Good day friends,
I'm going to discuss base on a brother knowing a sister from the same church for 3years but no strings attached before now. So I know her that much.
There is this girl I'll love to settle down with, she school in one of the Federal University, about her final year, Stays in the hostel. She stays outside the state with her parent. Most time, I'll see her off to her hostel after church because my house is along the School road. Very devoted church girl, likewise me with no interest for boyfriends.
I know much about her home, I spoke with her mum often, not as about to be inlaw but just a friend to her daughter.
Outside being a church girl and a friend, she posses homily and God fearing altitudes.
She relate to me some of the guys that do approache her for friendship in church and outside.

After some time, I picked interest in her,( for marriage).
Please note, I've not invited her to my house, (she I know won't even come) and I don't womanise either.

Here are my worries:
Age differences: The space between us is 10years differences. She is 22years.

Just friends mode: We're in just friends zone, although she knows my intention and we've agreed marrying with time not known.

Yes or No: The only time I discussed it with her, she neither say yes or no. Her response is she want to hear from God because i am not the only one approaching her for marriage.

The Youth Service dilema: The thought of losing friends during service comes to mind,Who knows...

Please what is your advise...

Should i hold on as she said?
Are we dating already but refuse to agreed..she calls or I do often when she is away.?
Should I look for another in case??
But she's the most preferred to me.

Mode please help me out

All these over religious relationship dey make body dey pain me....



Brother Peter, you're not a baby anymore. That line; "Wait let me hear from God" is one of the most deceptive Lies ever known to man.

Be there foolishly waiting for a young and "vibrant" 22yrs old girl to hear from God, you will be shocked when you hear her doings during her Service Year.

I will advise you to get a "plan B" to avoid BP.

Confused state of mind. You want to be a church and street minded at the same time. Alaye, know what you want first then work towards it. The age difference is nothing in btw

arkonpoint:
Confused state of mind. You want to be a church and street minded at the same time. Alaye, know what you want first then work towards it. The age difference is nothing in btw

Thanks for the age difference response..

PlayMaker14:
All these over religious relationship dey make body dey pain me....



Brother Peter, you're not a baby anymore. That line; "Wait let me hear from God" is one of the most deceptive Lies ever known to man.

Be there foolishly waiting for a young and "vibrant" 22yrs old girl to hear from God, you will be shocked when you hear her doings during her Service Year.

I will advise you to get a "plan B" to avoid BP.

Thanks

dey there dey do churchi.
babe wey fit don dey collect from other broskis

Good one bro
I for ask for your account no. if ground balance.

VlamesIffect:
No trust woman o....na wetin she want make you see, you go see.

Very smart & manipulative set of people....

Age is just a number.... Guy again no trust woman o..... E get why....

Just prepare your mind if she doesn't accept your marriage proposal.....

At the same thibg remember that the effort has to come from both you & her....if it gets to the stage you are the only one trying to make it happen....omo lock up & move on.

Brother... again no trust woman o.....e get why....

anthonyuncle:
dey there dey do churchi.
babe wey fit don dey collect from other broskis

PlayMaker14:
All these over religious relationship dey make body dey pain me....



Brother Peter, you're not a baby anymore. That line; "Wait let me hear from God" is one of the most deceptive Lies ever known to man.

Be there foolishly waiting for a young and "vibrant" 22yrs old girl to hear from God, you will be shocked when you hear her doings during her Service Year.

I will advise you to get a "plan B" to avoid BP.

My guy if certain truths are not alive to you don't just speak against it.

OP

Some people have so given their life to God to the point where he makes choice's for them bkos they've handed their will to him. On this case she's a church girl, you should expect that as a natural response.

If you're so sure she's your preferred person then wait to hear from her within a defined deadline, however be open minded about it.

Does it mean bkos she heard God your marriage will work? Never! You both must know what to do to grease the wheel of marriage and stay in absolute peace and tranquility. Being good is not the seed for results, you must know what to apply to bring your needed experience and make your marriage.

Supreme01:
Good day friends,
I'm going to discuss base on a brother knowing a sister from the same church for 3years but no strings attached before now. So I know her that much.
There is this girl I'll love to settle down with, she school in one of the Federal University, about her final year, Stays in the hostel. She stays outside the state with her parent. Most time, I'll see her off to her hostel after church because my house is along the School road. Very devoted church girl, likewise me with no interest for boyfriends.
I know much about her home, I spoke with her mum often, not as about to be inlaw but just a friend to her daughter.
Outside being a church girl and a friend, she posses homily and God fearing altitudes.
She relate to me some of the guys that do approache her for friendship in church and outside.

After some time, I picked interest in her,( for marriage).
Please note, I've not invited her to my house, (she I know won't even come) and I don't womanise either.

Here are my worries:
Age differences: The space between us is 10years differences. She is 22years.

Just friends mode: We're in just friends zone, although she knows my intention and we've agreed marrying with time not known.

Yes or No: The only time I discussed it with her, she neither say yes or no. Her response is she want to hear from God because i am not the only one approaching her for marriage.

The Youth Service dilema: The thought of losing friends during service comes to mind,Who knows...

Please what is your advise...

Should i hold on as she said?
Are we dating already but refuse to agreed..she calls or I do often when she is away.?
Should I look for another in case??
But she's the most preferred to me.

Mode please help me out

The tragedy of good men waiting on "good" girls to come around, lol she just has a conservative upbringing that's deep that's all. Separate her from her parents and you'll see the freak inside, oh sorry not you shaa but the bhad guy that'll be slamming her cheeks from behind while holding her hair and calling her unprintable names, be smart bro

Yusufisraelj:


My guy if certain truths are not alive to you don't just speak against it.

OP

Some people have so given their life to God to the point where he makes choice's for them bkos they've handed their will to him. On this case she's a church girl, you should expect that as a natural response.

If you're so sure she's your preferred person then wait to hear from her within a defined deadline, however be open minded about it.

Does it mean bkos she heard God your marriage will work? Never! You both must know what to do to grease the wheel of marriage and stay in absolute peace and tranquility. Being good is not the seed for results, you must know what to apply to bring your needed experience and make your marriage.

You can go ahead to give your advice to the Op without quoting me....


Thanks.

32years old man....tueeh

What's wrong sir...too old to marry a 22yr old gal?

Shegzy8:
32years old man....tueeh

Just work on her more, if the age difference isn’t a problem then just wait for her, but wait with your head in case she finds love somewhere else

Obakashdee:
Just work on her more, if the age difference isn’t a problem then just wait for her, but wait with your head in case she finds love somewhere else

Thank you bro