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Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by Shopwiiser: 8:03am On Aug 06, 2021 |
I don book oo |
Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by sunshineV(f): 8:04am On Aug 06, 2021 |
she invited him? she opened her doors for him? u sound like the rest trying to blame her for getting raped. u dont have the fact but u assumed just to blame the victim.kondomatic u are a dog 1 Like |
Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by tommy589(m): 8:07am On Aug 06, 2021 |
[quote author=madamthemadam post=104480293][/quote] I think op wanted to marry the girl out of pity,but her baggages makes him to rethink.This 'rape' story has provided a reason to bring the relationship to an end. Op should know fortune has no permanent base,the only complain here is her background,aside that I think she would have make a good wife 2 Likes |
Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by Gadafii: 8:08am On Aug 06, 2021 |
You are worse than the man that raped that girl, someone you claimed you wanna settle down with got raped and the next sensible thing your brain can come up with is to break up with her ![]() You are heartless and you never had the interest if that girl at heart, what are need right now is someone to help her heal and nuture her self esteem back, even if along the lie she lied to you, be a human first and help her recover first. So let's say armed robbers raped your wife, you would divorce her the next day,is that it? 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by Kondomatic(m): 8:12am On Aug 06, 2021 |
sunshineV:Alright but calling me names won't change the fact that she has been raped. The man threatened to sleep with her no matter what. He told her clearly that he would rape her if given the chance. The right thing to do would have been to report him to the authorities or avoid him completely. Did you read where the OP said that she stopped telling him about the man unless he asks? That was after he warned the man to stay away from her? Why would she allow someone that threatened to rape her to come to her house? Abi nah only insult full your brain? 12 Likes |
Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by madamthemadam: 8:14am On Aug 06, 2021 |
tommy589: exactly he wanted to marry her out of pity and never loved her, this thing call love was never in this relationship, she is distraught and he still had the mind to break up with her and come shame her on a public platform... 1 Like |
Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by Aloof: 8:23am On Aug 06, 2021 |
Ruke1989: Why are you taking the matter personal? Your girlfriend has the mind to invite a man over to her house, when she knows the only thing the Man wanted from her is just sex, and no possible future together. Yet, she yielded. Why didn't she break the man's head as he forced to remove her undies with his two hands? There is no way a man can rape a woman that doesn't want to be raped without using intense violence on her. What happened is what I call consentual Rape (A situation where you don't want to have sex with someone, but can't vehemently resist them). It depends on her kind of person, if she's the bold and aggressive kind of girl, then no rape happened at all. If she's the shy and passive type, then it's a consentual Rape. Tell her you want the man to be Arrested, prosecuted and jailed for raping her, and hear her response. If she agrees, then it's actually a rape. If she responds reluctantly, that means they made love together, no be only rape. 3 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by madamthemadam: 8:23am On Aug 06, 2021 |
Kondomatic: oga rest, you are already blaming the victim else you would think outside the box, 1. finding somebody's address is not a big deal, if i know you physically, i can trace you or ask around.... 2. Rape is not the way you think it is, it is not a movie, where you can pause and rewind, we all make mistakes we wish we could go back and change.. 3. You dont know what made her open the door, or if the door was already open. 4. And why should she be bringing the man up in their discussion, if she brings it up nah, its the same you people that will say she is probably taking interest in the man. So with these few points of mine. Oga rest... 2 Likes |
Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by Kondomatic(m): 8:40am On Aug 06, 2021 |
madamthemadam:If someone that threatened to shoot me shows up in my house, I am definitely not letting him in. madamthemadam:What we are pointing out here is how these mistakes can be avoided. The world is full of evil, people are wicked so we should all try to protect ourselves. madamthemadam:Whatever made her open the door was the mistake, assuming she didn't give him her address. I mean why was it so difficult for her to answer the OP? She should have told him straight up to leave, assuming the door was already. She could have come out and placed a call to her man. "Babe, that man is in the house now and I don't know how he got here" madamthemadam:Like seriously? I mean she was the one that reported him to her boyfriend and he did what he thought was best so what's wrong in telling him that that the man didn't heed warning? 8 Likes |
Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by sunshineV(f): 8:49am On Aug 06, 2021 |
Kondomatic:she got raped raped and thats the only fact. pls stop quoting me 3 Likes |
Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by madamthemadam: 8:50am On Aug 06, 2021 |
Kondomatic: Yes indeed, the world if full of wicked people, you are going round and round, ADDRESS IS NOT A BIG DEAL, she doesnt have to give him, he cant get it from anywhere, na today ![]() and like i said what if her door was already open? And again life is not a movie where you can pause, so you think during all this, she would have time to call her boyfriend like the man would wait so she makes the call abi, even if she does, he can't fly down, so her best bet will be to defend herself alone. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by TOPCRUISE(m): 8:54am On Aug 06, 2021 |
He scored a goal and you are here shouting offside ![]() |
Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by ford101: 9:02am On Aug 06, 2021 |
madamthemadam:please are you in lagos.i want to buy Toyota Corolla Tokunbo 05 also a land in the any eastern State.pls that's my problem now.pls if you have a dealer in cars send me his number. |
Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by AutoChick4U(f): 9:17am On Aug 06, 2021 |
Ruke1989:So knowing her house is an encouragement to rape? Do u know if He called telling her he wanted to drop documents? Files? 1 Like |
Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by Betboss(m): 9:17am On Aug 06, 2021 |
Odiriance4all: Lay a complain at the station. The man will be arrested and investigations will commence. As per the story, the girl could be telling the truth. Perhaps, the man traced where she leaves, knocked on the door, she opens the door, it's him. She didn't shout immediately, probably because he didn't grab her immediately. Why are you here she ask? He answers, won't you let me in first. She let's him in, so the door was closed and the man was sure of that before attacking her. She shouted, but he covered her mouth, so her voice wasn't too loud. And considering that she is a poor girl, her neighbourhood would most likely be noisy. In my opinion, if she wasn't forced, she wouldn't have told you. Was she a virgin, and feared you will probably find out. If she wasn't a virgin, but still told you then OGA THAT GIRL WAS RAPED. SHE TOLD YOU 3 DAYS LATER because SHE WAS PROBABLY TRAUMATISED. On the flip side, the man promised to give her money and she allowed him... this doesn't fly. because if she agreed to sex with this man, it will not happen in her house, and even it happened in her house, you'll never hear about it. I know what it feels like being a poor girl in Nigeria. The pressure and harassment is something else. I have witnessed where a girl was harrased in a public bus. This your girl does she leave alone? If she does, then a rape is most likely. MY VERDICT: IF SHE TOLD YOU SHE WAS RAPED WITHOUT YOU BEING TIPPED OFF BY ANY SIGN, THEN SHE WAS RAPED! WAY FORWARD: YOU MUST HELP THIS GIRL BY SEEKING THE HELP OF THE LAW ENFORCEMENT. I KNOW YOUR EGO IS SHATTERED, BUT WHAT ABOUT A GIRL THAT WAS RAPED SIMPLY because THE MAN THINKS SHE HAS NO ONE TO DEFEND HER. DEFEND HER AND YOU WILL FIND PEACE. STOP CALLING THE MAN, REPORT THIS MATTER TO RELEVANT AUTHORITIES; POLICE, HUMAN RIGHTS AND IF POSSIBLE ARMY. Imagine this girl was your little sister, and some animal had carnal knowledge of her without her consent. If you don't defend that girl, then indeed you're not a man but a BIG COWARD. Cc: lalasticlala cc: mynd44 cc: Rocktation, cc: Frank please move this to front page, this girl deserves justice. 5 Likes |
Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by AutoChick4U(f): 9:19am On Aug 06, 2021 |
Ruke1989:You are actually a very wicked fellow and never her friend. At this hard time you broke up with her? Rape plus breakup!? Abeg girls date your friends so that in hard times you'll still have a frd 3 Likes |
Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by Nobody: 9:45am On Aug 06, 2021 |
In my opinion ehn, this boy never loved the victim! When she complained why didn’t you protect her by ensuring she stops the job? I mean you can support her for a few months till she gets another job if at al she’s your fiancée as you claimed. Secondly, you called the man to bark and what else did you do? Did you go to report to his superior? Oga you are a weakling! If she was your sister would you disown her or leave her to defend herself. No real friend in this world!!! 7 Likes |
Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by Stephenmoka4(m): 9:51am On Aug 06, 2021 |
Some of this rapist are follow follow, some perpetrator would tail you from behind and know your place without you knowing. Be careful all 2 Likes |
Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by Imustnottalk: 10:03am On Aug 06, 2021 |
Booked Anything concerning women story e dey long I dey here |
Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by AmazingELixir: 10:18am On Aug 06, 2021 |
![]() Op you must be a very wicked youngman...have you considered the psychological trauma she must be passing through as a result of the rape. As a man don't you know how desperate or how far certain men would go to have their ways with women....or are you oblivious of the fact that the said rapist might have had access to her file that contains her address and all since they work in thesame place. Don't be so insensitive, this is when she needs you most, be her emotional support , even if you don't want to continue with the relationship stick with her this trying period and if for nothing else help bring the blasted rapist to some form of justice. I know that many guys have preconceived notions and prejudices against the female folks, but it is unfair to classify all ladies as such. Op go to her and offer her a shoulder to lean on....it is the right thing to do. 3 Likes |
Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by yuping(m): 10:47am On Aug 06, 2021 |
I hope the law get him. |
Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by Ishilove: 10:48am On Aug 06, 2021 |
ford101:Same way your sisters and female relatives want to be raped, abi? You are sick in the head 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by Ishilove: 10:54am On Aug 06, 2021 |
Kondomatic:Egbon Kondo, making sense since 2001. Let me follow you |
Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by CHoccolaTE: 10:55am On Aug 06, 2021 |
This is a perfect example of men dishing what they cannot take Lets assume Op was friends with a scammer who turned against him one day and robbed him of all his valuables then the girl comes online to blame him and say she is breaking up with him because she earlier warned him to avoid his scammer friend. All the frustrated male rats will swarm this thread and call the girl a gold digger and other unprintable names. Op you yourself know that the reason you are breaking up with her is because another man other than you has slept with her and you now see her as dirty or stained. Meanwhile she is not the only girl you have had sex with in your life. 2 Likes |
Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by madamthemadam: 11:04am On Aug 06, 2021 |
ford101: buy your car in peace and enjoy, in other words, face your problems and leave the brilliant thinking to me. 2 Likes |
Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by yuping(m): 11:07am On Aug 06, 2021 |
Ishilove: As in very sick people here, something you can never say in public, I see people comfortably justifying CRIME without remorse. Although we don't no the real truth but even if she invite him over will that justify someone jumping on you. Until one of this people justifying rape is rape by a gay man for being handsome that's when they can clearly see the picture and realize that short skirts doesn't mean she want it. 10 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by Kondomatic(m): 11:10am On Aug 06, 2021 |
Ishilove:Awwwn! The mood
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Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by Jman06(m): 11:12am On Aug 06, 2021 |
Ruke1989:You did well by breaking up with that biatch. Don't mind anyone trying to guilt trip you into believing that you were wrong in your decision to breakup. You are the one asking to acquire (marry) her and you deserve to buy the best of women that suit your taste with your money. Therefore, move on and look for a better lady to acquire. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by madamthemadam: 11:17am On Aug 06, 2021 |
CHoccolaTE: dont mind them, they want a woman that can stick with them through thick and thin but can never compromise. 4 Likes |
Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by crackhaus: 11:57am On Aug 06, 2021 |
Kondomatic:A noble intention, but one that falls flat on its face when you consider the facts. You will only end up wasting a lot of money trying to prove rape occurred if you were the OP. That is the truth and it's nothing but the truth, unfortunately... 4 Likes |
Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by Coolliot: 11:59am On Aug 06, 2021 |
madamthemadam: Nah emotions dey do you, you haven't decide to use your brain...... 3 Likes |
Re: Broke Up With My Fiance Today, She Was Raped By A Man Old To Be Her Father by Temmylee02: 12:02pm On Aug 06, 2021 |
Kondomatic:no vex, the oloriburuku no go school or Sabi read...... I wanted answering her before my phone shutdown. |
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