DenreleDave:


Christianity is a religion, Islam is a religion

Why is the devil attacking one and leaving the other religion out

Lol. Try being a Christian and see the tribulation you'll face from the kingdom of darkness.

Islam is a political & occult religion created by the Jews to decimate the early christians as their belief and doctrines were different from theirs and God is not an author of confusion.

From the occultic perspective, read the akashic records and get the main point and calling of Christ (Yeshúa). It is confusing but if you have a wider knowledge, you'll get the point.

From the Christian perspective, read Islam reviewed and Islam in the End times for more clarification.

Galatians 4:23- the end tells it all.

CharisEleos:
Many are not true Christians but church goers. so dont get it twisted.

A true born again who understands and sees marriage from Gods own perspective will never consider divorce no matter the challenges.

Marry a true born again Christian. Not a church goer. Na Dem full church today.

No true Scotsman fallacy.

Good question.

In other words, many marriages aren't even Christian marriages to begin with?

bukatyne:


What is your definition of a Christian marriage?

Why are you taking issues with what he said?

DenreleDave:

Davash222 aka kriss216


Will you shut up guy?

U r too unreasonable.. You just bash women and its becoming like a sickness to you....


Do you even have a job instead of always looking for FTC on nairaland?

So appalling.... Better do sumtin with ur life and stop this women hate.... I hope u weren't responsible for ur mother's death..

Never seen Sumone so irritating like you on nairaland.... Bashing women for the sake of getting likes and shares, or u r forming to be an Alpha too?

If you are an alpha too, I rather be a simp than be an alpha with this ur stupid mentality..

Gtfo

True. But what if she starts after marriage?

1Sharon:


Why marry her in the 1st place?

What do you mean by "give yourself"?

Saintmary:


Subjection of women can never be the solution, go and see threads made by people from predominantly Muslim countries, and see the deep resentment expressed by their women for the concept of polygamy and infidelity. You'll see that they hate it, but they are expressing it the wrong way.

This is the thread
https://www.polygamy.com/articles/75131698/why-does-a-man-look-for-a-second-wife

I'll suggest you move your thread to religion section so you can get more contributors.
Since you're so adamant on getting answers, I'll oblige you.

Christian marriages are crashing because they are engaged in by people who profess Christianity by mouth alone, not in deed.
The Bible said the man should love his wife just as Christ loves the Church and gave Himself for it.
How many men can give themselves for a woman who has done them no favour?
The trick is to love first, then the woman will submit to you, but these crop of men expect women to take the place of Christ in their lives and give themselves to them, that is the wrong way.
If you desire to be the head of your woman, just like Christ is the head of the Church and the church is submitted to Christ and adores Him, give yourself.

angelfallz:
True. But what if she starts after marriage?

Kill her as the Bible commands.

Best answer so far, IMO

CharisEleos:
Many are not true Christians but church goers. so dont get it twisted.

A true born again who understands and sees marriage from Gods own perspective will never consider divorce no matter the challenges.

Marry a true born again Christian. Not a church goer. Na Dem full church today.

Lol, so the original comment was ok. It is noble to divorce a promiscuous woman than to live with her.

1Sharon:


Kill her as the Bible commands.

angelfallz:
Lol, so the original comment was ok. It is noble to divorce a promiscuous woman than to live with her.

There is no divorce in the Bible.

Going to church does not make one a Christian, even Satan was once an angel. So d problem is societal decay, lack of value in our present society.

Are you sure about that?

1Sharon:


There is no divorce in the Bible.

angelfallz:
Why are you taking issues with what he said?

How does my post demonize women like he is doing..

I did nt create this post to bash ladies....


Sefini

okay, so how did what he said bash ladies?

DenreleDave:


How does my post demonize women like he is doing..

I did nt create this post to bash ladies....


Sefini

angelfallz:
Why are you taking issues with what he said?

Do u support demonizing and bashing women

If No, check his past post

If yes, don't worry

Guy, his past posts is not the contention here.

DenreleDave:


Do u support demonizing and bashing women

If No, check his past post

If yes, don't worry

angelfallz:
Guy, his past posts is not the contention here.

Pls argue with ur ancestors.... Mm

Lol. There is nothing to argue about with my ancestors they are all resting in peace.

You have refused to answer my question. Let me repeat it in case you did not see it before, 'How did what that guy say bash or demonize women?'

You created a nice a topic and question, but instead of engaging your respondents constructively, you took issues with what one of them said, based on your own assumption.

DenreleDave:


Pls argue with ur ancestors.... Mm

DenreleDave:
Why are so called Christian marriages always ending in parting ways?
The church always talk ń preach about divorce than Muslim does, yet most divorces comes from Christian homes......

Dating now last more than marriage itself....

Who is getting it wrong? Where did it go wrong?

Why are Christians marriage always the most affected?

Look at Christian nations in North America ń Europe, divorce rate is far too much...


Guys I need your contributions..




Cc: lalasticlala seun mynd44

Have you ever seen a real moslem crying over the death of a relation, no, they were taught to endure things that's why their wives endures the arrival of other wives

The Christian have flexible style and so once they can't endure the emotional pains in marriage, they seek for divorce or separation to have peace of mind

DenreleDave:
Why are so called Christian marriages always ending in parting ways?
The church always talk ń preach about divorce than Muslim does, yet most divorces comes from Christian homes......
Dating now last more than marriage itself....
Who is getting it wrong? Where did it go wrong?
Why are Christians marriage always the most affected?
Look at Christian nations in North America ń Europe, divorce rate is far too much...
Guys I need your contributions..
Cc: lalasticlala seun mynd44

There is no such thing as a "Christian" marriage. That lie was told you by Mogs to decieve you and keep you shackled to their cause for generations without a way out.

The truth is Jesus Christ made it clear from 2000 years ago that your marriages are of this world and not of His Kingdom- Luke 20 vs 34 - 36 - meaning that marriages, no matter how you label them are no different from those of unbelievers, pagans etc., your marriage and all that goes along with it begins and ends right here on earth. So it does not matter who you marry, what your partners belief is, whether you have kids or not, none of it has to do with God or things of God.

So you decide what you want in your marriage and who you want it with. Simple!

As for divorce rate, God indeed hates divorce but God also forgives even those who sin in divorce - it is not the unforgivable sin that your Mogs make it seem. So, I believe your fears are unfounded.

DenreleDave:

Leave emotions aside.. I am telling u what it is...
Divorce rate in Christians home and nation is far too much... Any small thing na divorce....
Is it bcox Christianity doesn't put women under strict subjection like Islam??

Again, there are no such things as "Christian" homes, "Christian" businesses, "Christian" weddings etc. All those are lies that Mogs and their churches have sought to deceive the gullible with.

In Jesus Christ, submission is to Jesus Christ and Jesus Christ alone.... women who believe in Jesus Christ
are to submit only to Jesus Christ same as men - no man has authority over any other as such authority only came via a curse and Jesus Christ came to redeem us from that curse.

Saintmary:


Subjection of women can never be the solution, go and see threads made by people from predominantly Muslim countries, and see the deep resentment expressed by their women for the concept of polygamy and infidelity. You'll see that they hate it, but they are expressing it the wrong way.

This is the thread
https://www.polygamy.com/articles/75131698/why-does-a-man-look-for-a-second-wife

I'll suggest you move your thread to religion section so you can get more contributors.
Since you're so adamant on getting answers, I'll oblige you.

Christian marriages are crashing because they are engaged in by people who profess Christianity by mouth alone, not in deed.
The Bible said the man should love his wife just as Christ loves the Church and gave Himself for it.
How many men can give themselves for a woman who has done them no favour?
The trick is to love first, then the woman will submit to you, but these crop of men expect women to take the place of Christ in their lives and give themselves to them, that is the wrong way.
If you desire to be the head of your woman, just like Christ is the head of the Church and the church is submitted to Christ and adores Him, give yourself.

There are no such things as Christian marriages - Luke 20 vs 34 - 36.

And submission of women to their husbands came by way of a curse.... Jesus Christ redeemed everyone who belongs to Him from the Curse.

CharisEleos:
Many are not true Christians but church goers. so dont get it twisted.

A true born again who understands and sees marriage from Gods own perspective will never consider divorce no matter the challenges.

Marry a true born again Christian. Not a church goer. Na Dem full church today.

This kind of advise/comment has left a lady in a wheelchair while her husband that put her there has relocated abroad and remarried. The pastor that advised her to stay because divorce is not an option for Christians is healthy and at home with family.

But the woman has been taken to the village since there's no one to keep taking care of her in Lag. She could have saved herself and left the marriage but she listened to advice like this.

thatsleepboy1:
The devil originally is really against marriage that's why our generation is turning woke and it's so bad cos the devil and his cohorts are really rejoicing. They attack christians more that's why it's not easy too be a Christian. If they can't attack the person, they'll attack their children to cause havoc for them.

That one na bloody lie!

Every marriage experiences ups and downs. Most who say they are Christians go in with blindfolds on, think their marriages special because they are in what they call Christian marriages and their homes Christian homes. No be juju!

DenreleDave:

Really? How come I hardly hear of Muslim marriage Dt lead to. Divorce
Welcome sir thorpido

Probably because that information is not made as publicly available to you as the Christian divorces are.

thorpido:
It's because it comes with less drama or fanfare.Babangida's daughter is in her second abi third marriage.Gumsu(Abacha's daughter) is in her second marriage.
Even Buhari divorced his first wife and married Aisha.

Thank you!

1Sharon:

If it was biblical times, they would be put to death.

That is not true. Divorce was allowed those of the Old Covenant as well. There was a story of a Samaritan woman who had married 5 husband's, and was on her sixth lover, or something like that during Jesus Christ's time, was there not?

CharisEleos:
Many are not true Christians but church goers. so dont get it twisted.

A true born again who understands and sees marriage from Gods own perspective will never consider divorce no matter the challenges.

Marry a true born again Christian. Not a church goer. Na Dem full church today.

Jesus Christ taught you in Luke 20 vs 34-36, that your marriages are of this world and not of the Kingdom of God. So your first error is believing in the lie that is "Christian" marriage - it doesn't exist, whether you are a "true" born-again or not.

God never indicated that a Christian should only marry another Christian , so such rules are not of God. Instead. His rule is simply a man shall leave his father and mother and cleave to his wife. Do not add or remove from God's Law even where marriage is concerned.

Kobojunkie:
That is not true. Divorce was allowed those of the Old Covenant as well. There was a story of a Samaritan woman who had married 5 husband's, and was on her sixth lover, or something like that during Jesus Christ's time, was there not?

Only on certain grounds and the Samaritan woman was a pagan

1Sharon:

Only on certain grounds and the Samaritan woman was a pagan

Did she not live in the same land where you claim people where put to death in case of divorce?

Kobojunkie:
Did she not live in the same land where you claim people where put to death in case of divorce?

Not really, she was an outsider

1Sharon:

Not really, she was an outsider

1. Divorce was allowed in of the Old Covenant Law of Moses.

2. No death penalty included in the same law against those who would seek divorce

3. You are given an example of a woman who lived in the land and had 5 previous husbands to boot.

What exactly are you still trying to argue here?