Everything was going well
The real issue started on the 2nd month of our dating when we first tried to have sex one night. When we were kissing in the bed she put her hands inside my boxers and i thought she will be marveled at my size but it turns out she started feeling unesay.
Then next thing I hear is "Nooo it is too big" she said sorry she can't that we should only kiss and romance or bj but she can't take it and it will hurt her bad.
This shattered my heart to pieces to the point I was begging her that I will use only the tip and take it easy. After much persuation she finally agreed but not up to 2 mins she shouts of pain and stands up grabs her pants and starts wearing her cloth.
At this point I felt so embarrassed and angry. Instead of dropping her off I just gave her bolt money and she left.
Honestly I love this girl but its clear to me now that we are not sexually compatible which pains me so much. I never knew one day my big size will backfire and haunt me. I always had confidence and never had any bad sexual experience with women and now I meet a girl I want to settle down with only for her to decline sex because of my size. If I marry her and she Deny me sex then I will cheat which I don't want. I'm just confused

JackDaAlienz:
Back in boarding school where boys used to bath together in one big school bathroom they nickname me firewood due to my size. I'm blessed to have a 8.3 inch dixk and I usually never had issues with girls infact my favourite girls who love it more where chubby girls.
They could handle it well and always hang around or visit me for more. It was cool then but I stated feeling like I was been used by these girls only for temporary satisfaction.

Now I meet this dark short girl and she fits my type in all criteria. And I want to change my old ways and stick to one woman and she is the one.
Everything was going well
The real issue started on the 2nd month of our dating when we first tried to have sex one night. When we were kissing in the bed she put her hands inside my boxers and i thought she will be marveled at my size but it turns out she started feeling unesay.
Then next thing I hear is "Nooo it is too big" she said sorry she can't that we should only kiss and romance or bj but she can't take it and it will hurt her bad.
This shattered my heart to pieces to the point I was begging her that I will use only the tip and take it easy. After much persuation she finally agreed but not up to 2 mins she shouts of pain and stands up grabs her pants and starts wearing her cloth.
At this point I felt so embarrassed and angry. Instead of dropping her off I just gave her bolt money and she left.
Honestly I love this girl but its clear to me now that we are not sexually compatible which pains me so much. I never knew one day my big size will backfire and haunt me. I always had confidence and never had any bad sexual experience with women and now I meet a girl I want to settle down with only for her to decline sex because of my size. If I marry her and she Deny me sex then I will cheat which I don't want. I'm just confused

So what do you want us to do?

JackDaAlienz:
Back in boarding school where boys used to bath together in one big school bathroom they nickname me firewood due to my size. I'm blessed to have a 8.3 inch dixk and I usually never had issues with girls infact my favourite girls who love it more where chubby girls.
They could handle it well and always hang around or visit me for more. It was cool then but I stated feeling like I was been used by these girls only for temporary satisfaction.

Now I meet this dark short girl and she fits my type in all criteria. And I want to change my old ways and stick to one woman and she is the one.
Everything was going well
The real issue started on the 2nd month of our dating when we first tried to have sex one night. When we were kissing in the bed she put her hands inside my boxers and i thought she will be marveled at my size but it turns out she started feeling unesay.
Then next thing I hear is "Nooo it is too big" she said sorry she can't that we should only kiss and romance or bj but she can't take it and it will hurt her bad.
This shattered my heart to pieces to the point I was begging her that I will use only the tip and take it easy. After much persuation she finally agreed but not up to 2 mins she shouts of pain and stands up grabs her pants and starts wearing her cloth.
At this point I felt so embarrassed and angry. Instead of dropping her off I just gave her bolt money and she left.
Honestly I love this girl but its clear to me now that we are not sexually compatible which pains me so much. I never knew one day my big size will backfire and haunt me. I always had confidence and never had any bad sexual experience with women and now I meet a girl I want to settle down with only for her to decline sex because of my size. If I marry her and she Deny me sex then I will cheat which I don't want. I'm just confused

The bolded should be very easy for you to decide. You have already made the possible assumptions that she might deny you sex if you guys get married and that the above scenario might force you to cheat on her.
To prevent the above from happening, there is only one option-move on with your life now before you become frustrated.
Life is a mystery and I can assure you that someone somewhere will be thanking her stars for having you.
One man's loss is another man's gain.

Go find olosho marry

Lies

Jeon:


So what do you want us to do?

I need to know if anyone has experience such issues and how they solved it

Kingosytex:


The bolded should be very easy for you to decide. You have already made the possible assumptions that she might deny you sex if you guys get married and that the above scenario might force you to cheat on her.
To prevent the above from happening, there is only one option-move on with your life now before you become frustrated.
Life is a mystery and I can assure you that someone somewhere will be thanking her stars for having you.
One man's loss is another man's gain.

My senior brother told me the same thing. it's all sweet to say it with mouth but in action it's not easy to just let go.
Someone that fits you so perfectly, u introduce her to your siblings as wifey only for this to happen, the thing dey pain wella

These teenagers scripting fake story thinking it will make Sugar Mummy slide into their PM..foolish boy and big diick

JackDaAlienz:

I need to know if anyone has experience such issues and how they solved it

Ask ur offline friends.

Jeon:


Ask ur offline friends.

Them na my age mates no real experience. Na OG advice I dey find

JackDaAlienz:

Them na my age mates no real experience. Na OG advice I dey find

Marry olosho.
Finish

Jeon:


Marry olosho.
Finish

Get out of here fool.. u no be OG

JackDaAlienz:

Get out of here fool.. u no be OG

Fuvkya.

Marry olosho since you be one.

[quote author=Kingosytex post=103658402]

The bolded should be very easy for you to decide. You have already made the possible assumptions that she might deny you sex if you guys get married and that the above scenario might force you to cheat on her.
To prevent the above from happening, there is only one option-move on with your life now before you become frustrated.
Life is a mystery and I can assure you that someone somewhere will be thanking her stars for having you.
One man's loss is another man's gain.[/quote
Absolutely
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Stupidquestions:
These teenagers scripting fake story thinking it will make Sugar Mummy slide into their PM..foolish boy and big diick

Lols... Sugar mummy bombers
Format wey i been dey use wey don cast since. Nonsense and biig diick

Jeon:


Fuvkya.

Marry olosho since you be one.

okay I go marry your mama.

JackDaAlienz:
okay I go marry your mama.

Nah ur mate dy marry grannies sel... Mtcheew

Stupidquestions:
These teenagers scripting fake story thinking it will make Sugar Mummy slide into their PM..foolish boy and big diick

Is everything fake to you?
It's envy that is paining you

Jeon:


Nah ur mate dy marry grannies sel... Mtcheew

No lie you be small pikin
Your mama still fresh like olosho

She may not necessarily deny you sex in marriage o,just saying. In the meantime, tell her how her actions made you feel, if you feel you can't take it anymore then do whatever will give you peace of mind.

JackDaAlienz:

No lie you be small pikin
Your mama still fresh like olosho

How old are.. Cuz to call toddler is an insult.
Oya go marry olosho to fulfill your sexually lust.

Jeon:


How old are.. Cuz to call toddler is an insult.

you're a fool at 40
Old man wasting his time on youth forum

Baby please I will only put the tip.
I will not let it enter. I will just use the head to rub the entrance. I will not enter baby. Baby please! It's just the tip

SmellySperm:

Lols... Sugar mummy bombers
Format wey i been dey use wey don cast since. Nonsense and biig diick

Awọn ọmọ werey.Ur preeq Big and a gal is scared to fvvck it..for Christ sake how does that concern Nairaland..what help does he want from us...shay make we go reduce the preeq ni Abi to help him widen the gals puna? The boy na big fool

Stupidquestions:

Awọn ọmọ werey.Ur preeq Big and a gal is scared to fvvck it..for Christ sake how does that concern Nairaland..what help does he want from us...shay make we go reduce the preeq ni Abi to help him widen the gals puna? The boy na big fool

Lols... Ndi biig preeq. No mind the werey

JackDaAlienz:
you're a fool at 40
Old man wasting his time on youth forum

Lol you calling me small pikin and old @40at the same time.
You no see as u confused for life..

To call an idiot is absurd.

Jeon:


Lol you calling me small pikin and old @40at the same time.
You no see as u confused for life..

To call an idiot is absurd.

My point is if you're a kid your not a smart kid
If you're a old man then your a fool at 40 for making such useless comments

Stupidquestions:

Awọn ọmọ werey.Ur preeq Big and a gal is scared to fvvck it..for Christ sake how does that concern Nairaland..what help does he want from us...shay make we go reduce the preeq ni Abi to help him widen the gals puna? The boy na big fool

Na your papa be werey

JackDaAlienz:

My point is if you're a kid your not a smart kid
If you're a old man then your a fool at 40 for making such useless comments

Like you calling nairaland a youth forum.

DULL BRAIN.

Jeon:


Like you calling nairaland a youth forum.

DULL BRAIN.

I have entertained your stupidity for long, i should have known I was replying a psychiatric patient. I have learnt my lesson

SmellySperm:

Lols... Sugar mummy bombers
Format wey i been dey use wey don cast since. Nonsense and biig diick

Cut soap for me abeg