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Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Kobojunkie: 4:57am On Aug 20, 2021 |
Someone7:Get a life! He spoke his truth.... na the same church doctrines and traditions wey dey cause you wan throw am under Bus na him him dey talk about. |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Collins4u1(m): 5:07am On Aug 20, 2021 |
Na you do yourself, na you tie yourself.. |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by NeoWanZaeed(m): 5:13am On Aug 20, 2021 |
sijibomi33: A graduate and some people are still controlling your mind. Was Jesus Christ a deeper life member or founder? Abi it's peter and mark or Luke that's deeper life G O You are worshipping your church NOT your creator 1 Like |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Peaceadebu: 5:15am On Aug 20, 2021 |
I hope you have sense Sha bkos I have seen many of deeper life brothers that doesn't have sense Sha sijibomi33: |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Omookunnimi(m): 5:20am On Aug 20, 2021 |
From your statement its show you are not born again. In your district I believe that those that are not of your age are getting married. Please pray and let God chose for you. Those that are saying you should leave Church are deceiving you. Deeper Life Couples are still the best couples I have ever seen. Please how many of them did you see divorce or separated or have side chic? How many of them did you see in and out of court? The reason is that they allowed God to choose for them. If I may ask, are you working? Are you staying with your parents or live alone? If you are working and stay alone and you have seen a sister you believe if your wife go to MC and start a process that will lead to marriage not coming to Social Media to ridicule your Church. For those that said Deeperlifer don't marry outsider, please do your research very well. Also marriage committee don't chose who to marry for you neither did the church do matchmaking. God bless you. |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Omookunnimi(m): 5:23am On Aug 20, 2021 |
From your statement its show you are not born again. In your district I believe that those that are not of your age are getting married. Please pray and let God chose for you. Those that are saying you should leave Church are deceiving you. Deeper Life Couples are still the best couples I have ever seen. Please how many of them did you see divorce or separated or have side chic? How many of them did you see in and out of court? The reason is that they allowed God to choose for them. If I may ask, are you working? Are you staying with your parents or live alone? If you are working and stay alone and you have seen a sister you believe is your wife go to MC and start a process that will lead to marriage not coming to Social Media to ridicule your Church. For those that said Deeperlifer don't marry outsider, please do your research very well. Also marriage committee don't chose who to marry for you neither did the church do matchmaking. God bless you. 1 Like |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by zedegit: 5:31am On Aug 20, 2021 |
festacman: He already found a wife and needs everyone to help him mark her out. I think it's good in the sense that it prevents many brothers from wooing the same person at the same time and randy brothers from going on a frenzy from one girl to another within the same church which can breed enemity etc |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by itsme9jaG(f): 5:32am On Aug 20, 2021 |
sijibomi33: As one believer to another. Where is it written than church has to sanction a relationship. Typically when you find a spouse you go for marriage counseling before marriage to be guided. Pls note we are on our way to heaven and Jesus is the captain. While we belong to various denominations we must focus on what the Bible says and Jesus. I am a winner but recently I have taken time to listen to Apostle Joshua Selman which has illuminated my Christian journey listen to link below [url] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zwbshwp0xmg[/url] 1 Like |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by otokx(m): 5:42am On Aug 20, 2021 |
Interesting, interesting. 1 Like |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by OtemAtum: 5:45am On Aug 20, 2021 |
Tutu19:Apt. I pity deeperlife members. They're always on the streets looking out-of-fashion. What a pity! |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Kobojunkie: 5:51am On Aug 20, 2021 |
itsme9jaG:God didn't ask anyone to go for marriage counseling before getting married. That too is foolishness where God's word is concerned. Anyone who submits himself to church doctrines and traditions ,that which Jesus Christ declared are all lies where the Truth of God is concerned, is a sinner and sinners have no place in God's Heaven - their pastors own kingdom maybe, but not God's own Heaven. |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by georgecso(m): 5:53am On Aug 20, 2021 |
The Church has posed more obstacles to marriages than the devil himself.. May God help us.. |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by ogawisdom(m): 6:03am On Aug 20, 2021 |
sijibomi33: It remains 5 years then u will be a fool forever. Time still dey to make amends |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by kenlinzo(m): 6:07am On Aug 20, 2021 |
sijibomi33:Wisdom is profitable to direct my brother. I believe d Bible is our number 1 guide when it comes to any issues of life. I don't think a church doctrine can prevent u from marriage, u are d one preventing urself. I have seen a lot of deeperlifer getting married even inspite of d supposed doctrine that is preventing u. I pray God gives us wisdom beyond human understanding to run dis race. |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by AlphaStorm: 6:09am On Aug 20, 2021 |
Regex: Pls quote the exact passage that says if you are in rome , behave like a roman 1 Like |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Biggcake: 6:09am On Aug 20, 2021 |
sijibomi33: Living in Bondage |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by payosehtor(m): 6:09am On Aug 20, 2021 |
Kandeed:if I had the time on my side this morning, I would have told you why I left that church. it's exactly on this very issue. 1 Like |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Nobody: 6:12am On Aug 20, 2021 |
sijibomi33:Church or God? |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by payosehtor(m): 6:22am On Aug 20, 2021 |
That's exactly what I went through while with that church. I never knew how to approach a lady up to 30. even when I tried that marriage committee, they delayed me till I become 35. until I took a bold step and left the church. . I wouldn't want to narrate all of that now. 1 Like |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Lovine: 6:23am On Aug 20, 2021 |
Which marriage committee approved Kumuyi's marriage less than 6 months his wife died. He was in love with his Secretary in UK even before the death of his wife...smh |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Naanlong01: 6:38am On Aug 20, 2021 |
DeeperLife been responsible for late marriage among their members since time imemorial. That's how I ended my one year old relationship with one of their Sisters when we have started meeting families and one Pastor from the pit of wherever told Sister we had to stop communicating, sharing gifts and all those things until further notice, meanwhile we live in separate States, infact North and South though we are same tribe. I reluctantly accepted hoping it will be over soon, men and women... It went on till four months before I called it quit, those four months were hellish, i tell you... This is someone we communicate effectively because of the privilege of cug sim, we could talk for 24 hrs, and suddenly we had to stop, it wasnt easy. Well, when I finally took that action, even the said Pastor, (chairman marriage comittee) collected my number, called me and was trying to say we can move on and calm me down, for where? Me that I don't take hasty decisions because am meticulous and when I take decision, it will take Divine intervention to change my mind.Sister herself called later shedding crocodile tears trying to play the victim card on me, saying I caused her humiliation in the Church blablabla... Wetin concern me, go look for your will of God elsewhere. 1 Like |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by favy19(f): 6:52am On Aug 20, 2021 |
Bro me am ur fellow deeper lifer but am really surprised at u, for how long will you continue waiting for mc? Y not hold the bull by the horn and move ahead unless you don't want to marry, bringing this issue here doesn't worth it by now or before now you should have been man enough ���.may God help you. |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by brainhgeek(m): 6:53am On Aug 20, 2021 |
sijibomi33: Church rule didn't affect you. You affected yourself! Even God will never tamper with the will of men except you willingly hand over your will to Him. Jara e! The end!! |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Darkmode64: 6:57am On Aug 20, 2021 |
illicit:From thy slumber 1 Like |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Darkmode64: 6:59am On Aug 20, 2021 |
descarado:I'm telling you guy. Laughed so hard |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by 2theoptimist: 7:01am On Aug 20, 2021 |
By the time you are 50 you will marry. Just be patient. |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Virusvetty: 7:05am On Aug 20, 2021 |
I don't see the fault of the marriage committee here because u can't tell me you approached the committee long time ago about a lady and they refuse to approve. Abi u want them to hv emergency meeting for ur sake? |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Virusvetty: 7:10am On Aug 20, 2021 |
Most times some leaders in deeper life behave like they misunderstood the messages and doctrine instituted by pastor kumuyi |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Virusvetty: 7:11am On Aug 20, 2021 |
Lovine:Oga calm down Who told u he was in love with secretary |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by olmoRoc: 7:14am On Aug 20, 2021 |
sijibomi33: That's the main reason I'm not raising my kids the way I was brought up. I don't want them to become a dummy. |
Re: Help, At 35 No Bearing Yet!!! by Juoflife1(f): 7:17am On Aug 20, 2021 |
It's abnormal You are abnormal Your church is abnormal Free yourself from religious slavery. |
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