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As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by OPTOSUN(m): 5:48pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
A couple lived in a rented apartment. Happy family to be precise. The wife earn huge salary compared to the husband... so she decided to build a house without informing her husband. After completing the house, she finally inform her husband that they will be leaving to their own house tomorrow. Assuming you are the husband, what will you do? 2 Likes |
Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by mymadam(m): 5:48pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
No... QED 7 Likes |
Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by Freestainworld(m): 5:51pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
I will even be happy to park in, no more rent, besides she may want to surprise the husband, secondly, the bad one's will not even inform the husband that they have a house, who suffer dey hungry for this life 4 Likes |
Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by thorpido(m): 5:52pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
If she had informed him she was building a house,then there's no big deal about moving there. The issue here is that she kept it a secret. 6 Likes |
Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by Jerryherd: 5:52pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
Yes.... While saving the money for rent to build my house , hostel or a shopping complex It's better to be a tenant under my wife living free than some very wicked Lagos landlord and real estate agents 14 Likes |
Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by MufasaLion: 5:55pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
Ah! ![]() |
Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by OPTOSUN(m): 5:56pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
No o
Else, the husband should be careful. Hmm |
Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by HRSweetness(f): 5:57pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
thorpido: Yes I totally agree. The manner she went about it is quite questionable. However, I've learnt that a lot of women go this route because the ego of the man would sabotage the project if she shares her plans with him before embarking on it. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by thorpido(m): 6:04pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
HRSweetness:Odikwa egwu o.Marriage get k-leg nowadays. 2 Likes |
Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by illicit(m): 6:14pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
This is serious I may not move there tho so far as I can afford my rent 2 Likes |
Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by Nobody: 6:16pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
Any man who feels comfortable living in his wife's personal house is a weak man,no woman should even allow that except on extraordinary conditions. I like a man to command respect in all ramifications and shouldn't involves himself in things that will bring him down. I love very masculine men.The man should not follow her to that house. 3 Likes |
Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by Enskynelson(m): 6:52pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
A good wife will build the house but everyone including her parents will think her husband built it 5 Likes |
Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by Aforxzy(f): 7:06pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
If she bought the land in their names (Mr &Mrs ...) Then he should take it as a surprise and continue living together in the new house she built. But if on the other hand , the documents are in her name only, then he shouldn't move into her apartment. He should rather be a tenant to someone else than his secretive wife. 6 Likes |
Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by Realadey(m): 9:06pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
That's a bad idea indeed. I'm a man who believe in having things in common with one's wife, but it is totally wrong for the woman not to have informed the man before but if she is trying to surprise the man, she should not say it authoritatively that they are moving the next day, that's not humility. She should have just said, 'daddy wa, God has blessed us with our own house, I just decided to surprise u, let's go and inspect it.' And they both can now decide when to move |
Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by SeaTrade(m): 10:33pm On Aug 09, 2021 |
That one no go work for me sha ooo. Few months ago them increase my babe their salary ,the way I carry triple my efforts and sit up ehn,even me sef shock ![]() Not to talk of woman building a house and I go come pack my things go dey live with am, Abeg ooo. I believe say man suppose pass woman for things to dey right and for respect to be and she has to look up to you to fulfill your ego(yes,that is one of the things women were created for,to massage male egos). When woman pass you financially ,educationally,even with common sense and exposure,whether she loves you or not you will be reduced to nothing, Even if she don't show it,you can't stop to think it is what she thinks of you(as nothing) or you sef might feel guilty for being nothing.That's how the ego of a man works. You and your babe go dey na una go go see her friends that just came to town or so and them go dey discuss their time in Paris on vacation or their study years for UK or dey argue which store for Milan dey sell quality or cheap pass and all those things and you go tell me say if you as a man no dey alright you go stay that kind relationship unto wetin? Them go intimidate you die with ordinary lifestyle and your prick go dey shrink daily till e finally turn to TOTO ![]() ![]() Make sure say you always pass woman,if by chance or miracle she come pass you,better leave am go to another smallie weh you pass well well for your mental sanity. 9 Likes |
Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by Vision101(m): 7:23am On Aug 10, 2021 |
The issue should be documentation. If documented in the couple's names, then she just wants to make it a surprise. If documented in her name, no no. |
Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by bukatyne(f): 7:28am On Aug 10, 2021 |
Enskynelson: ![]() ![]() Good wives don't make money? ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by bukatyne(f): 7:32am On Aug 10, 2021 |
SeaTrade: Say you have been married for 15 years with three kids. You would divorce your wife because her salary suddenly became more than your monthly income. And men keep wondering why women seem not to need them when they have money ![]() It is because the average Nigerian man is as useful as P in psychology without money. No substance, no emotional/mental/spiritual/physical support, nothing. If some men send N50m to their wives accounts and disappear for ever, the woman would do special thanksgiving in Church. Anyways, it is your women that train you; perhaps that's what they like and need from their men. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by Richy4(m): 7:35am On Aug 10, 2021 |
OP should have said assuming.... So that we all know that it did not happen....But if it does happen, I will check on the degree of my ego ![]() ![]() 4 Likes
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Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by Enskynelson(m): 7:35am On Aug 10, 2021 |
bukatyne:Of cos, they make money but they won't make themselves the head in the eyes of the world. There are so many rich men out there but the truth is that, their wives are the source of the money. A good woman has all the money yet makes her husband comfortable. How did that woman OP was talking about even get to build house and the world knows she is the one? The good woman will do same but everyone will think her husband did it. |
Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by bukatyne(f): 7:37am On Aug 10, 2021 |
OPTOSUN:There is a problem with their marriage. If the wife was building a house she wanted the family to live in, it is senseless to 1. Make it secret 2. Tell him a day to moving in It shows utter disrespect and disregard to her husband. Let him address it and they move in. 2 Likes |
Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by bukatyne(f): 7:39am On Aug 10, 2021 |
Enskynelson: So the person who makes more money or builds the house is the head? Why does the average Nigerian husband bring nothing apart from money to the table? You people would soon be very redundant. More females are getting out of poverty with globalization and alternative streams of income. 8 Likes |
Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by Nobody: 7:53am On Aug 10, 2021 |
I don pack finish! Just gimme the address. OKADA!, wait for me I dey pack go my wife house. Lol African men with bloated, overhyped egos and pride.? 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by thorpido(m): 8:08am On Aug 10, 2021 |
bukatyne:Sadly so.Our parents' time,it was the man the wife looked up to for finances.Nowadays,there are women who can support communities with what they make. If it is sex,they can easily get that from anywhere.Some can even do with just intimacy gadgets. If the average man is still thinking my money,he's on a long thing. 6 Likes |
Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by Afuzefirstson(m): 8:11am On Aug 10, 2021 |
This one get as e be.. É get Why |
Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by lkillbrokehoes: 8:26am On Aug 10, 2021 |
Rozcol:Lol this scammer get mouth sha, and someone would think this person is sensible, wonders! |
Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by SeaTrade(m): 8:29am On Aug 10, 2021 |
thorpido:Women who can feed communities with their money are also looking for men who can feed CITIES with their money. Don't deceive yourself,the only time a woman can settle with a poorer man is when she has run out of time and have limited options or maybe she has been married /committed to a man before her success came and most times the man's value start to diminish before them after hitting such pinnacles, Let me even ask you,how can you expect a woman doing way better than you to look up to you? Do you know the kind of people she meets daily,her interactions,friends and associates? What can a broke man possibly know or have that she can look up to? ![]() Better go find one corner sitdown if you have no experience on topics like this. 3 Likes |
Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by SeaTrade(m): 8:45am On Aug 10, 2021 |
bukatyne:Madam,stop fooling youths. Tell them the bitter truth, Even if a woman loves you and there is that financial gap between the man and her,80% of the times she will be wondering or regretting what she is doing with you and feel like she is wasting her time most times. They always want men that can lead them,but how do you as a man,lead someone that is more succesful than you? ![]() Not that they need money from the man,but they just need a man they can look up to /who can serve as their role models and trust me,there is no way a poorer man can fit this criteria. That is what you modern women do these days ,trick young guys to marry you people and later kill the guy with insecurity, nonsense. If you are a rich woman,better go and find your mates,but most times your mates don't want you so you resort to trapping broke men and fooling them that the money won't matter, What a joke! ![]() 7 Likes |
Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by bukatyne(f): 9:05am On Aug 10, 2021 |
thorpido: Honestly, a very long thing! 3 Likes |
Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by frozen70(f): 9:09am On Aug 10, 2021 |
OPTOSUN: She must have done that as a surprise to her family Is left for her husband to appreciate her efforts not regarding who's name is written in the document But men with pride will not see it that way and that's the beginning of another bigger problem 3 Likes |
Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by OPTOSUN(m): 9:32am On Aug 10, 2021 |
frozen70:Pride? Why keeping it from her husband? , If the husband agree, she will do more than that next time confidently 2 Likes |
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