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It's My 16th Wedding Anniversary, 16 Years Since I Married My Best Friend. / Is It Wrong Or I Am Over Reacting / My Wife Is Accusing Me Of Distrust But I Am I Over Reacting? (2) (3) (4)
Is My Best Friend Over Reacting? by Ok12345(f): 8:18pm On Aug 20, 2021 |
Good p.m house Pls |
Re: Is My Best Friend Over Reacting? by Hathor5(f): 8:21pm On Aug 20, 2021 |
How can the best man have numerous girlfriends when he hangs out with the husband every day? I was suspecting them to be gay until I came to this part of the story. This or your friend is exaggerating. 7 Likes |
Re: Is My Best Friend Over Reacting? by Botking: 8:22pm On Aug 20, 2021 |
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Re: Is My Best Friend Over Reacting? by chatinent: 8:27pm On Aug 20, 2021 |
By the way, here's a one cent: About your husband, you can talk things out with him. Inasmuch as I don't hang out with friends or play any role in all those escapades, it definitely could be a honest meetup...not gayish or flirtatious. You only need to talk things out! Don't think he flirts till you actually have evidence. By the way, you didn't notice all these during courtship? |
Re: Is My Best Friend Over Reacting? by Caramia2020(m): 8:29pm On Aug 20, 2021 |
It's well |
Re: Is My Best Friend Over Reacting? by LilMissFavvy(f): 8:29pm On Aug 20, 2021 |
The husband is not mature, it's funny they dated for 6yrs and she never knew he is not mature. She has to be patient, who knows, maybe something may come up that will separate the two men, it could be a job, transfer, whatever. If it still persists, let her report him to someone he respects for counselling, if this still doesn't work, then she better ignore him and go out there to also make new friends. |
Re: Is My Best Friend Over Reacting? by Diamond23(f): 8:42pm On Aug 20, 2021 |
Ok12345:This is serious, why not she get family members involved |
Re: Is My Best Friend Over Reacting? by thorpido(m): 8:45pm On Aug 20, 2021 |
Wasn't he spending time with her while they were dating?She should have known them if he is someone that will give her that attention. Anyway,the husband is acting like a bachelor and is yet to know he is married. She should keep talking to him about it and also be patient. |
Re: Is My Best Friend Over Reacting? by Nobody: 8:53pm On Aug 20, 2021 |
No. After a year of enduring, it's time for her to speak up and call the man to order. I would suggest joining heads with the best friend's wife and either figure out how to put a stop to their husbands' irresponsible and wayward behaviours, or get their families involved to table their concerns. 1 Like |
Re: Is My Best Friend Over Reacting? by SportsHD: 8:55pm On Aug 20, 2021 |
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Re: Is My Best Friend Over Reacting? by Kobojunkie: 10:10pm On Aug 20, 2021 |
Diamond23:What for? ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Is My Best Friend Over Reacting? by Stereotypes: 11:19pm On Aug 20, 2021 |
What is her husband's sexuality? He and the best man avoid their families and spend all their time together.. Make of it what you will. 1 Like |
Re: Is My Best Friend Over Reacting? by poshestmina(f): 11:53pm On Aug 20, 2021 |
Might be a closet gay! 2 Likes |
Re: Is My Best Friend Over Reacting? by ImaIma1(f): 12:11am On Aug 21, 2021 |
This issue is not normal. She should investigate them 1 Like |
Re: Is My Best Friend Over Reacting? by Richy4(m): 2:44am On Aug 21, 2021 |
The man was scared of that bold step called marriage... all your friend have to do is to look for an adult that your husband respects, who understands the institution called marriage very well to explain to him that he doesn't have to run away from it/ responsibilities as a husband....Someone that can explain to him that the wife is also scared of that bold step but if they can open up to one another and share their fears, they will be OK.... In my opinion, I believe your friend does not know what was playing out at the background before the marriage, The man would have loved to be a bachelor for life.. he was forced, pushed or could not bear the taunting of " why are you not married" speeches by family/friends... He is not gay because that was what people here will be telling u... you know what they say about birds of a feather... |
Re: Is My Best Friend Over Reacting? by Kobojunkie: 2:50am On Aug 21, 2021 |
Richy4:You believe what he is doing running away? ![]() |
Re: Is My Best Friend Over Reacting? by Nobody: 10:00am On Aug 21, 2021 |
The bestman is either coaching him on promiscuity or your friends hubby is gay. Let your friend report him to his family or someone he fears and respects to call him to order. Too many marital problems these days. One doesn't know what to advise any longer. It is well. |
Re: Is My Best Friend Over Reacting? by Richy4(m): 10:12am On Aug 21, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: I believe that it has not sank into him that he is married yet....He has zero idea of what marriage is all about since he got such friend whom he was still looking up to...Who is also married just like him.... he needed someone that can speak to him... and also caution that friend of his to focus more on his own family too... That behavior is most time common with white guys...I don't understand that emoji though... is it for me or the man in question? |
Re: Is My Best Friend Over Reacting? by Klass99(f): 11:08am On Aug 21, 2021 |
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Re: Is My Best Friend Over Reacting? by Kobojunkie: 11:42am On Aug 21, 2021 |
Richy4:I don't agree with your assessment at all. ![]() You paint a guy who was in a relationship for 6 years prior to marriage as if a child of some sort. You keep insisting he needs an adult to give him a good speaking to in order to get his act together after 7 years in a relationship? Nah! I think there is probably something else that we are missing in all of this. ![]() |
Re: Is My Best Friend Over Reacting? by Richy4(m): 6:14pm On Aug 21, 2021 |
Klass99: In the mid 90's when I usually get forced to attend marriage ceremony of cousins as a young boy, I usually notice that couples used to have elderly couple they appoints as their mother and father in marriage.. those were the people that will support them should such cases we were presently talking about now comes up as they journey into life as man and wife... But nowadays, we don't have such because we do not want third parties...Nowadays it has been changed to marriage sponsors...ie elderly rich couple that helps foot the bill of their marriage... all their activities ended on that wedding day only....... I don't usually talk about my family but I will this time just to drive my point home...My uncle, who was my mums younger brother was one of them those days... my mother and his immediate younger brother had a real good bond when they were growing up more than the rest of his siblings ... myself and my siblings grew up loving him... The thing is that he fell in love with a particular woman whom my grandparent did not approved of.. even when he was married, and the lady was married to another, they continued seeing secretly without anyone knowing....But my uncle's wife knew about it but was enduring without saying anything...But what annoyed her that made her to bring the complaint to my mother was that she read where the lady was advising my uncle on the best cream he should be applying...... She could not hold it anymore ... we did not know until the wife brought the complaint.. it was really funny and surprising to us because we did not see our uncle in such light.. but my mum who can reach out to my uncle's based on the bond and respect they had for each other intervened... That was how the illicit affair ended... That was why I always believe that if spouses can figure out someone that his/her spouse respects it might go a long way should situation like that arises... 2 Likes |
Re: Is My Best Friend Over Reacting? by Klass99(f): 8:50pm On Aug 21, 2021 |
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