FreeStuffsNG:

You will learn las las. I assure you that in real life outside the anonymity you believe you enjoy here, you become accountable to your every action and utterances. My counsel to you is that if your brother is accused of being a rapist, listen to his side first before crucifying him. It won't kill you and doesn't mean that you must cover him up in such crime. If most of you live in the social media bubble, some of us are not and know that every party here deserve to be listened to. That's what the police will do too unless they want to bungle the case in court. I will no longer be replying you because of your uncouth tone. I apologise in advance if it displeased you ma.

Nonybb:
[b]But to be very sincere with you. Some of these things were oftentimes caused by two individuals: the mother of that child and the daughter itself. For example, I went to one family like that at one certain time and I discover one girl like that, aged maybe around 15-17 years, undressing in front of his dad. This girl I'm telling you about has developed every part of her womanhood. Some wives look at such and wave it aside. You see, men are not built that way, to fight every now and then on this serious temptation. A little sight can provoke a man and he doesn't reason entirely when it comes to penile erection. The degree of temptation are different. Some fall easily, some withheld it and cry Jesus but it do comes.

Men are disorganized by sight and sensual seduction; women might be emotions and physical touch. Let us understand that. Secondly, how the wife caused it was how complacent she was. Whenever you see that your daughter is being naked in front of your husband, put her aside and talk to her. She could have prevented this incestuous act[/b]

madamthemadam:


really no biggie, well rape/abuse or children or adults both male and female should NEVER be swept under the rug, what manner of possession is this, the man should be arrested if found guilty and prosecuted immediately...

Mustiboy:



So you would have your sibling to to jail over an issue such as this?

Even the families of murderers cover up for them, let alone something less grave as this.

I wouldn't send my own brother to prison if he did something like this.

Yes, I'd hate him and reprimand him, get his daughter to safety, and, if possible, dissolve the marriage.

But I'd never make him serve life in prison.

An issue such as this is enough disgrace, letting it know the outside world wouldn't help.

justfrankz:
Pay your brother a visit, and then find out if it’s true. If it happened, then Invite the reasonable members of your family (not the tale bearers) to deal with this issue so that it doesn’t go public for the sake of the young girl. The wife already did the right thing by informing you. Do not pay attention to the emotional, lonely, and angry people here saying all sorts of rubbish. The wise elders in your family will know how best to deal with him. They can decide to go to the police, but it will still be kept a secret for the sake of the young girl.

Kedoty:
My brother's wife called me yesterday to report my brother, she said their daughter called her two days ago about what her dad has been doing to her.

She told her that, her dad has slept with her twice, so the mother called me to report the case that she's confused and doesn't know how to confront her husband.

The daughter said the first day he slept with her was when her mother went on night vigil in the church. The second time he left his room at the middle of the night pretend to go and urinate and went to daughter's room to sleep with her for the second time. He has threatening her not to tell anyone.

Honestly for the past 2 days I couldn't sleep, was just thinking on how to approach the situation and how to rescue the inocent girl from abusive father.

The girl is around 17 years old.

Please your urgent advice needed. ( They are in Abuja while I'm in Lagos)

Truthbeatslies:
[s]The true history of the yoruba:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IIporKrPsbU

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I2hU-ibkPfg

[/s]

Kedoty:
My brother's wife called me yesterday to report my brother, she said their daughter called her two days ago about what her dad has been doing to her.

She told her that, her dad has slept with her twice, so the mother called me to report the case that she's confused and doesn't know how to confront her husband.

The daughter said the first day he slept with her was when her mother went on night vigil in the church. The second time he left his room at the middle of the night pretend to go and urinate and went to daughter's room to sleep with her for the second time. He has threatening her not to tell anyone.

Honestly for the past 2 days I couldn't sleep, was just thinking on how to approach the situation and how to rescue the inocent girl from abusive father.

The girl is around 17 years old.

Please your urgent advice needed. ( They are in Abuja while I'm in Lagos)

GOFRONT:
Tufiakwa!!!
Na wao....wetin remain wey musa never see for gate arena.....

We are now in an era when Fathers find sexual pleasure in their own daughter.

A world where Guys have sex with the younger sister of their brother's wife...

A world where sibling sex eachother...

A world where Uncle sees the puna of his Niece as the world best puna to have a taste..

A world where so many people see nothing wrong when cousins sex themselves.....

Well, let us wait on Righteousness89 to come and tell us if all these are signs of endtime or Not!!

Nonybb:
[b]But to be very sincere with you. Some of these things were oftentimes caused by two individuals: the mother of that child and the daughter itself. For example, I went to one family like that at one certain time and I discover one girl like that, aged maybe around 15-17 years, undressing in front of his dad. This girl I'm telling you about has developed every part of her womanhood. Some wives look at such and wave it aside. You see, men are not built that way, to fight every now and then on this serious temptation. A little sight can provoke a man and he doesn't reason entirely when it comes to penile erection. The degree of temptation are different. Some fall easily, some withheld it and cry Jesus but it do comes.

Men are disorganized by sight and sensual seduction; women might be emotions and physical touch. Let us understand that. Secondly, how the wife caused it was how complacent she was. Whenever you see that your daughter is being naked in front of your husband, put her aside and talk to her. She could have prevented this incestuous act[/b]

Kedoty:
My brother's wife called me yesterday to report my brother, she said their daughter called her two days ago about what her dad has been doing to her.

She told her that, her dad has slept with her twice, so the mother called me to report the case that she's confused and doesn't know how to confront her husband.

The daughter said the first day he slept with her was when her mother went on night vigil in the church. The second time he left his room at the middle of the night pretend to go and urinate and went to daughter's room to sleep with her for the second time. He has threatening her not to tell anyone.

Honestly for the past 2 days I couldn't sleep, was just thinking on how to approach the situation and how to rescue the inocent girl from abusive father.

The girl is around 17 years old.

Please your urgent advice needed. ( They are in Abuja while I'm in Lagos)

Lollittaa:

STOP asking silly questions to make excuses for a crime! What is wrong with you?

Kedoty:
My brother's wife called me yesterday to report my brother, she said their daughter called her two days ago about what her dad has been doing to her.

She told her that, her dad has slept with her twice, so the mother called me to report the case that she's confused and doesn't know how to confront her husband.

The daughter said the first day he slept with her was when her mother went on night vigil in the church. The second time he left his room at the middle of the night pretend to go and urinate and went to daughter's room to sleep with her for the second time. He has threatening her not to tell anyone.

Honestly for the past 2 days I couldn't sleep, was just thinking on how to approach the situation and how to rescue the inocent girl from abusive father.

The girl is around 17 years old.

Please your urgent advice needed. ( They are in Abuja while I'm in Lagos)

Divinehealer:
if you talk now, the "including your father and male relatives" Gang will jump out
Women listen and listen good, naija men and self control are as wide appart as Alpha and Omega. They will Bleep their own mothers talkless of daughters. Keep your children faaar from them. Don't look at how they pretend on social media forming and shouting ahh, na wa ooo, God forbid ó, all na wash. Until you catch them, they will keep forming better and holler. Read through and see how men will only see the problem to be that he slept with his daughter. They will almost wave this aside as one of those mistakes which shouldn't have happened. Read through and see how men will make excuses for him. That should tell you how normal these kinds of acts are in the minds of naija men.
The wife is stupid for being confused. When she is fucking, does she confuse the hole a dick should enter? The daughter.. May God heal her. The poster is mad for being confused too. The man,..... He needs clean beating and castration

justfrankz:
Pay your brother a visit, and then find out if it’s true. If it happened, then Invite the reasonable members of your family (not the tale bearers) to deal with this issue so that it doesn’t go public for the sake of the young girl. The wife already did the right thing by informing you. Do not pay attention to the emotional, lonely, and angry people here saying all sorts of rubbish. The wise elders in your family will know how best to deal with him. They can decide to go to the police, but it will still be kept a secret for the sake of the young girl.

Elzakzaky:

I mean there is no big deal if I sleep with the sister of my brother's wife. It is not ideal, but so long as she gives her consent, no qualms.

HONESTFACT101:

why not just call the police
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madamthemadam:

In the case of sister inlaw, as long as you both consent, good and fine...

Mindlog:


So a man who is incestuous and pedophilic should be sheilded from the law because he is the bread winner of his family

Incest is not a family matter but a legal matter, it is criminal and a reflection of psychiatric disorder. Such men are a risk to have around, they don't stop till they get caught up by the law because they get their high from the act.

Maybe if you were the below culprit's lawyer, you would have pleaded he should be freed because he is the breadwinner.

smallsmall:


If you can generalise like this, then you must be Honest to tell us HOW MANY TIMES your father has Slept with you?
Be honest.

And to think that this bad, incestuous behaviour is even more rampant among Western Culture, than Nigeria.
You are obviously venting your frustration in life, in relationships, with men and with your father, on this important topic.
Sorry, may God heal you if you are not responsible for your frustrations.

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Back to the story:

@Op, you must decide what your interest is:
- To save the poor girl while mending the Family or
- To 'save' the girl, scatter the family and do everybody. more harm than good.

I think the first option is better.
- Arrange a meeting with the Father, daughter and Mother.
- Let him know the consequence of his sin (Jail! and eternal damnation).
- Let everyone agree that this should never have happened and let him promise that he would do everything to prevent it from happening again and will make things right in his family.

- Remove the daughter from his presence (she should relocate to Lagos) while the whole family heals, especially the father. He should seek Counselling, in a manner that helps him mentally, without jeopardising the sanctity of the family or make them enemies of each other, which is what some 'vengeful people' want.

Finally, let him know that if he does not seek genuine remorse, reconciliation with his wife and daughter and be a good father henceforth, his atrocities will be made known to the authorities.
At times, the fear of what could have happened, can make a wayward person turn a new leaf, if given the chance.
keep a close eye on him, for positive changes.
He needs all the 'help' (emotional, mental, psychological, spiritual,etc) he can get

If he threatens anyone, especially the daughter, it is a sign that he does not intend to repent then, you will have no choice than to go to the authorities.

UDUJ:


You are not well at all

Kedoty:

Honestly for the past 2 days I couldn't sleep, was just thinking on how to approach the situation and how to rescue the inocent girl from abusive father.

The girl is around 17 years old.

Please your urgent advice needed. ( They are in Abuja while I'm in Lagos)

Divinehealer:
if you talk now, the "including your father and male relatives" Gang will jump out
Women listen and listen good, naija men and self control are as wide appart as Alpha and Omega. They will Bleep their own mothers talkless of daughters. Keep your children faaar from them. Don't look at how they pretend on social media forming and shouting ahh, na wa ooo, God forbid ó, all na wash. Until you catch them, they will keep forming better and holler. Read through and see how men will only see the problem to be that he slept with his daughter. They will almost wave this aside as one of those mistakes which shouldn't have happened. Read through and see how men will make excuses for him. That should tell you how normal these kinds of acts are in the minds of naija men.
The wife is stupid for being confused. When she is fucking, does she confuse the hole a dick should enter? The daughter.. May God heal her. The poster is mad for being confused too. The man,..... He needs clean beating and castration