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….... by Frelex: 7:49pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
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Re: ….... by falcon01: 7:50pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
Sometimes I wish I can post voice note in Nairaland 13 Likes |
Re: ….... by Frelex: 7:52pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
falcon01:pls am in tears. I need some one to talk to me. Am i the only person that sees it as wrong? I love her with my life. But this is just too much for me to take 1 Like |
Re: ….... by akinreals: 7:55pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
Cover your face in shame op, for good 7 years, you have been fvcking someone child without any plan to marry her, thunder wey go fire you still dey sambisa forest dey prepare. Dat girl na idiot. U be real time waster. Mumu 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: ….... by Dissap: 7:59pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
Yo Hommie. 7 years? Buhari go come and go, and still rear cow for the remaining 3 years, and you're still fucking and unfucking person's pikin? And now u wan break up on top say e no inform u for the abortion plan? Damn! |
Re: ….... by Frelex: 8:05pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
If u dnt have anything to say, stop showing ur ignorance here pls. We started dating when in college, when we graduated she decided she is fuderring her education b4 marriage. She got admitted in university and now she is in her 400level. So, 3years in college plus over 4 years in the university due to luck down makes it over 7years. |
Re: ….... by Frelex: 8:06pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
akinreals:If u dnt have anything to say, stop showing ur ignorance here pls. We started dating when in college, when we graduated she decided she is fuderring her education b4 marriage. She got admitted in university and now she is in her 400level. So, 3years in college plus over 4 years in the university due to luck down makes it over 7years. 2 Likes |
Re: ….... by fati2001(m): 8:11pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
Frelex: PLS IMPREGNATE HER AGAIN. LET'S SEE IF SHE WILL ABORT IT. 2 Likes
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Re: ….... by fati2001(m): 8:20pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
Frelex: u are in tears for what? I'm confused. 1 Like
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Re: ….... by Frelex: 8:24pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
Sad |
Re: ….... by Frelex: 8:26pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
fati2001:that am loosing the relationship i so much cherrish |
Re: ….... by Richardjemedafe(m): 8:26pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
This is not something to support or celebrate. She went behind your back and your child is now dead because of her unilateral decision. She may have the legal right to do that without your consent, but the moral right? No. That os very wrong of her. Lasticlala amd seun am i wrong? 1 Like |
Re: ….... by Lurabel: 8:46pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
If it is a big deal to you that she made a decision like this without telling you then it seems you two have value systems that are different enough that a long-term relationship between you may not work. So probably the best thing to do is wrap it up now and find someone whose values more closely align with your own. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: ….... by adexpa(m): 8:50pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
Nobody here will empathize with you. Did you asked her the reason for such decision? I do not think leaving her is the solution cus you never know the status(maybe she had many abortions already) of the next one you gonna meet. Talk to her on her decision and find out the hidden things you never know. 1 Like |
Re: ….... by Nobody: 8:50pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
Dissap:My nigga. For the first time you're making a sane comment here You deserve this and more my OG
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Re: ….... by Lurabel: 8:52pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
There is a belief that once the sex is done, what happens after that is up to the woman. After all, if she decides to have the baby that is 9 months of work on her body, and then 18 years of work with a child. Certainly the male can play a huge role in it, but If she doesn’t fully trust you, then you are just a question mark to her in this whole equation. And for her, it may be easier to assume you simply will not be there. So if she looks at it that way, her decision was based on that she doesn’t want to raise a child alone right now, or doesn’t want a child at all. Basically you have to see it from her perspective. it’s probably hard to see it from her perspective because you are used to seeing it from yours. You know how trustworthy you are (or at least we all believe we are trustworthy). But if she’s only known you for a 7years, it’s hard for someone to have that much trust that the other person is sticking around for the next 20 years. as for why she acted like it’s no big deal, consider that it may be very hard for her to cope with guilt, or the external pressures that are placed on her. Right now it might be easier to pretend that nothing happened. Over time, she will be able to process those feelings when she believes that its safe for her to do so. Let her feel supported by you. Be kind to her, and let her know That you are there if she needs to talk to someone. You will do your best to accept her decision, and help her in any way. Either that, or maybe she really doesn’t care. That is certainly a possibility. if you are still stuck on the idea that you should have been included on this decision, try to understand that there will be some things in relationships that are outside of your control. The woman will not always want your input. For example, if she makes a big career move, she may just not care what you think. Or if she buys a new car, she may not ask you because it’s her money. She may view it the same way with kids—-she doesn’t want them because it’s her body. Try to process this reality and ask yourself at what point are you over-controlling and/or selfish. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: ….... by Angelacruz: 8:53pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
7yrs of dating?? U have bin awarded wit a Bachelor of medicine.Congrats Dr |
Re: ….... by Frelex: 9:25pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
adexpa:Hmm!! Confused
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Re: ….... by Nobody: 9:49pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
she simply don't want to be a baby mama. so if u want a child from her or u luv her as u claim, den what stops u from marrying her? |
Re: ….... by Benprince25: 9:52pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
Dear op, its like u want to use d pregnancy to tie dis innocent girl down.. Honestly she doesn't see any future with u..dats y she can neva birth ur child... Or maybe ure nt her level ... Just go nd get another gf already.... Nd stop wasting ur time 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: ….... by Mophor: 10:26pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
Damn Niggar!!!!! Be grateful that she saved you from raising another mans child 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: ….... by arthorjnr(m): 10:42pm On Jul 05, 2021 |
Break up with her. This is a huge red flag. An abortion is a big deal that she should talk to you about even if she won't keep the foetus. The way she had the abortion decision swiftly reeks of experience. She isn't a newbie to that life. Make your decision wisely. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: ….... by falcon01: 12:05am On Jul 06, 2021 |
Frelex:shes not ready for pregnancy if you actually love just talk to her. Couples have misunderstanding and this doesn't mean it's the end except of she has other motive maybe she's been unfaithful and is scared it might not be yours so decided to deal with it, who knows?? Cause these hoes ain't loyal. |
Re: ….... by ednut1(m): 1:23am On Jul 06, 2021 |
The pregnancy isn’t yours or she has no plans of marrying you. You get money or you don hammer? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: ….... by AutoChick4U(f): 1:46am On Jul 06, 2021 |
Frelex:You are actually a very very stupid fellow! So she can't get pregnant again ryt? Pls get fvck off, she deserves better |
Re: ….... by AutoChick4U(f): 1:47am On Jul 06, 2021 |
ednut1:See I've experienced something like this and d person acted like the op, mine was even a mistake but looking back now I thank God all that happened. 2 Likes |
Re: ….... by Yusufisraelj(m): 2:12am On Jul 06, 2021 |
Frelex: For God sake, what type of dating takes 7 year's. What is that? If your story is not made up. Then it seems there are certain things you've not settled or show signs of settling, hence her decision. |
Re: ….... by Opemiposii(f): 6:40am On Jul 06, 2021 |
akinreals:gerrout abeg.. u werent forced to comment.. ofopu 1 Like |
Re: ….... by Opemiposii(f): 6:42am On Jul 06, 2021 |
Richardjemedafe:no jawe |
Re: ….... by Gerrard59(m): 9:17am On Jul 06, 2021 |
Opemiposii: Would you like it if a man dates you for seven years? Let's say he was 22 and she 20, it means both are 29 & 27 respectively. As a woman, does it make sense to you? |
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