sunshineV:
she invited him? she opened her doors for him? u sound like the rest trying to blame her for getting raped. u dont have the fact but u assumed just to blame the victim.kondomatic u are a dog

tommy589:



I think op wanted to marry the girl out of pity

Ruke1989:
She has this useless middle aged man in her office she resumed 4 months back who has been toasting and threatening to seep with her at all cost. She told me two months back, I warned the man to refrain but he didn't stop

I got a call from her today that the man showed up in her apartment and forcefully penetrated her vagina with his penis. According to her she managed to hit him in the forehead with an object before he pulled out his plug. I asked her why didn't you shout? She claimed no neighbor were around that she screamed

I asked her how did he know your house given the fact I warned you to ensure he never comes to your house or be alone with you at any point? She has no response

I broke up with her. I feel pained though that I have to let her go because I was her first man and I called her a month back to come home and inform her parents about the relationship. I intended securing the marriage first before investing to support her education and I told her at least we need to do a traditional first before any such spending.

Unfortunately she had been raped by a man in Ibadan old enough to be her father. She is distraught and kept it to herself for 3 days before tells me today. She is from a poor background and only trying to work on a 30l job to save over N360k she needs to pay up before her school can let her pick her RN nursing certificate.

I feel disappointment and won't marry this girl anymore but I want this foolish man punished over this. He refuses to pick my call. His phone number is 0805 023 9636

Guys call him and if you know him let more details be exposed here.
He works in a skyline specialist hospital at Iwo road Ibadan and is a friend of the manager. The poor girl raped doesn't know how to go about this case but is an employee of that hospital from a really poor background. She is afraid police may make this harder for her by milking her money without result

Kondomatic:
Alright but calling me names won't change the fact that she has been raped.

The man threatened to sleep with her no matter what. He told her clearly that he would rape her if giving the chance.

The right thing to do would have been to report him to the authorities or avoid him completely.

Did you read where the OP said that she stopped telling him about the man unless he asks? That was after he warned the man to stay away from her?

Why would she allow someone that threatened to rape her to come to her house?

Abi nah only insult full your brain?

madamthemadam:


oga rest, you are already blaming the victim else you would think outside the box,
1. finding somebody's address is not a big deal, if i know you physically, i can trace you or ask around....

madamthemadam:

2. Rape is not the way you think it is, it is not a movie, where you can pause and rewind, we all make mistakes we wish we could go back and change..

madamthemadam:

3. You dont know what made her open the door, or if the door was already open.

madamthemadam:

4. And why should she be bringing the man up in their discussion, if she brings it up nah, its the same you people that will say she is probably taking interest in the man.

So with these few points of mine. Oga rest...

Kondomatic:
Alright but calling me names won't change the fact that she has been raped.

The man threatened to sleep with her no matter what. He told her clearly that he would rape her if giving the chance.

The right thing to do would have been to report him to the authorities or avoid him completely.

Did you read where the OP said that she stopped telling him about the man unless he asks? That was after he warned the man to stay away from her?

Why would she allow someone that threatened to rape her to come to her house?

Abi nah only insult full your brain?

Kondomatic:
If someone that threatened to shoot me show up in my house, I am definitely not letting him in. What we are pointing out here is how these mistakes can be avoided.

The world is full of evil, people are wicked so we should all try to protect ourselves.
Whatever made her open the door was the mistake, assuming she didn't give him her address. I mean why was it so difficult for her to answer the OP?

She should have told him straight up to leave, assuming the door was already. She could have come out and placed a call to her man.

"Babe, that man is in the house now and I don't know how he got here"
Like seriously? I mean she was the one that reported him to her boyfriend and he did what he thought was best so what's wrong in telling him that that the man didn't heed warning?

madamthemadam:



you and some under nitwits commenting about how it is a cock and bull story, are the most useless sets of human beings ever, imagine the rubbish you are saying, you must be a fool, if you dont have anything to say, shut your dirty mouth.... And to the poster, you are indeed a stumbling block on your girls life.. I pray she overcomes this and move on with her life, and thank God for revealing the kind of bullet that she dogded.

Ruke1989:
I don breakup. She appeared honest but I can't find answer to the question of how he knew her house, knew the time there won't be neighbours and how one who has been bragging to sleep with her at all cost will be welcome indoors seeing she is the only one in the compound if true

Odiriance4all:
She was not raped, she was bleep, that girl not telling you the Truth, she's a small girl who just feels remorseful to cheat the only way to tell you is to bring about being raped by the man to clear her conscience

Ruke1989:
I don breakup. She appeared honest but I can't find answer to the question of how he knew her house, knew the time there won't be neighbours and how one who has been bragging to sleep with her at all cost will be welcome indoors seeing she is the only one in the compound if true

ford101:
most girls just want to be raped.

Kondomatic:
OK.

The op is a fool, those commenting are also fools.

I will agree with you but insulting them doesn't change the fact that something dehumanizing has been done.

Someone has been raped, something that could have been avoided if she did what the op and the others said.

Let me tell you something, if I was the OP, I would give the girl the necessary support she needed to bring the rapist to justice and then break up with her.

Like my grandfather would say, don't use your teeth to cut the dog meat for your children if you know that you don't eat dog meat.

The reason we tell women to protect themselves isn't because we support rapist, it's because the world is full of evil.

The man swore to sleep with her at all cost. She knew this yet she invited him to the house and allowed him in when there's no one else in the compound.

Who does that?

Protect yourself nah advice, e no mean say we support rapists.

Even if they catch and kill this man, the damage has already been done. Something that could have been avoided.

ford101:
please are you in lagos.i want to buy Toyota Corolla Tokunbo 05 also a land in the any eastern State.pls that's my problem now.pls if you have a dealer in cars send me his number.

Ishilove:

Same way your sisters and female relatives want to be raped, abi?
You are sick in the head

Ishilove:

Egbon Kondo, making sense since 2001. Let me follow you

Ruke1989:
I don breakup. She appeared honest but I can't find answer to the question of how he knew her house, knew the time there won't be neighbours and how one who has been bragging to sleep with her at all cost will be welcome indoors seeing she is the only one in the compound if true

CHoccolaTE:
This is a perfect example of men dishing what they cannot take
Lets assume Op was friends with a scammer who turned against him one day and robbed him of all his valuables then the girl comes online to blame him and say she is breaking up with him because she earlier warned him to avoid his scammer friend. All the frustrated male rats will swarm this thread and call the girl a gold digger and other unprintable names.

Op you yourself know that the reason you are breaking up with her is because another man other than you has slept with her and you now see her as dirty or stained. Meanwhile she is not the only girl you have had sex with in your life.

Kondomatic:
OK.

The op is a fool, those commenting are also fools.

I will agree with you but insulting them doesn't change the fact that something dehumanizing has been done.

Someone has been raped, something that could have been avoided if she did what the op and the others said.

Let me tell you something, if I was the OP, I would give the girl the necessary support she needed to bring the rapist to justice and then break up with her.

Like my grandfather would say, don't use your teeth to cut the dog meat for your children if you know that you don't eat dog meat.

The reason we tell women to protect themselves isn't because we support rapist, it's because the world is full of evil.

The man swore to sleep with her at all cost. She knew this yet she invited him to the house and allowed him in when there's no one else in the compound.

Who does that?

Protect yourself nah advice, e no mean say we support rapists.

Even if they catch and kill this man, the damage has already been done. Something that could have been avoided.

madamthemadam:


dont mind them, they want a woman that can stick with them through thick and thin but can never compromise.

Kondomatic:
Alright but calling me names won't change the fact that she has been raped.

The man threatened to sleep with her no matter what. He told her clearly that he would rape her if given the chance.

The right thing to do would have been to report him to the authorities or avoid him completely.

Did you read where the OP said that she stopped telling him about the man unless he asks? That was after he warned the man to stay away from her?

Why would she allow someone that threatened to rape her to come to her house?

Abi nah only insult full your brain?