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Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by maikalaf(m): 10:04pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Jymsyno:Abeg abeg! We all know that marriage committee isn't scriptural, and for a church that actually preaches sound doctrine, that's a lot to deal with. Also, many folks in that church are actually enduring their marriages. Issues like this is why a 22 year old would end up marrying someone that's about 10 years older than her. Omooooeux! Allow people to look for their preferences, meet up with the said person and both go to the marriage committee. Is that so hard? Instead, everything is supposed to be under the corners. Aside the few extremes, a lot of young people are leaving the denomination because of this same issue. 1 Like |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Nobody: 10:06pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Ishilove:Everything about that marriage committee doesn't just seem right. A committee will have to decide who you're going to spend probably the rest of your life with ? You have to go pray and fast for the holy Spirit to review your partner to you ,with high chances you have never met this person in question before. Without the approval of the committee,that marriage is going no where. Can you imagine ? Do you know what some deeperlifers do now ? They leave the church when they want to marry,they go out and marry,when they are done with the whole marriage rites,they then return to the church. It's becoming the norm among deeperlife young men and women,and the church still don't want to look into the issue. It's just a church doctrine,and no shame in admitting a certain church doctrine have outlived it usefulness. No church doctrine is infallible. |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by RPirez: 10:06pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
I be Deeper Life member and I dey do my thing as I want. ![]() I smoke weed, drink alcohol, smash chics et al ![]() ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Kobojunkie: 10:08pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Regex:We are not saying the same thing at all. ![]() 1. By living under the doctrines and traditions of his church, he is living in sin against God Himself and so his worship of God is in vain - Matthew 15 vs 1 - 14 ![]() 2. If he should marry from this place and afterwards leaves with this woman, will she be happy with the new arrangement forced on her? ![]() 3. No one needs a degree to socialize. Even introverts accomplish it. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Lexusgs430: 10:08pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
IPIGSRSHALLOW: It's difficult...... Religion is the opium of the masses..... ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by dbrown2021: 10:09pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Kobojunkie:Doctrines are different from Administrative rules. Organisations have standard and procedures for various operations. When you belong to the organisation you follow the process and procedures . Absence of procedures will mean everyone doing it his or her own way and orderliness will be lacking. So let's not mix up doctrines with administrative procedures. Every Church I guess have there marriage procedures. 1 Like |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Workch: 10:10pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
You are mad. Sincerely |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Tickles001(m): 10:11pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
stonemasonn: Church is not against him socializing, the church itself can even be classified as a social group, with other subgroups inside it. Infact deeper life people can socialize very well if he himself is willing to. I know because I had two as my girlfriend during school days and they make good and loyal companion from my experience. I agree with the bolded, but most times the lines doesn't fall in right places for that to happen. But now he's already making moves to marry. Is it not best he upheld his faith to the finish. There's nothing in this relationship thing, and he's even too old for relationships ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Charpell(m): 10:11pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
sijibomi33:Emancipate Yourself from Mental Slavery At 35 years old, you are still bound to church doctrine? You have to change 2 Likes |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Kobojunkie: 10:11pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
maikalaf:What sound doctrine? Jesus Christ warned that all doctrines and traditions of men are lies, an abomination to God that renders the worship of those who imbibe such doctrines void and unacceptable - Matthew 15 vs 1 - 14 ![]() |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by OkuFaba(m): 10:11pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
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Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Workch: 10:11pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Kandeed:you are sick. Then let them ruin your life na. Reubbish |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Chiffy: 10:12pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Continue sleeping on a bicycle. Very soon, you will hit 40. By then, some children of your mates will be 15 years. And some of your female mates would have become grandmothers. Maybe, that is when you will learn that you alone are solely accountable for your life |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Nobody: 10:12pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Bros op, na money you no get. Money answereth all |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by JordanMichael(m): 10:12pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
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Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Afronaijagbedu: 10:12pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
My Gee, so you have no experience about relationship. All in the name of church doctrine, you are killing yourself and satisfy rules that were created when you were not there. My big bro, you need to wake up, you need to remove that glasses, go for that babe of your choice, leave the church doctrine (if possible change church). And set up your family. 35 years, Jesus |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Austeeenxx: 10:12pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
You're most definitely a clown. How can you be waiting for some marriage committee to help you find wife? WTF 1 Like |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Janosky: 10:12pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
sijibomi33:In your Bible, Genesis 2:18-24, Matthew 19:4-6, who sanction it? Na your Church write am ? |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by dbrown2021: 10:13pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
maikalaf:Bro if you claim to be born again. Pray to God to direct you to your life partner. God does not make mistakes, and He still speaks to men today. Our spiritual maturity is important if we want to do the will of God. Shalom. 1 Like |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Kobojunkie: 10:14pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
dbrown2021:Jesus Christ never asked anyone to belong to your organizations in His name , nor did He instruct you to follow any of the rules and traditions, administrative included, or men. ![]() He warned you against the following of the doctrines and traditions of men, even the ones your churches are built on top off, telling you that they are all lies to deceive you away from the Truth of God - Matthew 15 vs 1 - 14 & Mark 7 vs 1 - 23 ![]() God gave you one rule as far as marriage is concerned. He did not declare that any other permissions were needed to establish a marriage. Your church marriage commitees installing themselves in between God's rule and men violates God's own law that no man add to or remove from His Law. ![]() |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by alizma: 10:16pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
sijibomi33:The most disappointment that await you is that the woman that will be packed for you will not be a virgin, that is when you will understand that you have been scammed. |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Regex: 10:17pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: 1. The church are different bodies of Christ. If one do not agree with the doctrine of a church, he should leave instead of being there and disobeying the doctrine of a church. 2. It depends on him. I made a suggestion that I think could help his situation. |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by birdman(m): 10:17pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by richie240: 10:18pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
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Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by eyinjuege: 10:18pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Take responsibility for your own life please. You're a grown man Live your life for yourself and not for others or your church. It's seems you're among the Nigerians that are very comfortable blaming one person or the other for their deficiencies 1 Like |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Nobody: 10:19pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
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Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by elonmuskbaby: 10:19pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Ishilove:off your mic and don't be rude ![]() ![]() ![]() The bluntness is too much ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Kunfu(m): 10:19pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Hey bro, I hope you'll see my post, there was a time I like a deeper life sister and I was also dedicated, I went to meet the sister bodly that I like her that I'll love to know her better and make things work out in future, but her response turned me off when she told me that I should go through the pastor before I can ask her out. I left the sister and never talk to her about anything relationship again. Tho I'm married now by the grace of God to a lovely lady from another Church. Op please don't let the doctrine of Church tie you down. My own piece of advice.@ sijibomi33 |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Jymsyno: 10:19pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Kobojunkie:No need joining issue with you. Do you know the job of the MC to start with before you call what they do church dogma? What is wrong with elders guiding younger ones through the scripture on how to do things accordingly. |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by ogododo: 10:20pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
sijibomi33: Na u dey keep de sister waiting till eternity. Go see your District Pastor next Sunday. Go visit de sister family after service. We go chop rice for Xmas. 1 Like |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Chiffy: 10:20pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
Sonnobax15: At 35, the Guy na Deputy Chief Bachelor already. E be like im still wan upgrade to Chief Bachelor before im go learn 1 Like |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Workch: 10:21pm On Aug 19, 2021 |
WeNoGoDie:what pride? Are you religious zealots insane? |
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