsapp chat would be famzing me and asking for trips if I was an okada rider ba? Oh I forgot there are bricklayers, plumbers and panelbeaters fvcking them that we know nothing about. Smh.

When it comes to the broke phenomenon I swear I can lecture majority here on what it is to be broke. As in not just broke but broke broke. The kind of broke that entails you going without food for days. How many here have trekked from Maryland to Yaba before because of no t-fare? Not once o but 5 or 6 times. Trekked from UI to Old-ife road in Ibadan for the same reason just as many times… yet too proud to beg or even ask. Guess what, on several occasions I go still see sexy, bootyliscious babe on the way and collect number. That should give you an idea about my mindset. There was never a time I believed any such dark phase is permanent. During some of those slapping episodes able bodied guys would walk up to me and beg for tfare to places less than a quarter of where I’d been slapping from. Even my friends knew Niyi would rather die than beg. I mentioned 3 guys earlier. One of them collected my account details from my brother and credited me with 30k during my lowest and worst season in this life. He knew I’d never ask. That 30k was like 30m to me back then. The guy had a thriving transport company. Fastforward and Covid-19 struck worsened by subsequent herdsmen highway kidnapping saga. The transportation industry took a colossal hit. Dude lost practically everything. Had debts he couldn’t settle. Many investors pulled out. Had to sell some of his cars. I’m glad to say I was able to come through for him in my own little way. Asides an initial bulk sum, 40k monthly is nothing big to a businessman but it sure means a family of 4 won’t starve.

And on the issue of “GAME” I’ve actually had a really good laugh here. What if I told you I was scoping chicks and collecting their numbers long before I could afford even a Nokia torch phone in my med school days. Back then in school, boys that had rides and latest Blackberrys would beg me to accompany them to UI to scope particular social science babes for them (social science was reputed to have the hottest girls back then) and would drop their jaws when I return within 15 minutes with the number and BB pin of the shawty their stupid selves were too timid to approach or had made futile attempts at. Some even joked I should turn it to a business. Lol. Chyking girls is actually more addictive in my world than fvcking. Same me never scored more than 2 girls throughout med school. It had nothing to do with game. I discovered women were a potential colossal distraction for me. I simply couldn’t marry chasing yansh with med school. Kudos to the boys that were able to string both along. Failing my first series of tests was my wake up call. I needed nobody to advise me to immediately activate the delayed gratification modus operandi. I knew it was only a matter of time the babes would be the ones begging for my attention. Self-fulfilling prophecy. The rest as they say is history.

There’s a whole lot we all could learn from each other on this thread if we were able to simply humble ourselves and hear each other out without resorting to unnecessary profiling and a “we versus them” disposition. Nobody is outrightly stupid. Nobody has a monopoly of wisdom either. Last last each one of us has only seen a different facet of this multifaceted prism called life.

My name sake (niyi) I related well to your writeup. That's the game. It about control, wit and beating them to their games.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Nobody: 7:40am On Jul 06, 2021
babyfaceafrica:
Even Linda Ikeji was impregnated by a billionaire.. Is she a prostitute ?
Lolzz u didn't know? grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by tosaino95(m): 8:17am On Jul 06, 2021
Infolenka:
You see someone die and you feel compassion for them and their families.

You see a friend in need and you wish you could help them

You derive happiness spending time in the company of the people you care about

You experience love and care for your family members

You have a capacity for love and genuine affection towards the opposite sex

If you belong to any of these category you can never implement the maccavelian side of trp principles. You are just wasting your time.
All these you mentioned i don't care about them again like before, I remember when someone close to my mum died, that day i just say she shouldn't cry that everybody will die she wan change for me why i will tell her that.
I just lock up and say no words then go out of the house.
many things like that sha but i don't like long write up if not i would have say all.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by fattprince(m): 8:43am On Jul 06, 2021
ubunja:
lol what? Damn. That was unexpected. I enjoyed that clip. What's the name of the movie if you can remember. Nigerian movies have that raw acting that I like.
Homeless home. Yeah. I had to search it out with the two actors I could remember their names

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by neyo0h: 8:49am On Jul 06, 2021
Tonnyray:
So much said.
Fortunately some of us are a mould apart. If I ever had issues with them on Ashewo thread it was the fact that paying for sex was and still is despicable in my world. They tried to bully me with unsavory words both directly and indirectly but I put them in their place. And I made it clear the thread was open to everyone whether or not you patronize women of easy virtue. I’m all about catching cruise. Where there is anything to learn trust me I’m your quintessential sponge soaking up useful knowledge everywhere I go.

To accord any status to yourself because you are opposed to spending on the opposite sex is simply stupid in my opinion. The key element is CONTROL. Does pussy control you? You know how to tell you are a real man? (I have said it severally that I hate all this “alpha male” appellations). A real man lives life on his own terms. Call it orange pill if you like, that’s your cup of tea. Live life on your terms. Period. If I take a chick shopping it’s because I feel like. If I take a chick to an upscale restaurant it’s my prerogative. It won’t be because I’m trying to impress a girl or score pussy… I mean.. lol. I cited an example of a chick I spent 17k on a few pages back and some monikers went rabid, like wtf. If they bothered to read well we’ve been fvcking for over a month. I took her shopping just 2 weeks ago. It was my idea not hers. She didn’t even have an idea. She just discovered there were no male wears in the shop we entered and I asked her to pick 2 gowns. Guess what she was even smart enough to seek my opinion on what she picked. She didn’t just pick what she liked, she picked what she liked and I was also comfortable with. Those are the subtle signs to look for. Fast-forward to a few days later and she hinted she wanted to make her hair and I cut her short immediately. I repeat THIS IS ALL ABOUT CONTROL. The boutique move no be say I don turn maga. No be mouth there are at least 4 other equally sexy shawtys in the harem. Abundance mentality here.

A laughable mindset here is that you have to be mean to a woman to be “red pilled”. Whatever works for you. That’s lame in my opinion. As a real man all you need is to be firm and pretty much unpredictable. Never allow “see finish”. A woman respects a guy that she cannot manipulate or control. A guy she knows can change it for her at any given time. They will try to test you. When they do, bare your fangs immediately and register it you got no issues sinking your teeth in if they don’t align. Every woman I’ve been with describes me as caring but difficult. I take it as a compliment. I got zero tolerance for bullshit and I don’t hesitate to point their BS out because many times they actually can’t see it. Every female is manipulative by nature. What makes you a man is how well you can beat them at their game, show them up for what they are; show them you’re 4 or 5 steps ahead of them in their game. Two options become evident: she either capitulates and hands over authority and leadership totally to you or she immediately jumps ship to go find the guy she can manipulate and dominate. Note however that the fact that she ceded total authority to you today does not mean she won’t keep testing that authority subtly in an attempt to recoup it. So asserting your dominance is never a once and for all thing. She will always need reminder who wears the pants.

Broke guys fvck better is such a laughable a concept it’s debasing debating it. I’ve been dead broke. I’m a little comfortable now. I suppose I no longer sabi fvck. grin What actually made me spill my coffee was when the issue of paternity fraud was cited in favor of broke guys. Like for real? So my naija babe is likely to get pregnant for the gateman than she is for her MD. I repeat many people have zero knowledge when it comes to naija women. Note I place emphasis on naija. Apart from 2 Camerounian and a Ghanaian chick all my experience is with naija girls so I assert myself only when it comes to my field of expertise. Naija women love sex. Naija women enjoy sex. To however think sex is a major factor in a naija girl’s choices.. guy I’m sorry but you’re just dumb. Somehow I think porn has done a number on a lot of guys’ orientation about women. Sex is the least of the naija babe’s problems. If she wants to fvck 10 different dicks in a day, the only problem she’ll have is deciding which of the innumerable options she should shortlist. By babe here I hope we’re clear I am referring to hot girls in their prime. That stunning 20-25 year old 200-400 level Babcock, Madonna or Unilag Pharmacy, Accountancy or Law student. Anybody can be scoring Risikat the bread and akara seller and claim she chose him.. so he’s redpilled lol.

Our society is so messed up now that many ladies presently idolize materialism... agreed. It’s fallout of vicious social conditioning. Social and mainstream media actually consistently attempt to bludgeon most of our girls into subscribing to the ass for cash mantra. Same way guys are conditioned to seeing their worth only as reflected in the number of digits in their bank account statement, the type of cars they drive, they kind of locale they live in and all what not. Unfortunately the average guy just begins slut-shaming. Lol. Guess what I discovered, your disposition to them dictates what you get out of them. In this so-called “hoeing” phase, there is one word that better defines what these girls are after: THRILLS. The thrill of entering the most luxurious settings, the sleekest rides, the dopest parties, clubbing with the biggest society ballers and yes sex definitely comes in the mix. When it comes to girls, the vibes you give out determines what you get back. If you flaunt money, rest assured leeches will invade your space. My game is to flaunt fun. If it was about spending money I should have one of the lowest body counts in Nigeria. No chick I’ve been with in the last 7 years or so even know my real names. That’s how well I demarcate my fun life from my serious/professional life. I never do transfers. The 5 or 6 times I’ve had to in the last few years has been through one of my staff. I can confidently state I have never spent on a bitch I haven’t dicked for at least a month. That’s my modus operandi. Call it burgundy pill for all I care. The minute you present a bill before we start rolling in the sheets you’re history. On to the next one.

When I said this some miscreants went rabid. It takes simple logic to grasp all that is meant is that comfort attracts some females that may not have looked your way otherwise. It’s not even worth debating over. The Abuja babes working in the banking, telecom and insurance companies that populate my phone contact list and my Whatsapp chat would be famzing me and asking for trips if I was an okada rider ba? Oh I forgot there are bricklayers, plumbers and panelbeaters fvcking them that we know nothing about. Smh.

When it comes to the broke phenomenon I swear I can lecture majority here on what it is to be broke. As in not just broke but broke broke. The kind of broke that entails you going without food for days. How many here have trekked from Maryland to Yaba before because of no t-fare? Not once o but 5 or 6 times. Trekked from UI to Old-ife road in Ibadan for the same reason just as many times… yet too proud to beg or even ask. Guess what, on several occasions I go still see sexy, bootyliscious babe on the way and collect number. That should give you an idea about my mindset. There was never a time I believed any such dark phase is permanent. During some of those slapping episodes able bodied guys would walk up to me and beg for tfare to places less than a quarter of where I’d been slapping from. Even my friends knew Niyi would rather die than beg. I mentioned 3 guys earlier. One of them collected my account details from my brother and credited me with 30k during my lowest and worst season in this life. He knew I’d never ask. That 30k was like 30m to me back then. The guy had a thriving transport company. Fastforward and Covid-19 struck worsened by subsequent herdsmen highway kidnapping saga. The transportation industry took a colossal hit. Dude lost practically everything. Had debts he couldn’t settle. Many investors pulled out. Had to sell some of his cars. I’m glad to say I was able to come through for him in my own little way. Asides an initial bulk sum, 40k monthly is nothing big to a businessman but it sure means a family of 4 won’t starve.

And on the issue of “GAME” I’ve actually had a really good laugh here. What if I told you I was scoping chicks and collecting their numbers long before I could afford even a Nokia torch phone in my med school days. Back then in school, boys that had rides and latest Blackberrys would beg me to accompany them to UI to scope particular social science babes for them (social science was reputed to have the hottest girls back then) and would drop their jaws when I return within 15 minutes with the number and BB pin of the shawty their stupid selves were too timid to approach or had made futile attempts at. Some even joked I should turn it to a business. Lol. Chyking girls is actually more addictive in my world than fvcking. Same me never scored more than 2 girls throughout med school. It had nothing to do with game. I discovered women were a potential colossal distraction for me. I simply couldn’t marry chasing yansh with med school. Kudos to the boys that were able to string both along. Failing my first series of tests was my wake up call. I needed nobody to advise me to immediately activate the delayed gratification modus operandi. I knew it was only a matter of time the babes would be the ones begging for my attention. Self-fulfilling prophecy. The rest as they say is history.

There’s a whole lot we all could learn from each other on this thread if we were able to simply humble ourselves and hear each other out without resorting to unnecessary profiling and a “we versus them” disposition. Nobody is outrightly stupid. Nobody has a monopoly of wisdom either. Last last each one of us has only seen a different facet of this multifaceted prism called life.

Correct.

Your write up summarises the real Nigeria.

Theories are different from reality.

Women are the same everywhere but environment matter's.

If I want a girl in the environment where I'm based I know it will be purely based on attraction , girls around here are not moved by materialism, they can get mostly anything they need, however in Nigeria, the clout chasing culture in the midst of poverty and extreme wealth has everything lopsided and money matters, doesn't mean you have to spend it.

The over emphasis on lust/ attraction isn't a mega secret that isn't understood, tinder for example show that women select based on your level of hotness, what isn't being said by these goon's here on this thread is that just about 5 percent of people in a given environment are actually extremely good looking enough to get that level of desire in women unleashed, hence the alternative is for the females to pick based on a combination of attributes.

Like you said, it's easy to bang all the local girls in your hood and think you're a G. grin

So it's some snake oil being sold here.

When they're ready for proper debate's I'll sure be ready to engage..

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by TheDarkGamer: 8:57am On Jul 06, 2021
Tonnyray:
So much said.
Fortunately some of us are a mould apart. If I ever had issues with them on Ashewo thread it was the fact that paying for sex was and still is despicable in my world. They tried to bully me with unsavory words both directly and indirectly but I put them in their place. And I made it clear the thread was open to everyone whether or not you patronize women of easy virtue. I’m all about catching cruise. Where there is anything to learn trust me I’m your quintessential sponge soaking up useful knowledge everywhere I go.

To accord any status to yourself because you are opposed to spending on the opposite sex is simply stupid in my opinion. The key element is CONTROL. Does pussy control you? You know how to tell you are a real man? (I have said it severally that I hate all this “alpha male” appellations). A real man lives life on his own terms. Call it orange pill if you like, that’s your cup of tea. Live life on your terms. Period. If I take a chick shopping it’s because I feel like. If I take a chick to an upscale restaurant it’s my prerogative. It won’t be because I’m trying to impress a girl or score pussy… I mean.. lol. I cited an example of a chick I spent 17k on a few pages back and some monikers went rabid, like wtf. If they bothered to read well we’ve been fvcking for over a month. I took her shopping just 2 weeks ago. It was my idea not hers. She didn’t even have an idea. She just discovered there were no male wears in the shop we entered and I asked her to pick 2 gowns. Guess what she was even smart enough to seek my opinion on what she picked. She didn’t just pick what she liked, she picked what she liked and I was also comfortable with. Those are the subtle signs to look for. Fast-forward to a few days later and she hinted she wanted to make her hair and I cut her short immediately. I repeat THIS IS ALL ABOUT CONTROL. The boutique move no be say I don turn maga. No be mouth there are at least 4 other equally sexy shawtys in the harem. Abundance mentality here.

A laughable mindset here is that you have to be mean to a woman to be “red pilled”. Whatever works for you. That’s lame in my opinion. As a real man all you need is to be firm and pretty much unpredictable. Never allow “see finish”. A woman respects a guy that she cannot manipulate or control. A guy she knows can change it for her at any given time. They will try to test you. When they do, bare your fangs immediately and register it you got no issues sinking your teeth in if they don’t align. Every woman I’ve been with describes me as caring but difficult. I take it as a compliment. I got zero tolerance for bullshit and I don’t hesitate to point their BS out because many times they actually can’t see it. Every female is manipulative by nature. What makes you a man is how well you can beat them at their game, show them up for what they are; show them you’re 4 or 5 steps ahead of them in their game. Two options become evident: she either capitulates and hands over authority and leadership totally to you or she immediately jumps ship to go find the guy she can manipulate and dominate. Note however that the fact that she ceded total authority to you today does not mean she won’t keep testing that authority subtly in an attempt to recoup it. So asserting your dominance is never a once and for all thing. She will always need reminder who wears the pants.

Broke guys fvck better is such a laughable a concept it’s debasing debating it. I’ve been dead broke. I’m a little comfortable now. I suppose I no longer sabi fvck. grin What actually made me spill my coffee was when the issue of paternity fraud was cited in favor of broke guys. Like for real? So my naija babe is likely to get pregnant for the gateman than she is for her MD. I repeat many people have zero knowledge when it comes to naija women. Note I place emphasis on naija. Apart from 2 Camerounian and a Ghanaian chick all my experience is with naija girls so I assert myself only when it comes to my field of expertise. Naija women love sex. Naija women enjoy sex. To however think sex is a major factor in a naija girl’s choices.. guy I’m sorry but you’re just dumb. Somehow I think porn has done a number on a lot of guys’ orientation about women. Sex is the least of the naija babe’s problems. If she wants to fvck 10 different dicks in a day, the only problem she’ll have is deciding which of the innumerable options she should shortlist. By babe here I hope we’re clear I am referring to hot girls in their prime. That stunning 20-25 year old 200-400 level Babcock, Madonna or Unilag Pharmacy, Accountancy or Law student. Anybody can be scoring Risikat the bread and akara seller and claim she chose him.. so he’s redpilled lol.

Our society is so messed up now that many ladies presently idolize materialism... agreed. It’s fallout of vicious social conditioning. Social and mainstream media actually consistently attempt to bludgeon most of our girls into subscribing to the ass for cash mantra. Same way guys are conditioned to seeing their worth only as reflected in the number of digits in their bank account statement, the type of cars they drive, they kind of locale they live in and all what not. Unfortunately the average guy just begins slut-shaming. Lol. Guess what I discovered, your disposition to them dictates what you get out of them. In this so-called “hoeing” phase, there is one word that better defines what these girls are after: THRILLS. The thrill of entering the most luxurious settings, the sleekest rides, the dopest parties, clubbing with the biggest society ballers and yes sex definitely comes in the mix. When it comes to girls, the vibes you give out determines what you get back. If you flaunt money, rest assured leeches will invade your space. My game is to flaunt fun. If it was about spending money I should have one of the lowest body counts in Nigeria. No chick I’ve been with in the last 7 years or so even know my real names. That’s how well I demarcate my fun life from my serious/professional life. I never do transfers. The 5 or 6 times I’ve had to in the last few years has been through one of my staff. I can confidently state I have never spent on a bitch I haven’t dicked for at least a month. That’s my modus operandi. Call it burgundy pill for all I care. The minute you present a bill before we start rolling in the sheets you’re history. On to the next one.

When I said this some miscreants went rabid. It takes simple logic to grasp all that is meant is that comfort attracts some females that may not have looked your way otherwise. It’s not even worth debating over. The Abuja babes working in the banking, telecom and insurance companies that populate my phone contact list and my Whatsapp chat would be famzing me and asking for trips if I was an okada rider ba? Oh I forgot there are bricklayers, plumbers and panelbeaters fvcking them that we know nothing about. Smh.

When it comes to the broke phenomenon I swear I can lecture majority here on what it is to be broke. As in not just broke but broke broke. The kind of broke that entails you going without food for days. How many here have trekked from Maryland to Yaba before because of no t-fare? Not once o but 5 or 6 times. Trekked from UI to Old-ife road in Ibadan for the same reason just as many times… yet too proud to beg or even ask. Guess what, on several occasions I go still see sexy, bootyliscious babe on the way and collect number. That should give you an idea about my mindset. There was never a time I believed any such dark phase is permanent. During some of those slapping episodes able bodied guys would walk up to me and beg for tfare to places less than a quarter of where I’d been slapping from. Even my friends knew Niyi would rather die than beg. I mentioned 3 guys earlier. One of them collected my account details from my brother and credited me with 30k during my lowest and worst season in this life. He knew I’d never ask. That 30k was like 30m to me back then. The guy had a thriving transport company. Fastforward and Covid-19 struck worsened by subsequent herdsmen highway kidnapping saga. The transportation industry took a colossal hit. Dude lost practically everything. Had debts he couldn’t settle. Many investors pulled out. Had to sell some of his cars. I’m glad to say I was able to come through for him in my own little way. Asides an initial bulk sum, 40k monthly is nothing big to a businessman but it sure means a family of 4 won’t starve.

And on the issue of “GAME” I’ve actually had a really good laugh here. What if I told you I was scoping chicks and collecting their numbers long before I could afford even a Nokia torch phone in my med school days. Back then in school, boys that had rides and latest Blackberrys would beg me to accompany them to UI to scope particular social science babes for them (social science was reputed to have the hottest girls back then) and would drop their jaws when I return within 15 minutes with the number and BB pin of the shawty their stupid selves were too timid to approach or had made futile attempts at. Some even joked I should turn it to a business. Lol. Chyking girls is actually more addictive in my world than fvcking. Same me never scored more than 2 girls throughout med school. It had nothing to do with game. I discovered women were a potential colossal distraction for me. I simply couldn’t marry chasing yansh with med school. Kudos to the boys that were able to string both along. Failing my first series of tests was my wake up call. I needed nobody to advise me to immediately activate the delayed gratification modus operandi. I knew it was only a matter of time the babes would be the ones begging for my attention. Self-fulfilling prophecy. The rest as they say is history.

There’s a whole lot we all could learn from each other on this thread if we were able to simply humble ourselves and hear each other out without resorting to unnecessary profiling and a “we versus them” disposition. Nobody is outrightly stupid. Nobody has a monopoly of wisdom either. Last last each one of us has only seen a different facet of this multifaceted prism called life.


We may not agree on certain issues, but at the end of the day we live our own lives. Nobody here can force you to do that. At best, we can advice you, but it's up to you if you analyze the advice, see if it resonates with you and accept it.

As long as we are living our lives on our terms and understanding the female nature for what it is, I think that's commendable. Do whatever you are comfortable with, and don't be manipulated into doing what is detrimental to your life or emotional health.

Some issues you said about being broke to get more sex and all were just twisted by trolls to suit their narratives. I don't recall anybody here advocating that.

There is a reason why trolls and people who add nothing to the thread are to be ignored. It is all for the longevity of the thread, and so that we all have a peaceful environment to share knowledge. If you check the Ashawo thread now, trolls have invaded it and the purpose of the thread is sidelined. We want to avoid situations like that. It starts small, but if it is not controlled at the early stages, it spirals out of control in the future.

The Redpill is something that every man should be aware of and many people will discover this thread today, tomorrow, and in the future. We owe it to them to keep it sane (just like we met it), so that they can benefit from them.

I hope we are all good, no need for further fallouts about this particular issues.

Good morning.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MJBOLT: 9:03am On Jul 06, 2021
cool wink

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by SOZINN: 9:05am On Jul 06, 2021
tobe1985:
This is the absolute truth, my wife even cooks cleans and bleeps me better when I tell her off any time she misbehaves sometimes she tries to manipulate me by saying stuff like
"you don't know how to talk softly to a woman joor" or "u r not romantic enough"

Thank you for sharing this, posts like yours are part of the reason I come back to this thread daily. You are doing everything right. Women by nature are very manipulative and all the good she does after you correct her errors is to try and get back into your good book. But I trust you know that all the things you listed above are basic duties of a wife. So you will not make her feel extra special after doing what she is supposed to do.

Asserting your authority and expressing your boundaries is not a one time thing. You have to do so anytime she needs to be reminded. Her words are silly attempts to try and open your door of softness and unmerited validation. Do not do so because whenever your spouse crosses the line and you can't find the courage to put her in her place. Power slowly begins to shift.

You might not notice it immediately but as time goes on, she will do whatever she likes. Knowing that there is nothing you will do about it and you are comfortable with everything. But as long as you keep expressing your authority, the days that will follow are days of pleasure. I hope that you will be kind enough to share more stories of your success as we thread further.

It's always nice to see a brother practice these tents and reap the benefits.
Salute!!!!

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ubunja(m): 9:05am On Jul 06, 2021
fattprince:

Homeless home. Yeah. I had to search it out with the two actors I could remember their names
You're truly the prince. Thanks man. I appreciate.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by MetalJigsaw(m): 9:07am On Jul 06, 2021
Life is short, live it to its fullest even if it involves being single all your life.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by fattprince(m): 9:09am On Jul 06, 2021
ubunja:
You're truly the prince. Thanks man. I appreciate.
You very welcome, Boss.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ubunja(m): 9:18am On Jul 06, 2021
That famous oversized Southy forehead.. It's cute tho lmfao

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by tobe1985: 9:21am On Jul 06, 2021
The biggest mistake you can make is listening to what a woman says. Rich guys Bleep more than broke guys. Stop using the tweet of one deceptive woman on twitter trying to console you.
Sex is a tool for women most of the time

ubunja:
the women are the ones with the pussy. If they're saying broke dick is better it actually means they are fvcking those broke guys. You, you're just putting your own opinion, which really is just useless at this point. If I were you I would just close my mouth on this issue because you're not the one being fvcked.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by larryking540: 9:22am On Jul 06, 2021
Emotionss:
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That has always been my stand.

A man that has a Blue collar job can also be a Redpiller. As long as a man has a Dream and he is working towards accomplishing that dream he has every right to be a Redpiller even if he is broke or jobless at the moment. In fact His being a Redpiller will even help him Elevate is Status faster. Remember there's More to Redpill than Women and Sex.

Salute.

that's true man ,it's more than sex and women ,it's about career building,create a niech of successful redpillers around you guys ,you can't do it a lone as a man have sussefull guys around you to push you higher .

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Femzaremz(m): 9:31am On Jul 06, 2021
neyo0h:


This doesn't work oh my bro, you have to be a jobless hoodlum to prove you're redpill.

Your mattress must be dirty asf, it's only then you know u r doing it right. grin
LMFAO!!

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by COOL10(m): 9:36am On Jul 06, 2021
ubunja:
That famous oversized Southy forehead.. It's cute tho lmfao
.

Ubunja, you once posted a meme which said a girl shoots her shot by making herself available for you to shoot your shot. Could you explain further on this? I ask because some actions could sometimes be misinterpreted as choosing signals.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by KiNg0G: 9:44am On Jul 06, 2021
Finally he at 60.




Here is the style and attitudes am talking about bro.
You can't compare this man to ned nwoke.
That's u been on top of the game....been an OG at all time.


You see the swag there.... you see the style there.... with the ice and all..

Go to the front page...see ladies sweating their assx off just to get a bite.

Cc xfactordv

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by tobe1985: 10:04am On Jul 06, 2021
The biggest mistake you can make is listening to what a woman says. Rich guys Bleep more than broke guys. Stop using the tweet of one deceptive woman on twitter trying to console you.
Sex is a tool for women most of the time
ubunja:
the women are the ones with the pussy. If they're saying broke dick is better it actually means they are fvcking those broke guys. You, you're just putting your own opinion, which really is just useless at this point. If I were you I would just close my mouth on this issue because you're not the one being fvcked.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ubunja(m): 10:18am On Jul 06, 2021
COOL10:
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Ubunja, you once posted a meme which said a girl shoots her shot by making herself available for you to shoot your shot. Could you explain further on this? I ask because some actions could sometimes be misinterpreted as choosing signals.
those actions ARE choosing signals.

a woman shooting her shot=choosing signals.

its one and the same thing. a woman will not tell you 'i love you' since as a guy you'll be disgusted and call her a cheap hoe. so she makes you notice her by giving subtle signals that implant in your mind in such a way that you dont directly notice it but think you started liking her all on your own. she makes everything appear like its a coincidence.

to simplify it. when a girl keeps doing to you things that shell never allow just any guy to do to her, then chances are she's giving you greenlights.
eg girls hate it when guys keep touching them. so when a girl herself keeps touching you, chances are she's throwing hints at you. such things.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by COOL10(m): 10:31am On Jul 06, 2021
ubunja:
those actions ARE choosing signals.

a woman shooting her shot=choosing signals.

its one and the same thing. a woman will not tell you 'i love you' since as a guy you'll be disgusted and call her a cheap hoe. so she makes you notice her by giving subtle signals that implant in your mind in such a way that you dont directly notice it but think you started liking her all on your own. she makes everything appear like its a coincidence.

to simplify it. when a girl keeps doing to you things that shell never allow just any guy to do to her, then chances are she's giving you greenlights.
eg girls hate it when guys keep touching them. so when a girl herself keeps touching you, chances are she's throwing hints at you. such things.
.

Thanks, man.

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