I met this babe that keep telling me no sex until marriage, she has visited me in my house and I know she was badly wet when I seduce her but she tried to hold ground and avoid me touching her further. She said if I like her I should go and marry her, Also she said she turned many men down as a result of that and they left because of her policy. I know she is trying to get married at all cost by protecting herself and to avoid wasting of further time with men but everything get intriguing to me which I told her it will be very hard as most men need a date before talking of marriage.

She is very churchy which is normal for most girls of such ages.

so question lead to questions because I want to know if she is not having sex or something.

Also i like the fact she opened up to me although it was not easy before she told me but the revelation was difficult to stomach. Imagine She started having sex at the age of 9 and she is 31 now. That's about 22 years.

Even me when be bros to her at that time she was having sex I was still nerve. It seems majority of girls started it way too early and the question that is disturbing me is who are these men disvirgin little little girls of this ages? It's so painful to hearing if things like this.

Most of this children you see having sex at a tender age are most times not a victim of rape or assault.

samwash:
@Op, let me ask you one question
How many times do you read on NL front page abt Adults raping minors ?
Those are the wicked pple disvirgin this little girls.
Parents pls let us be very watchful of who will leave our children with when we are not around, & Mother's pls be very close to your girl child.

Well, i can't say what you said is true or lie. But let's look at it this way. ... Last year my cousin who just 8 years, imagine 8 years old child o. She was staying with us. We came back and saw blood-stain on her panties. When we ask her what happen, she confess that she was the one insert her last index finger into her vegina. I ask her why, she said she saw a girl doing it in their school toilet and she want to try it. ..... Now the point is, not every teenager you see are victim of rape or assualt by their uncle, teachers, or brother.

Pedophiles plenty for this generation of sin.

If u ask us.......!!! Na who we go ask...?

The matter wey u see so,
E try wey e star

No be we go talk am.
E heavy for mouth

@Op, let me ask you one question
How many times do you read on NL front page abt Adults raping minors ?
Those are the wicked pple disvirgin this little girls.
Parents pls let us be very watchful of who will leave our children with when we are not around, & Mother's pls be very close to your girl child.

You don't know that an average Nigeria girl has been sexually molested as a child? Abi you think say as girls dey slay and no dey get respect for their papa age mates na today e start?

More than 70% of sexually active girls started from sexual abuse.
I never even reach 8 years when one stupid 'uncle' a neighbor showed me his erected _dick. It was when another child in the compound reported that I realize he was also showing others his erected _dick for fun.

Sick perverts everywhere.

fineboynl:
I met this babe that keep telling me no sex until marriage. She said if I like her I should go and marry her. Also she said she turned many men down as a result of that and they left because of her policy. I know she is trying to get married at all cost by protecting herself and to avoid wasting of further time with men but everything get intriguing to me which I told her it will be very hard most men need a date before talking of marriage. She is very churchy which is normal fir most girls if such ages.

so question lead to questions because I want to know if she is not having sex or something.

Also i like the fact she opened up to me although it was not easy before so told me but the revelation was difficult to stomach. Imagine She started having sex at the age of 9 and she is 31 now. That's about 22 years.

Even me when be bros to her at that time she was having sex I was still nerve. It seems majority of girls started it way too early and the question that is disturbing me is who are these men disvirgin little little girls of this ages? It's so painful to hearing if things like this.

It is men like you that do that

Rozcol:
It is men like you that do that

it has to be people that are closed not just any body. But how could she bleed and no pain and also the mother don't know about it?

She started having sex at the age of 9?
Damnnn!
And she has done this for 22years now?

If only she did it for 3more years, it would make it 25years.

That's retirement age for those that have served the government for 25years.
If only u allowed her 3more years, you both would be enjoying her pension and gratuity afterwards.


Meanwhile pls dm me with pictures of her p**Sy. Make sure her face doesn't show.

I have a feeling it would never be normal again.

her toto and reproductive system may not be functioning right again (after sex at such a young age), probably a reason why she doesnt want you to test ride her before marriage.

also, has she ever seen a head doctor to help her with the physical/mental abuse she has suffered?!

nairamaniac:
She started having sex at the age of 9?
Damnnn!
And she has done this for 22years now?

If only she did it for 3more years, it would make it 25years.

That's retirement age for those that have served the government for 25years.
If only u allowed her 3more years, you both would be enjoying her pension and gratuity afterwards.


Meanwhile pls dm me with pictures of her p**Sy. Make sure her face doesn't show.

I have a feeling it would never be normal again.

that's the age most girls start having sex. 9,10,11,12 and 13. All the 30 to 35 years unmarried girls you see around if they open up to you, you would be shock as there is nothing left there again. The worst part is because they started too early they would be having sex like every day because they control it at such age before they develop sense everything has finished. Reasons most men prefer to marry girls of 20 to 22.

MrBrownJay1:
her toto and reproductive system may not be functioning right again (after sex at such a young age), probably a reason why she doesnt want you to test ride her before marriage.

also, has she ever seen a head doctor to help her with the physical/mental abuse she has suffered?!

the fact that if you imagine the number of men and abortion they have carried out all this years. Any girl that's telling you no marriage no sex are all guilty of this. They fear you will run away because of what you will see.

fineboynl:
the fact part if you imagine they number of men and abortion they have carried out all this years. Any girl that's telling you no marriage no sex are all guilty of this. They fear you will run away because of what you will see.

thats the sad truth... the only way to go forward is to have this girl physically examined thoroughly... the good thing is that maybe she wasnt abused all theses years (aka it stopped in her younger years)

fineboynl:
I met this babe that keep telling me no sex until marriage. She said if I like her I should go and marry her. Also she said she turned many men down as a result of that and they left because of her policy. I know she is trying to get married at all cost by protecting herself and to avoid wasting of further time with men but everything get intriguing to me which I told her it will be very hard most men need a date before talking of marriage. She is very churchy which is normal fir most girls if such ages.

so question lead to questions because I want to know if she is not having sex or something.

Also i like the fact she opened up to me although it was not easy before so told me but the revelation was difficult to stomach. Imagine She started having sex at the age of 9 and she is 31 now. That's about 22 years.

Even me when be bros to her at that time she was having sex I was still nerve. It seems majority of girls started it way too early and the question that is disturbing me is who are these men disvirgin little little girls of this ages? It's so painful to hearing if things like this.

And who said it was adult men that did it..


It might be her age mate then, even school mates, goan ask her well

fineboynl:
I met this babe that keep telling me no sex until marriage. She said if I like her I should go and marry her. Also she said she turned many men down as a result of that and they left because of her policy. I know she is trying to get married at all cost by protecting herself and to avoid wasting of further time with men but everything get intriguing to me which I told her it will be very hard most men need a date before talking of marriage. She is very churchy which is normal fir most girls if such ages.

so question lead to questions because I want to know if she is not having sex or something.

Also i like the fact she opened up to me although it was not easy before so told me but the revelation was difficult to stomach. Imagine She started having sex at the age of 9 and she is 31 now. That's about 22 years.

Even me when be bros to her at that time she was having sex I was still nerve. It seems majority of girls started it way too early and the question that is disturbing me is who are these men disvirgin little little girls of this ages? It's so painful to hearing if things like this.

Dump her immediately!
Don't let her manipulate you with that nonsense so-called honesty and open up.
People like her will turn into demons when they finally get what they want.

You deserve better and not an overused LEFTOVER WHORÈ.

fineboynl:
the fact part if you imagine they number of men and abortion they have carried out all this years. Any girl that's telling you no marriage no sex are all guilty of this. They fear you will run away because of what you will see.

and you think the logical thing is to add yourself to “the number of men” by insisting on her having sex with you? Maybe they said no sex until marriage because they are trying to play according to y’all’s dictates?

Do you want women who have sex or not?
If yes, why are you concerned about who she had sex with before you?
If no, why are you trying to have sex with her?

My head hurts for you guys.

If you really do not like over used leftover whorees, you would use this same energy to address your fellow men who think it’s okay to sleep with children.
Is that not the issue here? That she was most likely raped as child?

1stola:

Dump her immediately!
Don't let her manipulate you with that nonsense so-called honesty and open up.
People like her will turn into demons when they finally get what they want.

You deserve better and not an overused LEFTOVER WHORÈ.

MrBrownJay1:

thats the sad truth... the only way to go forward is to have this girl physically examined thoroughly

By whom though?

And what do you suppose they would be looking for during this thorough examination?

cococandy:




and you think the logical thing is to add yourself to “the number of men” by insisting on her having sex with you? Maybe they said no sex until marriage because they are trying to play according to y’all’s dictates?

Do you want women who have sex or not?
If yes, why are you concerned about who she had sex with before you?
If no, why are you trying to have sex with her?

My head hurts for you guys.

why blackmailing a guy into submition? one tried that with me some years ago and I abandoned her and till date she is still call me for financial help as if I am dating her.

A used worn out looking for who do decide and tied. There is no way I can marry someone without first baking. Infact ones you start carrying marriage for head it's a red flag.

fineboynl:
that's the age most girls start having sex. 9,10,11,12 and 13. All the 30 to 35 years unmarried girls you see around if they open up to you, you would be shock as there is nothing left there again. The worst part is because they started too early they would be having sex like every day because they control it at such age before they develop sense everything has finished. Reasons most men prefer to marry girls of 20 to 22.

You know most girls start having sex between 9 and 13 because all these 35 years unmarried girls have been opening up to you, right?

Story!

Yes, many minors in Nigeria get defiled by people around them - uncles, aunties, parents, cousins, house helps, siblings, older sibling's friends etc. My partner was regularly defiled by her elder brother of 6 years age difference, when she was around 12 or 13. She didn't know that what she was doing was wrong and was completely manipulated by him. I also used to know a boy, back then in Nigeria, who's mum used to ask him to scratch her back, then her nipples and pvssy. He didn't know what he was doing.

Having said that, as unfortunate as it is, there will be nothing physically wrong with the vjay of a 31 year old woman that has had sex for 25 years. As the old saying goes "toh toh nor get meter". The only thing that MIGHT affect elasticity of vjay is multiple natural childbirth. Some women are naturally big down there too, so will feel wide even if she's only had sex one time.

fineboynl:
why blackmailing a guy into submition? one tried that with me some years ago and I abandoned her and till date she is still call me for financial help as if I am dating her.

A used worn out looking for who do decide and tied. There is no way I can marry someone without first baking. Infact ones you start carrying marriage for head it's a red flag.

Hmm. I don’t think you understand the meaning of blackmail.

That being said, you can walk away from any conditions you don’t like. If you want sex in a relationship and the lady says no, walk away.

What you can’t do is want sex in a relationship and then turn around to insult women who had sex in a relationship with men like you who wanted sex in their relationship. I mean you can do that (as you obviously are doing here) but it makes you look confused and unserious. Why do you make your own lives difficult? The math is not mathing

OnlyDeCapPlease:

Having said that, as unfortunate as it is, there will be nothing physically wrong with the vjay of a 31 year old woman that has had sex for 25 years. As the old saying goes "toh toh nor get meter".

That’s because sex does not affect vaginal muscle tone. It’s urban myth steeped in ignorance and quite frankly, male grandeur.

Thinking a 6 inch peenis with maybe a 2-3 inch girth can affect a whole vagina that births humans and goes back to normal is the epitome is delusions of grandeur. Men really do wish their penisess have that much power.

LadyRosa:
You don't know that an average Nigeria girl has been sexually molested as a child? Abi you think say as girls dey slay and no dey get respect for their papa age mates na today e start?

More than 70% of sexually active girls started from sexual abuse.
I never even reach 8 years when one stupid 'uncle' a neighbor showed me his erected _dick. It was when another child in the compound reported that I realize he was also showing others his erected _dick for fun.

Sick perverts everywhere.

Wow! you garnered experience quite early. If I were an employer, would employ you immediately.

cococandy:


That’s because sex does not affect vaginal muscle tone. It’s urban myth steeped in ignorance and quite frankly, male grandeur.

Thinking a 6 inch peenis with maybe a 2-3 inch girth can affect a whole vagina that births humans and goes back to normal is the epitome is delusions of grandeur. Men really do wish their penisess have that much power.

Madam, the injection of the penis no matter the length or size makes the vagina elastic just by the mere pumping and stroking of the vaginal hole repeatedly.

Juliusmomoh:
Most of this children you see having sex at a tender age are most times not a victim of rape or assault.
Well, i can't say what you said is true or lie. But let's look at it this way. ... Last year my cousin who just 8 years, imagine 8 years old child o. She was staying with us. We came back and saw blood-stain on her panties. When we ask her what happen, she confess that she was the one insert her last index finger into her vegina. I ask her why, she said she saw a girl doing it in their school toilet and she want to try it. ..... Now the point is, not every teenager you see are victim of rape or assualt by their uncle, teachers, or brother.

Yes you are right to some extent, but a high percentage comes from assault from close relatives, you can't rule out that fact.
Another thing is environmental factor also play a role. Children has curiosity mind set, they like to practice what they see just like the case of your little cousin.
In all child care & upbringing is not an easy task at all, it requires very close monitoring from parents & guidance, also effective back to back communications b/w parents & wards.
Well I don't kwn why some useless God forsaken adults derive in bedding little children & young adolescent children.
I use " children" in this context for both boys & girls. Some Ladies molesting little boys are not left out in this devilish act.

If you didn't marry a virgin, you will surely regret it.
Once a girl is fvcked by a man who didn't marry her she carries a trait of him. If you are unfortunate enough to marry such a woman, you will give birth to children who has characters not found in you or the wife but found In men she has slept with.
Long story short, if you marry a non virgin, you will spend your life training a BASTARD!
My children will be pure breed .

cococandy:
By whom though?

a doctor (possibly OB-GYN) who specializes in the female reproductive system.

And what do you suppose they would be looking for during this thorough examination?

sexual dysfunctions and gynecological problems....vag1na/womb malformation ... possible internal damage due to possible untreated STD/STI for years. making sure that she can actually have children (as we all know that having kids is a major issue for Nigerians)

OnlyDeCapPlease:
Having said that, as unfortunate as it is, there will be nothing physically wrong with the vjay of a 31 year old woman that has had sex for 25 years. As the old saying goes "toh toh nor get meter". The only thing that MIGHT affect elasticity of vjay is multiple natural childbirth. Some women are naturally big down there too, so will feel wide even if she's only had sex one time.

cococandy:
That’s because sex does not affect vaginal muscle tone. It’s urban myth steeped in ignorance and quite frankly, male grandeur.Thinking a 6 inch peenis with maybe a 2-3 inch girth can affect a whole vagina that births humans and goes back to normal is the epitome is delusions of grandeur. Men really do wish their penisess have that much power.

you guys cant compare the sexual organ of a 9yr old child with that of an adult woman, moreso one during childbirth... come on! a demon having sex with a child can possibly damage that child vag1na and reproductive system. common symptoms from such evil act includes chronic pelvic pain, d[b]yspareunia[/b] (aka sharp/intense pain in the toto during intercourse), vaginismus (aka involuntary tensing/closure of the toto during intercourse), nonspecific vaginitis (aka inflammation of the vajayjay), and gastrointestinal disorders.

am not an expert, but i am sure that an adult penis would go way pass the reproductive system of a 9yr old child, and closer to that child stomach and/or further.

What I find difficult to understand is how would a mother of 7-9 years old girl who got disvirgin by an adults male not know or find out?

The thing is that once a kid of that age test sex. It's everyday nacking for them as it will be sweeting them.

samwash:



Yes you are right to some extent, but a high percentage comes from assault from close relatives, you can't rule out that fact.
Another thing is environmental factor also play a role. Children has curiosity mind set, they like to practice what they see just like the case of your little cousin.
In all child care & upbringing is not an easy task at all, it requires very close monitoring from parents & guidance, also effective back to back communications b/w parents & wards.
Well I don't kwn why some useless God forsaken adults derive in bedding little children & young adolescent children.
I use " children" in this context for both boys & girls. Some Ladies molesting little boys are not left out in this devilish act.

Thank you very much sir for this humble reply.

cococandy:
If you really do no like over used leftover whorees, you would use this same energy to address your fellow men who think it’s okay to sleep with children...

The bold! You wives and daughters of Satan, you have come to cover up your ploy.

It is You Wives and daughters of Satan who seduce, twine, toy and lure older men, daddies, uncles and married into sleeping with you, so that you could FEEL BIG and "eat their Glory" and become "rich".

Then you would go out and boast how greater you are over your fellow girls, while aiming to be your mother's mate, which is why you start talking to mummy and daddy and elders anyhow.

And when the shit blows up, you would then keep quiet as if you did nothing while the whole world blames the idiot fool and Simple thing who has been swallowed by your well, who is standing and wondering how he entered into this well.

There are men who are dogs and funny enough women avoid them, it is always the Simple Stupid Things who fall for your wickedness.

I know una secret, WOMEN HATE MEN AND ARE JEALOUS OF THEM AND THEREFORE, LIKE SATAN, YOU ALL LIVE TO DESTROY (SLAY) MEN.

fineboynl:
What I find difficult to understand is how would a mother of 7-9 years old girl who got disvirgin by a adults men not know or find out?

The thing is that once a kid of that age test sex. It's everyday nacking for them as it will be sweeting them.

You sound like a pedophile, seriously!