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Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by Nobody: 5:51pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
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Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by Princeton92(m): 5:54pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
And how do the wives cope cause my Aunt here her hubby dey abroad while she and children dey here! |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by keypha1: 5:59pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
Is not easy to stay alone, when we are in covic19, my wife travel to East and they start lock down, when is 2 month she start crying like a baby for sex which she has not done when where together, and me too, just 2 month, where tired of lonelyness, then assuming she was in abroad for 3 years she might not withstand it. Is not easy for both side. 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by Navalsadiq(m): 6:02pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
Skyfornia:madam that engine will be properly serviced by another dude. Fear women oh Married couples should be together oh not far away.with the way DNA is failing most men |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by omanzo02: 6:06pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
MufasaLion:I wonder why men/women come to marry in Nigeria when there are enough quality women there thinking a typical Nigerian woman is more loyal. I will prefer to date and get to know someone where I live. 2 Likes |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by friendl: 6:07pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
Why you dey worry yourself ,wetin person no see ,no go kill am |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by Nobody: 6:07pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
IamCookie: The truth is that most men don't like to know or see someone who is having/has had intimacy with their gfs/wives. I don't know if females feel the same way. 1 Like |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by Safetyvikky: 6:12pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
[where is your location, I beleive you are in that shoe, let me knacck akpajo luta you�������quote author=IamCookie post=104552425] Even if na d wife dey Nigeria , thoughts will still be there and she is receiving steady knacking, either ways ,e go happen! I think, instead of men to be puzzled by such thought, they need to continuously re-orientate their wives into the kind of person they should identify with and advocate a distance knacking( where she is not known and with whom no sabi her wella) eg. You are living in ketu, Lagos , get knacking from someone in Ayobo after ipaja and don't tell him real details about you. And also get her sex stuff, like a Love Machine to use, when she needs it. This will curb her quest to explore , until she sees/ meet the Ayobo guy again. And she will do just that. But, re-orientation no dey work with guyz situation. They will knack anybody (that appeals to them) available. ![]() ![]() |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by MufasaLion: 6:15pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
omanzo02: People come for different reasons but most do come because they are used to the women of their tribe or country. So, they tend to believe they can live more comfortably with such women than a lady that has different cultural heritage, mentality etc. But I have realised that some people that come home to marry do so becuase they want a woman they can contro, and a typical African woman will dance to the tune of her husband anytime. ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by BJanta: 6:16pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
Kuriosmynd: One guy ke? Abi all guy. One guy dey do woman? One guy no dey do the one wey dey see him man everyday, talkless. |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by Toks2008(m): 6:16pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
Kuriosmynd: I can tell you with near certainty that nobody is sleeping with their wives. Even the ladies wey dem born abroad sef never see man to do the do so nah the one wey carry herself come... Pity the ladies not the men. It is easier for a lady to see a man to sleep with in naija than abroad. 10 Likes |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by Toks2008(m): 6:19pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
MufasaLion:Your conclusion is twisted... Guys come back home to marry SO THAT THEY CAN MARRY A WOMAN WHO WILL NOT CONTROL THEM. Western ladies are mostly control freaks and you go weak when you see the ^AY they call the shots. |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by seunmsg(m): 6:21pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
I can assure you they are both knacking someone somewhere. They will smile with each other on zoom after getting satisfied. Nothing new here. Everybody na scam for this life. 1 Like |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by Aarenasbaba(m): 6:24pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
My friend did elaborate wedding in 2019 on Saturday. His wife travelled on Monday to Germany. Na once in a while she do come home. I don't even think they are in good terms now 2 Likes |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by MufasaLion: 6:24pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
Toks2008: Not all are control freaks. Not all African women can be controlled also. |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by Toks2008(m): 6:27pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
MufasaLion: Yeah I wrote "most" But African women won't be control freaks cos they know it is not in their culture.. Western ladies believe it is their right to call the shot and that makes it crazy. |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by MufasaLion: 6:31pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
Toks2008: You're right, but I see no wrong in their mentality because they can still be tamed. |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by Toks2008(m): 6:32pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
MufasaLion: Ifahia? Tame gini? Oh yeah you can tame them by obeying them or by pretending to. |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by BePrepared: 6:32pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
IamCookie:Never in ur life attempt to say evil is good under any guise, where is self control, there are folks living without s3x 4 decade and guess what? They are doing just fine. Why is this generation so obsessed with sex 8 Likes |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by wany(f): 6:34pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
IamCookie:Am glad we are all coming to terms with reality ,the 21st century is truely light ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by onuman: 6:36pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
Stupidquestions: Even when you live together with your woman, someone else can also be knacking her if she wants, but you can NEVER know. Unlike men, a woman you live with can be knacking another man daily, she returns to your house and knacks you. She can’t get tired for next day’s knacking of your rival man. Man knacks and gets tired. His woman can quickly notice his tiredness and understands that he does away match. Woman, no. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by Toks2008(m): 6:36pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
IamCookie: There is no justification for a lady doking outside her marriage. There are realistic sx toys that will keep the lady sexually active for years without the risk of infections... There are many ladies abroad who have been on intimacy gadgets for many years. That guy try o to ever give his wife such advise. 1 Like |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by MufasaLion: 6:41pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
Toks2008: Lol Absolutely not! You can't tame them when you have a full African mentality nor full western mentality. You gotta have both and start taming while dating. You definitely will know if it's working or not at dating level before you decide to marry them. At least they tend to be more readable and honest to reasonable extent unlike their African counterpart. So, that will give you chance to be sure if your taming is working or not. |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by Hassanmaye(m): 6:41pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
SarakiBukola:Hahhahhahha |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by omanzo02: 6:42pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
MufasaLion:Typical African mentality that can't adapt, you can't force someone to be loyal and respectful, It's comes voluntarily, with dedication and self discipline. I have always pull up with caucasian women and you can live with them comfortably and earn ultimate respect as long you understand and respect them, who doesn't like to be respected anyway?. If you understand their cultural heritage and mentality controlling western women is easy as ABC. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by MufasaLion: 6:45pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
omanzo02: Damn straight! |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by ImaIma1(f): 6:50pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
Some of them cope by having a babe to service them. A family friend of my husband and I was in Nigeria while his wife was in the UK. They were jist married for less than a year before he joined her. One time a couple of us went out as couples and this guy brought his babe. It was so disappointing, we actually refused to relate to the babe because she knew he was married. 1 Like |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by wany(f): 6:51pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
Toks2008:For your mind rignt,no worry e go clear you ![]() 1 Like |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by wany(f): 6:57pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
Toks2008:But there is justification for a man to dok outside his marriage right ,and there is no realistic intimacy gadget for the man to be active in years without the risk of Infection, hypocrite ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by nakoks(m): 7:02pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
SmartPolician:Baba i have caught you...we go see for office tomorrow.I go show your Oga this post. ![]() |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by tonyson010(m): 7:16pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
Kuriosmynd: I know of husbands in abroad whose wives here are doing abortion......... Obviously they are being serviced. Many of the wives always have a guy feeding their sexual taste. 1 Like |
Re: How Do Husbands In Nigeria Cope When Their Wives Are Abroad? by Klass99(f): 7:20pm On Aug 08, 2021 |
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