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How Does It Feel Like To Be An Ugly Lady? by bodybuilder: 3:40pm On Aug 21, 2021
When I say ugly, I'm not talking about average looking, I'm talking objectively ugly. This is not an insult, you didn't create yourself any way. What are daily experiences or life experiences from being ugly? Do you ever get toasted by guys? Do you get catcalled? How has it affected your life? Any advantages?

No derailing. I'd like to hear from the ladies.

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Re: How Does It Feel Like To Be An Ugly Lady? by yuping(m): 3:46pm On Aug 21, 2021
Only God can Judge you. Your curiosity have no bound.

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Re: How Does It Feel Like To Be An Ugly Lady? by Nobody: 3:56pm On Aug 21, 2021
bodybuilder:
When I say ugly, I'm not talking about average looking, I'm talking objectively ugly. This is not an insult, you didn't create yourself any way. What are daily experiences or life experiences from being ugly? Do you ever get toasted by guys? Do you get catcalled? How has it affected your life? Any advantages?
there are no ugly people. Only ugly minds undecided

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Re: How Does It Feel Like To Be An Ugly Lady? by PlayMaker14: 3:57pm On Aug 21, 2021
Ask Rozcol, she can explain how it feels.

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Re: How Does It Feel Like To Be An Ugly Lady? by bodybuilder: 3:58pm On Aug 21, 2021
Lollittaa:

there are no ugly people. Only ugly minds undecided

That's a lie. Just be logical. Throw away emotions.

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Re: How Does It Feel Like To Be An Ugly Lady? by DoggoneDogg: 4:00pm On Aug 21, 2021
Lollittaa:

there are no ugly people. Only ugly minds undecided

Na lie.
Ugly people dey.

I look at some people & wonder who kisses them.

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Re: How Does It Feel Like To Be An Ugly Lady? by Nobody: 4:01pm On Aug 21, 2021
bodybuilder:


That's a lie. Just be logical. Throw away emotions.
from your moniker you seem fitness conscious. People like you are perfectionists and obviously obsessed with looks and nothing less than a 100% would do. So who's being emotional? There are no ugly persons. Get that undecided

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Re: How Does It Feel Like To Be An Ugly Lady? by Nobody: 4:02pm On Aug 21, 2021
DoggoneDogg:


Na lie.
Ugly people dey.

I look at some people & wonder who kisses them.
you are ugly to someone. I'm sure they wonder who kisses you

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Re: How Does It Feel Like To Be An Ugly Lady? by iamtardey: 4:02pm On Aug 21, 2021
Post a pic of an ugly girl you know lemme see

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Re: How Does It Feel Like To Be An Ugly Lady? by chiommy123(f): 4:03pm On Aug 21, 2021
Someone that's ugly in your eyes is very beautiful in another's eyes

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Re: How Does It Feel Like To Be An Ugly Lady? by czarr(m): 4:03pm On Aug 21, 2021
Na so one wowo rich babe that year say talk say beauty is on the inside, i just dey laff, e be like her mama done wash her brain finish.

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Re: How Does It Feel Like To Be An Ugly Lady? by iamtardey: 4:03pm On Aug 21, 2021
Omo ale ni e grin
DoggoneDogg:


Na lie.
Ugly people dey.

I look at some people & wonder who kisses them.
Re: How Does It Feel Like To Be An Ugly Lady? by DoggoneDogg: 4:03pm On Aug 21, 2021
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Lollittaa:

you are ugly to someone. I'm sure they wonder who kisses you
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If you see me, you will renounce lesbianism.

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Re: How Does It Feel Like To Be An Ugly Lady? by iamtardey: 4:04pm On Aug 21, 2021
If she rich she fine forget that thing.
czarr:
Na so one wowo rich babe that year say talk say beauty is on the inside, i just dey laff, e be like her mama done wash her brain finish.

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Re: How Does It Feel Like To Be An Ugly Lady? by Nobody: 4:05pm On Aug 21, 2021
https://www.nairaland.com/6713278/run-those-loan-app-oo
bodybuilder:
When I say ugly, I'm not talking about average looking, I'm talking objectively ugly. This is not an insult, you didn't create yourself any way. What are daily experiences or life experiences from being ugly? Do you ever get toasted by guys? Do you get catcalled? How has it affected your life? Any advantages?
Re: How Does It Feel Like To Be An Ugly Lady? by DoggoneDogg: 4:05pm On Aug 21, 2021
iamtardey:
Post a pic of an ugly girl you know lemme see
Re: How Does It Feel Like To Be An Ugly Lady? by iamtardey: 4:06pm On Aug 21, 2021
Will you keep quiet?! grin
chiommy123:
Someone that's ugly in your eyes is very beautiful in another's eyes
Re: How Does It Feel Like To Be An Ugly Lady? by Goldbw122(m): 4:06pm On Aug 21, 2021
You may look your self as ugly while other people will be looking at you as the most beautiful people they have come across.

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Re: How Does It Feel Like To Be An Ugly Lady? by czarr(m): 4:06pm On Aug 21, 2021
chiommy123:
Someone that's ugly in your eyes is very beautiful in another's eyes
Not true madam. there are some people that are ugly in every one's eyes. Call one million people and everybody would agree that Oshomole no fine(atleast without the money). In your life have you heard anyone say to them obasanjo is very handsome.

Beauty to a large extent is objective. It's all about symmetry.

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Re: How Does It Feel Like To Be An Ugly Lady? by iamtardey: 4:07pm On Aug 21, 2021
Lol grin lipsrsealed
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Re: How Does It Feel Like To Be An Ugly Lady? by Nobody: 4:07pm On Aug 21, 2021
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do you know you can get a ban for doing this? Edit your comment angry
Re: How Does It Feel Like To Be An Ugly Lady? by Lamanii22(f): 4:07pm On Aug 21, 2021
Truth is no matter how ugly you may be, you'd find someone that likes you...

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Re: How Does It Feel Like To Be An Ugly Lady? by iamtardey: 4:09pm On Aug 21, 2021
Too deep, e no reach like that..
grin
Goldbw122:
You may look your self as ugly while other people will be looking at you as the most beautiful people they have come across.
Re: How Does It Feel Like To Be An Ugly Lady? by czarr(m): 4:09pm On Aug 21, 2021
iamtardey:
If she rich she fine forget that thing.
Ugly is ugly, money helps but ugly is ugly bro

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Re: How Does It Feel Like To Be An Ugly Lady? by Jeon(f): 4:09pm On Aug 21, 2021
Lollittaa:

do you know you can get a ban for doing this? Edit your comment angry

Hi love

Life is not the same With your pictures in my frame Now that you're here I want nothing to change You pick me up when I'm down I need you around You seen me through my darkest times Girl, is there something that you try to find? You brought meaning to my life All because of you, I do right Because of you, I have a purpose Fight for the world, because you're worth it

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Re: How Does It Feel Like To Be An Ugly Lady? by Jeon(f): 4:11pm On Aug 21, 2021
bodybuilder:
When I say ugly, I'm not talking about average looking, I'm talking objectively ugly. This is not an insult, you didn't create yourself any way. What are daily experiences or life experiences from being ugly? Do you ever get toasted by guys? Do you get catcalled? How has it affected your life? Any advantages?

I am an ugly woman. Objectively, I really am. Please don't argue with me on this one, I am not overweight, actually in better shape than most women my age, I dress well, I am great with makeup. But last weekend the world just had to remind me that despite all this, people will go out of their way to kick me.
I don't often go clubbing, but Saturday night was a special occasion. A friend was celebrating her 21st, and it was also the weekend after a long week of brutal exams. It felt like a good time to blow off some steam. Because I don't often go clubbing, I really tried this night to look nice. There was an outfit that I had bought a long time ago, but that I'd never worn because it was a little sexier than what I usually wear. A close friend had picked it out for me when we were shopping, and, in that "you go girl" kind of way had urged me to buy it. I did my makeup painstakingly, straightened my hair which always takes forever because my hair is huge, put on that too-sexy-for-me outfit. And when I looked in the mirror I was even surprised at myself. "Wow, is that me? I actually look...nice!"
I showed my friends. They all said I looked great. And they MEANT it too. Like, genuine happy encouragement. I could tell they were sincere and it made me feel so good, like for once I wasn't just masquerading as an attractive girl with fancy makeup and clothes, but that I WAS the attractive girl. I hadn't felt so attractive in ages, Reddit.
When we got to the club, we got a nasty surprise. We had been told that tonight there was no cover charge for girls, and so none of us had brought much cash on our person. Well, our info was wrong. They did indeed ask for a cover. Only one of us 6 girls had cash, and she only had enough to cover two people. When we got to the door and found this out, a group of guys behind us volunteered to help us out. They each forked over a couple of bucks to cover my friends, but not one of them offered to cover me. One by one my friends were let in and they waited on the other side of the door until everyone got through. The guys were doing everything to avoid eye contact with me. They were looking at the ground, the street, pretending to look through their wallets for cash to cover one more girl. It was so painfully obvious that I felt like just going home. Luckily, my friend with the extra cash covered me so I was allowed in.
Well, once we were inside I thought I could just forget about that incident. I had dressed up and come out, to have a good time and relax. So for a while I danced with my friends. It wasn't long before other guys started dancing with us. We kind of paired off slowly, there was a guy whose two buddies had started dancing with other girls and he was left alone. At that point I too had lost track of my friends and was alone. He started dancing with me, but the whole time he seemed really distracted. Not once did he really look at my face, he was kinda looking around the club the whole time, like he was browsing the scene for another, more attractive girl he could bounce to. In less than 10 minutes, he had seen one. He peaced out without a word, and I saw him dancing a few minutes later with a very attractive brunette. The way he acted with her was just SO different than when he had danced with me. He was face to face with her, smiling, dancing enthusiastically.
That made my stomach drop. I went to the bar, found one of my friends who was sitting there with a guy. She introduced us, he bought everyone drinks. After a while I felt like a bit of a third wheel so I went back to the dance floor. Eventually my group of girls regathered together. Everyone had a guy, except for one of them who had a bf at home. So I danced with her, with our friends and their guys near us.
There was a photographer going around the club, taking pictures of the people there. I assume it was for some promo for their website or something. He got to our group, and literally circled us several times, taking several pics from different angles. I was kind of psyched about this, so I did my best to look like I was having a good time, made sure he could snap me at my best. But after a while I realized he wasn't circling us to get our best angles. He was trying to get a frame without ME. If I moved closer to the center of the group, for instance, he would tilt his camera a little the other way. I couldn't believe it until finally, he actually came up to me and asked me to get out of the shot.
I felt so ugly right then. For all the effort I had put into looking and feeling good that night, it seemed like it just didn't matter. So the night ends with me leaving the club. My friend with the bf at home who was dancing with me left with me so I wouldn't be alone. The rest of my girl friends didn't notice what had happened with the photographer, so when they asked me where I was going I just told them I was tired and wanted to go home. And since I wasn't leaving alone, they let me.
So yeah, that's my story from the weekend.
Please be kinder to ugly people, Reddit. Maybe one of the people I met that night will read this post and recognize themselves. I hope so, if only so they can know how behavior they're barely conscious of can affect someone else.

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Re: How Does It Feel Like To Be An Ugly Lady? by bodybuilder: 4:12pm On Aug 21, 2021
Lamanii22:
Truth is no matter how ugly you may be, you'd find someone that likes you...

Yeah true that. But that's not what I'm asking.

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Re: How Does It Feel Like To Be An Ugly Lady? by czarr(m): 4:12pm On Aug 21, 2021
Lamanii22:
Truth is no matter how ugly you may be, you'd find someone that likes you...
yes it doesn't mean the person is not seeing you as ugly... Some girls like only ugly looking guys they don't like pretty boys, at least that is what some say.

Saying nobody is ugly is like saying nobody is short just because short people still find who likes them.

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Re: How Does It Feel Like To Be An Ugly Lady? by iamtardey: 4:12pm On Aug 21, 2021
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Re: How Does It Feel Like To Be An Ugly Lady? by DoggoneDogg: 4:15pm On Aug 21, 2021
Jeon:


Hi love

Life is not the same With your pictures in my frame Now that you're here I want nothing to change You pick me up when I'm down I need you around You seen me through my darkest times Girl, is there something that you try to find? You brought meaning to my life All because of you, I do right Because of you, I have a purpose Fight for the world, because you're worth it

Re: How Does It Feel Like To Be An Ugly Lady? by Nobody: 4:16pm On Aug 21, 2021
Jeon:


Hi love

Life is not the same With your pictures in my frame Now that you're here I want nothing to change You pick me up when I'm down I need you around You seen me through my darkest times Girl, is there something that you try to find? You brought meaning to my life All because of you, I do right Because of you, I have a purpose Fight for the world, because you're worth it
Seun Osewa ban this guy angry angry angry angry

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