olaboy1:


Daygame or cold approach is the social science of talking to random girls on the street and closing the se$x deal immediately or day after.
You know your game is tight if you can close this deal within 1-2hrs, and you are in god mode if you can close it within 5-30mins and women start telling you everything seems like hypnosis. If it can work on an Arab Muslim girl with hijab, it sure can work on any woman.
Closing 2 times within 5-30mins made me realize se$x is the most important for women and not your oil/gas contracts.

Let me share just one example
I was at the store to buy grocery, and pretended I was unable to locate an item on the counter and asked a shopper to help me out. To cut long story short, I left my car at the store and drove in her car to her apartment, and guess what � she actually came to the store to pick up a dil$do she ordered online...like they say a gentleman don’t tell (5-30mins). I try not to give full details of my sexcapades as stealth mode is very important.
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OPEN THE GIRL ———> GOOD CONVERSATION/STRONG SEXUAL EYE CONTACT —————> SE$X LOCATION

But be careful as this might totally change your perception about women, it’s a dark dark dungeon.

Lol. Not not just

Martinez is on a Christian thread insulting God and saying Jesus never existed and Christianity is fraud on a Sunday morning.
Is part of redpill not bout being alpha and not behaving like a sissy by always trying to prove a point all the time?
How old is he that he keeps behaving like a child?
Perhaps he lacked a strong fatherly figure while growing up.

It's a shame aspiring redpillers who visit here are subjected to this type of she-male who doesn't value or respect other people's ideas or beliefs..

The top dogs here should talk to him, he needs help psychologically. Before he goes to Kano or any top Muslim state and starts insulting Allah too.
Oh, I just realized no one is allowed to talk to anyone wey carry redpill for head here.

CR777:
Martinez is on a Christian thread insulting God and saying Jesus never existed and Christianity is fraud on a Sunday morning.
Is part of redpill not bout being alpha and not behaving like a sissy by always trying to prove a point all the time?
How old is he that he keeps behaving like a child?
Perhaps he lacked a strong fatherly figure while growing up.

It's a shame aspiring redpillers who visit here are subjected to this type of she-male who doesn't value or respect other people's ideas or beliefs..

The top dogs here should talk to him, he needs help psychologically. Before he goes to Kano or any top Muslim state and starts insulting Allah too.
Oh, I just realized no one is allowed to talk to anyone wey carry redpill for head here.

You again wetin do you now
Sunday morning for that matter

CR777:
Martinez is on a Christian thread insulting God and saying Jesus never existed and Christianity is fraud on a Sunday morning.
Is part of redpill bout not being alpha and not behaving like a sissy by always trying to prove a point all the time?
How old is he that he keeps behaving like a child?
Perhaps he lacked a strong fatherly figure while growing up.

It's a shame aspiring redpillers who visit here are subjected to this type of she-male who doesn't value or respect other people's ideas or beliefs..

The top dogs here should talk to him, he needs help psychologically. Before he goes to Kano or any top Muslim state and starts insulting Allah too.
Oh, I just realized no one is allowed to talk to anyone wey carry redpill for head here.

Hehehe...


Ororo...


They say an opinion is like a nose because everybody has one..


Trying to compel someone reason with you is like forced cosmetics surgery without anesthesia..


Anyone on this thread redpill or white pill is responsible for whatever he says, but is not responsible for how others interprete it..



Throwing insults or trying to shame people with masturbating and others is a girl move..


Highly inflammably bluepilled move..


Respecting other people's beliefs is overrated..

People will only respect your beliefs when it poses no threat of obstacle to their personal life and development..

If it does, it will be attacked like the persecuted christians, like Ipob, like anti feminists and redpillers, like anti gay movements etc..


If you like no go hustle, shey you see wetin happen for Oba?

Dey here dey find who you and am go dey exchange words

LordAdam16:


Apologies for the delay in my response.

As always, I'll open with a disclaimer (when necessary):

I'm MGTOW. By default, I'm a proponent of 1 Corinthians 7:1. As such, it's fair to actively parse my comment for bias and I may not be the best person to listen to on purple pill matters.

That said, the good thing is quite a portion--if not a majority of commercially successful media personalities in the manosphere are purple-pillers. So there isn't a shortage of good advice from folks who've taken the same path you intend to and who you might better relate with on shared experiences.

Take this remarkable comment by pansophist for example ('twas a response to yet another blue-pilled complainant):



If you need a precis or a pocketbook guide to committed relationships for a redpiller in the 21st century, importantly by someone who is walking the talk, that's as concise as it'd get.

The template is reproducible and easy to grasp.

A: Be certain of what you want.
B. Know what you'd compromise on and what you wouldn't compromise on.
C. Be willing to take your leave if she fails to meet her end of the bargain on a key benefit in the "no compromise" column.

===

Now, maybe you want to hear what I have to say on the subject. In which case, I'd oblige.

I'd answer your question first. Then touch on the wider subject matter for emphasis

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Your question was:



Seeking women who are into the culture of previous generations is still possible in traditional climes like ours. However, times are changing for everyone and she'll inevitably be influenced by the changes. Especially if you reside in an urban setting or your own attempts at self-improvement offer her the opportunity to see first-hand what 'modern' women are up to and the complete insanity they can get away with.

Now you might be fortunate that she stays traditional ad infinitum. But the odds of that are low.

---

You may have heard the expression:

Hard times create strong men, Strong men create good times, Good times create weak men, and Weak men create hard times.

This is relevant because by definition, culture is the way of life of a particular group of people. We are at the "good times create weak men" stage, which explains the changing culture. Thinking you can flip the script as a one-man army is wishful thinking.

To be accurate, we've been down this road before. In times of weariness and disaster, women don't care about rights. They just want to be safe and have access to resources. Of course, men have to bear the brunt of it and pay with our lives. However, when hard times are over and things are blissful, they get their rights without much prodding.

Ancient Egyptian women during the Middle Kingdom had more rights than modern Egyptian women. Why wouldn't they? The Empire was the dominant power on the planet, there was zero unemployment, little to no social mobility, and the concept of Ma'at meant everyone knew their place and their roles in keeping the empire running.
Spartan women had more rights than Athenian and even Persian women. Why wouldn't they? Their men subjugated a slave population that outnumbered the native Spartan population and they were feared on the battlefield. Like today with Western women having machines perform all their menial tasks. Spartan women had slaves do all their menial tasks.
Likewise with Roman women (citizens) compared to their contemporaries.

With the end of World War II and the ensuing prosperity and bliss, the same thing is happening with Western women.

===

Now in the past, because of existential threats, there were hard limits to how much leeway women could get when times were good.

Today, most of those existential threats are no more with sovereignty, rules of engagement, war crimes, the ratification of fundamental human rights, mutually assured destruction and other fail-safe mechanisms.

As such, eventually that culture of previous generations that you fondly reminisce about will die out as simping becomes the gold standard. And those of us who live in urban settings or in the West/West-leaning conclaves are on the front-row.

This explains why it is not accurate to use some of the enduring longstanding marriages of yesteryears as templates for today. Ma Adeboye will not tell Pa Adeboye to go sleep on the couch after an argument. Joke Silva does not expect Olu Jacobs to share the chores 50:50. So while they celebrate their golden jubilees and you're fantasizing about replicating it or using them as #relationshipgoals, understand that the pillars and culture that made that possible are not available to you.

To get to that same point, be prepared to be chewed inside out and embark on a wildly different and rigorous journey.

===

Thus, if you still decide to go for committed relationships, even though contemporary culture puts you at a disadvantage; the last thing you want to do is hope to find a unicorn. The idea of unicorns is that they're rare. Not enough to go round, are always sought after even if they're spoken for, and that at the end of the day, they're still horses.

A traditional woman is still a woman. And to give a lucid instance, most of the diaspora men who failed to realize that fact by inviting "women who are into the culture of previous generations" from Nigeria were sharply lectured with cold, hard horror experiences.

The best you can do is prepare for the worst and hope for the best.

Mind you, this is not as nihilistic as it sounds. This is not to mean that you would not have happy times in a committed relationship or marriage as a purple-piller. Especially if you continue to improve yourself and apply TRP nuggets shared here.

Heck, there are a lot of purple-pillers who say the good times are worth the risk and eventual lull periods. In any case, it's not my place to question your reality. That's one of the few good things about the current climate and one I hope more TRPillers take advantage of, you're at liberty to do whatever makes you happy.

Just remember that as investment bankers say "past performance is no guarantee of future results" and ensure you've made appropriate preparations or contingency plans should you become a statistic. Because we only hear complaints after the women have showed their wild side. But when modern men are feeling like Jay Z thinking they have their partners wrapped around their fingers, rather than make hay while the sun shines, they're usually reckless both in words and deeds.

Don't be reckless.

1. Enter every relationship with a clear idea of what you expect to get out of it and what you can reasonably expect to sacrifice.

If you're going in because you prefer to raise your kids in a nuclear family and are willing to sacrifice your individuality, many of your dreams, some of your cherished friendships, amongst many other things. Then by the gods, if years later she becomes insufferable that it begins to affect the family unit and your kids well being, read her the Riot Act.

2. I have to repeat this, have a clear idea of what you can reasonably expect to sacrifice.

Everything has a price. Including entering a marriage or a committed relationship. It might not sound like a big deal now. But 12 years later, you'd wake up, look at her face as she sleeps and wonder "how the f*ck was I so arrogant to believe I could deal with this sh*t for decades".

3. If you're improving yourself, she should be too.

If you choose to overlook this or tolerate her nasty, that's your prerogative and should be your choice. Don't be knackered into believing that while you're working on yourself and literally sucking up to your boss to maintain your lifestyle and not lose her, that her flaws are a package deal that you MUST accept without her even attempting to work on them.

In the 21st century, that's a pile of crap. If marriage is work, you should not be the only one stacking bricks.

4. Live in the moment, enjoy the little things, and soak up the experiences.

Because it might not last, it might be all that gets you through the bad times, it might be your only respite when you look back on your misadventure, or even be a critical reason why your marriage, civil union, or committed relationship lasts.

5. Have an insurance plan.

Whether it's walking away, getting a mistress, separation, signing a prenup if you're in the diaspora, having a sizable nest egg that can't be touched even if she goes scorched earth; never as a rule of thumb let yourself be at the mercy of a woman (or any human being for that matter).

Don't tempt fate! And don't let anyone guilt-trip you into thinking looking out for yourself means you don't "love" her enough. That should go both ways, if she "loves" you enough, she should want you to be happy if things don't work out.

6. Doing all these things and more does not guarantee anything.

People discover new things about themselves. Circumstances change and people react differently to change. Also, everyone has a breaking point.

===

In fairness, I'll admit, it is depressing.

Most guys out there are just looking for dependable companionship, respect, and appreciation and are willing to walk to the ends of the earth for any woman who'd provide that or even the mere illusion of that. Unfortunately, they have to go searching through treacherous terrain for something their grand and great grand fathers probably took for granted.

That said, in the voice of Eneke the Bird, "Since [hunters] have learned to shoot without missing, I have learned to fly without perching."

Be like Eneke the Bird.

-Lord

Words laced with nothing but the truth.

As a Man, how do you behave among other Men?

Are you able to command the respect of fellow Men at school, work, church, Mosque or social gathering?

When you command respect, other men want to be like you. It's difficult for women to disrespect a man who other men respect.

I'd like to share and hear our thoughts on this aspect.

drLammy:
https://www.nairaland.com/6656142/inlove-guy-far-richer-than

You just can't negotiate genuine desire..

She wouldn't be hesitant if the guy had money. Why the constant reminder to hustle.

neyoohhh:


She wouldn't be hesitant if the guy had money. Why the constant reminder to hustle.

Just like men, some women are also bluepilled.

The higher you go in your self-improvement journey, the clearer it becomes that a huge amount of people that populate the earth are full of shit. Not that they are inherently shitty, but because they fail to develop themselves into their full potentiality. If your mind does its usual job of tempting you to think you're the weird one, remember, it is not by being on the side of the majority, but to escape finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Reflect on these things.

#RandomThoughts

For it is in the nature of the weak to rebel against proper guidance (eg, a child refusing to go to school), having a tendency of conflating your solemn leadership with imposed tyranny, particularly in your relationship. When this happens, because it will happen, you should understand that a fish can only appreciate calm waters when it has experienced a boiled one. With time as they mature, hopefully, they shall be thankful to you for preventing them from falling into the belly of the dragon. Endure their ignorance, that is why you are strong, the masculine one.

#RandomThoughts

If you ask a girl about her hobbies and she responded with vain things like clubbing, fashion, hanging out with friends, shopping, going to the cinema, doing makeup, dancing, etc, then know that your pocket is on the line. Na you go pay for her vanity. No joke.

Show me your hobbies, and I will tell you what kind of person you are.

#RandomThoughts

If for example, you're into sport and met a girl that truly loves you, you'll notice that she would adjust her lifestyle to accommodate yours. SHe would structure her life in a way that enables you to be even more successful in your goals. She will begin to love sports, or at least be neutral about it. This is the ultimate test if a girl truly wants to be with you. If she is always negative about the passion you hold, my dear comrade, she is not for you. Hence the saying, behind every successful man, stands a woman. For this is the true meaning of that proverb.

#RandomThoughts

If you see yourself going long-term with a woman, then you must know her from multiple channels (e.g, knowing someone that knows her, the church/mosque she attends, her past place of work, etc). If you build your knowledge of her from only what she told you, it is very likely that you are making a big mistake. You do not go solo when playing social games with women, they are masters at it. Just as polygamy destroys her sexual monopoly, knowing her from multiple channels drastically reduces the chances of being used.

#RandomThoughts

DeSepiero:
As a Man, how do you behave among other Men?

Are you able to command the respect of fellow Men at school, work, church, Mosque or social gathering?

When you command respect, other men want to be like you. It's difficult for women to disrespect a man who other men respect.

I'd like to share and hear our thoughts on these areas too.

I've not really had time to drop anything here but let me share some tips.
Here in this part of the world, we would be lying to ourselves if we think true respect still exist, I think money has been made to substitute respect. Nobody insults a man with money, hence the saying "if u no get money, hide your face". Nobody gives a fvck until you become successful.
I'm sorry to say this but if one should carry this redpill for head without making money to add to his personality too, not even teenagers are gonna give you that maximum respect every man craves for.

If you know what the 'halo effect' is all bout, you'd have a rethink. Humans judge by what they see. Here are some examples.
Maybe we should start by what we see in families where a junior is more successful than the senior, trust me, before any decision is made, the junior one has to approve of it, these things are just natural, or should we talk bout how some parents give preferential treatment to their beautiful daughter and almost neglect the ugly One simply cos of the halo effect and because they believe the beautiful one is gonna bring better suitors in the future, fathers aren't left out too, fathers praise their intelligent sons and sometimes demean the not so intelligent sons when they bring home their school results.

See, these sort of things were applicable while growing up, but the world changes once adulthood has been reached, your level of respect as an adult is directly proportional to your money and affluence. I don't know who the greatest redpiller on this thread is, but if he should stay with Obi Cubana right now, he's gonna find himself involuntarily according Obi some level of respect.
Both men and women and society at large respects a man with money, the just concluded burial in Oba backs up this fact.

You can constantly improve yourself by trying to become a better version of who you were yesterday.
I equally think simps are just men who can't say no, u might call men who help women simps but we do forget that some simps can do the same thing they do for females for their fellow men too. It's not really their fault, they have a good heart which hasn't been corrupted and as funny as it sounds, those type of men don't even lack or run out of funds and even when they do, those they helped in the past always comes to their rescue, they are blessed constantly by nature.

A true alpha or redpiller is one who is able to say no when he doesn't benefit from what's asked of him.

It is not a coincidence why lots of great geniuses of past and present will not fraternize with a woman or even a man for that matter. Not because they are defective, but because there is a level of enlightenment a man would reach, that will make him comparable to the gods. In your pursuit of infinite excellence, do not alienate yourself from the rich human experience, for it is a lonely place to be.

#RandomThoughts

Jessepaid:
Hehehe...


Ororo...


They say an opinion is like a nose because everybody has one..


Trying to compel someone reason with you is like forced cosmetics surgery without anesthesia..


Anyone on this thread redpill or white pill is responsible for whatever he says, but is not responsible for how others interprete it..



Throwing insults or trying to shame people with masturbating and others is a girl move..


Highly inflammably bluepilled move..


Respecting other people's beliefs is overrated..

People will only respect your beliefs when it poses no threat of obstacle to their personal life and development..

If it does, it will be attacked like the persecuted christians, like Ipob, like anti feminists and redpillers, like anti gay movements etc..


If you like no go hustle, shey you see wetin happen for Oba?

Dey here dey find who you and am go dey exchange words

Haha, nwanne u no hustle pass me o, thanks for the insight though.

pansophist:
If you ask a girl about her hobbies and she responded with vain things like clubbing, fashion, hanging out with friends, shopping, going to the cinema, doing makeup, dancing, etc, without any hobbies that hold true substance, then bro, run for your life. No joke. Tell me your hobbies, and I will tell you what kind of person you are.

#RandomThoughts

for fun bro
My hobbies: I love rapping/singing, watching anime, series/movie, I love making money, I love playing (I'm too smart nd it boring), reading books about money ND love learning

neyoohhh:


She wouldn't be hesitant if the guy had money. Why the constant reminder to hustle.

That guy needs to run for his life.

Jessepaid:
Hehehe...


Ororo...


They say an opinion is like a nose because everybody has one..


Trying to compel someone reason with you is like forced cosmetics surgery without anesthesia..


Anyone on this thread redpill or white pill is responsible for whatever he says, but is not responsible for how others interprete it..



Throwing insults or trying to shame people with masturbating and others is a girl move..


Highly inflammably bluepilled move..


Respecting other people's beliefs is overrated..

People will only respect your beliefs when it poses no threat of obstacle to their personal life and development..

If it does, it will be attacked like the persecuted christians, like Ipob, like anti feminists and redpillers, like anti gay movements etc..


If you like no go hustle, shey you see wetin happen for Oba?

Dey here dey find who you and am go dey exchange words

Forget Wetin happen for oba o.
All that glitters are not gold my g.

SOZINN:


That guy needs to run for his life.

Not necessarily, he can chop her and let her be the one chasing for a relationship.

If he marries her broke, don't be surprised if she starts cheating on him with beta rich simps.

Why we must hustle!

CR777:


I've not really had time to drop anything here but let me share some tips.
Here in this part of the world, we would be lying to ourselves if we think true respect still exist, I think money has been made to substitute respect. Nobody insults a man with money, hence the saying "if u no get money, hide your face". Nobody gives a fvck until you become successful.
I'm sorry to say this but if one should carry this redpill for head without making money to add to his personality too, not even teenagers are gonna give you that maximum respect every man craves for.

If you know what the 'halo effect' is all bout, you'd have a rethink. Humans judge by what they see. Here are some examples.
Maybe we should start by what we see in families where a junior is more successful than the senior, trust me, before any decision is made, the junior one has to approve of it, these things are just natural, or should we talk bout how some parents give preferential treatment to their beautiful daughter and almost neglect the ugly One simply cos of the halo effect and because they believe the beautiful one is gonna bring better suitors in the future, fathers aren't left out too, fathers praise their intelligent sons and sometimes demean the not so intelligent sons when they bring home their school results.

See, these sort of things were applicable while growing up, but the world changes once adulthood has been reached, your level of respect as an adult is directly proportional to your money and affluence. I don't know who the greatest redpiller on this thread is, but if he should stay with Obi Cubana right now, he's gonna find himself involuntarily according Obi some level of respect.
Both men and women and society at large respects a man with money, the just concluded burial in Oba backs up this fact.

You can constantly improve yourself by trying to become a better version of who you were yesterday.
I equally think simps are just men who can't say no, u might call men who help women simps but we do forget that some simps can do the same thing they do for females for their fellow men too. It's not really their fault, they have a good heart which hasn't been corrupted and as funny as it sounds, those type of men don't even lack or run out of funds and even when they do, those they helped in the past always comes to their rescue, they are blessed constantly by nature.

A true alpha or redpiller is one who is able to say no when he doesn't benefit from what's asked of him.

When you're in a corporate setting where you have same earning capacity with your coworkers, how do you maintain frame and stand out as Alpha?

When you have financial independence and earn well like the men you've mentioned (cubana and Co) how do you stand out among your other Millionaires counterparts?

neyoohhh:


Not necessarily, he can chop her and let her be the one chasing for a relationship.

If he marries her broke, don't be surprised if she starts cheating on him with beta rich simps.

Why we must hustle!

If he wants to go down that path. He should let her know he wants FWB. To avoid superfluous drama in the future. Because she knows time is no longer on her side.

SOZINN:


If he wants to go down that path. He should let her know he wants FWB. To avoid superfluous drama in the future. Because she knows time is no longer on her side.

100%

pansophist:
It is not a coincidence why lots of great geniuses of past and present will not fraternize with a woman or even a man for that matter. Not because they are defective, but because there is a level of enlightenment a man would reach, that will make him closer to the gods. In your pursuit of infinite excellence, do not alienate yourself from the rich human experience, for it is a lonely place to be.

#RandomThoughts

This is powerful!

CR777:
Martinez is on a Christian thread insulting God and saying Jesus never existed and Christianity is fraud on a Sunday morning.
Is part of redpill not bout being alpha and not behaving like a sissy by always trying to prove a point all the time?
How old is he that he keeps behaving like a child?
Perhaps he lacked a strong fatherly figure while growing up.

It's a shame aspiring redpillers who visit here are subjected to this type of she-male who doesn't value or respect other people's ideas or beliefs..

The top dogs here should talk to him, he needs help psychologically. Before he goes to Kano or any top Muslim state and starts insulting Allah too.
Oh, I just realized no one is allowed to talk to anyone wey carry redpill for head here.

Link?

Executer:

Link?

Don't mind the clown; he is up to no good. He is just telling lies and misrepresenting my activities in childish and petty fashion. I never insulted God or imposed my atheism on anyone. He/She has something against me. I simply made only two posts on that thread as seen below; the second was a reply to someone who mentioned me. Beware of childish, pathetic and feminine type trolls.

Martinez39s:
JESUS NEVER EXISTED

Martinez39s:
Jesus never existed. Christianity is a falsehood; it has no basis in reality.

SOZINN:


If he wants to go down that path. He should let her know he wants FWB. To avoid superfluous drama in the future. Because she knows time is no longer on her side.

He is a church boy. They don't do FWB. Instead, he'll wife her quick because sex before marriage is a sin.

Martinez39s:
Don't mind the clown; he is up to no good. He is just telling lies and misrepresenting my activities in childish and petty fashion. I never insulted God or imposed my atheism on anyone. He/She has something against me. I simply made only two posts on that thread as seen below; the second was a reply to someone who mentioned me. Beware of childish, pathetic and feminine type trolls.

There you go again defending yourself. You should have simply ignored. You shouldn't have posted this here.

Junnior:

There you go again defending yourself. You should have simply ignored. You shouldn't have posted this here.

As you can see, I ignored. Executer was a about to take him seriously, so I stepped in to enlighten him on what is happening so he doesn't waste energy on that troll.

Learn to read my post well.

Any relationship based on money and resources is not a genuine one, forget that simpanzees mentally that money makes a woman love you more it is false and it's a lie from the pit of hell, so redpillars be careful of money driven women

RAGGA40:
Any relationship based on money and resources is not a genuine one, forget that simpanzees mentally that money makes a woman love you more it is false and it's a lie from the pit of hell, so redpillars be careful of money driven women

Casual sex , you don't need money if you've got game.

Settling down to have a family... You definitely need money. Game can't buy pampers, pay light bill etc , even when your partner is good and helping, you still need money to balance thing's out.

If you're mtgow but want kids.. you still need money.

Mtgow who don't want kids will benefit from your advice but then without money you're still a bitch to your fellow men.

It's not complex , just common sense.

Martinez39s:
As you can see, I ignored. Executer was a about to take him seriously, so I stepped in to enlighten him on what is happening so he doesn't waste energy on that troll.

Learn to read my post well.

What you posted here is very sensitive because we have people with varying religious beliefs here. You should have ignored both him and executer like you didn't see any of that.
Trying to prove you're not what you're accused of only makes you look ridiculous. You don't have any image here to protect. It's a faceless forum.

In an attempt to defend yourself, you've brought religious sentiments into the thread.

I've said it before: the only thing anyone here says that truly matters is RP knowledge. Any other nonsense should be ignored.