thorpido:
If she had informed him she was building a house,then there's no big deal about moving there.
The issue here is that she kept it a secret.

HRSweetness:


Yes I totally agree. The manner she went about it is quite questionable. However, I've learnt that a lot of women go this route because the ego of the man would sabotage the project if she shares her plans with him before embarking on it.

Enskynelson:
A good wife will build the house but everyone including her parents will think her husband built it

SeaTrade:
That one no go work for me sha ooo.
Few months ago them increase my babe their salary ,the way I carry triple my efforts and sit up ehn,even me sef shock No be me you go pass lailai.
Not to talk of woman building a house and I go come pack my things go dey live with am,
Abeg ooo.
I believe say man suppose pass woman for things to dey right and for respect to be and she has to look up to you to fulfill your ego(yes,that is one of the things women were created for,to massage male egos).
When woman pass you financially ,educationally,even with common sense and exposure,whether she loves you or not you will be reduced to nothing,
Even if she don't show it,you can't stop to think it is what she thinks of you(as nothing) or you sef might feel guilty for being nothing.That's how the ego of a man works.
You and your babe go dey na una go go see her friends that just came to town or so and them go dey discuss their time in Paris on vacation or their study years for UK or dey argue which store for Milan dey sell quality or cheap pass and all those things and you go tell me say if you as a man no dey alright you go stay that kind relationship unto wetin?
Them go intimidate you die with ordinary lifestyle and your prick go dey shrink daily till e finally turn to TOTO
Make sure say you always pass woman,if by chance or miracle she come pass you,better leave am go to another smallie weh you pass well well for your mental sanity.

bukatyne:



Good wives don't make money?

OPTOSUN:
A couple lived in a rented apartment. Happy family to be precise. The wife earn huge salary compared to the husband... so she decided to build a house without informing her husband. After completing the house, she finally inform her husband that they will be leaving to their own house tomorrow. Assuming you are the husband, what will you do?

Enskynelson:

Of cos, they make money but they won't make themselves the head in the eyes of the world. There are so many rich men out there but the truth is that, their wives are the source of the money. A good woman has all the money yet makes her husband comfortable. How did that woman OP was talking about even get to build house and the world knows she is the one? The good woman will do same but everyone will think her husband did it.

bukatyne:


So the person who makes more money or builds the house is the head?

Why does the average Nigerian husband bring nothing apart from money to the table?

You people would soon be very redundant.

More females are getting out of poverty with globalization and alternative streams of income.

Rozcol:
[s]Any man who feels comfortable living in his wife's personal house is a weak man,no woman should even allow that except on extraordinary conditions. I like a man to command respect in all ramifications and shouldn't involves himself in things that will bring him down. I love very masculine men.The man should not follow her to that house.[/s]

thorpido:
Sadly so.Our parents' time,it was the man the wife looked up to for finances.Nowadays,there are women who can support communities with what they make.
If it is sex,they can easily get that from anywhere.Some can even do with just intimacy gadgets.
If the average man is still thinking my money,he's on a long thing.

bukatyne:


Say you have been married for 15 years with three kids.

You would divorce your wife because her salary suddenly became more than your monthly income.

And men keep wondering why women seem not to need them when they have money

It is because the average Nigerian man is as useful as P in psychology without money.

No substance, no emotional/mental/spiritual/physical support, nothing.

If some men send N50m to their wives accounts and disappear for ever, the woman would do special thanksgiving in Church.

Anyways, it is your women that train you; perhaps that's what they like and need from their men.

thorpido:
Sadly so.Our parents' time,it was the man the wife looked up to for finances.Nowadays,there are women who can support communities with what they make.
If it is sex,they can easily get that from anywhere.Some can even do with just intimacy gadgets.
If the average man is still thinking my money,he's on a long thing.

OPTOSUN:
A couple lived in a rented apartment. Happy family to be precise. The wife earn huge salary compared to the husband... so she decided to build a house without informing her husband. After completing the house, she finally inform her husband that they will be leaving to their own house tomorrow. Assuming you are the husband, what will you do?

frozen70:


She must have done that as a surprise to her family

Is left for her husband to appreciate her efforts not regarding who's name is written in the document

But men with pride will not see it that way and that's the beginning of another bigger problem