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Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by Lexusgs430: 11:27pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Zeal0000007: You are not even ashamed to admit that, you don beat her sotey, your hand don bend........ You need to apologise to her, for laying a finger on her..... How would you feel, if another man is beating your sister, like a cow?..... ![]() 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by Belawy(m): 11:28pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Not a problem |
Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by Nikkganc08(m): 11:29pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Zeal0000007: If u can get access to d phone someday, Go to settings, Remove the screen from 'lock immediately' You'll fund it in DISPLAY SETTINGS Change it to 30 minutes. She won't know. Even if does, she won't take time to reset it back immediately. Now, wait for that lucky time when she'll sleep off. Or simply tell her u want to collect some of her movies through XENDER app (it's usually on all phones) Secrets of ladies are usually in their PHONE GALLERY (if she's giving out nudes). Or her Facebook messenger. Or WhatsApp. Or lock apps. First of all, check if she has any app like App locker, gallery vault, app hider, etc Some ladies are intelligent. They simply download lock apps that are actually alarm clocks, calculators, etc. For instance, if I open d CLOCK then set d time to 6:30a.m, the lock app will automatically open. For the calculator, it works like a normal calculator But once a particular number is pressed it opens. For instance, if I press √780, the hidden applock will open. So, simply check if any of her apps is duplicated. For instance, 2 calculators in her phone, 2 clocks, 2 contacts, etc Now... go to her phones File manager, then click SETTINGS. make HIDDEN FILES visible. You see... No matter d lock app someone is using, all those files remains in d phone. It's only encrypted. That's all. Now back to d topic. Assuming ur bae locks/hides her files using GALLERY VAULT app (there are different types on play store), Once u make hidden files visible, you MUST see a folder named galleryvault****. The name might be slightly different e.g secgalleryvault. But once u see it, you'll know. Send the whole gallery vault folder from her phone to ur phone via Xender app (exactly the way it is) Also, send the gallery vault app to ur phone too. Then install it. Once installed, you'll see a folder that's similar to d one u copied from her phone. Open the folder from d newly installed galleryvault in ur phone and you'll see a FILE like... "password.ini" or "pass.cmr" or anything But once u see it, you'll know that it's d password of d gallery vault app u installed. Go to xender and look for the password.ini file (or anything its called) from d folder u copied from ur bae. DELETE THE FILE. go to ur own folder for d app u installed, copy ur own password.ini file and put it exactly where ur bae own was (d one u deleted from xender). Now delete that ur entire gallery vault folder. MOVE OUT ur bae own from d xender folder to exactly where urs was before. Finally, go to APP SETTINGS on ur phone, locate d gallery vault app u installed, clear d CACHE and STORAGE of d app. Then UNINSTALL the app. Reinstall d app. Input ur normal password (instead of bae own) The app will open And you'll see all the files ur bae has been hiding exactly as it is in her own phone. Don't logout else the app will lock again and the password won't work again unless u repeat d process again. Instead, RESTORE all d files u see. UNINSTALL the app. REINSTALL it again. Then u can hide d files if u want. The app won't log u out again FOREVER. I love cheating girlfriends that use android phones. I can easily hack their WhatsApp, Facebook, App hide apps or even their messages. It makes d relationship fun and easy for me to walk away anyday I want to cos I have physical evidence. But I'll advice u.... NEVER HACK A WOMANS PHONE...!!! it's locked for a reason. Once opened, what you'll see will shock u. You'll be heartbroken. You'll be depresssed. It'll take u 3 months before you'll finally believe what u saw. Don't lose a good woman just because she cheated. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by kkonyeji(m): 11:30pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Man, the marriage counselors above me have said everything, your instinct & decision of evicting her from your life is 100% in order because if you make the mistake of marrying her, you'll use eyes see your ears. Infact, you have delayed ending the children play of hide & seek you call rship! Pls in your next rship, don't stress yourself trying to check your partner's phone, you'll only be inviting HBP. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by Happy2020: 11:31pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
If you laid hands on me, I can’t promise you I wouldn’t kill you. Why not let her go and you both find a better partner? As is, this is very toxic and will only lead to premium tears for both of you in the end. 2 Likes |
Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by Goldbw122(m): 11:31pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Zeal0000007:Well tell her to search on YouTube what happen to people that keep their phone next or near them, and you will be suprise what she will see I know that she will argue with you but just stay cool and tell her that she have been lucky all this while.. that is a mind game then you can caught her I'd she is cheating on you but I know she is cheating.. I don't know sha oo if na me dey this relationship I for.don quit since.. me wey nor like nonsense, and you have been with her for this long years.. some boys dey try sha I swear .. well good luck.. |
Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by arukwe123(m): 11:31pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
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Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by Sharpton(m): 11:33pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Discharge that girl she dey use your head, I don knack many girls like that wey dey live with Their mugu boyfriend, naija girls are ungrateful Zeal0000007: 1 Like |
Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by purples25(f): 11:37pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
You are the one that deflowered her, mentioned in your post, yet this is the way you see her. She wasted that precious gift of virginity on you. That virginity is enough to let you see her as a diamond for life. You did not secure her by marriage, kept her having sex with her for six years. Why wouldn't she feel like a slut? Why wouldn't she feel you outsmarted her, sleeping with her with no plan and no ring, yet you want all her loyalty. Why wouldn't she go out? On top of that, you beat her. No plan, no honor, beating, wastage of the years of her youth. She was not forced, so she has made a new decision. You met her as a virgin yet you treated her like a LovePeddler, like she didn't deserve a ring but to be fvking around with you. So now, a decision has been made by that girl who you did not plan a future with or marry. She decided to treat you like just a temporary thing too. You gave her no assurance, yet you want her to sit with you as she gets old and less desired by potential suitors. OMo look at the deal you gave her. And ask yourself, if a man is with your daughter under these circumstances....will you take it from her, not to talk of him? 2 Likes |
Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by Skmoda(m): 11:38pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
EzegeNdiigbo:Do this and you will be alright ![]() |
Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by kingxsamz(m): 11:38pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
You're mad and you have no one to tell you. ![]() You're beating her for what? Someone's daughter. Are you normal? And you're here complaining about having trust issues. Thunder fire that hand you used to type this rubbish. You dey beat person daughter and you dey here dey complain. You deserve serious beating. 0de. @Zeal0000007 Zealous he goat. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by chatinent: 11:38pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Zealous animal. Six year bawo? King of suffeRING. 1 Like |
Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by iLegendd(m): 11:40pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Tylerbankz: Below is the part 2. I want to tell you (men) something no one will tell you about dating... There is nothing like "phone privacy" in relationship. Don't date a woman who refuses you access to her phone at any time you want — only be her friend-with-benefit and don't ever invest emotion in the friendship. It's an open relationship the moment she refuses you access to her phone. Something is fishy. For her not to allow you access to her phone, she is either cheating on her main boyfriend with you or she's cheating on you, the supposed main boyfriend, with a cooler guy in the block or her ex. Though, she may not have had sex with him yet, but they'll get to that soon, so she's hiding the buildup from you before you you catch her halfway. Sometimes, it may be multiple admirers she doesn't want to sleep with, but extort. Since the conversation she's having with them sounds like she likes them, she doesn't want you to come across them and think she's cheating. No, she hasn't cheated with him/them, but faking to love him to extort him. Any woman who can do this is a scammer and scamming is cheating. What if she scams the wrong guy and he rapes her when he realizes she's playing games with him? So, trying to scam another man while dating you is cheating. Or, she isn't cheating, but she doesn't want you to read her old chats with her female bestie and see all the nasty things they did or talked about in the past or present. So, the moment 1. ...she refuses you having access to her phone chat, she's cheated, cheating, or will soon cheat 2. ...she deletes her messages after reading, she's cheated, cheating, or will soon cheat 3. ...she has too more than 2 SIMs, but you don't know about the rest of her SIMs, she's cheated, cheating, or will soon cheat 4. ...she causes drama, disrespectful, nags, and threatens to leave, she's cheated, cheating, or will soon cheat The main purpose of this post is: the moment she doesn't allow you access to her phone, she is scared of something and it is one of the below 1. She has cheated (doesn't want you to find out) 2. She's currently cheating (doesn't want you to find out) 3. She'll soon cheat (doesn't want you to find out) 4. She isn't cheating, but there is a confidential information she doesn't want you to see and this may be a health issue, family issue, business deal, a dangerous or embarrassing situation she's in, or any other thing she doesn't feel comfortable showing you As a man, be wise enough to make sure she's only your friend-with-benefit, not your girlfriend and use condom when you want to have sex with her. Who knows, she's probably not your girlfriend, but another man's girlfriend who wants to cheat on her main boyfriend with you. When going into a new relationship with a woman, go into it as if she's cheating on her main boyfriend with you — not as if you've got yourself a new girlfriend. Your mission is to take your share of the pussy (if that's what you want) then silently investigate who her main man is. This way, you won't see her as cheating on you when you accidentally read her chats with her main boyfriend as her cheating on you with the man. This will help you not to experience heartbreak, but pride. It'll be like: "Oh, she cheated on that man with me, so I must be better than the man in her eyes," instead of, "Oh, she cheated on me with that man — he must be better than me in her eyes." And boom, you become depressed and heartbroken. Save yourself from heartbreak by 1. Having strategies and 2. Principles Failure to do this, you'll end up being heartbroken several times and end up hating innocent women who actually cheated on their boyfriends with you and not the other way round. It's only the other way round if she calls him her ex, then goes back to sleep with him behind your back. As I have said, have principles and strategies (even if you're not the most handsome or richest), else you'll regularly be creating heartbreak threads on Nairaland and we'll all laugh at you as we do to so many men on Nairaland front-page. Be wise and don't let any woman you wish to marry hide her phone from you. The moment she does, take her out of "I want to marry her," group and put her in, "F*ck and go," group. A word is enough for the wise. Unfortunately, some men have been rejected by women to the point they've lost their self-esteem, so when they manage to get a pretty women, they end up putting up with all her bad behaviors and secrecy. Please, don't be that man. Even if women have rejected you all your life, don't lose your self-worth and settle for less — someone who will cheat on you, hide things from you, and do what she likes while being your girlfriend or wife. Don't die before your time through heartbreak and depression. Prevent it now by having principles and strategies. Cut off anything that'll lead you to heartbreak or depression early on. Delay is dangerous. A bad woman never changes — it can only get worse after one month or two of pretending to have changed. A bad man can change, but a bad woman doesn't change totally. I still like women more than I like men, but I don't side them in their evil doings — neither do I side men. Be wise, and be ready for the journey ahead. Life is a cruise — catch it with a ship or a canoe — it's your choice. 9 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by almarthins(m): 11:40pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Zeal0000007: This matter no be waiting u go just rush jorney to make conclusion. I think you should call her to remember the past of how you suffered together. I no fit tell you that ur woman never changed direction, because there are to many indices which indicate she has forgotten. You beta sit her down and talk. If she no come change then omo na to go right. |
Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by Originalsly: 11:41pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Zeal0000007: Bro ... the day you left for NYSC is the day someone else ... who was in the shadows stepped into the light. Do you really expect to beat a woman to love and be loyal to you? Actions speak louder than words .... you are history ... she has no love for you.... cut your losses... move on... love and loyalty cannot be bought nor acquired by force. 1 Like |
Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by Nobody: 11:41pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Your girlfriend is cheating. |
Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by MarvelousTs5: 11:43pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
I quote and I concur with this |
Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by Dochiba05: 11:48pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
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Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by Adebowalay(m): 11:49pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
jaa - paaa |
Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by rolexino(m): 11:49pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Well, its showing the red light �already to you... But i feel if you have not done anything on her in terms of marriage, no need worrying yourself over it or else, you are putting yourself close to BP It happened to me when she came visiting, i noticed how she was receiving different calls but i didn't worry myself over it, sometimes i even sleep off I dropped my phone anywhere and she was the one that first start interrogating me about chat, messages and many stuffs, who is the girl to you... And i attended to eveeybof her interrogations with genuine responses Remember, i never her one day for almost a month she stayed On a particular day, the phone she has been hiding since she came, she gave it to me to help her with something i don't even understand and slept off Upon that, i didn't care to open any messages or chat cuz i don't want to trouble myself though i know i will see some things i don't want to see So i better locked up not to check women phones for messages, chats and more I feel any lady that want to cheat on you will cheat and the one that don't want to cheat, won't cheat on you Don't give yourself unnecessary pressure cuz of woman. 3 Likes |
Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by LightUpWithKemi: 11:50pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Stupidquestions: @the word in bold, makes me recall how I used to call my friends (not smart ones) back in school days. Lol. |
Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by MrNipplesLover(m): 11:51pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
You guys and women palava... I don type my fingers don dey grow blisters. I don talk my mouth don dey peel... These girls are meant to be used as fun parole. Most of them don't deserve love... Just be fvcking dem and you MUST pay for any fvck you do. ... Simple! If you feel u need a child, just give one Belle and take am as ur baby mama... No serious commitment shiitt... Make I pause here. However, u don't raise ur hands on ur woman (ur wife)... That's a criminal offence to me and I hate criminals. Pls let's be guided. 2 Likes |
Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by rosalieene(f): 11:53pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
You open mouth dy talk say you don beat her tire. That girl just doesn't know her worth. I wonder what she is still doing with you. You're just another Monster!!!!!! No advise for you. 3 Likes |
Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by brownbib(m): 11:53pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Nothing new |
Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by authority2006(m): 11:56pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Zeal0000007: What do you mean? |
Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by Tolzy11(m): 11:57pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
iLegendd: |
Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by Elporo(m): 11:59pm On Jul 17, 2021 |
Zeal0000007: Where are the: 1. You no fcku her well crew 2. You get small dkci crew and; 3. You no get money crew. Come ohh give advice. Because I have seen women stay faithful to broke men, 1 minute men and below average dikc men. OP .. nothing can satisfy a woman who does not see you as a long term investment. If you want drink all the power drink, knack am with 8 inches... give am money.. na lie. Na big lie... She go still go me kpk napep driver with 6 inches, when you get 7 inches or even 5 inches. Women can endure unimaginable hardship once they see a man as a long term investment. Just find one small girl to kpansh... comot your mind from that one. Ashewo dey sef... if you like ... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by Daddymiracle: 12:02am On Jul 18, 2021 |
I think is better you decide what to do, I think you knew it and you can do better than that.... � her phone doesn’t mean that she’s cheating on you, bro the babe just trying to survive probably without you I guess, is better you don’t check her phone again, and don’t beat her again is not good, find a way to just clear your kind and be happy and also act normal to her and don’t let her feel like you’re jealous. |
Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by Labadi69: 12:08am On Jul 18, 2021 |
Nikkganc08: Guy all these things wey you type na for very jobless men jare. What’s the point going through this trouble when you will still hate what you see hidden there. The fact remains that any girl wey you call bae that is being secretive and discreet with her phone definitely has something to hide. Either she’s an okpo, she’s dating other people or she saying some foul shit about you to her friends (that’s if she ain’t even planning to kill you, kidnap you or scam you). If a woman is locking her phone around a man, the man will be very stupid to take that beech seriously. Just dey nack until you tire and then move or kukuma sign out immediately. These beeches ain’t loyal ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by Blackdisciple(m): 12:09am On Jul 18, 2021 |
She doesn't want to loose me because we have really suffered together. Bros she no send that one oo. Its obviously your girl is cheating, besides if she get her education through the next thing she will dump your sorry Ass and she have started already. Forget about the engagement cos after the engagement she don't care about it oo. Use your head make e no come be say as you dey work another niggarr go dey help you out for house oo. |
Re: My Relationship Is About To Hit The Rock, Pls Advice , by Judolisco(m): 12:10am On Jul 18, 2021 |
U r not married she has her right to privacy... And u come dey beat d girl... Omo which kind life bdis u no see your fellow guys to fight na girl u come dey beat Seun, lalasticlala Pls remove dis thread it's promoting violence 4 Likes |
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