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Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by lkillbrokehoes: 6:26pm On Aug 11, 2021
Hathor5:


[s]Red pillims is justified by the rejection and heart break they have experienced. And if you are hurt, you need medication. They chose to take the red pill to feel better. The red pill is the promise that if you employ a few manipulation tactics then ladies will adore and admire you, whether you are a school dropout or not. cheesy[/s]
Complete lies
Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by mariahAngel(f): 6:31pm On Aug 11, 2021
BRATISLAVA:


Well, there's no doubt there are some good people(hopefully) in Nigeria.

I'm not interested to meet any more Nigerian men. The more one interacts with them, the more one withdraws from them.

If you’re not interested in them, at least don’t condemn all of them.
For all we know, you could be one of the foreigners who hide under the guise of being a nairalander to spread hate for and condemn Nigeria and Nigerians in total.
Them plenty for this platform.

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Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by Arsenate(m): 6:31pm On Aug 11, 2021
Hahahehe
The back and forth amongst the ladies. Only a Dundee head will believe what women say rather than just observe what they do. I'll stick with the observing part whilst listening to what other men with experience have to say, thank you ma'ams.
The death dude whose wife was banging that FCMB Don (and birthing his kids) would probably be alive now if he knew the real nature of women.
Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by Arsenate(m): 7:05pm On Aug 11, 2021
AmazonTopaz:


The funny thing is that the so called SIMP's are actually the happiest with their women.

Lmao, they really aren't. It's like a grave yard peace. You know, akin to how a man will just walk away after being slapped by a woman because, "she is a woman and you are a man, just let it slide". Dudes are miserable.
Amazingly mind boggling the things some of you like to believe. grin

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Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by bukatyne(f): 7:29pm On Aug 11, 2021
mariahAngel:


I have a father and 3 brothers (very handsome and very caring by the way), who were born and raised in Nigeria, and there’s absolutely nothing toxic about them. (Aside uncles and cousins o)
Please stop generalizing and spreading falsehood.
It matters to people like me who care about people in their lives, both male and female.
Those men would do anything for me, my mother and sisters in a heartbeat!

The way I wonder about most men who spread hate and total falsehood about women on this platform, if they have women in their (real) lives, is the same way I wonder about the women who do the same.
The hate is sickening to read! My God!

Do you not have any male relative who was born and raised in Nigeria?
If you do, are there no noble one (not even a single one) among them?
If there’s at least one, consider that one before you term all as toxic!

grin cheesy

Back to reading mode.

I have seen typical born & bred Igbotic man that bathes his kids to school every morning so that his wife would not be late for work.

He is a business man with flexible time so the family's activities are arranged to fit the wife's schedule.

Last I heard, e never reach airport.

Very interesting convo on the thread.

I just imagine this thread was 'a Nigerian man built a house and told the wife to pack in the next day'. undecided

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Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by bukatyne(f): 7:45pm On Aug 11, 2021
SeaTrade:
Madam,stop fooling youths.
Tell them the bitter truth,
Even if a woman loves you and there is that financial gap between the man and her,80% of the times she will be wondering or regretting what she is doing with you and feel like she is wasting her time most times.
They always want men that can lead them,but how do you as a man,lead someone that is more succesful than you? undecided
Not that they need money from the man,but they just need a man they can look up to /who can serve as their role models and trust me,there is no way a poorer man can fit this criteria.
That is what you modern women do these days ,trick young guys to marry you people and later kill the guy with insecurity, nonsense.
If you are a rich woman,better go and find your mates,but most times your mates don't want you so you resort to trapping broke men and fooling them that the money won't matter,
What a joke! undecided

The last paragraph will be ignored; you know nothing about me.

@Leadership: You have no grasp of leadership if you think you need to earn more to lead especially in a romantic relationship.

Even a poor pastor manages to have great influence over his very rich members and they will be doing 'Daddy' up and down. Study them and understand leadership.

I will leave you with a story to make you understand that you cannot calculate how your finances would be in marriage.

A lady earns about N200k (hubby earning slightly higher) and she was poached by a competitor for 4x her current salary.

She goes and performs well and they increase her net salary by 50% the next year. That's about N1.2m/ month.

She was able to build her family and after a few years, they relocate out of the country.

I wonder the kind of hustle the husband would have done to meet up.

Do you know why the family was still peaceful and happy? When the husband earned more, they were a unit and money was just a means to live life. When the wife's salary skyrocketed, they were still a unit with more money to get by.

Imcome except you deliberately work at ensuring your wife earns less is not something you can predict over the course of a marriage.

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Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by BRATISLAVA: 8:42pm On Aug 11, 2021
mariahAngel:


If you’re not interested in them, at least don’t condemn all of them.
For all we know, you could be one of the foreigners who hide under the guise of being a nairalander to spread hate for and condemn Nigeria and Nigerians in total.
Them plenty for this platform.

How is the truth condemnation? Such deflection is what makes them get worse and worse.

Maria, you're free to make any assumptions you wish to about me. However...

You don't want me "generalizing and spreading falsehoods", about Nigerian men, or so you said initially, while you go ahead to do exactly that about me.

Says a lot about your agenda.

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Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by AmazonTopaz(f): 8:43pm On Aug 11, 2021
Arsenate:

Lmao, they really aren't. It's like a grave yard peace. You know, akin to how a man will just walk away after being slapped by a woman because, "she is a woman and you are a man, just let it slide". Dudes are miserable.
Amazingly mind boggling the things some of you like to believe. grin

Since you are not a so called SIMP,don't speak on behalf of the SIMP's

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Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by mariahAngel(f): 8:52pm On Aug 11, 2021
BRATISLAVA:


How is the truth condemnation? Such deflection is what makes them get worse and worse.

Maria, you're free to make any assumptions you wish to about me. However...

You don't want me "generalizing and spreading falsehoods", about Nigerian men, or so you said initially, while you go ahead to do exactly that about me.

If you must be with a Nigerian man, be with one who didn't grow up in Nigeria, so that his mind will be far from their usual toxicity.

If that isn’t general condemnation of Nigerian men who grew up in Nigeria, I don’t know what is.

I

Says a lot about your agenda.

E no dey hard una na!

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Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by BRATISLAVA: 8:56pm On Aug 11, 2021
mariahAngel:




If that isn’t general condemnation of Nigerian men who grew up in Nigeria, I don’t know what is.

I



E no dey hard una na!

After generalizing and spreading falsehoods about me, what does that say about your agenda? Why do you conveniently ignore that part? Why did you quote me out of all the posts on the thread?

You couldn't tackle the men who made their crude posts, are you only powerful when it's time to attack someone you feel is a woman?

If that false claim you made about me doesn't scream about hypocrisy, I don't know what else on this thread does.

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Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by mariahAngel(f): 9:02pm On Aug 11, 2021
BRATISLAVA:


After generalizing and spreading falsehoods about me, what does that say about your agenda? Why do you conveniently ignore that part? Why did you quote me out of all the posts on the thread?

You couldn't tackle the men who made their crude posts, are you only powerful when it's time to attack someone you feel is a woman?

If that false claim you made about me doesn't scream about hypocrisy, I don't know what else on this thread does.




I quoted you because those words of yours included my brothers. And I had to let you know it isn’t true.

Hypocrisy? You can think whatever you want.

Attacking women? Na wetin una want to dey spread? cheesy
E no dey kuku hard una...but God pass una sha grin
Did you feel attacked?
Na only women you don see me oppose before for dis forum? Abi na wetin you choose to see?

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Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by BRATISLAVA: 9:14pm On Aug 11, 2021
mariahAngel:


I quoted you because those words of yours included my brothers. And I had to let you know it isn’t true.

Hypocrisy? You can think whatever you want.

Attacking women? cheesy
Did you feel attacked?
Na has only women you don see me oppose?



And their own words didn't refer to you via your gender, defender of men in absentia?

You went from page 1 through all the posts and you could only stop at mine to peddle falsehoods?

Your words are hypocritical. Only a hypocrite with an agenda could operate the way you do. Tell yourself the truth.

Bye Felicia.

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Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by angelfallz(m): 9:19pm On Aug 11, 2021
Why are you wasting time, with someone who obviously looks down on Nigerians?

mariahAngel:


You’re not totally right.
There are good and bad men (people) in Nigeria, just as there are everywhere else in the world.

You need to meet the men (people) I know.
Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by Arsenate(m): 9:19pm On Aug 11, 2021
AmazonTopaz:


Since you are not a so called SIMP,don't speak on behalf of the SIMP's
Ah, you are not a simp too but you literally gave an opinion on how you think their marriages fare, why is my opinion any less valid? If anything, my opinion should weigh heavier since I share the same gender with these simps. undecided
Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by mariahAngel(f): 9:20pm On Aug 11, 2021
BRATISLAVA:

And their own words didn't refer to you via your gender, defender of men in absentia?

You went from page 1 through all the posts and you could only stop at mine to peddle falsehoods?

Your words are hypocritical. Only a hypocrite with an agenda could operate the way you do. Tell yourself the truth.

Bye Felicia.


First of all, stop with the name calling. I don’t tolerate that from anyone.
Secondly, I still don’t get why you feel attacked?
Go read my first post to you again...

Again, I’m not Felicia! ...and I don’t like the name by the way!

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Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by BRATISLAVA: 9:22pm On Aug 11, 2021
mariahAngel:


First of all, stop with the name calling. I don’t tolerate that from anyone.
Secondly, I still don’t get why you feel attacked?
Go read my first post to you again...



K

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Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by mariahAngel(f): 9:23pm On Aug 11, 2021
BRATISLAVA:

K

grin
Now, this is funny! grin

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Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by AmazonTopaz(f): 9:42pm On Aug 11, 2021
Arsenate:

Ah, you are not a simp too but you literally gave an opinion on how you think their marriages fare, why is my opinion any less valid? If anything, my opinion should weigh heavier since I share the same gender with these simps. undecided

Because I have met the so called SIMP'S and these men are happy hence my opinion.
Your opinion on the other hand isn't less valid but you obviously are not them and cannot speak for them because you share the same gender is irrelevant since your mental psychology and ideology is different from theirs to begin with.

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Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by SeaTrade(m): 11:18pm On Aug 11, 2021
bukatyne:


The last paragraph will be ignored; you know nothing about me.

@Leadership: You have no grasp of leadership if you think you need to earn more to lead especially in a romantic relationship.

Even a poor pastor manages to have great influence over his very rich members and they will be doing 'Daddy' up and down. Study them and understand leadership.

I will leave you with a story to make you understand that you cannot calculate how your finances would be in marriage.

A lady earns about N200k (hubby earning slightly higher) and she was poached by a competitor for 4x her current salary.

She goes and performs well and they increase her net salary by 50% the next year. That's about N1.2m/ month.

She was able to build her family and after a few years, they relocate out of the country.

I wonder the kind of hustle the husband would have done to meet up.

Do you know why the family was still peaceful and happy? When the husband earned more, they were a unit and money was just a means to live life. When the wife's salary skyrocketed, they were still a unit with more money to get by.

Imcome except you deliberately work at ensuring your wife earns less is not something you can predict over the course of a marriage.
Life get level,that’s all I can say.
Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by NoToPile: 1:18am On Aug 12, 2021
crackhaus:
Dem don turn thread into coven meeting venue... cheesy


Oga which one be coven meeting again. I am actually enjoying the Convo. Abi na lie them dey tok?

What exactly do Nigerian men want? Even the religious ones are not left out too.

You guys should choose a side and stick to it o jare.

Shuu.

Let me finish reading jare.

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Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by crackhaus: 7:10am On Aug 12, 2021
NoToPile:

Oga which one be coven meeting again. I am actually enjoying the Convo. Abi na lie them dey tok?

What exactly do Nigerian men want? Even the religious ones are not left out too.

You guys should choose a side and stick to it o jare.

Shuu.

Let me finish reading jare.
Witches Conference...

Although the attendance is not quite complete yet.
There's this one particular member who's noticeably absent from this 'august' meeting.

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Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by Klass99(f): 7:41am On Aug 12, 2021
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Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by Klass99(f): 8:12am On Aug 12, 2021
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Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by mariahAngel(f): 8:30am On Aug 12, 2021
Klass99:




Smiling then Lol grin

This was absolutely an apt analysis and an enjoyable read too, I like.

21 kisses to you kisskiss kisskiss

And by the way, you write very well.


You! You go choke for my matter! grin
You never see anything!
You kuku know say if I want enter person, na direct! Whether na man or na woman!
I no dey go corner corner!
I no be coward wey dey hide behind person comment dey blow poisonous kiss! cheesy
If I go tell you something, my mind full reach ground!
A thousand of una no reach!

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Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by mariahAngel(f): 8:44am On Aug 12, 2021
If you sent me a mail, sorry I don’t reply mails from nairaland.
Thanks for your understanding.

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Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by BRATISLAVA: 8:47am On Aug 12, 2021
Klass99:




Smiling then Lol grin

This was absolutely an apt analysis and an enjoyable read too, I like.

21 kisses to you kisskiss kisskiss

And by the way, you write very well.

Thanks, and 42 kisses your way. grin

You will always find that woman who wants to say she's not bias, irregardless of cold evidence, so she stands on the pedestal of bias throwing stones at women while conveniently ignoring the antics of men.

Having posted what I have on the thread, I believe it's time to leave it for the defenders.

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Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by Klass99(f): 8:54am On Aug 12, 2021
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Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by sola12(m): 9:06am On Aug 12, 2021
What if she built the house in d name of ur kids?
Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by mariahAngel(f): 9:09am On Aug 12, 2021
Delusional fools with victim mentality.

The other one wants to start what she cannot finish...cheesy

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Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by Klass99(f): 9:19am On Aug 12, 2021
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Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by mariahAngel(f): 9:58am On Aug 12, 2021
Klass99:


Felicia grin, I am not the cause of your joblessness and frustrations in real life, which causes you to come online and spew your vileness and toxicity towards others and women in particular.


S’alaye Fc!
So, you’re still jobless and frustrated? cheesy
Let me give you an advice for free; THERE ARE OTHER OPTIONS ASIDE SLAVING AWAY LOOKING FOR A JOB!
Yeah! I know it doesn’t occur to small minded fools like you that there are people who actually run their own businesses and are their own bosses ! Na slave mentality be that!


Everything Bratislava wrote about you is just an accurate analysis and report of who you are. She echoed things I already know of you and I said about you on that thread where you thoroughly embarrassed yourself (on my account) and ended up apologizing. Between both us who exactly is dying on top of the other's matter? grin


Can you ever do without mentioning people? Coward!
So, you’ve been stalking me just like the others? Are you a monitoring spirit? cheesy
You go kpeme for my matter se!



I didn't even quote or mention you, but you jumped on me, for sincerely liking someone else's post.

Are you senseless or you’re just plain stupid?
What did you expect when you involved yourself with something that had to do with me? Applause?

Girl, you get serious issues and I'm just glad that more people are really seeing you for the hypocrite you are, seeing your nastiness and your fear of tackling male monikers who display the same brand of your nastiness.

Fear? Gurl! You should know me better than that! Make the stalking count at least! cheesy
I don’t tackle male monikers? What a delusional fool!
If I handle you the way I handle some crazy guys on this forum ehn, you’ll need therapy I swear!
I go easy on you! Trust me on that one!


Why you dey always fear to quote and address some monikers? It's very glaring to see, in addition to that you are always trying hard to pally with the nasty elements in a bid to get on their good side, so you won't be caught in their cross fire. But, that doesn't always go well and it back fires on you, it used to be painful to watch but now it's entertaining and amusing to watch. cheesy


I dare you to list the monikers I fear to quote! If you’re not a coward!
Mumu! You’re just good at throwing words and accusations you’re not brave enough type clearly with your full chest


If you haven't learned anything from your time/paddy paddy with Romangalactic you will never learn.
I got a real kick out of watching you make a fool of yourself on the other thread because of me, then apologizing. Now, here you are again making a fool of yourself with your two faced hypocritical comments. You display gra gra and empty bravado every where you go only to turn around and apologize.

I apologized that day because I had no proof, and I meant it.
Now, that doesn’t mean I won’t drag you or anybody that messes with me.
You should know better than that.


Before you speak learn to pause, think and use your brain abeg! Your reaction and displays of thoughtless emotionalism and vileness to issues, continuously showcases your immaturity, shallowness and poorly ravaged mindset.


Mumu! Your words don’t define me!

As long as you keep stalking me, I’ll keep punishing you like I do to stalkers like you.
You’re just so shamelessly jealous and obsessed with me!

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Re: As A Man, Will You Pack To Your Wife's Personally Built House? by Klass99(f): 10:06am On Aug 12, 2021
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