Rotarian advises broke unmarried guys to get married. According to him, "some women hold the key to success".

He quoted a Bible verse which says; "He who finds a wife finds a good thing".

Facts.

I know some men who did not amount to anything but as soon as they got married they are now doing well. Two of them are landlords and all of them are car owners.

Indeed women are blessings.

Okay, noted

Which key?

Shey d ones wey Yahoo boys don lick finish. You better don't try it, except you are led, else your own poverty go tie wrapper & gele.

I agree!

Arnold1:
I agree!

Go and marry stop waiting to make millions before you marry.

U never see one who be get money marry wrong wife,em life finish, don’t get married because Ure poor or rich,marry when u have thought about it well enough,a wrong woman is worse than poverty

In my next life.....MAKE ME NOT A BLACK MAN


SOMETHING IS FUNDAMENTALLY WRONG WITH THEIR BRAINS

As if to marry is free

ANY MAN THAT TRIES THIS WILL SHED TEARS AND BLOOD.


I KNOW A GUY THAT DID IT AND HE NOW LIVES MORE LIKE A STREET URCHIN.

YAHOO BOYS DON USE 90 PERCENT OF OUR YOUNG WOMEN DO RITUAL.


MOST OF THESE CHEWING GUM GIRLS YOU SEE ON THE STREETS ARE NOTHING BUT A LIVING DEAD

Tomorrow this same idiot will come to nairaland and pester people for money to pay the wife's hospital bills. 18 years down the line the children will also litter this place looking for money to complete their school fees and pay accommodation before exam starts.

Truth..

What that guy wrote is NaanSense, but as e don quote bible verse put una go swallow am. I pity anybody that takes such things seriously, you forget all men are not the same,
all fingers are not equal,
cut your cloth according to your size,
one man's meat is another man's poison.
E work for johnny no mean say e go work for jona.

I'm confused.

This marriage of a thing is just over-rated.

Well, marriage is to bring about blessings and multiplication.

If 1 chases one thousand, 2 would chase ten thousand and get a good reward for their labor.

This blessing/reward for labour is by principle though.

Y

Such mindset has been regenerating poverty in Nigeria!

This is absolute nonsense!

If I hustle for money and it doesn't come, then I'll remain unmarried rather than breeding kids who might turn out to be potential Boko Haram recruits.

Look into the background of rich people, 85% of them are from upper middle class/wealthy families who can properly lay the foundation for their success later in life. The remainder 15% from humble families are more like outliers/exceptions.

Nobody should come at me with that loneliness bullshit because I know my take is extreme.

My parents made that mistake, I won't!

Come and tell Abuja girl that nonsense and receive the insult of your life.

I don't know about other states, but in this city, it's a crime not to have money. And for someone like me that wants to settle here due to its proximity to my village/hometown, I have no choice than to make that money first. It only takes a Benz for that wife to leave you and follow that CBN staff.

Abuja, a city that is not structured to support any mega business, only the "chop chop" kind of business.

From one chop chop point to the other. Few people spending our national resources.

Money, Money, Money. That's the language here!

This girl sha

saphiere:
Facts.

I know some men who did not amount to anything but as soon as they got married they are now doing well. Two of them are landlords and all of them are car owners.

Indeed women are blessings.

So a guy that is still struggling to stand should go and marry just because a motivational speaker said so?

He won't do wedding, won't feed the wife and babies when they start coming? or how many people will you turn to for help today that'll readily assist you?

I feel it's when a guy knows he can handle responsibilities that he should think of marriage (not necessarily rich) and he should make sure the lady is ready to work and not a liabilty that put too much value on material things.

saphiere:
Go and marry stop waiting to make millions before you marry.

Why are you telling me this? Didn’t you see that I agreed with the OP

And who told you I'm not married?

Very bad advice, stop encouraging generational poverty.

A FATAL LIE.
Not applicable in all situations.
U can't be struggling & get married to a leech & still expect unprecedented turn around in ur life.
Please Don't recycle poverty.
We keep doing such in Africa.
IF you get married in such miserable situation and kasala burst, him go deny you oooo

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flokii:
So a guy that is still struggling to stand should go and marry just because a motivational speaker said so?

He won't do wedding, won't feed the wife and babies when they start coming? or how many people will you turn to for help today that'll readily assist you?

I feel it's when a guy knows he can handle responsibilities that he should think of marriage (not necessarily rich) and he should make sure the lady is ready to work and not a liabilty that put too much value on material things.

[/s]The Bible said so and not a motivational speaker.

bukatyne:
Well, marriage is to bring about blessings and multiplication.

If 1 chases one thousand, 2 would chase ten thousand and get a good reward for their labor.

This blessing/reward for labour is by principle though.

Yinmu.com

You all should stop pushing people into POVERTY