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Re: 2 - Deleted by Reex12(m): 9:46am On Jul 25, 2021 |
TheUndercover:I have a question sir, in a situation where you have to always prove your worth or efforts to someone but there's another in the picture whose little/tiny efforts are seen as a gigantic thing, what's the best approach or solution? |
Re: 2 - Deleted by Katridge2021: 6:12pm On Jul 25, 2021 |
TheUndercover: You're truly on point. There is this my friend, he was dating this girl and this girl wouldn't post him on her status, despite him posting her. Just recently she broke up with him, and she was telling him that she had been dating another guy alongside him. if she is not flaunting you, you are dating yourself. This is my first time commenting here. And I must say, you are making impacts in my life. I'm so blessed to have you on nairaland. Kudos boss, keep it coming. 18 Likes |
Re: 2 - Deleted by TheUndercover: 6:51am On Jul 26, 2021 |
Reex12:Who's this someone? Is it your boss at work? I need details of this. I talked about likeability on the first page on this thread. If he's someone people like, that's definitely gonna happen. Or it might be that the mode of delivery he's using is totally different from yours. He might be delivering small tasks in an exceptional manner. 1 Like |
Re: 2 - Deleted by TheUndercover: 7:12am On Jul 26, 2021 |
Katridge2021:You're welcome. Girls are naturally cunning. They don't need to learn about it. 7 Likes |
Re: 2 - Deleted by Reex12(m): 9:31am On Jul 26, 2021 |
TheUndercover:its a work thing, contracts are given to an outsider to do,but when hes unavailable I do it but the former is paid better commissions whereas he does halfdone jobs, now thing is I know the contractjobs better and have to elaborate on keypoints onwhat made it perfect but this guy created an atmosphere of hardwork when he was around that even bosses percieved him to be whereas hes a lazy ass mofo ...so now basically all jobs he does are seen as perfect despite it been rubbish and halfdone.. |
Re: 2 - Deleted by TheUndercover: 5:56pm On Jul 26, 2021 |
Reex12:@the emboldened statement is one of the Machiavellian tactics I've talked about. Is it part of your work outline to do the finishing touches of the job? If that's so, I'm afraid the situation might never change. They might also respect him more based on the qualification he has, that's if maybe they perceive he's more qualified than you based on his experience or certificates. 1 Like |
Re: 2 - Deleted by TheUndercover: 11:45am On Jul 30, 2021 |
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Re: 2 - Deleted by TheUndercover: 11:48am On Jul 30, 2021 |
"A woman makes a split-second status-assessment of a man's status before he even says anything." 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 2 - Deleted by TheUndercover: 11:49am On Jul 30, 2021 |
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Re: 2 - Deleted by TheUndercover: 11:55am On Jul 30, 2021 |
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Re: 2 - Deleted by TheUndercover: 11:58am On Jul 30, 2021 |
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Re: 2 - Deleted by Nobody: 12:00pm On Jul 30, 2021 |
TheUndercover: This is very germane for the so called entertainers, celebrities, socialites and the likes. Very few have this tactic no wonder most of them fizzle out before their stars shine bright. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 2 - Deleted by TheUndercover: 12:07pm On Jul 30, 2021 |
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Re: 2 - Deleted by softguy1: 1:32pm On Jul 30, 2021 |
TheUndercover: So at this situation, what are we expected to do in other to balance the equation? |
Re: 2 - Deleted by prodige001: 2:25pm On Jul 30, 2021 |
softguy1:no equation needs balancing... Remain feared.... Remain respected... Remain envied.... Their hate will be a means of you being announced and those who don't know you will seek to do so... There you can apply a different tactics and get them to be your allies No loose guard at all cost 15 Likes |
Re: 2 - Deleted by NobleSeed(m): 3:53pm On Jul 30, 2021 |
what if reverse was the case? What should be the best approach? TheUndercover: |
Re: 2 - Deleted by Savie(m): 11:27pm On Jul 30, 2021 |
TheUndercover:It's no other person than my mother. 1 Like |
Re: 2 - Deleted by LastProphet: 7:50am On Jul 31, 2021 |
Orpazpjr: My young friend pls leave all these grammar it doesn't work, your wife will be knacked if she's pretty and you will also knack outside even if you are not handsome, this is how the life goes take it from me. There's no beautiful married woman I have investigated that didn't fail this test so don't let that be your problem. If people know how many married women have been lashed by outsider this world will end. 9 Likes |
Re: 2 - Deleted by TheUndercover: 7:11pm On Jul 31, 2021 |
prodige001: Good reply! 2 Likes |
Re: 2 - Deleted by TheUndercover: 7:13pm On Jul 31, 2021 |
NobleSeed:Then you go with a different type of approach the people around are not used to. |
Re: 2 - Deleted by NobleSeed(m): 8:16pm On Jul 31, 2021 |
thanks bro TheUndercover: |
Re: 2 - Deleted by flexydote(m): 1:18pm On Aug 01, 2021 |
I wish I had seen this earlier. My GF that have been asking me what is the plan I have for her, when I finally told her I will like to settle down with her she started ignoring my calls and care less. TheUndercover: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 2 - Deleted by ObinnaValentine: 2:21pm On Aug 01, 2021 |
flexydote: Guess u meant to say 'ex' 4 Likes |
Re: 2 - Deleted by flexydote(m): 2:37pm On Aug 01, 2021 |
TheUndercover: You can't get all in one |
Re: 2 - Deleted by Junnior: 7:54pm On Aug 01, 2021 |
TheUndercover:"It is better to be hated than ignored" Are you sure about this? Maybe throw more light, with references. |
Re: 2 - Deleted by TheUndercover: 2:21pm On Aug 02, 2021 |
Junnior:Very good question, I was actually expecting this. The saying goes thus, "While it is better to be loved than hated, it is also far better to be hated than ignored." — Viet Nguyen If you're being ignored by people, it's like you don't exist. Everything you do to gain attention won't have any effect. Being ignored is not a good position to be in especially if you're seeking to climb up the hierarchy. It's better to be hated than ignored because you can learn to use those who hate you or criticize you. It shows you're on their minds and they are thinking about you.. If you are being hated, people will spread rumours about you and indirectly making you more popular; if you're been ignored, it's like you're dead. This is why when you ignore someone trying to get your attention or trigger you to react in bad way, you cancel them out. This infuriates them the more. Being hated can also be a sign of fame or success. If people start hating you, consider it a massive privilege. People only hate those they are intimated of, envious or jealous of, or scared of. 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 2 - Deleted by shakyum: 8:35am On Aug 03, 2021 |
TheUndercover:T-bag in prison break uses this a lot 1 Like |
Re: 2 - Deleted by TheUndercover: 6:39am On Aug 04, 2021 |
Your confidence should be based on what you are, not what you have. Everything you have can be taken from you, and probably will be at some point. What you are can never be taken from you. 23 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 2 - Deleted by TheUndercover: 6:40am On Aug 04, 2021 |
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Re: 2 - Deleted by TheUndercover: 6:47am On Aug 04, 2021 |
You really don't know someone, until: 1) Money is involved 2) You deal with them when they're angry 3) You live with them 4) You travel with them Never underestimate point number one. Remember, the quickest way to make an ally is to pay up, and the quickest way to make an enemy? Not paying up. Addendum: Be wary of the people you call your friends. The problem is that you often do not know your friends as well as you imagine. Friends often agree on things in order to avoid an argument. Since honesty rarely strengthens friendship, you may never know how a friend truly feels. 27 Likes 3 Shares |
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