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10 wrong places to look for love in Nigeria

To those of who are single and searching and feeling unlucky or unattractive, check this out!
Here are 10 wrong places to look for love in Nigeria.

1. Clubs and Bars
People go to clubs and bars to forget their sorrow, escape from reality, have fun and nothing serious. Yeah, you read it right, nothing serious!

You might get lucky that night but the next morning you realize things are not as they seem plus you were possibly drunk, or your so-called new catch a shaggi.

2. The workplace
Pleasure and business should not mix, it ends badly most time...you know, in premium tears. Rumors will spread like wildfire around in the workplace whether you like it or not and that will definitely affect you.

Whenever you have a misunderstanding with your partner things are likely to feel awkward and tense, and the working environment will now be a warfare.


3. Weddings
A lot of girls beg their friend's friends to allow them be the ashoebi at their weddings! You know why? To “enchant” the most vulnerable aboy there..and vice versa.

Most people come to this event showcasing their most lovely personality while observing the other person. The best way to get to know or evaluate a person’s true character is meeting them when they aren't showing off.

4. Dating apps
The internet is full of scammers, pretending to be somebody else just to make you fall in love and steal your money with deceptive means; be careful with dating apps. You might not know that white guy/girl you are tripping for is an oshodi boy!


5. Religious places
Now this may sound absurb to some overly holies. In Nigeria, a typical Sunday is when every wayward person, witches, wizards, prostitutes are human and carry big bibles! Those hookers will now be seen wearing long skirts, and closing their ever-open cleavages!

Armed robbers will head to churches with big sums asking to be prayed for so that Jesus can now shift for them to sit at the right-hand side of God.

Everyone in the church is smiling at one another!

Who are you deceiving?

Everyone in Nigeria belongs to one religious body or the other, many people come to this place to find solutions to their problems, one of which could be a delay in marriage. Delay in marriage? After most of them have overused their youthful age!

Most people you meet in this religious places might be desperate and willing to act righteous and perfect just so you fall in love with them then they show you their true colors.


6. Nysc camp
In Nigeria, it is mandatory for every graduate to undergo a three-week training before posted to their various place of assignment.

Three weeks locked in a confined space can lead to boredom and feeling might start to spring up. Most persons will forget about you after the service. Learn to avoid Premium Tears. �

7. Brothels
This is a patronized place for most men and women. Everyone who goes to a brothel is most definitely looking for a quick fun or a one-night stand, any love that comes up from such place will be built on insecurities forever. Avoid premium tears.

8. Drug Rehab facility
After suffering from a drug addiction problem and taking the bold step to seek help, it will be a very bad idea to look for someone to love in your facility. What you should be focused on his getting the right help.

9. Your street
We all have that beautiful girl or handsome guy in your street that you wish would fall in love with you so you can have a happily-ever-after. It’s possible but most times it doesn’t end well. As the saying goes over familiarity breeds disrespect.

Avoid Premium Tears make you no go dey wear suit to impress the girl in the sun. Avoid Premium Tears make mama no send you to go hawk fufu you refuse because you want to impress a guy next hood.

10. Higher institution
Looking for love in college might not be a good idea. First, the person is probably living far from you and will one day return and you might never see again and secondly most people are unsure of their life partner and looking for love might be a distraction. Focus on your studies.



* Note that when I say weddings, I mean the typical motive of people there, and not the context itself.


Action Plan: You should be honest with yourself. If your reason for wanting to fall in love is only to date the person, you really aren't ready to be with anyone. You should date when you are ready for marriage only!

Source: https://www.nopremiumtears.com.ng/2021/07/10-wrong-places-to-look-for-love-in.html

Please, drop your views on what you think about this topic below.

I'm here, just incase

@Op, I strongly disagree with some of your points. Many pple has found love & have gotten married & the marriage is still waxing strong & going from
Club & Bar
Work place
Weddings event
Religious places
NYSC camp
Your street or Area &
Higher institution of learning.
I nor fit type much for now, I for give you some illustrations & practical real life experience.
Pls I will want you to also highlight 10 place to look for love in Nigeria

PrimeWatermark:
11. Nairaland

Abi you don hear say me and Rihanna breakup before?

samwash:
@Op, I strongly disagree with some of your points. Many pple has found love & have gotten married & the marriage is still waxing strong & going from
Club & Bar
Work place
Weddings event
Religious places
NYSC camp
Your street or Area &
Higher institution of learning.
I nor fit type much for now, I for give you some illustrations & practical real life experience.
Pls I will want you to also highlight 10 place to look for love in Nigeria

.

It's anecdotal, bros.

Person wey find love for nightclub well at all?

Op as you say make we avoid to find love for all these places na to go mars go look for love partner be that ooo.


Your head no even correct

So, OP, where are the right places we can find Love ? Since you've listed almost all the right places I could think of as the wrong places.

I don't agree with the OP.......... You can find your soulmate anywhere, even in the most hopeless place.

Meanwhile,

God can bring you to meet ur missing rib at those aforementioned places. E dey happen and e still dey happen.

People marry cool wives even from brothels...some people are into one or two shit cos of one or two family quagmires and poverty.

Remember in the Holy writ... YAHWEH admonished prophet Hosea to marry a LovePeddler... If Baba God commanded his prophet to marry a LovePeddler...

Who are you mere mortal under Buhari misrule to judge me if a marry from a brothel

PrimeWatermark:
11. Nairaland

PrimeWatermark:
11. Nairaland

Pillar12:
Op as you say make we avoid to find love for all these places na to go mars go look for love partner be that ooo.


Your head no even correct

Bolded tho... Baba say op head no even correct

Oya mk guyman kuku enter Jupiter ni

Liballo:
So, OP, where are the right places we can find Love ? Since you've listed almost all the right places I could think of as the wrong places.

I don't agree with the OP.......... You can find your soulmate anywhere, [i[b]]even in the most hopeless place[/b][/i].

Define hopeless in a Nigerian context.

11 twitter and instagram

9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

In mosdii voice: They are all useless..... All of them!

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10 wrong places to look for love in Nigeria




Source: https://www.nopremiumtears.com.ng/2021/07/10-wrong-places-to-look-for-love-in.html

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So where should.love be found?

In DREAMS?

Buhari.
Because he gives no Love

WHAT ABOUT TOILET?

where u wan come find love, the moon?

Op is saying not to look for love at all

Where again is safe na? The list is exhausted o.

Include Aso Rock too cos na there origin of nonsense started from. Girls from there are learning from this protocols below:

SOCIALISM: You have two cows, and you give one to your neighbor.

COMMUNISM: You have two cows, the government takes both and gives you milk.

FASCISM: You have two cows, the government takes both and sells you milk.

NAZISM: You have two cows, the government takes them and kills you.

CAPITALISM: You have two cows, you sell one and buy a male. You multiply your cows and there is economic growth. You sell them, you retire and you live on your profits.

MODERN CAPITALISM: You have two cows, you sell one and buy a male. You multiply your cows and you buy those of your neighbors. The latter become your shepherds, you pay them in monkey currencies and they die poor.

AMERICAN SOCIETY: You have two cows, you sell one and you have to make the other one to produce milk like 4 cows. By dint of producing beyond her capacity, she dies. You take a consultant to understand this death.

FRENCH SOCIETY: You have two cows, you go on strike because you want a third.

GERMAN SOCIETY: You have two cows, you modify them so that they live 100 years, eat once a month and treat themselves.

CHINESE SOCIETY: You have two cows, you sell milk to your compatriots and you produce plastic milk to export to the rest of the world.

BLACK/ AFRICAN SOCIETY: You have two cows, you eat them all the same day and you dream that donors or the international community give you others. You turn to God and hope for miracle cattle. You fast 40 days and 40 nights without eating or drinking so that the cows will fall from heaven. At the end, you die in extreme poverty.

Run for Abuja babes abeg.

12. Instagram
. oppression will just kill you

People will just wake up and write anything. People have been finding love in all these places from time imo river

OP you are confused!

aso rock

OP I dunno about you, but I met my wife on a dating app.

We bonded over religion, politics, movies and other topics.

4 years and a beautiful daughter later, I have absolutely no regrets.

Love is like shoe, one size does not fit all!

Look for love in brothel

South east

The Right girl can be in the Wrong place at the Right time.

My college landlord was a gateman in one ashawo quarter, he got married to one of the ashawo at the quarters, they're happily married with 3kids for 15years now.

12. Nigeria !!!!