Am a graduate!!! And I always love passionately!!! I graduated this year waiting for my call up letter to go for service... I met this pretty girl on February 10th this year through her friend... So I asked her out but she declined that she has a boyfriend but I kept disturbing her and one fateful day she came to my house accidentally because it wasn't planned because we just met on her way home and she was like show me your house, when we were inside my room I was still telling
her to give me a chance and she said let me tell you the truth I love you but I can't date you and I told her I would give her more to think about it and she left... On the same day she sent a text that she loves but I should be her best friend that she loves me more than her boyfriend but I insisted that I wanted to be in relationship with her... Later, she always in my house to say hi anytime she is going home from shop, on one fateful day, she came around and something led to something we kissed passionately and she still told me no relationship we are just friends at that point I got angry like maybe she just wanted to be using me and I told her to stay away from me and to my surprise she said no that it's too late and she kept coming even if I frown my face she didn't care at all, so later I left my house to visit a friend and I was there for like 4 weeks, she used to call but I ignored her calls but later she sent her friend that she is ready for the relationship that I should please come back to her... I agreed because I really love her, when we met the first day we met again I asked her "are you still with your boyfriend?" and she said yes and we started the relationship, the love kept growing every day... She later got admission to University outside the state we are and we made alot of promises to each other that we won't let each other down, to cut the story she left to school and I started seeing some changes just within two weeks she resumed and I was asking myself some questions like, did she love me in the first place or was she using me before etc...what really provoked me was that she called me one day that she wanted to have sex with me that she is missing and I was like I miss you but you have to hold yourself because you have not choice and she told she can't control any longer that she really needed to satisfy herself sexually and from that moment I started having trusting issues with her... She started shouting at me on phone, ignoring my calls and during that time I was going through some emotional pains fellow nairalanders but later I started giving her space too, so later she called me for like three days I didn't pick and she sent series of text messages and I decided to hear her out and she told me she is sorry for everything and now she is on my neck now telling me how much she loves me and she is sorry for everything... What should I do??

Follow you heart, do what you believe is right. But the truth is this girl has a lot to learn about life before she can get to a place of maturity and wisdom to know what she wants and what's more important to her, what I mean is, she's still at that age where she's still discovering life and the truth is a lot of girls make mistakes at this age, she might love you, I don't doubt that she does but that doesn't mean she won't hurt you, knowingly or unknowingly, she's just not there yet and her emotional maturity is still, sorry to say, low.

You decide what's best for you bro

Thanks so much bro!!!

Both of you are still KIDS

rubbish

Abeg waiting up want take back, to read that Episode tire me.

Mehn this is beyond local man logistics

Bros op leave that girl. . You suppose know say she dey Bleep another and guys dey give her head for school... And she dey give her head too... Person way tell you say she no fit control herself again suppose tell you say she don loose for street.. . Better leave her for your own good... Use your Sense...

A whole graduate.. u can't handle a 17 or 18 year old fresher. Too bad. You are talking of take her back, person wey don leave u behind.

Mumu man
Go and hustle

EverythingFit:
Follow you heart, do what you believe is right. But the truth is this girl has a lot to learn about life before she can get to a place of maturity and wisdom to know what she wants and what's more important to her, what I mean is, she's still at that age where she's still discovering life and the truth is a lot of girls make mistakes at this age, she might love you, I don't doubt that she does but that doesn't mean she won't hurt you, knowingly or unknowingly, she's just not there yet and her emotional maturity is still, sorry to say, low.

You decide what's best for you bro

Thanks man!!!

Jameszinchenkov:
Mumu man
Go and hustle

You don't have to abuse anyone before you give advice oga....

AntiSimp:
A whole graduate.. u can't handle a 17 or 18 year old fresher. Too bad. You are talking of take her back, person wey don leave u behind.

Ok

Isokoson1:
Mehn this is beyond local man logistics

Bros op leave that girl. . You suppose know say she dey Bleep another and guys dey give her head for school... And she dey give her head too... Person way tell you say she no fit control herself again suppose tell you say she don loose for street.. . Better leave her for your own good... Use your Sense...

Thanks man!!! But she is disturbing me with her calls everyday... I really your genuine advice bro

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N.a. you dey use your hand find trouble .....not tomorrow you will still run here to ask for advice. You saw a girl who is already in love with someone and wanted her to be your girlfriend, what do you expect?
You will be number 2 and will only be used as time goes on.
Bro, just cool off and find your self another babe....forget the kiss and illusion btw una, the story may end up and what do you expect a girl wey do enter university to behave?

Abort what ever mission you have, i repeat abort mission and find another babe!

Which kind small pikin talk be this

valentineuwakwe:
N.a. you dey use your hand find trouble .....not tomorrow you will still run here to ask for advice. You saw a girl who is already in love with someone and wanted her to be your girlfriend, what do you expect?
You will be number 2 and will only be used as time goes on.
Bro, just cool off and find your self another babe....forget the kiss and illusion btw una, the story may end up and what do you expect a girl wey do enter university to behave?

Abort what ever mission you have, i repeat abort mission and find another babe!

Thanks man!!!

Azammmi:
Na Man U be no let small pikin play you , if you want invite her over so play her till she comes back from school then when she comes visiting ask her for her phone and tell her to remove the password , if she fight you then you don know say na street property be that you don own her she belongs to the street

Hmmmmm ok

Shegxy9 what exactly is the problem I read your previous post just now.are you talking of this same girl or another person.?
And lastly why are you interested in a girl that told you she have boyfriend..? there are 5.2 billion women on this planets earth. So are you telling me this 5.2bn women are all taken .?

Bola146:
Both of you are still KIDS

Simple