I follow people by their character

plenty BUT once i cut off, its OFF

frozen70:
I will give you enough time so that when I want to deal with you, I won't give up or have pity on the person

This sounds hot. Can you deal with me pls?

Hassanmaye:

Wow

I have standards and keep boundaries.

Humanoid01:

She even shows no remorse. I think you cut her off at the right time, she could have done worse if you had kept letting her.

I'm telling you. She really spoilt me behind my back.

I am not very patient with people.
So if you continually do the same mistake say three times, i will avoid you completely.

Twice pere

MALIGNANTGuest:

Just Read Through.
Absolutely Right.
NUMBER 11 is the height of it
cc Righteousness89.
He really needs Microcellular Brain Maturation.
The MOMENT you engage Nigerian pastors in this discussion, rather than putting up verifiable facts, they start threatening you with Fire & Brimstone.
In Fact, most of them now have the KEY to HELL.

While I support your point, some of those who invented those things you mentioned were religious people. How about that?

In the final analysis, there is no war between religion and science. Both can cohabit and that's been proven time and again.

For a friend, I will pay every price to keep you away from being tempted to betray me. But once it happens, no more chance. Reason, if you could do it once , you can do it again

frozen70:
I will give you enough time so that when I want to deal with you, I won't give up or have pity on the person

this is what I do to whoever I date

I'm patient but if toxic person I keep you at arm's length!

ukpahu:
All human being are wicked

Including you!

Me I don’t even know sef
But one thing is sure once I cut you off

I don’t look back
I threat you like you never exist

All my ex’s and backstabbing friends knows this

I give 2 chances, after that I cut them off.

hpk:
I barely get attached to people, I'm mostly in acquaintance level with people I interact with. You prove yourself worthy then we become friends, you show your true colors and I move on.

That's not so difficult.

Take! I don't know the essence of keeping useless friends.

After first red flag my to reader will focus on to the individul,second wrong moves am out.

CamusMidas:
How many chances would you like to receive before someone cut you off?

nice twist

It depends...
For friends only when I feel threatened or in danger from 100 miles away.

For family its after 35yrs.

In both situations its forever...no remedy.

Humanoid01:

You are an introvert.

I disagree. Even extroverts have few deep connections with few people. They have a lot more on the acquaintance level though

Humanoid01:

It's very sad but that's just how life works. We can't do without people, I hate it so much.

The key is to keep a few people close and others at a distance. Networking doesn't mean you have to get too personal

Cutting off people should be weighed properly because this action results in so many consequences for both parties. It is never one sided.

When you cut off someone you are also loosing the variety of experiences that person has and your interactions with that experience for you, particularly when you are young aged.

We should be sober and be ready to carry out thorough analysis of the human variants you are about to let. Sometimes it is necessary too to cut off certain characters for our advancement in life. Characters that are inimical to good religious, social standing, economic and social development of your person.

These characters should be used to access the person in question as well as our future ambitions.

You will discover that there is actually nobody that will fail woefully in all these areas of life if our accessment is thorough. If you don't know some aspect interview the person along that line yourself or through other people.

We are in this world together and the almighty God has given everyone a talent that is useful for the person and other people near him.

For me, if you fumble, you fumble... I no dey give people chance...

GrandFinale2021:
hahahaha this one no get eyes to decode fake account.
mannabbqgrill5 your troll strategy dey work.
vote him out 2023 bawo? Buhari say e wan contest before?

I thought she has repented no, I know now

Nicoddemus:

Ok your sins are too many and cannot be forgiven. You'd surely roast in penury of poverty

MANNABBQGRILL5:

All of us @ [b][/b] say "Amen' to the prayer
that we shall roast and dine with poverty for the rest of our lives
and u too Nicoddemus, Amen. Anything to move our darling nation forward is our concern.

We rise.

Seun Mynd44 Justwise Dominique.
Rule 2.

https://www.nairaland.com/mannabbqgrill5/posts

Hmmm ..!

As many chances as God gives me when ever I messed up.

depends on the person

I'm an introvert and as such i can cut you off without your notice, i don't have time to approach you over your silly behavior. E get one guy where i been meet for FCMB bank, during that time where MMM d reign as me been go send money to person where em been match me with, i stumble on this guy he was busy talking like a parrot in the bank though quite a funny guy. He observed that others were laughing at his stupid jokes while i was just quiet, i believe that strike him into noticing me. After that he approached me and we became friends. E get one babe where i been wan knack that time comot face, i come reason this my guy say make him help me free him crib , him agree. Omoh as i carry that babe go that night we come freestyle and this my guy man later call that baby the next day come d toast the babe say make she come house say he get wetin him wan tell am. Na so that babe carry phone call me i burst her place she come flash the idiot of a guy and him call the babe. She put the call for speaker omoh na that day i fear some niggas. As a matured guy i no fit approach my fellow guy man cos of babe where i no get future plans with, i no just get that rubbish time. I come invite the guy with him babe we go relax for one open field and with this my babe. If u see the way i related with the guy eh him no know say that babe don play me and say i dey d time when him call am. I just freestyle but inside my mind i just say after today, u no go ever see me again not in the next life. Na so we come d laugh d gist for him mind him feel say i no know. Omoh as soon as we left that place, as him and him gf enter keke and i waved the idiot goodbye na d i just delete him numz comot for my phone, delete him off whatsapp, delete him on facebook. The next day as usual d guy come d send me messages on whatsapp, i read am i no just send am, him sendmessages reach 100 times i just open am making him know say i don see am, i no send am , guy man enter facebook send me message i no send, come d call call, i no pick him call. Las las i come d busy him call as him d call. Na so him come tire after about 2 weeks. Since march 2017 til date na so i just cut am off my life. Reasons why i acted that way was to put him on a suspense. For him mind him go feel say wetin happen, why i just change, abi i later know wetin him been do, but if i know wetin him been d try do why i no been ask am and why i come d laugh with am even though i know. I knew he must have had so many thoughts running in his mind. So to me it depends on what d person did, e get wetin u do i give u another chance and e get wetin u do i quietly kick ur ass off as that guys man. I just knew that such people can go extra miles just to sleep with ur wife or fiance so i just cut him off as soon as he did that. Na since 2017 i never see am and i no wan even see am for my life and perhaps anyday i see am I GO JUST DO LIKE SAY I NO SABI AM, EVEN IF HIM COME DEY HAIL ME D CALL MY NAME NA SO I GO DO LIKE SAY NA ANOTHER PERSON HIM MISTAKE ME FOR.

CharisEleos:
It depends on the depth of friendship. Like three times or even more. Like there was this woman im sure I gave a million chances until I discovered she began to hate me by the things she says. Then I finally cut her off during the lockdown..

This is someone whom we were close from the beginning. Then she started telling people I want to collect her husband. Just because she went to deliver a baby and I came in to help check on the other children while she was away.

She did so many things that I just kept overlooking. But the last straw was when she went telling some women in the area that I'm always puffing, that is why I'm not married. Ha!
During the lock down she did another thing. My head full. I just cut her off totally and finally.

Now, she'll sit behind my kitchen window ( they live in the BQ behind my kitchen) and be telling her children, "this one will be carrying herself. highest it's so so amount that is in her account". Or she'll say, some people fine but them no see husband marry. Marriage is not by beauty bla bla bla..
Mehn ... I really gave that woman a million and one chances.

Me i know she's pained though. So, I just ignore her.

And you nor daze that her useless mouth with better slaps for those comments of hers; na you let her see you finish come dey shine which kind enemy of progress woman be this sef?

Give chance why? If you misbehave or you are doing like my life depends on yours, I go sharperly cut you off