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Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by fati2001(m): 3:17pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
efficiencie:yes. I agree 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by Divoc19(f): 3:25pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
You you watched desperate housewives that year I still want to watch it all over again. I love Bree's character to so much I almost named my daughter Bree The drug dey wella Klass99: 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by Divoc19(f): 3:28pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
If it takes one touch to charge you bro then, you're innit for a good ride everytime. If you like be sad and hungry you go dey hit am on demand Expresswriter: 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by Klass99(f): 3:32pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by Divoc19(f): 3:35pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
Yeah, I didn't understand that last part too. I already love you for watching desperate housewives : I stopped watching series long time ago. Klass99: 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by Klass99(f): 4:12pm On Aug 07, 2021 |
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Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by efficiencie(m): 2:45am On Aug 08, 2021 |
fati2001:good luck with that! |
Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by efficiencie(m): 2:54am On Aug 08, 2021 |
Klass99: yea...so if a husband investigates his wife's small letter 'o' and finds that it has evolved to capital letter 'O' it is so wet, leaking all kinds of juices, that is the cue to fire down abi...after all if she is not asking for it she won't be all wet and set. So in such a case would you say the human hole has a mind of its own and it controls its owners? How can a small part of your entire being be ruling you like this nah? Don't get wet and slippery and perhaps you will not be raped. A man can't rape you if you don't get all wet and slippery for his dick to convenient enter with unimaginable ease. Talk to your pikin (the leaking hole in-between your legs) tell her not to salivate no matter the provocation abi na seducation - show her who's boss. If you're truly not in the mood. |
Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by Magnoliaa(f): 3:46am On Aug 08, 2021 |
Vision101: Are you a lawyer? Can you expatiate on this? Because I've seen something like this somewhere and it got me stumped. But it is still rape, right? Sex without consent is rape. Why is (proof of) penetration the basis for establishing rape? For men and women? (That is why I've never fully subscribed to this idea of morality being determined by the laws of a society). And...is that the only basis? How can the law tell a penetration done with your consent from the one without your consent? Because forced sex (and therefore bruises and tears) is not what rape is as generally believed. A woman can be wet and still be raped. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by Vision101(m): 4:10am On Aug 08, 2021 |
@Magnoliaa Are you a lawyer? Can you expatiate on this? Because I've seen something like this somewhere and it got me stumped. But it is still rape, right? Sex without consent is rape. Why is (proof of) penetration the basis? @me I'm an accountant but I have good background in law. This area of law is criminal law. One challenge in law is that even if the culprit is cut red-handed the judge can't assist you. You have to prove your allegation. Most cases of rape are abandoned because the victims feel very ashamed to prove the issue of penetration. Consequently fiddling with the private parts of a female adult with your fingers and/or sucking her breasts against her will will be difficult to prove as rape. The judge realises that all manner of allegations can be made. Legally there can't be sex without penetration. Penetration proven either medically or otherwise is easiest way. This is why rape against children or virgins are easier to prove because medical examination will establish this. In terms of rape against a man, it's very difficult to prove because of this issue of penetration. How can you prove penetration by an adult female against an adult male? Who is penetrating who? Concerning a male child and an adult female they may look at the issue of abuse. There could be other arguments though. |
Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by Magnoliaa(f): 4:28am On Aug 08, 2021 |
Vision101: Oh. Wow. Okay, thanks for this explanation, but now I'm just left with more questions! You raised some angles I appreciate. So wait. What is rape according to the law? What's it legal definition? And why is it under criminal law? For a moment here I wished some of our ancestors' laws and customs still hold sway. Back in the days when Sango or Amadioha could strike you down: if you were caught stealing and seen by every eyes and even if you weren't seen, the gods are perfect judges of human intents and all. They don't seem so demonic in this light... 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by NoToPile: 6:24am On Aug 08, 2021 |
Well since it's about male rape. A friend of mine was raped by a lady, they were not married, they were not even dating. This should he around 7 years ago. She drugged his drink and then 'helped herself' dude was even a virgin. The guy later realized and sent her out. She got pregnant came to inform the guy, guy chased her away. The parents were the ones who accepted the baby, dude said he never wanted to have anything done with her. He was my friend and at that time the mother was my boss, she even told me to speak with him, he politely(not very politely) told me not to have that discussion with him. He didnt even the see the baby, as we all know children like that are always a splitting image of the husband. He didn't even see the girl. Now when they asked the lady, she said she really likes H, (H is a confirmed fine boy, ladies will drool after him but he was decent and morally upright guy) has been giving H greenlight, H didn't succumb . H was serving at that time, she then visited H and drugged the drink and helped her self. When the mama was narrating the story of her interview with the girl I was dumbfounded, the most annoying part of everything is the lady is very pretty , you would always look twice at her. The question I kept asking was why would she do that, she could have gotten the attention of any guy she wanted. I didn't believe its possible for her to actually'help herself to it' questions like 'how will the thing enter when he was drugged' so I raised the issue I was on a PG program then, we were about 4 in the lab that day and 3 were guys, they all said its very possible even our acting supervisor confirmed its possible. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by Regex: 7:50am On Aug 08, 2021 |
Divoc19: And women are the only creature that is prone to rape bah? You are very dumb. Scratch that, you are re.tarded to ever have such thoughts. Anu. |
Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by Regex: 7:52am On Aug 08, 2021 |
Klass99: Those exceptions is when a woman is at the receiving end and not the perpetrator. |
Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by Regex: 7:55am On Aug 08, 2021 |
Klass99: The answer is probably the same with why you will be wet and still do not want to have sex even after a pre-intimacy. |
Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by Regex: 7:57am On Aug 08, 2021 |
crackhaus: You know, you are wet down there and you are not interested... Give a rogue man a wet pussy and he plays with it the way he likes. It is mind over matter. You can't be wet and claim rape. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by cooooooks(m): 2:37pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
Some jurisdictions have changed the definition to emphasize on the lack of consent, not penetration. Even in the UK, where this penetration standard started (with regards to Nigeria), they are debating expanding the definition. Some analyses define male rape as "forced to penetrate". One recent example, a young lady thought a guy was a bitcoin millionaire when the price shot up. She put a gun to his head as she was riding him and forced him to cum inside her. With the "rape is penetration only" laws, she would not be guilty of any rape. Vision101: 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by cooooooks(m): 2:38pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by cooooooks(m): 2:39pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
Male rape is so funny. Let's all laugh. bukatyne: |
Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by Magnoliaa(f): 3:02pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
NoToPile: That's the thing about rape and rapists. That shit is so fuvked I can't wrap my head around it. I mean, I see other criminals, cheats, etc., people doing things I naturally wouldn't do, and I try to empathize and see things from their heads, but in this? I literally can't. It seems to not be about sexual desire and frustrations for them, because they literally can't get anybody else. Without struggle. So WHY? 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by Klass99(f): 3:06pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
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Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by Magnoliaa(f): 3:33pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
Klass99: Really? You sure? The olive green looks cool and not so in-your-face. Like the background of quoted texts, etc. Ah. I'll see. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by Klass99(f): 4:12pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
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Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by crackhaus: 4:23pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
Regex:A worthy summary bro... It's now up to the courts to prove that there was no wetness. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by Expresswriter: 4:38pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
Divoc19: This na temptation With a little confusion Infatuation Oh no 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by bukatyne(f): 9:45pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
cooooooks: Who is the male that was raped? The weak defense husband? Abeg, he should wear a easier pants/boxers to remove next time. I don't believe in martial rape. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by bukatyne(f): 9:52pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
Klass99: @bold; Very well said. I would rather say sexual abuse if bodily/valid emotional injury was involved e.g. say the spouse uses force to penetrate a dry vjay that you see bruises; hits their partner to make them succumb; withholding sex for gains/punishment; performing acts their spouse finds humiliating/unnatural (anal sex, golden showers, spitting, negative name calling, parties etc.) etc. The OP should go and sleep; not all feelings are valid. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by Fountainofyouth(f): 10:29pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
NoToPile: Laws have mercy, so what did she gain from it? A child that the father will hate for the rest of his/her life, I bet the stupid lady will never tell the child she raped her dad, so many senseless peeps abound sha. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by Magnoliaa(f): 10:48pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
Klass99: Lol...okay. Thank you. I'll makes changes so you won't have to stress your eyes again so you can see and admire adorable little babies around you with ease. |
Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by NoToPile: 10:53pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
Fountainofyouth: I still don't know what she gained, apart from the pretty baby. The guy vowed never to do anything with her. Was a very messy matter. |
Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by NoToPile: 10:54pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
Magnoliaa: That's the question a lot of peeps always ask. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Possible For Married Women To Be Accused Of Raping Their Husbands by crackhaus: 12:00am On Aug 09, 2021 |
bukatyne:Buka, even a lubricated vagína can get bruised especially because lubrication is not usually sustained for the entire duration of a sexual encounter. |
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