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Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Kentuforchrist(m): 8:43pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
I got a pes 4,DStv,laptop for movies and there's a beach close to my house at the island....alpha beach where I do goevery weekend to swim all by myself....I enjoy myself a lot.....I no get time for any relationship as per relationship na stress abeg......singleness is bae 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by frankson1(m): 8:43pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
MeghaneMorgane: I'm a FX Trader so I don't even have enough time when I get back home, talk more of having time to be bored. I have loads of movies, so I see them whenever I want to. Play video games. Watch cartoons. These things help work my head up and keep me preoccupied. BUT, "as body no be fire wood" the loneliness dey come small small. I still have ways of subduing it. DM, let's enjoy our loneliness together |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Ynix(m): 8:44pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
MeghaneMorgane:Oh sorry for that, may be you should be thinking of getting married then 2 Likes |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Luckydubby7(m): 8:45pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
Hmm |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by MeghaneMorgane(f): 8:45pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
JIMXMAVERICK: |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Greatzeus(m): 8:45pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
Told myself I'm married to Jesus 1 Like |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by MeghaneMorgane(f): 8:46pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
molbic: Abeg take it easy oo. It is not that serious. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Darkmode64: 8:46pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
I'm single and I've embraced solitude for a while now. I'm never bored, so much to do. When you're alone, you do more introspection and focus mostly on your betterment. Notwithstanding, loneliness has its merits and demerits. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by OdenKelechi(m): 8:47pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
Are you in Lagos? |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Benrosaria(m): 8:47pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
MeghaneMorgane: The world evolved and now we are busy doing nothing but dying a wasted life which they are call the fulfilled life. Don’t attach knowing people to what they would get from you. Let the sun guide you through every day. Find happiness in love. You don’t have to be double to feel loved. We aren’t supposed to be lonely though it’s bliss only when the people around you don’t get to understand life the way it is suppose to be. Love is the truth and we should be happy love exist A few times in the evening light up some local weed or cook with meals. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by naturefellow(m): 8:48pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
Whats:period |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by AfroKnight: 8:49pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
I’m good most of the time. Then I think of magnoliaa and I suddenly feel the need to get married. Then I think of my former country Nigeria, then I don’t. Then I’m good again. |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by omoadeleye(m): 8:50pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
We watch movies, we browse, we play games, we take a stroll most times to meditate and if we are feeling hor'ny we watch blue films. 1 Like |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by MeghaneMorgane(f): 8:51pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
Ynix: Probably |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by tammyf: 8:51pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
BamakSNR:I tried socialising both in church and in sch.it ended up in backbiting and betrayal...now I'm a proud loner |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by MeghaneMorgane(f): 8:52pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
OdenKelechi: I’m not in Lagos |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by AlphaBeta130: 8:53pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
wumi2017:Exactly, i nearly cried when my phone's screen broke. For 3 months no phone. I am the chairman of lonley people, but ironically if u put me in the mood, u will beg me to stop talking. People tell me that i am funny too but they see it only when they have come close to put me in the mood to talk. I like making myself happy. Like buying corn and groundnut or pork meat for myself once in a while 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Jesterinjay: 8:53pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
From time i've loved being alone. Even when family is around,i just want them to disappear. 2 Likes |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by chronique(m): 8:54pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
Na God hand we de. |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Efe42(m): 8:54pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
MeghaneMorgane: I'd understand your feeling mine is even worse because I don't have a job, and I hate moving around without no direction so most time I'm not home and someone just break my hearts because I'm jobless now it's painful I say!! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by mrblessed(m): 8:55pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
Sterope:That is not exactly true. Maybe you don't have the experience explained by the Op. There is a kind of liveliness that comes with staying with people, by hearing their voices, and knowing they are with you. Even if you have a lot on your hands in form of work, it won't suitable substitute for human presence. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Jamahyel(m): 8:55pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
To me ladies tend to feel lonely when they are single, but for a guy i doesn't for me tho. |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by BigSarah(f): 8:55pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
Condition your mind to accept that you don't like sharing your personal space.... Lived alone in a house not apartment, a house for about 2years now and I enjoy it... The down side is whenever I'm outside I get consumed with anxiety and discomfort. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by duchaB(m): 8:55pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
MeghaneMorgane: Go Amala joint go hang out, make some badass, cream, clean, cute ass, Guys weh get nerve fit approach you.. On a serious note, go out socially more often... and Guys would approach you.. All these S.M shits mostly always boils down to nada.. except for the shagging part.. You may also be exceptionally lucky to get something sustainable on S.M.. GL 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Elsueno: 8:56pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
In my case I just enjoy being alone..... unfortunately I can't do that, cause the neighbors kids are always around to disturb especially when am home before nightfall.... Night is the only time I have to watch my anime & play video games 2 Likes 1 Share
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Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Slimtuns(m): 8:57pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
are you considering going into a relationship because you're lonely or you're emotionally ready to get into a relationship which will eventually bring you a lot of drama which might be so exhausting? perhaps you can get a hobby like something that interests you, that should reduce/get rid the boredom if you get into it. if that doesn't work out, then you sure need a chat buddy (preferrably a male) but do not to rush yourself into a relationship yet, you can just go with the flow and see where it heads. BTW, what's your zodiac sign? 2 Likes |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Justpassing1: 8:57pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
Summary is you are young with a lot of time on your hands… Books …read books. Otherwise , note down any problem(s) you observe during your day and spend your free time thinking about solutions or ideas around creating a business opportunity - one of the best ways to create wealth. Other things you might feel you are missing out on presently will generally come to you on their own …no be by force by fire. Peace. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Mewhizzp(m): 8:58pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
AAbuja: That's just me. 1 Like |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by noble2faith(m): 8:58pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
We dey try sha! É no dey easy Sha! Any single lady here around Ogijo or Ikorodu? Let's hook up 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Bayoursphere: 8:58pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
MeghaneMorgane: I also stay alone but unlike you, I don't feel lonely, maybe because I'm an introvert. I get invigorated being alone. Yours is still better; you said you go to work. I don't anywhere; I work from home because I work as a Virtual Assistant. In fact, one of my neighbours in the same compound has only seen me today since Sunday, which shows I don't even step outside my room. How have I been hoping? I will say aside from the fact that this nature suits my personality, I kill boredom by working. I always juggle from one work to the other. So there is no room for boredom. Whenever I want to take a break from my work, I do what I enjoy. Like you, I also watch Youtube & Facebook videos and others, but not on every tom, dick and harry content I see online. I love football, so my mind has been configured to look out for football highlights on those platforms, and this excites me. Sometimes, I may want to watch for few minutes, but later realize I have sent over an hour. In the same vein, I enjoy listening to music. So simultaneously as a work, I play music and this whirl away boredom. Therefore, I will advice that you spend your time on what you enjoy. It may be reading books, doing house chores and what have you. |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by biafranrealson: 8:58pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
If you have money , get your self a DSTV decoder (compact) So much things to watch there 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Single People How Do You Cope With Being Alone by Pat081: 8:59pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
I feel happy because no gal go dey ask me to send her money or I carry runs gals to f***************k if I need to 2 Likes 1 Share |
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