Lollittaa:

as usual, trying to lean on "men are logical, women are emotional" nonsense.
1. This is the third or fourth post he's making on the same issue of divorce.
Red flag : Attention seeker.
2. I never exonerated his wife. Although he has written so much about how wrong she is, she is yet to defend herself. Don't you men yap about "hearing from the other side"? Why the hypocrisy?
3. He has extremely toxic traits that even if his wife wasn't stubborn, will be hard for any woman to cope with.
4. What's with always mentioning her womb? Did he or did he not know about her womb before agreeing to get married? Why shaming her?

Ishilove:

See them. The keeping malice crew. We know you people. Don't you know that keeping malice is a very bad habit and very unhealthy for any kind of relationship, be it marital or non-marital? How you can love someone and still keep malice with that person is beyond me. It shows you are not broken and have not submitted yourself to the holy spirit. Even the bible says we should not let the sun go down on our anger, but humans select which scriptural exhortation to ignore, and which to obey. You think you're fooling God but it is only yourself you are fooling.

God is really merciful.

Pecoleee345:


Obviously you have comprehension problem.

Just try and read my post with your brain charge....I clearly wrote she had miscarriage twice....can someone without a womb have miscarriage??

It was when we Carried out test we got to know she has weak womb (cervix imcompence) ... which was is due to abortion she had back in school and I wasn't aware of until that day.

So stop been emotional.....read to understand and stop embarrassing yourself.

you're the one embarrassing yourself, showing your incompetence, your unpreparedness for married life. Even if you marry 20 women, it won't last till you realise your fault. People who always blame others more than they blame themselves will NEVER progress.
You mentioned she has a "weak womb" and kept harping on and on about it. Methinks it's not even her "stubbornness" but the fact that she's lost a baby 2ce. Instead of you to be a bit understanding, you're washing your ex wife's panties on nairaland. You no sabi something

Pecoleee345:

Moses bad anger issues.... even if you are filled with the holy spirit that doesn't mean you won't have personal flaws.

I keep malice and I admit everytime Is a bad thing.....am willing to change but

But my malice saved me alot from actually landing her in the hospital.....I was provoked, threaten and dare my times.

You are a woman so am sure you know how people run your mouth..... trust me if I was your brother you give me an applause for taking al those and I never lay a finger on her.

so you're modern day Moses? Inukwa nonsense at the bolded

Lollittaa:

you're the one embarrassing yourself, showing your incompetence, your unpreparedness for married life. Even if you marry 20 women, it won't last till you realise your fault. People who always blame others more than they blame themselves will NEVER progress.
You mentioned she has a "weak womb" and kept harping on and on about it. Methinks it's not even her "stubbornness" but the fact that she's lost a baby 2ce. Instead of you to be a bit understanding, you're washing your ex wife's panties on nairaland. You no sabi something

dacblogger:

Keep catching cruise with the guy,he is not sensible at all...
His wife really tried to tolerate him this long

Pecoleee345:

Moses bad anger issues.... even if you are filled with the holy spirit that doesn't mean you won't have personal flaws.

I keep malice and I admit everytime Is a bad thing.....am willing to change.

But my malice saved me alot from actually landing her in the hospital.....I was provoked, threaten and dare my times.

You are a woman so am sure you know how you people run your mouth..... trust me if I was your brother you give me an applause for taking all those and I never lay a finger on her.

Lollittaa:

now you see why some women take some secrets to the grave. Everyone makes mistakes and I'm very sure if men had wombs, less than 30% of Nigerian men would have theirs intact. HE KNEW THE CONDITION OF HER WOMB before marrying her. But anyway, no need explaining. A pig will always follow another pig.

torqque7:


Madam u can only put in ur best and can't force the other party to reciprocate,u must be a novice and very inexperienced in relationship matters because alot of relationships end because one of the two decided to frustrate every effort made by the other to make it work, so yes it takes two to make it work and the op tried all he could but maybe u didn't see where he kept saying it and saying all he did wasn't enough for her,instead u are just been overly emotional because ofcourse thats what u females do when its ur gender on the receiving end..

If u like thread the path of his stubborn unsubmisive wife and dnt take corrections and lessons from his story,it will only end in tears for u.

torqque7:


Abeg make we hear word..na him send am make she live reckless life come scatter her womb?when they tell u females to lead responsible lives when young because it will always come back to hunt u latter in the future if u don't,yal think its a joke..well she made her bed,let her lay in it. So stop trying to emotionally blackmail the op..Erectile dysfunction wasn't caused by the man who has it as a result of his irresponsible leaving,but a weak womb as a result of multiple abortions was deliberately caused as a result of the ladys irresponsible lifestyle so dnt compare the two at all.

Pecoleee345:


Are you the one I divorce.... because I don't understand why you are paranoid.

If your submission was actually sensible she should have left me instead long time ago

kingreign:


I wish to use this medium to profusely and immensely (sic) thank you for divorcing that woman so that she can rest from your mental and psychological imbalance. You really did that woman a whole lot of favour by letting her go after a few years of caging her and traumatizing her mentally and psychologically.
Hope you don't jump into another relationship or woman with this highly toxic trait of yours but work on yourself properly.
Gosh!

Lollittaa:

now you see why some women take some secrets to the grave. Everyone makes mistakes and I'm very sure if men had wombs, less than 30% of Nigerian men would have theirs intact. HE KNEW THE CONDITION OF HER WOMB before marrying her. But anyway, no need explaining. A pig will always follow another pig.

Lollittaa:

do I know you?