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Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by osazsky(m): 9:43pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Tickles001:so he will just meet a girl this year and marry her next year..without courting her..no go put ring for mami water hand o |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Kobojunkie: 9:43pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Tickles001:I thought God is the one who decides that which is right and according to God - Genesis 2 vs 24 - everything about what this guy reveals of his life is wrong. So how did you manipulate this into a right and precious path without God's rightness? . ![]() |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by jaytime(m): 9:45pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
You are just being religious. Be genuinely born again and you will have the freedom to do what is right because you know it is right; not because of some set of laws or doctrines. 1 Like |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Tickles001(m): 9:45pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Verysmart101: I never explicitly said so. But since you asked. Relationship is the root, sin is the branches, and destruction is the fruit. I hope you understand ![]() |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Nobody: 9:45pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
It is a shame that the OP did not tell the whole truth, and he's making many people offend here. The Church has nothing to lose because she is not responsible for your delay. You need to examine yourself. If at 35 you're still trading blame on the marriage issue, when you suppose to take responsibility then you still have a long way to go. Please look to yourself. 3 Likes |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by LilMissFavvy(f): 9:45pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
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Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by greenguy: 9:47pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Like you've not nack before? |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Ishilove: 9:47pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
GboyegaD:Uncle G, it makes no sense. He has not even approached his love interest but he has approached the church council and is waiting for their approval. I mean, what the actual frock?? What if, after 'approval' the said lady does not agree to be courted? He needs to examine himself well and stop blaming the church for his inability to be settled. |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Lordbinsmar: 9:48pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Tickles001: But you wicked oo ![]() ![]() ![]() See the kind of advice you dey give persin wey don reach 35years. Make the guy wait till he becomes 50years old ![]() ![]() ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by wellmax(m): 9:48pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
You've messed up your life now you are blaming a church. I go to Gbagada, Deeper life HQ, and always feel proud seeing young couples dressed in and co, taking pictures or with their kids. In the same church you seek to blame. Go and deliver yourself from yourself and stop blaming any church. Don't be a blind follower. 2 Likes |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by emmyN(m): 9:48pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Guys una norva understand OP. The thing be say e nor sabi toast girl, reason why e dey find recommendation. Like he is waiting for the committee to match-make for him ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by VlamesIffect(f): 9:50pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
sijibomi33: Some of us went through the system, Jesus Only is our message - you code. But at the end, this life you have to explore & have experiences, stop carrying all thay churchy thing in your head & approach the lady you like BE A MAN. Real talk from me to you, you remember back then in SAY early 2000's. That was when i learnt to differentiate our church's doctrine from practical application in the real world. I know when you finally overcome thay deeperlife sentiments you'll do things. Things wey go make devil SHOCK. Because na we dey BAD pass. 2 Likes |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Kobojunkie: 9:50pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Regex:Jesus Christ instead warned you against following the Doctrines and traditions of men . He informed you that they are nothing but lies, an abomination to God - Matthew 15 vs 1 - 14 |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Handsum64: 9:50pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
The gullibles will wise up one day |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Admiral49(m): 9:50pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
It is called church doctrine i.e pattern of the church, since you are a member and understand why they ask you to do it then please do what is good..... And for those casting Deeper Life here...u know nothing, I am not their member but back then in UNIBEN, the Deeper life Campus fellowship always put up a program with the title " You Need a Spouse" for their Final year students.. this is to make them understand what it means to be in a relationship and marriage....so don't talk trash about them...abi u think say them no know say their members go dey date themselves? The program was to guide them on relationship and marriage 1 Like |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Jymsyno: 9:51pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
OP stop deceiving people here about Deeper Life mode of marriage. You are the one holding yourself not the church or the committee. I just attended a wedding of Deeper Life where the sister is about 22 year. I married in the church and I can boldly say that if you take a 100 samples of the marriages join in this country by churches it will be hard to get a higher sample of successful ones other than what we have in DCLM. The MC is to guide us as believers and not a stumbliy block like you are insinuating. By God's grace and if not for the MC I would have married a disaster. I know this by hind sight. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by emmyN(m): 9:51pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Oluvan: His problem is he doesn't know how to approach ladies, which stem from indoctrination by the church in the name of living a 'holy' life. Lmao ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by wonlasewonimi: 9:51pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
This is indeed a good news.. Now you're thinking properly. |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Tickles001(m): 9:52pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
osazsky:I don't know how they work it in his church, but I believe he must have been observing and make inquiries of the said girl. This serves almost the same purpose as courtship. So long as he takes his time do his findings and the church does their part in making sure the lady is sexually and emotionally fit for him. |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Kobojunkie: 9:52pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Admiral49:Jesus Christ instead warned you against following the Doctrines and traditions of men . He informed you these doctrines and traditions of men are nothing but lies, an abomination to God - Matthew 15 vs 1 - 14 ![]() |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Kobojunkie: 9:54pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Jymsyno:Jesus Christ warned you against following the doctrines and traditions of men of which your church doctrines are. Jesus Christ informed you these doctrines and traditions of men are nothing but lies, an abomination to God - Matthew 15 vs 1 - 14 1 Like |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by J2381: 9:56pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
sijibomi33:The day you learn to free your mind is the day you'll truly know what freedom from religious indoctrination is. |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by ghettochild(m): 9:58pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
sijibomi33:It's very abnormal If u are a lady.. it even worse Better find a job n leave home n do u n not what ur church expects |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by dbrown2021: 9:58pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
sijibomi33: The Church is not the problem here. There are people don't go to Church who are also passing through similar problems. If you are born again, you have the Spirit of God. God speaks to you through your spirit. When you pray to God for a life partner, God will direct you on whom He wants you to marry. But you must make sure that you are ready to do His will. If you have idol in your heart, you may get a permissive will. If God leads to a Sister the likelihood of that Sister saying NO is slim. So allow the spirit of God to guide and direct you. Follow the process prayerfully, no murmuring and complaining. Be sincere to God, the Church and yourself and see God grant you victory in the area of marriage. Remember, we wrestle not against flesh and blood. And as many as are led by the Spirit of God, they are the Sons of God. Shalom. 1 Like |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Tickles001(m): 9:59pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: I don't think God will view the level of relationship he's seeking as a good thing. I don't see anything wrong in his life. I think he's just not aware of the advantages therein. How can he hold out for 35yrs only to yield at the last minute. He should stop feeling like he's missing and start enjoying what he's got |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by stonemasonn: 9:59pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Tickles001:My friend we're social animals...your God made it that way, his situation is not healthy for his mind...a church person should be married and settled at 25 so he can focus on other churchy things. I personally cannot trust any single churchy person at 35....Yes. |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Lawdavmessi: 10:00pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
As a believer it is advisable to know your bible . Follow church doctrine if only they are scripturally backed up. A lot of people are been led wrongly by the so called Church doctrine. 1 Like |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by iyoema(m): 10:01pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Is normal to be at 35 years without relationship, I'm a living . My friend the problem is you not marriage committee. Take your wife to-be name to them within 6 months you will be a married man. |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Tickles001(m): 10:02pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Lordbinsmar:He likely wouldn't even get to 37. He's already making moves to get married. He thinks relationship will make him happier and complete. Sadly, he's wrong on that. |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Nezzjnr: 10:03pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
sijibomi33:Liar Deeper Life doesn't sanction relationships If you are interested in a lady... Submit her name to the committee in question and they'll guide both of you from there |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Regex: 10:03pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: We are both saying the same thing. He doesn't like the doctrine of Deeper Life Church, he should leave, but, I'd advise he leaves after he has gotten married to the woman being arranged for him, because he's sure going have issues with Socializing. |
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