tiswell:
Hustle o make you no go dey wait for inheritance

You miss the point. Hustle or no hustle, a good parent leaves an inheritance for his children's children. Inheritance is your right as a child in a family and it's meant to augument your life.

Biglogo:
Agboju logun fira e foshi ta , put inheritance behind u for now bro and man up, u may do better

I have only two elders sisters(all married and far away).
Who will I leave it for?
Abi I still be small pikin ni?

Sermwell:

You are a very ungrateful and lazy son! You don't deserve anything from your parents! Go and hustle!! Ewu!

Mumu I dey another state dey hustle on my own.
So I should leave my inheritance for you?
Idiot.

Akalia:
You are privileged but ungrateful.

Very ungrateful bastard

sheanzy:
oga we are saying the same thing.. it's not a liability

Which kind mentality una get sef

bros, assets are things that brings u money and will continually bring u money as long as it's there..... Even if u'll sell it at the end of d day, the value would've increased.

Liability is the other way round.

crackhaus:

My brother, please ensure you leave more than this for your children.

I think the best thing parents can do is build their children up to a point where they can build for themselves

theenchanter:
bros, assets are things that brings u money and will continually bring u money as long as it's there..... Even if u'll sell it at the end of d day, the value would've increased.

Liability is the other way round.

person dash u something u sell am, no be Money the thing bring for u oga

ArticleBeast:

Very ungrateful bastard

How am I ungrateful and why the abuses.
I have heard relatives say my Dad has been saying"He would "will" his properties to charity".
I'm not happy about that.
What have I done rather than hustle but still I am not half as rich as my Dad and Mum.

udoka55555:


For sure bro...

At 28 I am married and own my own business...

All I think about when I am working is my unborn kids, nephews and nieces....

I want to make sure they enjoy the best life have to offer through me.

A very important goal.

Yes, Early Responsibilities, Thank God for His Grace that sustained us and still sustaining us ..

bepositive11:

I think the best thing parents can do is build their children up to a point where they can build for themselves

Building children to a point where they can build for themselves does NOT eliminate the need to leave an inheritance for them.

Both can happen simultaneously, they're not mutually exclusive events.

SonofGod231:
My Parents left the house they built in the 90's to go live in the latest one they built.
And I have been living there alone since 2010 but of recent,any time I ask them for the documents to the house. They begin to insult me and make it an issue,that I can't wait for the man to die before I start asking for papers.
After my graduation,the car they bought for me the very first time I carry the car travel na serious accident I go get along Port-harcourt-Owerri road.
I nearly die.
As I am speaking I've sold the car,rented the place out while I allow some of my friends to occupy the b/q. I thought they will make it an issue but they've being quiet about it.
Country hard,every body dey find extra cheddars now.I don't know why God gave me this set of Parents.

Your parents are alive and you are asking for the papers?!

crackhaus:

Building children to a point where they can build for themselves does NOT eliminate the need to leave an inheritance for them.

Both can happen simultaneously, they're not mutually exclusive events.

I know. Still, building your children up should be the first priority. Inheritance is a plus

So many parents leave inheritance behind without building up their children. Then their children fight for inheritance or drain up their inheritance

When children are built well, if there's no inheritance, they can build their own. If there is inheritance, they'll multiply it

So sorry bro, God will uplift you

dgagar:
For where? Ordinary spoon i no inherit. My father died 27yrs ago, when i was 4yrs. His family claim my mother killed him. They shared everything he had and forget the only son he had which is me. Up till today, am still struggling to live a better life ��

bepositive11:


I think the best thing parents can do is build their children up to a point where they can build for themselves

You may have to define that point where you leave your children to build for themselves.
Because,some parents believe with just education you should be able to enter any bank and collect money.

bepositive11:

I know. Still, building your children up should be the first priority. Inheritance is a plus

So many parents leave inheritance behind without building up their children. Then their children fight for inheritance or drain up their inheritance

When children are built well, if there's no inheritance, they can build their own. If there is inheritance, they'll multiply it

Definitely...

mfm04622:


Your parents are alive and you are asking for the papers?!

You don't understand,I said I have been the one living there for some time so I was relocating to another state. Besides,it was the advise I got from people.

I inherited a mother I have 5o send money to every month.

I sold the damn inheritance. It doesn't make sense keeping inheritance for children that doesn't have plans coming back to this Country.

So where do you live do you have a job?

SonofGod231:
My Parents left the house they built in the 90's to go live in the latest one they built.
And I have been living there alone since 2010 but of recent,any time I ask them for the documents to the house. They begin to insult me and make it an issue,that I can't wait for the man to die before I start asking for papers.
After my graduation,the car they bought for me the very first time I carry the car travel na serious accident I go get along Port-harcourt-Owerri road.
I nearly die.
As I am speaking I've sold the car,rented the place out while I allow some of my friends to occupy the b/q. I thought they will make it an issue but they've being quiet about it.
Country hard,every body dey find extra cheddars now.I don't know why God gave me this set of Parents.

Shishi my papa nor leave for me though he died quite early.

Chris525:

So where do you live do you have a job?

I am living in a rented apartment presently.
Yes,I have a job of (200K to 235K/month).
We are talking of inheritance here and not something else.

SonofGod231:

You may have to define that point where you leave your children to build for themselves.
Because,some parents believe with just education you should be able to enter any bank and collect money.

Exactly. By building children up, I'm talking about character. Education is not enough at all. It's important but that's just one aspect of building up a child

ArticleBeast:

Very ungrateful bastard

How dare you call him a bastard?

bepositive11:


Exactly. By building children up, I'm talking about character. Education is not enough at all. It's important but that's just one aspect of building up a child

Well,thanks for this.I don't know why when it comes to inheritance and people hear the privileged few son's talk about it. They begin to see you as undeserving. Very annoying.

BigDawsNet:


It's not going to work on my side...I'm not married yet but I'm pretty sure my gf currently hav a good relationship with my siblings so nothing of such will happen on my watch.....

Okay

dgagar:
For where? Ordinary spoon i no inherit. My father died 27yrs ago, when i was 4yrs. His family claim my mother killed him. They shared everything he had and forget the only son he had which is me. Up till today, am still struggling to live a better life ��

Sorry about your experience. God will lift you up.

seyi360:


How dare you call him a bastard?

Truthfully,I don't know how that came about.
But it's okay, everyone always has something to say here.

We're three in my family my and my dad left a house for me in Paris France and Abuja, while my other two sibling got 1 house each each in Zurich Switzerland and Los Angeles respectively.
Other things like cars company and all that is been manage by the three of us.

DEEBOZZ:
We're three in my family my and my dad left a house for me in Paris France and Abuja, while my other two sibling got 1 house each each in Zurich Switzerland and Los Angeles respectively.
Other things like cars company and all that is been manage by the three of us.

Be like say u still dey dream

SonofGod231:
My Parents left the house they built in the 90's to go live in the latest one they built.
And I have been living there alone since 2010 but of recent,any time I ask them for the documents to the house. They begin to insult me and make it an issue,that I can't wait for the man to die before I start asking for papers.
After my graduation,the car they bought for me the very first time I carry the car travel na serious accident I go get along Port-harcourt-Owerri road.
I nearly die.
As I am speaking I've sold the car,rented the place out while I allow some of my friends to occupy the b/q. I thought they will make it an issue but they've being quiet about it.
Country hard,every body dey find extra cheddars now.I don't know why God gave me this set of Parents.

Nawa for you bro...

Well, like the common saying "some don't know what they have or value what they have because it came easy."
Anyway, it is your choice and life but on a lighter note, asking for that paper when they are still alive looks awkward and desperate.
Giving you the papers should have been their own freewill(decision), not you asking.

You don't have to be ungrateful bro, you can rent the place out, sell the car and still be grateful to them or silent about it in case you don't want to tell them without making a fuss about it.

You would have understood if you didn't have such privilege.
The best thing you can do to them is make them happy by appreciating their efforts.